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Noel Stephen Mermer

1967 - 2020

Noel Stephen Mermer obituary, 1967-2020, Charleston, SC

BORN

1967

DIED

2020

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Noel Mermer Obituary

Noel Stephen Mermer Johns Island - Noel Stephen Mermer died late Saturday, October 3 at home after a long battle with amyotrophic lateral sclerosis, also known as ALS or Lou Gehrig's disease. He was 53. Noel was the publisher and co-founder of the Charleston City Paper, and while his business accomplishments were notable, he will be remembered most for being a loyal and supportive father, husband, brother, son, and friend. Noel was born in Grosse Pointe, Michigan on March 16, 1967 and studied at Michigan State University. After graduation, he moved south to Atlanta, where he found his calling as a newspaperman at the alternative weekly, Creative Loafing. He was soon promoted at the age of 26 to be publisher of a new Creative Loafing in Savannah, Ga. He was the company's youngest publisher ever and relished the role. Even at 26, his uncanny ability to manage multiple deadlines, work within a strict budget, inspire co-workers to deliver more and constantly close deals was obvious. He moved to Charleston in 1997 and realized his dream of starting and owning his own newspaper, The Charleston City Paper. Over the course of 20-plus years, he touched many lives in his role as publisher. He loved to tell his City Paper family "Back to Work!" and many co-workers considered him a personal mentor as well as a boss. He enjoyed telling friends and acquaintances "not too late tonight" whenever he left a social gathering. He touched countless people's lives from his family, friends to co-workers. You always knew where you stood with Noel, as his bravery and honesty, allowed him to say exactly what he was thinking. His big personality lit up every room. In 2003, Noel married Christine and they were soon blessed with two sons, Noel and Bennett. He loved taking his sons deep-sea fishing and watching them play their favorite sports. He was an incredible Dad, and cherished every moment with his boys, and has ensured they share his determination, compassion, generosity and humor. Noel is survived by his wife and sons along with his sister and brother-in-law Sheila and Bryce Mutz of Atlanta, nephews, Bryce and Blake, and his in-laws, Suzanne Boren of Mount Pleasant, and Cecil and Cindy Boren of Greensboro, North Carolina. He was predeceased by his father, Noel in 1992, and his mother, Carolyn in 2017. An open socially-distanced service will be held Saturday, October 10, 2020 at 10 a.m. in St Michael's Church. Additionally, the church will be offering a live stream option available https://youtu.be/J2tV5gm25kc In lieu of flowers, the family is planning to establish a non-profit to assist future ALS families with the costs associated with caregiving and travel needed for ALS. If you are interested in donating please send an email to [email protected] so we can send you details at a later date. Arrangements by J. Henry Stuhr, Inc. Downtown Chapel. A memorial message may be sent to the family by visiting our website at www.jhenrystuhr.com. Visit our guestbook at www.legacy.com/obituaries/ charleston

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier from Oct. 6 to Oct. 7, 2020.

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Noel in his office at "Creative Loafing" in Savannah.

Bob Ruggiero

October 11, 2020

I worked with Noel at Creative Loafing in Savannah as Editor when he was Publisher in the mid-'90s. But he was more than just a "co-worker." Noel, myself, Blair, Stephanie, Joan, and my girlfriend (now wife) Lorrie were truly a family unit, and I cherish those years in my life. So many fun memories of putting out that newspaper every week and just hanging out together. Though sometimes, we might have slight editorial/advertising disagreements. Like when Noel wanted me to include a "Car Dealer of the Week' feature to help sell ads. Even he soon laughed at the absurdity of that one.

I connect a lot of things to music, and there are two songs that I simply cannot hear without always thinking of Noel. We went to see the '70s band America at an outdoor Festival on River Street. Noel kept saying "I hope they play 'Sandman!' That's my favorite!" He got a bit worried as the show continued. "I REALLY want to hear 'Sandman!'" And once they launched into it, Noel, beer in hand, started headbanging as if he were at a Iron Maiden show. The other song is "Breakfast at Tiffany's" by Deep Blue Something. He was OBSESSED with that when it came out, and once made me listen to it three times in a row on his car stereo.

Christine, Noel, and Bennett, my deepest sympathies are with you all. Noel would sometimes talk to me about his father being gone, and how much he hoped to have his own family one day. I am very happy to know that he achieved that dream, and that the three of you made his life so complete.

Paula Koch

October 10, 2020

The online service was an amazing overview of a loving, creative and compassionate father, husband and business man whose presence in this world will be so missed. I extend my sincere condolences to the family with fond and loving memories to carry you into the future. A family friend. Paula Koch

Kathy Carley

October 8, 2020

My deepest condolences. Dearest Beloved Noel. May God wrap His arms around you for everlasting peace.

Loretta Reynolds

October 7, 2020

I am so sorry for your loss. Noel fought a valiant battle. May all of Noel's pain be obliterated as he rises to the Lord!

Jeanne & Gary Weinreich

October 7, 2020

Noel's dad was the best boss I ever had. We enjoyed watching Noel and his sister, Sheila, grow up. Being an enthusiast entrepreneur and talented business leader is clearly a Mermer family trait. To his sons, Noel and Bennett, your father and grandfather leave you a very special legacy. Both were taken much too early.

NORENE KEMP

October 7, 2020

My dear friend Christine and boys,
My deepest condolences to you and the boys. Wishing you peace and comfort during this hard time.
Norene

Terry Tiernan Tiernan

October 7, 2020

Christine, my deepest sympathy to you and your family.

John Lisa and Carmela Befumo

October 7, 2020

Rest In Peace, Noel. We are blessed to have known you, and your amazing family.

Chester Jacinto

October 6, 2020

My prayers and deepest condolences to you Christine and the Mermer family. I'm very saddened by this news. Noel brought so much energy to Charleston. When he was leading the City Paper the arts, dining, music, nightclubs and bars, restaurants began thriving in a new way and engaging point of views came to the Holy City. He also was a publishing and business force like the city had never seen before. I know, I lived in it before there was The City Paper.

Every interaction (a meeting w/ him and Blair), mainly through Spoleto promotions, I had with Noel was fun and special to me. I never forgot Noel and longed for the day that I'd visit Charleston again after moving to Texas and get the chance to sit with him in a cafe or bar and just catch up. Charleston needed Noel at a time to enliven and elevate all it was doing. That's Noel's legacy to me and so many who would never have discovered the place and places of the Lowcountry.

God bless you Noel. Rest in peace. And comfort and strength to your family in the times ahead.

Deepest Condolences,
Chester Jacinto

Darcy Barthel Callaghan

October 6, 2020

I met Noel the summer before high school. He lived only a few blocks away, yet we didn't meet until then. We became fast friends.
Noel was my first crush. We dated. Nothing too serious, but we were there for each other when a date was needed. He was kind, funny and SO fun to be with.
Lionel Richie's song All Night Long will always remind me of Homecoming with you.
Rest In Peace my friend.
Love you to the moon and back.
Darcy

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