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Pamela Henderson Obituary

HENDERSON, Pamela The relatives and friends of Mrs. Pamela "Pam" J. Sally Henderson are invited to attend her funeral services on Saturday, March 11, 2006, 12 p.m., at Joshua Baptist Church, 2482 Faber Road, North Charleston, S.C. Interment: Church Cemetery. Mrs. Henderson is survived by her husband Mr. George Henderson, Jr., her father Mr. William D. "Egg" White, Jr., her children, Mr. Lorenzo Sally, Rochaud Sally and Gayle Sally, her sisters, Ms. Shannon Sally, Mrs. Monique Wingham (Clifton), Mrs. Shaunda Miles (John), Ms. Deitre White, Mrs. Tina Sheppard (Rev. Michael), and Ms. Dawn Ganat, her brothers, Mr. Troy White, Mr. Juan Washington, Mr. Juan White, Mr. Robert White, Mr. Ivan Williams, and Mr. Ryan Cato; two grandchildren, aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, and other relatives and friends. Viewing for Mrs. Henderson will be on Friday, March 10, 2006, at the William M. Smith Memorial Chapel, 2 Radcliffe Street, Charleston, S.C., from 1 to 5 p.m. and at the Church from 6 to 8 p.m. the family will receive friends from 7 to 8 p.m. Arrangements by W.M. SMITH-MCNEAL FUNERAL HOME, INC., 2 Radcliffe Street, Charleston, SC. (843) 722-3676 or 1-800-924-5659. Email memorial messages at [email protected]. Visit our guestbook at www.charleston.net/deaths.

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier from Mar. 6 to Mar. 10, 2006.

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Dee Dee Smiley(Thompson)

March 16, 2006

To Shannon and family, I have known you and your sisters for a loong time and I am so sorry to hear about Pam. It's time for her to take her rest, GOD knows what's best. To her chldren and husband, from what I have read in here she was a wonderful person and she will leave it up to you all to keep that alive for her. GOD bless.

Gayle Sally

March 15, 2006

To my adorable mother. thank for being a great mother to me while you were here. Thank you for turning your life around to make a better life for me and my brothers. Mommy you will always be my bestfriend and most of all my mommy when i found you in that room it hurt me so much till that i felt that i have nothing to live for any more. But god do everything for a reason Love you so much

Dre Desaussure -Gadsden

March 14, 2006

To Cousin Gayle,Rochaud,and Lorenzo Everyone new that yall mama my antie was an adornment to us she would do what was put to her mind. I loved auntie Pam and I new yall did to. Love,Dre

TYNIE HOLMES

March 13, 2006

TO PAMS' HUSBAND AND CHILDREN,

GOD promised to placed no more on us than we can bare. When you feel the need of your mothers'attention, focus hard on her love,her smell,her touch,her smile then her face. Ask GOD to send her to comfort you. beleive in your the bottom of your soul.go to a quiet spot and meditate. Me and Pam was talking one day at SCE&G about the bills,and through our conversations

she said Girl Tynie, "GOD HAS MANY MANSION AND ONE OF THEM BELONGS TO ME AND MY FAMILY". So Pam is in her mansion getting it ready for her family.She now has a new address,so when you need her HEAVEN IS WHERE YOU WILL FIND HER. BE OF GOOD COURAGE, LOOK TO THE HILLS FROM WHENCE COMETH YOUR HELP. My mother and father is in heaven living in there mansion, waiting for there children too. It's not easy, but the wait is well worth it. e-mail me anytime. [email protected]

KeonDre Desaussure -Gadsden

March 13, 2006

Dear Gayle,Rennie,and Rochaud,dis me Dre I just wanted to say that auntie Pam was a loving caring and touching aunt.She would always be by your side when u were needed.Auntie Pam Loved every one she would tell me and every one she knew the she loved them.she would say "I love you boy wha ya ma feedin you ya gettin just as fat". I love you all and send my condolences to the Sally,Henderson,White,and the Desaussure family. Love always Dre

Pam Clancy

March 13, 2006

Words can express Ms Pam Sally. Be humble my child and come unto me. and she did just that. To my best friend Shannon since i was 6 years old. Hold on Cause God has a blessing so big that

girl your not going have enough room to store it. To the family i know it is painful but "Pam" is pain free.

Michelle MCGOUGAN,MARTIN

March 11, 2006

I HAVE KNOW PAM FOR MANY YEARS AND PAM HAS ALWAYS BEEN A CARING AND LOVING PERSON,THE LAST COUPLE OF TIMES I SAW PAM WAS IN WALMART AND EVERYTIME I SAW PAM SHE TALKED ABOUT HOW GOOD GOD WAS AND SHE WAS VERY HAPPY TO HAVE GOD NUMBER ONE IN HER LIFE AND THEN HER HUSBAND.PAM ALWAYS HAD A SMILE ON HER FACE WHEN I SAW HER.WE ALL KNOW PAM MADE IT HOME TO BE WITH GOD.MY PRAYES ARE WITH YOU FAMILY BUT ALWAYS REMBER GOD KNOWS WHATS BEST AND HE WAS READY TO BRING HIS CHILD HOME SO REMBER YOUR WIFE YOUR MOTHER,YOUR SISTER,YOUR AUNT,YOUR DAUGHTER,SISTER AND OUR DEAR FRIEND PAM HAS NO MORE PAIN.FROM MICHELLE,DESMONE,AND TERRELL

Nicole Murray

March 10, 2006

To the Sally and Henderson families, My prayers are with all of you and Pam will be missed so much by everyone. She was such a wonderful person!

Love Nicole and the Murray family

ERNIE&TYNIE HOLMES-DENSON

March 10, 2006

FAMILY WE ARE PRAYING FOR YOU ALL.

REMEMBER, EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON.WITH PRAYERS AND TIME GOD WILL BRING YOU THROUGH THIS TOO.

BELEIVE IT IN JESUS NAME.

Randolph & Sheryl "Sharon" Mood

March 10, 2006

Pam was a dear sweet friend since childhood. She was always a loving person with everyone she came in contact with. As a older person she really came to love and worship the Lord and she would let everyone know that.

So we say to the family.... Remember that God opens His heart and opens His arms, You are not alone. He is with you and so are we.

May God Bless You

ANGELINE THOMPSON

March 10, 2006

JUST WANTED TO LET YOU KNOW I AM KEEPING YOUR FAMILY IN MY PRAYERS.

GOD KNOWS BEST

CAROLYN W. MCCOY

March 10, 2006

SHANNON,

MAY YOU BE COMFORTED IN KNOWING THAT OTHERS ARE PRAYING FOR YOU AND THE FAMILY IN THIS YOUR TIME OF BEREAVEMENT.

BE ENCOURAGED!! BE BLESSED!!

ISIRLYN WRIGHT

March 10, 2006

TO THE HENERSON FAMILY,

MY THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU IN THIS TIME OF SORROW. I REMEMBER PAM AS A WARM AND GENTLE WOMEN WHO ALWAYS WALKED INTO CHARLESTOWNE ACADEMY WITH A SMILE ON HER FACE, PRAISING THE LORD FOR WHAT HE HAD DONE FOR HER. JUST KNOW THAT SHE IS IN A BETTER PLACE WITH THE LORD. KEEP THE FAITH AND KEEP EACH OTHER. TO RASHAUD, REMEMBER (IF YOU NEVER KNEW) MS. WRIGHT IS HERE WHEN EVER YOU NEED SOMEONE TO TALK TO. MAY GOD BLESS!

Vanessa & Leonard Sinclair

March 10, 2006

Every time we saw Pam she always had a beautiful smile and kind words of encouragement. She would always say I Love You at the end of a conversation. She was a wonderful example for us.She lived every day to the fullest and will be missed everyone she knew. We know that God will see you through this difficult time.

Rev. Melvin Scott and Family

March 10, 2006

With deepest sympathy. Our prayers are with you.

Michael Grant and Family

March 10, 2006

To the Salley and Henderson Family. First of all GOD is good, not some of the time but all of the time!!!George you and I grew up together through some rough times on 8-Mile, but through the grace of GOD ALL MIGHTY, the love from our loveones and the community we persevered. I know it seems like your traveling down a lonely highway because I have been there also, but GOD is with you every step of the way and Pam is right there with him. So Salley and Henderson Family cry if you must, but in GOD put your trust. Our prayers are with you.

gloria hicks

March 9, 2006

Pam went home to be with the Lord. She will be missed

LYNN CUMMINGS

March 9, 2006

WE THE EMPLOYEES AT THE SOUTHEASTERN SPINE INSTITUTE GIVE OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO THE FAMILY OF MRS PAMELA SALLEY,SHE WILL VERY WELL BE MISSED WITHIN OUR HEARTS AND SOULS AND JUST SEEING HER EVERY FRIDAY IN THE OFFICE.

SHE IS IN A BETTER PLACE, RESTING WITH OUR FATHER UP ABOVE WITH NO MORE WORRIES AND PAIN.

FAMILY KEEP YOUR HEAD UP AND TRUST IN GOD FOR HE KNOWS WHAT'S BEST

MAY GOD BLESS AND KEEP YOU NEAR



THE SOUTHEASTERN SPINE INSTITUTE

SYLVIA HAYNES LEVY

March 9, 2006

GOD WILL TAKE CARE OF YOU AND YOUR FAMILY IN A TIME OF NEED. LEAN AND DEPEND ON GOD.

CHRISE STRICKLAND

March 9, 2006

MS. PAM,EVERY TIME WE SPOKE RATHER IT WAS FOR AWHILE OR FOR A SHORT PERIOD OF TIME, YOUR WORDS WERE ALWAYS ENCOURAGING.THEY SAY TROUBLE DON'T LAST ALWAYS AND YOU TAUGHT ME TO BE A FIRM BELIEVER OF THAT. YOUR PHYSICAL APPERACE IS GONE BUT THE WARMTH OF YOUR HEART WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN, I LOVE AND MISS YOU FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART. GOD HAS CALLED ONE OF HIS MOST PRESCIOUS DIAMONDS HOME TO BE WITH HIM. SO REST ON AS YOUR MEMORY LIVES. GAYLE, NONNIE, AND MS. SHANNON, KEEP YOUR HEADS UP AND MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU. RENNY, REMAIN THE STRONG MAN THAT YOU ARE, IF YOU NEED ANYTHING LET ME KNOW, I'M HERE FOR YOU. MS. PAM I LOVE YOU AND SALUTE YOU FOR YOU HAVE BEEN PROMOTED TO THE HIGHEST RANK, LOVE YOU, CHRISIE!

SHATERRA CURTIS

March 8, 2006

BLESS BE PURE IN HEART, FOR THEY SHALL SEE GOD. MS. PAM, YOUR HEART WAS AS PURE AS THEY COME. KNOWING THAT YOU ARE WITH YOUR FATHER BRINGS ME JOY. IT'S BEEN TRULY A BLESSING HAVING YOU A PART OF ME AND MY KIDS LIVES! I MISS YOU AND I LOVE YOU! I WILL GIVE MY BABIES A KISS FOR YOU AS YOU ALWAYS ASKED ME TO DO. YOU SHALL REMAIN IN MY HEART AND MIND ALWAYS. I LOVE YOU, TERRA!

Ayanna Miller

March 8, 2006

To the family of Pam my deepest sympathy and prayers go out to you during your time of bereavement. God Bless You!



Ayanna and Daquan Miller

Jerry &Tearney Kyle-Dingle

March 7, 2006

We would like to express our deepest sympathy for the Henderson and Salley Family. I know Pam will definately be missed. She always had a smile on her face and "Praise in her mouth". She never met a stranger and "Kept It Real", with everyone. I will truly miss her.

Sheila Henry

March 7, 2006

Uncle Egg HOLD YOUR HEAD UP! She did what God sent her to do. She brought you and so many others closer to Christ. George, thank you for loving her unconditional. Shannon, there is a halo on your head. God's got his arms wrapped all around you. Pam is so blessed to resting in our savior's arm. If we live right heaven will belong to us too. Pam's life was to show us how great God is. She did just that.

Keishaun,Gail,Deloris,Donta & Deontra Bowens

March 7, 2006

To the family of Pam we sent you our condolences. Pam was a very special part of our family and we will miss her. Our prayer are with your family during your time of bereavement. God Bless You All.

Cousin Hedy"Tookie" Bullock

March 7, 2006

Cousin Lorenzo your family here in Virginia was so sorry to hear about the pasting of your Mother. Pam was a beautiful person I remember the good times that I had with her. If there is anything your Cousin Otis and I can do please let us know. Cousin Lil Lo you and your family are in our prayers Cousin Tookie, Cousin Otis and Aunt Net

Linda and tony jones

March 7, 2006

TO THE FAMILY OF PAM HENDERSON, WE ARE SENDING OUR LOVE TO YOU AND WE WILL MISS PAM, AND WE HOPE THAT GOD BLESS EACH AND EVERYONE IN THE FAMILY, PAM HAS GONE TO A BETTER PLACE NOW.











LOVE ALWAYS

LINDA AND TONY JONES AND FAMILY

Kamara Alston Savage

March 7, 2006

I left Charleston over 25 years ago to relocate with my husband to Birmingham, AL. Charleston and the people that I grew up with and went to school with are always important to me. I heard about Pam and my heart was saddened. I would like to extend my deepest sympathy to the Sally and Henderson family and would like to leave you with these few words...Life does not end here for Pam. Pam passed from this life on angel wings and moved on to the Kingdom. The day that Pam left, she had no fear and felt very little pain. Somewhere up in heaven, she has gone to meet Jesus and to live, yet, another life happily with Him and all His glory.

Walter& Geneva Desaussure

March 7, 2006

TO HENDERSON, SALLEY,WHITE AND DESAUSSURE FAMILY.



WITH DEEPEST SYMPATHY AND SORROWS, MAY GOD CONTINUE TO STREGHTEN YOU!

Faith Breland

March 6, 2006

The world is sadden and so am I of the lost of a beautiful sister. I love and miss you Pamela. Rest on

JOANNE BUTLER

March 6, 2006

tO THE SALLY AND HENDERSON FAMILY. WE WOULD LIKE TO SEND OUR GRIEF ON THE BELOVED MRS.PAM. SHE WAS AND SWEET LOVING PERSON WHO ALWAYS TALKED ABOUT THE LORD. WE ARE TRULY GOING TO MISS HER. GOD BLEES YOU ALL IN THE TIME OF NEED.

LOVE SAMOUN, JOANNE,MARIO,WILLIE,AND BUTLER FAMILY

Joanne butler

March 6, 2006

To the sally and henderson family. IN YOUR TIME OF GRIEF WE WOULD LIKE TO GIVE OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO A WONDERFUL, LOVEABLE WOMEN. WE HOPE THAT THESE FEW WORDS WILL HELP YOU IN THE TIME OF NEED. GOD BLESS YOU ALL

LOVE FROM SAMOUN,JOANNE,MARIO =, AND WILLIE BUTLER

Barbara Porcha

March 6, 2006

PAM IS A VEY GOOD PERSON, IT SEEMS LIKE YESTERDAY WHEN I FIRST MET PAM AT R.S. STAFFING, SHE ALWAYS WITNESS TO ME ABOUT THE LORD, PAM SPOKE TO ME 2 WEEKS AGO AND AS USUAL SHE ALWAYS HAD LOVE IN HER HEART, HER FAVORITE WORD WAS ( "IN THE NAME OF JESUS"), I AM GOING TO MISS HER BUT KNOW SHE WILL BE UP IN HEAVEN LOOKING DOWN ON US HOPING ONE DAY THAT WE ALL COULD MEET HER THERE, I AM SENDING MY LOVE TO HER FAMILY, PAM WILL BE MISSED BY FRIENDS AND FAMILY, I LOVE YOU PAM, NOW THAT YOU HAVE HUNG IN THERE AND DID YOUR BEST, GO AND GET YOUR REWARD AND DO YOUR BEST.



LOVE ALWAYS

BARBARA PORCHA

Myra White

March 6, 2006

Pam was a very dear friend to me,She will be sadly miss by family and friends, but GOD took her home to rest only he knows wants best. And in my heart I will always think of Pam, she was a person that not easy to forget. Love Myra

Linnie Blake

March 6, 2006

I am so sorry to hear of the lost of your mother Rachaud. She is in better hands now. I hope that you remember me from CTA.746-1349.And if you need anything please don't hesitate to to call.

Alvin &Julia Dennis

March 6, 2006

To The Salley & Henderson Family We would like to express our condolence in the lost of your love one. God makes no mistakes. We will continue to pray for the family.

Brenda & Anthony Williams

March 6, 2006

We will sadly miss "Pam" Whom after becoming saved, Had the evidence of the Holy Spirit. May that Sweet Holy Spirit rest upon the family's heart and keep you all in perfect peace......

Brenda & Anthony

Mario, Bruce & Shelton Desaussure

March 6, 2006

What can we say about our Auntie Pam?? Words are truly inadequate to describe a person who was all that she professed to be. If we could use two words to describe her, they would be virtuous and real. As the oldest son of my parents, I can truly say that Pam was one of a kind and there will never ever be another like her. God allowed her to assist my dad in helping to take care of my mother until she passed and he also allowed her to help me in taking care of my dad when he passed. She promised him that she would look out for my brothers and I no matter what, and she became our jewel. Not only was she our aunt, but she became a mother to us and loved us like we were her own. I thank God for allowing me to know my aunt and I thank God that out of all of my family members, she was the one of the special ones who kept her word to my parents and stuck by us in good and bad times, when she was sick and when she was well. She even had time to call and check on us ALL the time. Proverbs 31 talks about a virtuous woman and that she was. Auntie, we your nephews rise up and call you blessed!! Thank you for always being the motherly figure in our lives for almost 2 years. Sleep on and we shall see you again!! To my brothers and little sister, Rennie, Nonnie and Gayle: I know what you are going through and I am truly here for you. You had a faithful mother and we as not only your cousins, but your brothers feel your pain. God will take care of you!! Uncle George, thank you for loving our auntie with all of your heart and making her happy. Shannon, hold your head up. Even though we are not related by blood, you are still my auntie. Uncle Egg, God is able and he can do anything but fail. Love you always!!

Vernetta Davis

March 6, 2006

to the Sally-Henderson family sorry to hear about pam but just remember God knows best. I send my deepest sympathy. Love Ms.Vernetta Davis

Vera Wilson

March 6, 2006

We would like to express our deepest sympathy to the Henderson Family in your time of grief. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.

Miss Vera, Venita, Venora, Herb and Clara

Bobby & Cassie Keeton

March 6, 2006

To the Henderson and Salley Family,

We extend our condolences to the families. Pam will surely be missed. I will always remember her favorite words "its all about you Jesus". She always made me smile

God Bless

LILLIAN PARKER

March 6, 2006

SHANNON AND FAMILY,

NO MORE RODS, NO MORE PINS

SHE'S IN NO MORE PAIN

SHE'S JUST RESTING ON THE BOSOM OF JESUS.

WITH DEEPEST SYMPATHY,

Arnetha Neicy Draytton

March 6, 2006

To my Uncel Egg, I can't believe Pam is gone. It only seemed like yesterday, Pam & I greeted each other at a wake service last month.

Pam was a loving, kind person, who loved the Lord, and didn't mind telling and praising him. Trust in the Lord with all your heart and strength, as Pam would want you to do. Pam had such a sweet spirit about her and brought smile to many faces. Our prayers and thoughts go out to you and the rest of the family.



Arnetha Drayton & family

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