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Patricia Boutan Obituary

Patricia "Trish" Boutan WADMALAW ISLAND - Patricia (Trish) Boutan transitioned peacefully in her sleep into the bigger Life and presence of her Lord and Savior Jesus Christ on March 19, 2025. She was born and grew up in Greenwich, CT, the daughter of William and Lucille Hartman. She was the youngest of three sisters. The middle sister is Katherine (Katy) Thornblade (married to Nick). The eldest, was Jeanne An Hartman, predeceased. Trish graduated high school from Rosemary Hall in 1970, and then attended Schiller College in Germany. She transferred after two years to Peabody College in Nashville, TN, and graduated with a Bachelor's degree in Early Education in 1974. The most important event in her life happened while she was at Peabody. She became a Christian through a campus ministry. As a result of her positive influence, her family came to faith in Christ. After college, she returned to Greenwich and worked as an orthodontist assistant. While attending a young adult Christian function, she met Marc Boutan who became her husband for 47 years. They married in 1977. In 1981 they moved to Brunswick, Maine, and later to Orr's Island. She went to work in a large bookstore. In 1982, their son, Christian, was born, followed by daughter, Renee, in 1985. At this point she discovered her passion was to stay at home to raise the kids, and to commit herself to home schooling the children all the way through high school. Trish was also very interested the health of her family through good nutrition. She was tenacious and invested her whole heart. While they lived in Belgium, she made sure the family field trips went to important cultural locations, museums, and historical sites to take home schooling wherever they went. Son, Christian (now married to Mattie) became a scientist, earning a PhD in Physics at the University of Washington; daughter, Renee double-majored in French and Music Performance (flute) at Furman University. Sister, Katy describes Trish as, "A woman of Grace." She was a Christian, wife, mother, grandmother, aunt and artist. Her creativity showed in her yearly hand-drawn Christmas card. She also practiced calligraphy. Trish is remembered by friends as: a delight, kind, thoughtful, cheerful, a gentle spirit and smile that lifted others, a bright light, a faithful follower of Jesus Christ. Marc adds, "She is my precious friend and loving companion." The funeral service will be held on April 3 at 2:00 pm, at St. Philip's Church, Charleston, followed by a reception in the Parish Hall. Interment will be held at 4:30 pm in Mount Pleasant Memorial Gardens. Arrangements by J. Henry Stuhr, Inc., Downtown Chapel. A memorial message may be sent to the family by visiting our website at www.jhenrystuhr.com.

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier from Mar. 29 to Mar. 30, 2025.

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Lee Kohlenberg

April 5, 2025

Lee Kohlenberg offers condolences to Marc and family for the loss of Trish. It was a beautiful funeral.

Paul & Beth Chaconas

March 31, 2025

Marc Boutan, my Navy Chaplain, Jim Doffin, thought the world of you. I´m sure he is waiting in line to greet your beloved "better half" in Heaven. You & Trish made such an impact on my wife, Beth, and my stepdaughter, Staci, well before I met them at St. Andrew´s. And Christian, we loved seeing you run barefooted to take your place behind the drums with Dwight and the Worship Team! Obviously, you got the best of your mom & dad. Christian, you & your dad have countless people who love you ... and even more who fondly remember Trish and her beloved family. Her family will be eternally reunited in what will seem like "the blink of an eye."
THANK YOU, JESUS!!!

Joseph Owens

March 30, 2025

Oh, dear Marc, I had no idea about your “precious Friend.” I honestly felt that you were some where in Europe with an Episcopal Church. She must have been Charming. I can assure you you both are in my fervent Prayers.

Andrew and Ilka Tank

March 30, 2025

Dear Marc, We remember Trish fondly from your time in Brussels. We send you and your family our heartfelt condolences. May Trish rest in peace and rise in glory. With our love and best wishes, Andrew and Ilka Tank

Mark Cooke

March 23, 2025

Marc, you, Christian, Maddie and the boys are in our prayers. What a precious saint that has been called home. I will forever remember our times in Toronto together, our meals together on Wadmalaw, her kind, gentle spirit and what an amazing team you were! She and you are dearly loved by many!
My God comfort you and hold you in His everlasting arms!

Barbara M Geisman

March 23, 2025

So sorry for your tremendous loss of Tricia, she was always so dear & yall have always been such a beautiful family in every way. We pray for you Marc, Christian & family and all of her loved ones, for peace & strength. Love, Barbara & Tony

Patti Evans

March 22, 2025

Marc and Christian, I am so sorry. I didn´t even know Trish was sick. I certainly would have come to see her and you! Such a great lady. Praying for both of you as you grieve her loss.
Much love to both of you,
Patti

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2:00 p.m. - 3:00 p.m.

St. Philip's Church

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3:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m.

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142 Church St, Charleston, SC 29401

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