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Patrick Frank "Pat" McCann

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Patrick Frank McCann Pat was born on Halloween day 1943 in Chicago, IL and lost his year-long battle with lung cancer on Jan. 26, 2011. He was a wonderful husband to Gretchen and a great father to their children. He was the original "Southlander" and his voice and spirit will be missed by many. There will be no service at this time, but a celebration of his life will be held at a future date. Pat was a member of Amvets #1, South Tacoma Eagles, and Lakewood Elks. If he taught us all anything it was "don't smoke and please use a coaster."

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier on Oct. 2, 2011.

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Mark Medalen

October 19, 2011

With Pat's passing, many many people lost a good friend and musical brother. We shared the stage for a song and a laugh on several occasions, and he was a friend to everyone who knew him. His smile, humor, voice, and wisdom will be missed.

Our thoughts are with Pat's family. Find strength in each other and know that Pat's legacy and love for music will live on with all who knew him.

Mark Medalen
Broken Trail Band

October 5, 2011

Gretchen,
I am so sorry to hear about Pat, all the times that I saw him he was always full of fun and laughter. Such a great guy. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Roxanne Kienast

Joanie Patton

October 4, 2011

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Gretchen & family, I am not going to tell you how amazing Pat was, you already know that! For years I loved coming out the see the Southlander's as his band filled the clubs, I even still have my coat. He was a very hard working man and took very special pride in his family. Those are honorable traits. I am sorry your going through difficult times, his memory will live on. I'm proud to call Pat my friend. I will miss his big ole hugs. Much love to you all.

Marvin

October 4, 2011

R.I.P. Southlander.

Mike Hanby

October 4, 2011

Gretchen and family...I am so sad for your loss. Pat was, in my world, such a dedicated and supportive man for me as a teacher,coach and friend at Steilacoom HS. It has been my privilege to have been a small part of you, Gretchen and the kids' lives. Thank you so much Pat, for the example you were to so many of us.

Bernard Gregory

October 3, 2011

This man was brother to me, and Iam going to miss him dearly

Raymond &Catherine Welch

October 3, 2011

Gretchen, We would like to add our prayers to the many who loved Pat. He will be missed. God now has a great voice to add to the band.

Wendy Schein

October 2, 2011

Karaoke will never be the same at the Elks Lodge! Pat was one of the best men I've even met and I know that his fellow brother & sister Elks agree with me! Our love and heartfelt sympathy to you, Gretchen and your entire family as you deal with Pat's departure - know that you are NEVER alone! God Bless.

October 2, 2011

Our thoughts are with you Gretchen and family. He will be missed!

Barry and Diane Fini Sabol
Colo Sprgs, Co

Barbara Dunn

October 2, 2011

Gretchen always know that I will always be your sister. I'll be there for you when ever Just let me know. My little brother was very special and will be always. I will miss him.

Laurie Dillon

October 2, 2011

We will miss Pat like crazy. I somehow get this feeling that he will be keeping a watchful eye on us all to be sure we are doing things the way we should be. The great memories we have of our shared outings, get togethers, and amazing friendship will never be forgotten. It was a privilege. People come into your life for a reason, and we both are so thankful for that. We love you Gretchen, and are so very sorry for your loss and for that of your family.
Sincerely.
Tim and Laurie

Jenica Ahrmendi

October 2, 2011

Mr. McCann! A man with the great spirit of a Lion! When you spoke, your deep and tender voice carried and people listened. I know I sure did! I can still hear your voice, like you were speaking to me yesterday. You were straight forward, "Tell it like it is" but with a cushion - for a softer blow, "Get to the point" and did it with a smile. A man with a charmingly unique wit and a love for Reese's Pieces peanut butter cups! Mr. McCann I will always remember you for all of these things and especially for the greatest loving bond you have with your beautiful wife Gretchen and all of your children.

October 2, 2011

Gretchen, I'm so sorry to hear about Pat.It just seems like yesterday that I introduced you two. I know that he always loved his band.Pat will always be remembered for his kindness to all the children that entered his life.He had a big heart. God Bless you all, may Pat rest in peace.

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