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Mary Michel Mains

1943 - 2025

Mary Michel Mains obituary, 1943-2025, Charleston, SC

BORN

1943

DIED

2025

FUNERAL HOME

J. Henry Stuhr West Ashley Chapel

3360 Glenn McConnell Parkway

Charleston, South Carolina

Mary Mains Obituary

Mary Michel Mains CHARLESTON - Mary Michel Mains, 81, of Charleston, South Carolina, wife of the late Charles "Chuck" Paul Mains, Jr., entered into eternal rest Thursday, March 27, 2025. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held Monday, April 7, 2025, in the Church of The Nativity, 1061 Folly Road, at 11:30 am. Prayers of Commendation and Farewell will follow at Holy Cross Cemetery. The family will receive friends Sunday, April 6, 2025, from 5:00 pm to 7:00 pm in J. Henry Stuhr Inc., West Ashley Chapel, with a Prayer Service starting at 6:00 pm. Mary was born June 15, 1943, in Charleston, South Carolina, daughter of the late Paschal Aloysious Michel and Olga Hatton Michel. Mary worked as a teller in banking for over 30 years. She spent her life caring for family friend and strangers alike. She was deeply passionate about her roots and her family. Mary met the world with kindness, compassion, and unwavering loyalty. She is survived by her son, Charles Paul Mains III (Paul); daughter, Nicole Mains Fagala; son-in-law, Paul Edward Fagala (EJ); granddaughter, Carson Taylor Fagala; grandsons, Michael Keller, Joshua Keller, Johnny Keller, and Charles Andrew Mains (CAM); sister, Dr. Helen Michel Dodds and her husband, Dr. Kenneth A. Dodds; sister, Madiline Michel Badger (Meg) and her husband, Joe Badger; sister-in-law, Patricia Mains; brother-in-law, Michael Mains; nephews and nieces, Nathan Lee Dyer (Racheal), Joshe Lee Dyer (Courney), Weston Lee Dyer (Allison), James Badger, Jennifer (JJ) Tanzer John), Cathy Abreo (Ricky), Shawn Mains Scott Mains, Jennifer Shierlock; in addition to many other family and friends. In addition to her husband, she was preceded in death by her mother, Olga Hatton Michel; father, Paschel Aloyisius Michel; sister, Julia Michel Dyer; and many other family members and loved ones. Memorials may be made to the Wounded Warriors Project, P.O. Box 758516, Topeka, Kansas 66675, or to the Alzheimer's Association, P.O. Box 96011, Washington, DC 20090. Arrangements by J. Henry Stuhr, Inc. West Ashley Chapel. A memorial message may be sent to the family by visiting our website at www.jhenrystuhr.com.

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier from Apr. 1 to Apr. 2, 2025.

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Anne Beck

April 3, 2025

We have many happy memories from years enjoyed in the company of Chuck and Mary. She loved her family with all her heart. May you find comfort in this time of grief.
Anne and Charlie Beck

Karla Lynes

March 30, 2025

My heartfelt sympathies are with Honey's family. Colie, I love you to pieces. At the end of the day, remember to let yourself grieve. I am always here for you.

Barbara Wade

March 30, 2025

I went to High School with Mary, BE class of 61´. Our kids went to Nativity School where we served in the lunch room together. She was always fun to be around and such a sweet lady . My condolences to her family.
Barbara Campbell Wade

Annette Buero Gill

March 29, 2025

I remember Mary well. She was friendly, kind and had a knack for fashion. I recall her wearing straight skirts to school before the rest of us caught on.
At Blessed Sacrament Grammar School Mary and I were among the shortest girls in our class. This meant we got to be in the first row for class photographs.
In 1957, we students were fourteen. Graduation day was coming in June. As girls will do, we discussed among ourselves what we hoped to wear besides the required robe, hat and tassel to our graduation ceremony. Our usual footwear was oxfords, loafers, or flats. Our mothers agreed to allow us this bit of acknowledgement that we were growing up to be young ladies. It seems some of mothers were also chatting among themselves. Permission was granted and we purchased our first pair of heels. Would the extra height banish us shorties to the second row in our Graduation from Grammar School group shot.
Looking at my photo album, I see both Mary and me on the front row of the class photograph. Alongside of us are classmates Adrienne, Anita, and Cynthia. Lucky for us shorties the tall girls wore high heels too.
It was fun knowing Mary and in high school we found more commonality. She was a whiff of spring on a cold winter's day. Mary and I were chosen by Sister Loyola to ferry the right chemicals out for our chemistry lab experiments. I suppose we looked trustworthy and did a passable job because we were never scolded.
Mary was a good person and a good listener. Condolences to her family. - Annette Buero Gill

Linda Mains Underwood

March 29, 2025

You all are in my prayers and thoughts!
RIP Mary
Linda M underwood

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Memorial Events
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Apr

6

Visitation

5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m.

J. Henry Stuhr West Ashley Chapel

3360 Glenn McConnell Parkway, Charleston, SC 29414

Apr

6

Prayer Service

6:00 p.m.

J. Henry Stuhr West Ashley Chapel

3360 Glenn McConnell Parkway, Charleston, SC 29414

Apr

7

Mass of Christian Burial

11:30 a.m.

Church of the Nativity

1061 Folly Rd, SC

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3360 Glenn McConnell Parkway, Charleston, SC 29414

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