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Paul Bissell Graves Sr.

1940 - 2018

Paul Bissell Graves Sr. obituary, 1940-2018, Charleston, SC

BORN

1940

DIED

2018

FUNERAL HOME

J. Henry Stuhr Mount Pleasant Chapel

1494 Mathis Ferry Road

Mount Pleasant, South Carolina

Paul Graves Obituary

Paul Bissell Graves, Sr. Mt. Pleasant - Paul Bissell Graves, Sr., 78, of Mount Pleasant, South Carolina, husband of Sandra Shahid Graves entered into eternal rest Sunday, September 23, 2018. His Mass of Christian Burial will be held Thursday, September 27, 2018, in Christ Our King Catholic Church, 1149 Russell Drive, at 10:30 a.m. Prayers of Final Commendation and Farewell will be in Mount Pleasant Memorial Gardens. The family will receive friends Wednesday from 4:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m. with the Rosary to be recited at 4:00 p.m. in J. HENRY STUHR, INC. MOUNT PLEASANT CHAPEL, 1494 Mathis Ferry Road. Paul was born August 4, 1940, in Charleston, South Carolina, son of the late John Tamplet Graves, Sr. and Eunice Anderson Graves. He attended Clemson University and was a member of the first bowling team. Paul was a very active member in the community; He was a Past President of the German Friendly Society in 1997, a Past President of the Charleston Life Underwriters Association, a former Charter President of Mount Pleasant Optimist Club, a member of the Exchange Club of Charleston, and a member of Christ Our King Catholic Church. He was an avid bowler and sports fisherman. He enjoyed traveling around the world with Sandra and friends. He is survived by his wife, Sandra S. Graves of Mount Pleasant; three sons, P. Bissell Graves, Jr. (Kelly) of Sullivans Island, SC, Dr. Richard T. Patrick (Allison) of Sumter, SC, and Dennis M. Patrick (Sandra) of Mount Pleasant, SC; daughter, Susan G. Hopson (Tommy) of Mount Pleasant, SC; ten grandchildren: Savannah, Lily, Walker, Hugh, Chandler, Mary Emma, Brooke, Rachel, Paul David, and Eleanor. Memorials may be made to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105, www.stjude.org/donate or the German Friendly Society Foundation, 29 Chalmers St., Charleston, SC 29401. A memorial message may be sent to the family by visiting our website at www.jhenrystuhr.com. Visit our guestbook at www.legacy.com/obituaries/ charleston

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier from Sep. 24 to Sep. 25, 2018.

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Betts Grant

October 2, 2018

Dearest Sandra and Family,
I just got the news of Paul passing. I have been in Oregon since August 4th.
I am so fortunate to have known him,you and your family. He will be missed by so many and loved all the days of their lives as long as they live.
Love,Dick & Betts Grant

September 28, 2018

Bissell and Susie, Brenda and I are sorry for your lose. Sorry we could not make to the funeral. I work a 24 hour shift and slept most of the day Thursday. Ya'llare in our prayers and we love you. Uncle Steve and Aunt Brenda

NAIFA - Charleston President

September 28, 2018

On behalf of NAIFA Charleston (National Association of Insurance & Financial Advisors - formerly the Life Underwriters Association), please accept our sincere condolences. We appreciate the service that Paul provided to our organization and the community. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.

Larry Shirley

September 27, 2018

We will keep the family in our thoughts and prayers. We're so sorry for your loss.

In Sympathy,

Larry Shirley, Past President, Charleston Life Underwriters.
Sam Shirley, Past President, Chas. Association of Insurance and Financial Advisors.

stephen nolan

September 26, 2018

Paul was a gracious "gentleman of the old school' who enriched the lives of all who knew him. His passing leaves a void which can only be filled with the many memories of a long life well lived.

Classic Peace Lily Plant

a loved one

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Mack Magill

September 26, 2018

I would like to express our sincerest condolences to Sandra, Bissell, Patrick, Dennis, and Susan on the passing of Paul. Please know that Cherie and I have your family in our prayers.

F.D.

September 26, 2018

Please accept my dearest and heartfelt sympathy. I am so sorry for your loss. May the God who "binds up the brokenhearted" and "comforts all who mourn" sustain your family during this challenging time. Isaiah 61:1,2

jim nimmich

September 25, 2018

Bissell, I'm so sorry to read about your Dad's passing. I wish I was going to be there to see you, but I'm up in my house in ND.

I hope you're well and give me best to Kelly.

Jim

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Roberta Barrett

September 25, 2018

What a wonderful man; as a colleague and friend I remember him always as friendly, jovial, and genuine. I shall miss him.

Sincerely,
Roberta Barrett

Bill Tyrrell

September 25, 2018

So sorry for the loss of Paul, I bowled with him for many years and he was a great person that loved to bowl and always had a smile on his face. We will miss him on Thursday Night Mixers and I will miss being able to talk with him. I know that he was going through a lot lately and now he is at peace. May the Lord help you through this time of grief and that only good thought of Paul will prevail.

Melody Easterby-Lowe

September 24, 2018

So sorry to hear about this. Paul was my favorite brother-in-law. He taught me a lot.

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Memorial Events
for Paul Graves

Sep

26

Visitation

4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m.

J. Henry Stuhr Mount Pleasant Chapel

1494 Mathis Ferry Road, Mount Pleasant, SC 29464

Sep

26

Rosary

4:00 p.m.

J. Henry Stuhr Mount Pleasant Chapel

1494 Mathis Ferry Road, Mount Pleasant, SC 29464

Sep

27

Mass of Christian Burial

10:30 a.m.

Christ Our King Catholic Church

1149 Russell Drive, Mount Pleasant, SC

Funeral services provided by:

J. Henry Stuhr Mount Pleasant Chapel

1494 Mathis Ferry Road, Mount Pleasant, SC 29464

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