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Melissa Lindholm Obituary

LINDHOLM, Melissa Melissa McClure Lindholm, 41, of Asheville, N.C., died at her home on September 17, 2007, following a 13 month struggle with alveolar rhabdomyosarcoma. She was a 1983 American Field Service exchange student to Istanbul, Turkey, and a 1984 graduate of Jefferson City (Mo.) Senior High School. She earned a BS in Biology from Bryn Mawr College in 1988, an MS in Neurobiology and an MAT in Secondary Education from Cornell University in 1991, and an AA in Metalsmithing from Haywood Community College in 1997. She taught Biology and Science at North Buncombe County (N.C.) High School, and for several years was a Science Educator and Summer Camp Director at The Health Adventure in Asheville, N.C. None of these sterile facts captures the vitality of the woman we have lost, nor the vacuum her loss leaves in our lives. She is survived by her husband, James Robert Atkinson; two sons, William Sharpe Lindholm Atkinson, and Harrison McClure Lindholm Atkinson; step-daughter, Hannah Rebecca Cameron-Atkinson, of Quincy, Ill.; her mother and step-father, Susan Lewis and William Robert Winslow of Mt. Pleasant, S.C.; her father and step-mother, Robert and Joyce Lindholm of Lindsborg, Kan.; her sister, Christina Lindholm Oxford, also of Mt. Pleasant, S.C., and her grandmother, Dorothy Sharpe Lewis, of Charleston, S.C. Services will be held at 2 p.m. on Saturday, October 20, 2007, at the Unitarian Universalist Church of Asheville, N.C. A reception will follow at the church. All are welcome to attend. Donations of cash or appreciated securities are suggested to: Traditions Acupuncture Clinic c/o M. Cissy Majebe, 382 Montford Ave., Asheville, NC 28801 www.chineseacupuncture-wnc.com (828) 258-9016, Bryn Mawr College, Helfarian, 101 North Merion Ave., Bryn Mawr, PA 19010 www.brynmawr.edu/makeagift (610) 526-5127. The Health Adventure c/o The Melissa Lindholm Scholarship Fund, P.O. Box 180, Asheville, NC 28802 www.thehealthadventure.org (828) 254-6373. The Mountain Retreat and Learning Centers, 3872 Dillard Road, P.O. Box 1299, Highlands, NC 28741 www.mountaincenters.org/gifts (828) 526-5838, ext. 230. Arrangements by Asheville Area Alternative Funeral and Cremation, Asheville, N.C. Visit our guestbook at www.charleston.net/deaths.

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier on Oct. 19, 2007.

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Ronda Bowman

October 20, 2007

Jim and Christina,

I am so sorry about your loss. All my well wishes are with you and the rest of your family.

Gracie Harvey

October 17, 2007

Joyce and Bob,

I am so sorry for your loss. I have not seen you all for 10 years, and I truly miss you. Joyce, I remember when you consoled me when my Jerry died and I have not forgotten. I never met Melissa, but knowing you guys, she had to be the most beautiful person on earth.
Gracie (Schlemeier) Harvey

Shirley and Glenn Baker

October 16, 2007

Joyce and Bob & Susan and Bob: What an absolute shock to hear about your daughter, Melissa. We learned about what happened from a friend of ours in J.C. Please know that we are thinking of you all.

Deborah Neff

October 16, 2007

I am so sorry for your loss. I worked with Bob for years in the Attorney General's office and he was very proud of his talented daughter.

Ashley Allen Brown

October 16, 2007

Jim - I remember the day you told a group of us that you were "finally going to be with Melissa" - your one true love. Always reflect on the great joy and love that was yours. May you find strength and peace to help you through this difficult time.

Shelly Stephenson

October 15, 2007

Jim, I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Although I didn't know her well in school, I remember her (and you) clearly. Please know that you and your family will be in my thoughts during this difficult time.

Shelly (Carlson) Stephenson

Donna Ward

October 15, 2007

I am so saddened on your loss. I was a classmate of Melissa's and remember her well. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Donna Walz Ward (JCHS class of 84)

Paula (Haeffner) Marcum

October 15, 2007

Christina and Family,
I cannot offer any words that might help ease your pain, but I am so so sorry for your deep loss. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers over the coming days.

Sonya Garrison

October 14, 2007

I was so saddened to hear of the loss of Melissa. I hadn't seen her in over 20 years, but She was a very sweet person. Christina, It has been so long since we have been in touch. I know there is nothing to say to make this better, but know that my prayers and heart is with you, as I have lost my 2 brothers, and know how hard this time is for you and your family.

Love,
Sonya

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