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Lee Ann
June 13, 2007
You will be greatly missed, Sweet Patsy!
deb allen
June 13, 2007
May your family find strength along the long road of healing.
the Allen family
deb, matt, jordan, ~syd~ and trea
Carissa
May 29, 2007
Patsy was an inspiration to me, a face full of joy in adversity and a shining example of a faith filled life. All this from only knowing her online at Amity Mama. Thank you for your grace, Patsy, be well with our Lord and Saviour.
Jennifer M.
May 29, 2007
Patsy was an amazing woman, she had so much strength it amazed me, even through the worst of her battle she held fast to her faith. Patsy helped me through one of the most difficult times in my life, and I will forever be thankful to have gotten to know her. Her love for God, Conan and her children was inspiring. My prayers are with all of you during this difficult time. Patsy, you will be missed, your life touched the hearts of so very many. Thank God for sending Patsy as a living testimony to your love for all, she is in heaven smiling down on you all!
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Beth Justice
May 29, 2007
I knew Patsy in our teenage years at the Air Force Base Chapel in Charleston, SC.
She was funny and a spitfire like her red hair. My thoughts and prayers are with you, Ms. Barbara, and your family. If only more people in the world were like Patsy. God Bless You.
James Magwood
May 26, 2007
I give my condolences to the Byram Family. I met Stan and Barbara in the NSICU waiting room. Their warm, kind words of encouragement during their time of grief will never be forgotten. May God bless you and keep you safe. Remember the pain of your lost will soon become loving memories forever. Jim Magwood and family
paula sain RN
May 25, 2007
My condolences to a woman who was loved by many and will be greatly missed. I am a nurse who cared for Patsy recently and wish the best to Conan, Patsy's family and children. Let faith guide you through this difficult time and memories help keep her close to your heart.
Leah Dobson
May 24, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with Patsy's family. May the Lord provide the strength to carry you through the next days and weeks ahead.
What an incredible woman. Her love for the Lord and her family was remarkable. She truly had a zest for life.
Patsy will be missed by so many. She touched so many lives. The April '99 Moms group will dearly miss her. I am so glad I got to know her this side of Heaven.
Until we meet again my friend,
Pam O & family
May 24, 2007
I am so sorry for you loss. sending you peace and strength during this difficult time.
Michael and Brandy Roberts
May 24, 2007
We are so sorry to hear about your loss. Patsy always had such great insight to provide. She helped me with so many words of wisdom during our pregnancies. We are happy that she is out of pain and with the Lord. Our prayers are with Conan and the kids.
Deanna
May 24, 2007
I just don't know what to say... Patsy was such a wonderful woman, so in love with her family, and so positive about everything she did. I will miss her smile, her red hair, her Johnny Depp references, but not her spirit, her spirit will be with us always.
Jenn
May 24, 2007
Conan and children, I am so very sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers continually. Patsy, you are missed.
Melody Lingg
May 24, 2007
I know Patsy is in heaven and out of pain, for that I am thankful but, I am so sorry for your loss. Patsy was such a kind person. She will be missed by many. My heart goes out to you (her children and husband), who will miss her the most. As time passes by, and as you return to life’s routine, I hope you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends. Each person grieves in a different way and most people have no idea what to say or do to help you through this- all I know is -that you are each loved and God will see you through this. And don't hesitate to let us around you know what you need -even if it is just someone to listen for awhile. I don't want to intrude, but if you need me - I am here for you!
Love,
Melody and family
Beverly Powers
May 23, 2007
Patsy I feel blessed to have been part of your life as your aunt. So many ups and downs, funny and sad I will hold you in my heart for ever. Love, "Aunt Bea"
Susan Young
May 23, 2007
Patsy's family is in our prayers.
Larua Bisel
May 23, 2007
You are all in my thoughts and my heart. I will forever think of her whenever I see a Pirate--she will be greatly missed.
Rachel Gast
May 23, 2007
While I only knew Patsy through the internet, I have to say that I am very blessed to have "known" her. She was an angel on earth and now in Heaven. Rest in Peace, Patsy.
Tristan Dudley / Bill & Jackie Barnes
May 23, 2007
I know there are no words to say that could ever replace your loss, but you are in my family's thoughts and prayers.We hope that you find peace in knowing that she is in heaven and resting. Take comfort in the fact that she is watching over you and will be with you through every step in life.
Jodi Pilcher
May 23, 2007
Pasty touched so many lives and hearts and will be sorely missed. My heart goes out to her family, and I'm greatful to have "known" her through online communities. Rest in peace, Patsy.
Debby
May 23, 2007
Conan and kids, May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief. Patsy was a true light and she didn't hide it from others, she shared it.
She will be sorely missed.
A
May 22, 2007
Patsy's family is in my prayers.
Jennifer L
May 22, 2007
Patsy will be greatly missed. When I think of her I think of her fierce love for God, her husband, and her family. She was an amazing woman, and I feel honnored to have known her.
May God draw your family close, and give you stregnth.
Larry , Jane, Zach, Jessica Brooks
May 22, 2007
Connan & Family,
We were so sad to hear about Patsy, what a wonderful lady she was. She will be missed. May God be with you all during this time. We love and miss you all
Kathy-jo Peterson
May 22, 2007
A beautiful redhead with a wonderful smile who left us on my 45th birthday. She loved her work, her family and all she touched. Shine on Patsy. You will be a star of light and hope for us always. Thank you for loving my friend Maria who is still walking with cancer. Your family will remain in my thoughts and prayers. Love Kathy-jo
Jo Coiner Burzycki
May 22, 2007
I was and still am so humbled by her grace and care for others. She was truly amazing and I will always appreciate the few emails we shared and her immense strength. She lived for her husband and children. The kind of love that leaves you awed just to even read about it. Thank you Patsy for being you. You'll be missed very much our Depp lovin' gal.
Lisha Adam
May 22, 2007
I will miss Patsy's posts but I am rejoicing that she is now in the presence of the Lord. My prayers are with her family during this time.
Wendy Erikson
May 22, 2007
Rest in peace beautiful mama.
Nelle (from Amity)
May 22, 2007
Your courage and strength was an inspiration to many; your faith in the Father above, an inspiration to all.
Stanley Byram
May 22, 2007
These many messages are precious to us and they give us great comfort to know that she was loved by so many. We sincerely Thank all of you. Our greatest comfort is knowing that she is safely home with our loving SAVIOUR CHRIST the LORD. Patsy's Mom & stepfather, Barb & Stan
Rondi
May 22, 2007
What a blessing it has been to know Pasty in our online forums. Her faith has been a shining example to all. My prayers are with her family in her loss on this earth.
Psalm 23:6 " 6 Surely goodness and love will follow me all the days of my life, and I will dwell in the house of the LORD forever."
Patsy exemplified goodness and love and I know she is dwelling with our Lord now.
Don Davis
May 22, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers go out to the family during this time. God bless you all.
Kimberlee Kenner
May 22, 2007
Patsy, you are missed. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Kristerae Roder
May 22, 2007
Patsy and I were part of an online congo a few years ago and it was a privilege to know her through that venue.
Last year I was diagnosed with cancer and shortly after my treatment, Patsy shared her diagnosis.
I was blessed to hear from her online from time to time. It was such an encouragement to get a note from her. She was expecially good to write when I was down.
My heart misses her so much. I pray her family has peace through her passing and that comfort will embrace them all.
Patsy, Thank you for beign a part of my life.
Nickie Garrett
May 22, 2007
Patsy was a beautiful woman inside and out. She touched many lives and I only hope that she has now found peace.
Kelley C
May 22, 2007
Patsy will be greatly missed~ may she now be at peace.
Westy Kessler
May 22, 2007
It is amazing just how truly special Patsy was to everyone she knew (and that knew her). She touched so many lives- and in so many ways. May she rest in peace and may her family be comforted in knowing that although she is no longer here physically, Patsy will always live on in the hearts of those who were blessed in knowing her. God bless.
Mary Beth Karchella-MacCumbee
May 22, 2007
May the peace and comfort of the Lord surround you during this time.
Patsy was a great inspiration to me.
You are all in my prayers.
Samantha Knapp
May 22, 2007
Patsy has touched so many people at our parenting community. She will be greatly missed and all of her "Amity sisters" will remember her for her beautiful smile, caring heart, and unselfish ways. Love to all of her family.
Wendy Hall
May 22, 2007
I'm another online friend. Patsy and I were pregnant and due in April 1999. Her outlook on life was always such an inspiration to me. Patsy, you will be missed. Until we meet again!!
Theresa Belville
May 22, 2007
Patsy was a such a positive force, a faithful presence and a friend to so many. We will miss you, sweet mama.
Alison Hlathein
May 22, 2007
My prayers are with you during this difficult time. May God provide you comfort and strength. Until you see her again.
Josie Larson
May 22, 2007
We will miss you at Amity's mama. Rest in peace. We will keep your memory alive on the boards and have your children and husband in our thoughts and prayers always.
Amber Greule
May 22, 2007
Patsy was one of the most selfless women I have had the pleasure of knowing. She had such a radiant smile and she had an impact on the lives of hundreds of women all around the world.
I pray that time brings you peace and allows you to find the joy and happiness in life again, though I know it may seem impossible now.
Chrissy Howard
May 22, 2007
Patsy touched many lives. We will always be thankful for her wisdom and gentle spirit. I hope that you find peace that Patsy is home with the Lord and finally healed. Your family is in our prayers.
Gina B
May 22, 2007
Patsy- Your beauty will be missed. Prayers to the family!
Terri Hall*FMBG
May 22, 2007
Patsy, you hold a special place in my heart. I will miss you, but am so happy you are no longer in pain. May the Lord be with your family and provide them with comfort.
Karrie Shelnut
May 22, 2007
Patsy's faith and spirit astounded me throughout her illness. She had such comfort and peace in the situation. Conan and dear children, my heart is so heavy for you. May you remember the good times, the happy moments, the tender thoughts and little things.
Paty
May 22, 2007
Although I have known Patsy only for a short amount of time she has truly touched my life. May God give you strenght Conan as well as to all your beautiful children to go on. May you rest in peace Patsy you will be missed.
Tracey Hansen
May 22, 2007
My prayers are with Patsy's family through this difficult time. Patsy's faith in our Lord was awesome! May she rest in peace in her Savior's arms.
Charlotte Leto
May 22, 2007
Our prayers go out to your whole family. She will be missed and her memory always cherished.
Jody M
May 22, 2007
An inspiration to every life she touched. We will miss you, Patsy. Prayers of peace going out to the family.
Jennifer K.
May 22, 2007
Patsy was a wonderful woman and mother. She will be missed greatly. My heart goes out to her husband and children. May you find strength and comfort in knowing that Patsy was a wonderful person and touched so many lives.
Jennifer S
May 22, 2007
Our prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Nicki Kerns
May 22, 2007
Patsy and I were expecting our daughters (her youngest, my oldest) at the time we met. I will miss her sunny outlook and loving nature. Godspeed, my friend. Blessings to Conan and your family from another online friend from CA.
Angela Robinson
May 22, 2007
Words escape me so I'll post a poem that was said at my fathers memorial. My heart and thoughts are with you all.
After Glow
I'd Like The Memory Of Me To Be A Happy One
I'd Like To Leave An After Glow Of Smiles When Life Is Done
I'd Like To Leave An Echo Whispering Softly Down The Ways
Of Happy Times And Laughing Times And Bright And Sunny Days
I'd Like The Tears Of Those Who Grieve, To Dry Before The Sun
Of Happy Memories That I Leave When Life Is Done
~Author unknown~
Amy Bean
May 22, 2007
Dear Conan and children - sending you much love and many prayers. May you find comfort in God during your time of grief.
Margaret Gibbs
May 22, 2007
To Patsy's family - may you always feel her gentle presence among you. I feel privileged to have shared a small part of her life.
with much Love,
Kaleigh Donnelly
May 22, 2007
Patsy's daughter, Cathlin, and my son share a birthday; we've been corresponding online since we were pregnant with them. The world has lost a wonderful woman and she will be missed.
Heather Coleman
May 22, 2007
Patsy was such a great asset to our online community-- her presence will be missed (along with those Johnny Depp avatars):)
Anna Rundall SImon-Orr
May 22, 2007
Patsy, You will be so missed....
Conan...You will be in our prayers. Allow yourself all the time in the world to grieve. Be gentle with yourself.
Miranda Ramos
May 22, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with your family. May you be at peace, Patsy.
Tina Fields
May 22, 2007
Patsy, you are an angel. You are in the hands of the Lord, whole and healed. God rest your soul you sweet spirt.
I will miss you terribly. You were an angel on earth.
God Bless your family.
Gretchen Bender
May 22, 2007
Blessings and comfort to sweet Patsy's family. I pray that God will uphold you in His right hand of righteousness, as He has promised us!
Jennifer M
May 22, 2007
Rejoicing that Patsy is home now...praying for her dear family. May God meet your every need and shower you with comfort.
Melissa Cloyd
May 22, 2007
Patsy was a wonderful person who will surely be missed by many. May your memories of her keep her alive in your hearts.
Heather Butcher
May 22, 2007
I consider myself blessed to have known Patsy and my prayers and heartfelt sympathy goes to her family during this time. God has welcomed an angel home..
Katharine Tracy
May 22, 2007
Her heart was filled with love and kindness that touched many near and far. May her husband and children find comfort in this time of grief knowing she is at peace in God's hands.
Kendra Carson-Stewart
May 22, 2007
Patsy will be truly missed. She was a very special woman who had a big heart and a bright smile for anyone.
Stephanie Edson
May 22, 2007
Patsy, you will forever have a place in my heart.
E. Moore
May 22, 2007
Patsy, you continue to be an inspiration to us all in your devotion to your family and living a happy life. Thank you, Patsy! Rest in peace.
Melinda Jones
May 22, 2007
Patsy touched so many lives with her kind soul, she will be missed by so many. Our love and prayers go out to her family.
Sandi Bruegger
May 22, 2007
We shall not forget you, sweet Patsy.
Karen Sandoval
May 22, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the children.
I saw this poem and hope it helps to comfort you in your time of grief...
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2007
Ciara Langford
May 22, 2007
Patsy's touch was far reaching. When I think of her I think of the Ray Boltz song - Thank You. I know she is in heaven seeing just how many lives she touched with her unwavering faith and compassion.
Susan Devanney
May 22, 2007
You are an Angel. You will be missed by all.
Jenine Mahendranath
May 22, 2007
To the family ~ may the Lord look over all of you and hold you all close to His heart. Know that you are not alone and that sweet Patsy is looking down at all of you with her unconditional loving heart. We are very sorry for your loss!
Wendy Seigman
May 22, 2007
Patsy, you will be missed, my dear friend.
Scot & Michelle Mintz
May 22, 2007
Thinking of you and praying God will send you peace in this difficult time. We love you guys.
shana curtis
May 22, 2007
Patsy you were a angel on earth and now you are one in heaven, Godspeed Patsy you will be missed by so many.
Shanele Collins
May 22, 2007
My thoughts go out to Patsy's family and friends. My mother has known Patsy for a long time. I was her flower girl in her first wedding. She was a beautiful person inside and out.
Cindy Flanders
May 22, 2007
We were privileged to share a small part of Patsy's life. We send our prayers that God's grace will comfort those that loved her and grieve her passing. We know that this world has lost a special mother who was a true lover of her God, her life and her family and that the angels in Heaven have a new light to guide us by.
Susan Devanney
May 22, 2007
May you find peace.You will be missed dearly.
(Amitymama...Suefrog36)
Lisa Arnold
May 22, 2007
Patsy was a wonderful friend to me. Your family continues to be in my prayers.
debbie bailey
May 22, 2007
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
angela pacileo
May 22, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
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