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Mary Lee Stokes

1939 - 2021

Mary Lee Stokes obituary, 1939-2021, Charleston, SC

BORN

1939

DIED

2021

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W.M. Smith-McNeal Funeral Home, Inc. - Awendaw

4129 Highway 17 North

Awendaw, South Carolina

Mary Stokes Obituary

Mary Lee Stokes Mt. Pleasant - The family and friends of the late Mrs. Mary Lee "Cutie" Stokes, of Mount Pleasant, South Carolina, will celebrate her life on Saturday, August 7, 2021 at 1:00 PM at Mt. Nebo AME Church, 5600 N. Highway 17, Awendaw, SC. A public walk-thru viewing will be held on Friday, August 6, 2021 at The Rev. Bryan McNeal, Sr. Memorial Chapel, 4129 N. Highway 17, Mt. Pleasant, SC. MASKS ARE REQUIRED. Mrs. Stokes is survived by her loving children: Pauline S. Goodwater (Bernard) of Awendaw, SC, Allen (Shirley) Stokes of Hinesville, GA, Rev. Rose M. Stokes-Smalls of Awendaw, SC, Margaret A. Stokes-Brown ofColumbia, SC and Vanessa Stokes-Tabb of Summerville, SC; nine grandchildren: Jonathan A. Stokes (a grandson of the home), Jerry Smalls, II, Amber Whitney Smalls, Julian Paul Stokes, Daniel Marcus Smalls, Jasmine Lasaine Goodwater, Janelle Patrice Stokes, Briana Devin Goodwater and Tyre David Brown; seven great-grandchildren and a host of family and friends.. She was preceded in death by her parents: the late Mr. John and Mrs. Elouise Howard; her husband of 45 years, Paul A. Stokes; her siblings: John Howard, Jr., James Howard, Richard Howard, Herbert Howard, Benjamin Howard and Lucille Washington, all of Miami, FL; Alonzo Howard of Saint Baldwin Place, NY and former long-time resident of Mount Kisco, NY and grandson, Allen Gardner. Condolences and flowers may be sent to the family at www.wmsmithmcnealfuneralhome.com. Arrangements by Smith-McNeal Funeral Home, 4129 Highway 17 North, Awendaw, SC (843)881-4920. Visit our guestbook at legacy.com/obituaries/charleston

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier from Aug. 5 to Aug. 6, 2021.

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BARBARA STOKES

August 7, 2021

TO THE FAMILY OF MARY LEE STOKES. I CAME INTO THIS FAMILY IN MARCH OF 1985. THREE WEEKS AFTER MY OWN MOTHER HAD PASSED AWAY. AT THAT TIME MRS. MARY WAS THE ONLY MOTHER I HAD. SINCE THEN I HAVE TRIED TO KEEP IN CONTACT WITH HER. LETTING HER KNOW THAT I LOVED HER. (THAT IS IMPORTANT LETTING A PERSON KNOW THAT YOU LOVE THEM WHEN THEY CAN UNDERSTAND AND KNOW FOR THEMSELVES). MY HEART IS HEAVY TODAY. AS I AM SURE THAT YOUR'S IS. LET ME TELL YOU TO LOOK TO THE HILLS FROM WHENCE YOUR HELP COMETH. LET YOUR HELP COME FROM THE LORD WHO MADE THOSE HILL. BE ENCOURAGED TO KNOW THAT WEEPING MY ENDURETH THROUGH THE NIGHT, BUT JOY WILL COME IN THE MORNING. BE REJOICED THAT GOD ALMIGHT ALLOWED YOU THIS TIME WITH YOUR MOTHER. LET THE MEMORIES OF HER LIVE ON. REMEMBERING THE GOOD DAYS AS WELL AS THE BAD DAYS. I AM SURE THE GOOD DAYS WILL OUT WEIGH THE BAD DAYS. I KNOW YOU LOVED HER BUT GOD LOVED HER MORE. SO MUCH THAT HE CAME AND TOOK HER FROM HER LABOR TO HE REWARD. SHE IS NOT SUFFERING ANY MORE. FOR WITH GOD THERE IS NO MORE SUFFERING NO MORE TEARS SO MORE SORROWERS. REMEMBERING THAT GOD THE FATHER HAS A PREPARED PLACE FOR HIS OWN. LOVE YOU GUYS. BARBARA STOKES

Rev. & Mrs. Elijah H. Smalls, Jr.

August 7, 2021

Dear Rev. Rose Smalls and Family,
You have our sympathy in the passing of your mother. Continue trusting the Lord for your strength.

Ruby Stukes Baugham, Brooklyn NY

August 7, 2021

To Rev. Rose and family,
On behalf of the Stukes family of Debra Bowman, we are praying for your because you was there for us doing the time of Debra sudden passing. Will continue to keep your in our thoughts and prayers. Be bless.

Reverend Dr. Carl and Sister Doris Anderson

August 5, 2021

We pray that God will comfort and strengthen the entire Stokes Family.

Rev.and Mrs. IsaacGrant

August 5, 2021

You all are in our thoughts and prayer. Thanks be to God for given you all knew strength during this difficult time.

Jennifer Spann Smalls

August 5, 2021

My deepest sympathy goes out to the family may God keep his loving arms wrapped around each and everyone of you during this time.

Franklin and Theresa Benjamin

August 4, 2021

Our deepest sympathy to the Stokes/Howard family. We will miss her smile and quiet demeanor.

From: James & Rosalee Ward and Franklin & Theresa Ward Benjamin & family

Harold Wigfall

August 3, 2021

My family and I are so sorry for your loss, Mrs.Stokes was such a loving person! We who knew her will miss her as well! But I just know she will be with Jesus in Heaven!! And that is comforting to know!!!

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