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Patrick DeFee Obituary

DEFEE, Patrick Entered into eternal rest the evening of August 13, 2006, Patrick O'Neal DeFee. Residence of North Charleston, South Carolina. The relatives and friends are invited to attend his Funeral Services in J. HENRY STUHR, INC., WEST ASHLEY CHAPEL, Thursday morning, August 17, 2006 at ten o'clock. Burial will be private. Friends may call at STUHR'S WEST ASHLEY CHAPEL, Wednesday evening, August 16, 2006 from six until eight o'clock. Patrick was born December 22, 1956 in Florence, South Carolina, a son of the late Curtis Samuel and Bitha Ann Kennedy DeFee. He was the owner of Classic Roofing. Surviving Patrick is his companion, Anita Harrelson of Mt. Pleasant; a daughter, Alisha (Niki) McGrew of Charleston, SC; a son, Dustin McKnight of Summerville, SC; a step-daughter, Ashley McKnight of Summerville, SC; two sisters, Sara Jane DeFee and Ida Jean Powell both of Charleston, SC; a brother, Thomas DeFee of Charleston, SC; a granddaughter, Josie McGrew of Charleston, SC; and several nieces and nephews. Patrick will be deeply missed by family and friends. Visit our guestbook at www.charleston.net/deaths.

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier on Aug. 16, 2006.

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Robin & Joe Votta

August 25, 2006

I didn't know Patrick as well as my husband did... but from what I knew of him, he was a great man. I am very sorry to hear about his passing. Always remember the good times and how much he love his family and friends.

Tabetha

August 22, 2006

We will be missing you! You may be gone now but you are definately not forgotten.

kendall walker

August 20, 2006

patrick i didn't know you but i was great friends with niki and it was sad to hear about the loss. To all the family I am so sorry and my prayers are with yall.

Anita Harrelson

August 18, 2006

To Patrick,U were the love of my life. I will cherish the love we shared for 12 year.I BELIEVE you are in heaven ,Angel from God smiling down on me every day for the rest of my life. U said Live Life and be Happy . I will because you are the love of my life.

Kalynn

August 17, 2006

Our prayers and thoughts are with your family at this rough time.I was friends with Nikki;Patrick's daughter.God bless you all.

Teresa Newby

August 17, 2006

Patrick you were the greatest person you took care of everyone. You were a good father and your family loved you very much you will be missed greatly. May you rest in peace.

gary baugh

August 16, 2006

patrick,god bless you and your family. gary and judy baugh.

Michael,& Laura Vogel

August 16, 2006

Our thoughts and prayers are with the family.Patrick will be sadly missed.

Julie -babygirl (Cheree') Baugh ( Voelker)

August 16, 2006

Patrick, You will be deeply missed.. I will always remember the days when we hung out and the bad times...May you rest in Peace. Love ya

Gary & Reggie Gardner

August 16, 2006

Out thoughts and prayers are with the family at this difficult time. We know Pat and Justin from Jamison Road Bible Church ball team - I was the third base coach and my wife one of the cheering squad.

Tony & Sonya Turner

August 16, 2006

You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Sheryl Kennedy

August 16, 2006

I was your first wife and I was your second wife. That had to be true love. You will always hold a special place in my heart just as you always have. I am happy that we remained friends through all of our tribulations. You were the best daddy. You will be sadly missed...for awhile. I will see you in paradise.

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