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Mary McLernon Obituary

Mary Margaret (nee Costello) McLernon CHARLESTON - Mary Margaret McLernon (ne;e Costello) passed peacefully from this world on Friday, December 7th, 2018 in her home, surrounded by her devoted family. Mary Margaret was born May 6, 1938 in Jersey City, NJ. She was raised in New Jersey and was a 1959 graduate of the Holy Name Hospital School of Nursing (Teaneck). She spent the middle part of her adult life in Ohio. In 1988 Mary Margaret was a founder of the Dublin Ohio Irish Festival, a musical and cultural celebration which now attracts over 100,000 visitors each year in August. Mary Margaret moved to Charleston, SC in 1995 where she was a generous supporter of the arts, education and her faith. Mary Margaret owned Fuchsia Tea Room and Gallery on Church Street in Charleston. She is survived by her four children; Chris (Lisa) McLernon, Sean (Gillian) McLernon, Bridget (Sean) McLernon Sykes and Mary Kate McLernon as well their father (ex-husband) Lawrence McLernon. She was very proud of her 11 grandchildren: Delaney and Graham McLernon, Mackie and Shea McLernon, Fiona, Ailish and Declan Sykes, Caitlin Jacobs (ne;e Peterson), Jake Peterson, Marisa and Ethan Henthorn, two great-grandchildren as well as a host of nieces, nephews and cousins. Mary Margaret was the loving sister of Claire Cardella (Thomas), Rose Kelly (Jim), Kevin Costello (Anne) and Ruthie Johnson (Terry). Mary Margaret is preceded in death by her daughter Aileen McLernon Reineck, her parents Thomas P. and Mary M. Costello, her brother Thomas P. Costello and her sister Kathie Shanahan. Mary Margaret found joy in her connections with family, her relationships with friends and in travelling the world, especially when those journeys took her to Ireland. She will be deeply missed by all who knew and loved her. A funeral mass will be celebrated at Mepkin Abbey Church in Moncks Corner, SC. Should friends desire to make a gift, memorial contributions can be made to Mepkin Abbey, the American Cancer Society, and/or the Community Hospices of America Foundation. Visit our guestbook at www.legacy.com/obituaries/ charleston

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier from Dec. 8 to Dec. 9, 2018.

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Nigel Redden

December 17, 2018

Dear Chris, Sean, Bridget and Mary Kate, I am so sorry to hear about your mother's death. She was a wonderful friend of Spoleto Festival USA and a very good friend to me. We talked often about Ireland and Irish artists. Although we talked about going to Ireland together, it never worked out. I will miss her. My sincere condolences at this difficult time. Nigel

Beverly Burdette

December 15, 2018

So sorry for your loss, Ruthie and family.

Grace Swift

December 13, 2018

May her journey now be full of wonderful memories.

Bev Rockey

December 12, 2018

Praying for her peace. Your family is in our prayers

Florence Cooke

December 12, 2018

Please accept my sincere condolences.

Cindy Wedholm

December 11, 2018

We were so saddened to hear about your Mom. She was always so friendly and kind to all of us through the years. We are sending prayers, support and love to all of you.
Ken, Cindy, Adelaide & Brodie

Sarah Scott

December 10, 2018

Our love and prayers go out to our family! We send our love from Ohio and hope that you feel the hugs being sent your way!
She was so wonderful, but you already know that! I will miss her for sure! Love you all!

Roger Marra

December 10, 2018

Ruthie, Claire, Rose, Kevin, and the McLernon family: Our thoughts and prayers are with you as you remember and celebrate Mary Margaret. May memories bring you joy, comfort, and peace during these days and in the days ahead. In Sincere Friendship, Vickie Marra Roger Marra

Soraiya Wilkins

December 10, 2018

My condolences to all of you! I am so very sorry to see this. Even though I have not seen you all in years, I remember your mom, she was such a sweet lady. My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this time. My God give you the strength to get through this. RIP Mary

Melissa Calbert

December 10, 2018

Prayers for you all.

December 9, 2018

Dear Chris, Sean, Bridget and Mary Kate,

My deepest condolences on the loss of your mom. What a special lady she was, and what a wonderful friendship she and my mother had. I hope you find strength in each other, and in the lifetime of memories you all share.

With love,
Trish Merelo

Mary Ann Fronce

December 9, 2018

Chris, Sean, Bridget and Mary Kate: Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. Mary Margaret was a good friend and will be greatly missed. RIP

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