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Mary Elizabeth Upshaw Pike

Mary Elizabeth Upshaw Pike obituary, Atlanta, Ga

Mary Pike Obituary

Mary Elizabeth Upshaw Pike ATLANTA, GA - Mary Elizabeth Upshaw Pike passed away on Thursday, May 22, 2014, after an extended illness. She was born December 18, 1924 in Atlanta, the daughter of prominent obstetrician, Charles Bell Upshaw, M.D. and Mrs. Belle Porcher LeRoy Upshaw. She grew up in Atlanta and attended Spring Street and E. Rivers Grammar Schools; Washington Seminary Preparatory School; Sweet Briar and Converse Colleges; and graduated from the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, in 1946. While there, she was a member of Delta Delta Delta Fraternity. During her junior year at UNC, she made her debut with the Atlanta Debutante Club at the Piedmont Driving Club. Following graduation from college, she toured Europe and Scandinavia and then went to work for Emory University School of Medicine, working as a lab technician at Grady Memorial Hospital in Atlanta. On December 21, 1954 she married the love of her life, Dr. John Sanders (Sandy) Pike, D.D.S. Their first home was in Brooklyn, New York where he was stationed with the Navy and serving on the USS Bennington. After the Navy, they moved to Lincoln, Nebraska for two years, where he took training and received his Masters Degree in Dentistry for Children, from the University of Nebraska. They returned to Chapel Hill, NC, where he taught at the UNC Dental School and she worked as a lab technician at Duke University Medical School. After four years, they moved back to Atlanta, where Sandy began his private practice in 1961. Mary worked as his assistant for 47 years. In 1966, they discovered an 18th century home built in 1788 on the square in Washington, Georgia. They purchased the building and had it moved in 1966 to their property in Cobb County, Georgia, where it was restored to its original dimensions and later designated an historic home. Their restoration was recognized by The Georgia Trust for Historic Preservation in 1988 and The Cobb Landmarks Society, Inc. in 1991. She was a life member of the Huguenot Society of South Carolina, joining in 1944. She served on the board of the Huguenot Society of South Carolina for 18 years, as Vice-President for New Bordeaux. In 2008, she was presented the prestigious L'Esprit de Huguenot award for her service. She was a member of the Huguenot Society of Georgia; a lifetime member of St. Mark United Methodist Church; a member of the Junior League of Atlanta; a member of the Daughters of the American Revolution; and served as a board member of the American Academy of Pediatric Dentistry for 12 years; and was a Life Member of the UNC Alumni Association. During the last few years, she has resided at Lenbrook Health Care Center in Atlanta. She was predeceased by her parents and her husband and is survived by her brother, Charles Bell Upshaw, Jr., M.D. of Atlanta, GA and by the following nephews and nieces: Charles Bell Upshaw III (Connie) of Raleigh, NC; Agnor LeRoy Upshaw of Buies Creek, NC; James Andrew Upshaw, M.D. (Amanda) of Macon, GA; Thomas Arthur Upshaw, M.D. (Jana) of Charleston, SC; Mary Frances Upshaw Culpepper (Chris) of Roswell, GA; and Sarah Upshaw Crittenden (Frank) of Dunwoody, GA . Great nephews and great nieces are: U.S. Army Captain Charles Andrew Upshaw, stationed in Seoul, South Korea; Grace Elizabeth Upshaw of Asheville, NC, Mary Katherine Upshaw and Caroline Joy Upshaw of Buies Creek, NC; Charles Bell Upshaw, IV of Macon, GA; Helena Grace Upshaw and Bradley Aaron Upshaw of Charleston, SC; and Alexander Greene Crittenden and Margaret Hope Crittenden of Dunwoody, GA; and many dear cousins, both Upshaw and LeRoy. The family would like to thank the doctors, nurses and caregivers who have helped Mary in these last years and, especially the last few weeks, at Lenbrook Health Care Center and Piedmont Hospital. A special thanks to Kathleen Parker and Julius Kanuhi, who have been loyal and loving caregivers for Mary and Sandy over the past seven years. Funeral services will be held on Tuesday, May 27, 2014, at 11:00 a.m., in the Abbey Chapel at Westview Cemetery, 1680 Westview Drive, SW, Atlanta, GA, 30310, visitation from 10:00 to 11:00 a.m. in the chapel, prior to the service with burial immediately following the funeral service. Funeral officiated by Robbye Jarrell, Chaplain, Lenbrook Square. In lieu of flowers, Mary requested donations be made to: The Belle Porcher LeRoy Upshaw Fund of the Huguenot Society of South Carolina, 138 Logan Street, Charleston, S.C. 29401 or the charity of your choice. Visit our guestbook at www.legacy.com/obituaries/ charleston

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier from May 24 to May 25, 2014.

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Susan Pike-Fry

June 5, 2014

It is hard to believe that Uncle Sandy and Aunt Mary are both gone now. I know we lost touch some years after my father Sandy's brother died but I have good memories of them and visit's to the dentist and to their home in Sandy Springs. Now they are united again and they will be miss.

Ann Upshaw Perry

May 27, 2014

Oh how I will miss Mary. I have so many great memories and I must say that Mary and Sandy were the most magical couple I have ever known. I picture them right now,Mary in her blue uniform and Sandy with his great big smile up in their office in heaven.I thank you for being in our lives and my love to you all.

Linda Pike

May 26, 2014

To the Upshaw family,I am very sorry for your loss. Aunt Mary and Uncle Sandy were truly made for each other, never did you say one name without automatically saying the other. May God Bless and Keep You during the days to come.

May 25, 2014

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

May 23, 2014

David and I spent many an enchanted evening with Mary and Sandy Pike at eateries around Charleston and Atlanta and Augusta. Always beginning with a Gin martini with ice on the side. We tried exotic gins and delicious food everywhere. We solved family, Huguenot and world problems together in our conversations. Always upbeat and family obsessed, these two were the unifying factors in pulling together the Wrenn and LeRoy, the Brice and Hemmer, the Upshaws and Smiths and many other disparate generational family units. Traveling everywhere in their baby-blue circa 1950s Rolls Royce, they brought joy to everyone they touched.Their Christmas Collations at their ante-bellum home in Marietta were elegant with nephew James Upshaw, M.D., choosing the most expensive and exotic champagne he could find every year. We spent the Pike's fiftieth wedding anniversary with them, the Brices and the James Upshaws at the Greenbrier. it was the year of Mary's eightieth birthday and James' 40th. Charles IV was with us as well. The Upshaws, Mary and Sandy, were a unit. In the years they were at Linbrook, Charles and Connie Upshaw were their mainstays. Always available to do anything that they needed. I am happy that Mary and Sandy are together again and look forward to joining them and Dave for a forever relationship in heaven. Cousin Helga Billings, Hilton Head, S. C.

May 22, 2014

Mary and Sandy have been a big part of my memories of growing up! They were in a supper club with mother and daddy for over 50 years. Mary was a childhood friend of mothers whose friendship lasted all of her life. We were treated with interest and love like their children. I loved Mary and Sandy and they added such color to my life. I count them as a true blessing.
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