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Mary Alice Shuler Fleming

1933 - 2018

BORN

1933

DIED

2018

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J. Henry Stuhr West Ashley Chapel

3360 Glenn McConnell Parkway

Charleston, South Carolina

Mary Fleming Obituary

Mary Alice Shuler Fleming JAMES ISLAND - Mary Alice Shuler Fleming of James Island, South Carolina passed into the arms of her Lord on January 4, 2018. Born in Charleston on August 25, 1933, Mary was one of five daughters born to Rubin Asbury Shuler and Barbara Ellen Grimes Shuler. Mary was a lifelong member of the James Island Baptist Church where her parents were founding members. Mary was active in the church, taught Sunday school and sang in the choir where she met the man she would marry. Mary and Van Fleming were married on December 29, 1951, and raised four children. Mary was also a Cub Scout leader. After all of Mary's children were enrolled in school Mary took a job in the patient admissions department at MUSC where she worked for 15 years. Mary was predeceased by her parents and sister Julia Shuler Pearson. (Porter) Mary leaves behind her devoted husband of 66 years, Van, children, Van "Ricky" Fleming (Terri), their children, Melissa, sons Van "Chad"(Laura), and Bryan (Fawn). Son Dennis Asbury Fleming (Beth) their children Collin and Abigail Fleming Speights (Paul) Daughter, Mary"Karen" Foreman (Doug). Their children Dr. Allison F Godwin (Thomas), sons Andrew Foreman, Austin Foreman and Christopher P Foreman Daughter, Grace Elizabeth "Beth" Fleming Koon (Dr. James Koon). Their children, Hannah, son Matthew, daughter Megan, Mary is survived by her by three sisters, Barbara Shuler Weeks (JS), Sarah Shuler Hilton (Dr. Ray D. Hilton) and Carolyn Shuler Benton (Randall) along with 8great-grandchildren and numerous nieces and nephews. In lieu of flowers, friends can donate to the Susan G Komen Breast Cancer Foundation or The Wounded Warrior Foundation. A Visitation will take place on Friday, January 12, 2018, from 5:00 to 7:00 p.m. in the J. Henry Stuhr, Inc., West Ashley Chapel. The Funeral Service will take place on Saturday, January 13, 2018, at 1:00 p.m. in James Island Baptist Church. Visit our guestbook at www.legacy.com/obituaries/ charleston

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier from Jan. 8 to Jan. 9, 2018.

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Judy & Jeanne Knoechel

January 11, 2018

To Uncle Van and our cousins,

MA (Mary Alice) is now with her heavenly father whom she worshiped. She was a truly Southern, Christian lady who represented the best of humanity.

In life it is never the material things that are important, just the memories. The Knoechel family was so fortunate throughout our lives to be able to visit Charleston and stay with Uncle Van and Aunt Mary and our cousins Ricky, Dennis, Karen and Beth. Even though we grew up, 600 miles away in Cincinnati, we knew we were always welcome in the Fleming home and we have such wonderful memories of our times together.

We will miss Mary Alice greatly, but I know that she is now with her family who has gone before and her savior Jesus Christ.

LINDA GRIMES TISDALE

January 10, 2018

DEAR VAN AND FAMILY, SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. MAY GOD HOLD YOU AND YOUR FAMILY IN THE PALM OF HANDS. YOU ARE IN OUR PRAYERS AND THOUGHTS DURING THIS MOST DIFFICULT TIME. I CAN'T BELIEVE HOW MUCH SHE LOOKS LIKE AUNT ELLEN. SHE WAS SO MUCH LIKE HER LOVE LINDA AND CLARK AND FAMILY.

Sheila Reames

January 10, 2018

You're in my thoughts and prayers and may God's love give you strength during your time
of sorrow. We will all miss Mary and her beautiful smile...and her visits to come get her hair done. God bless you all.

Kathryn Cox

January 9, 2018

Van And Children And Families:
So sorry to hear of Mary's passing. She truly was a wonderful example of a Christian loving devoted woman of God. I am so glad she passed through my life at James Island Baptist and we shared many good times with our Sunday School Class. I will treasure this special friendship all my life. Condolences and love to all of you in your great loss. Keep your memories close in the days ahead and may our Lord give you peace. Know others share in your sorrow and prayers are lifted up for all of you in the days ahead as you go forward without Mary.
God Bless
Kathy Cox
Charleston SC

JM

January 9, 2018

Please accept my heartfelt sympathy for the loss of your loved one. Hopefully reflecting on all the good times you've shared together will help ease the pain that you feel. May "the God of all comfort" strengthen you at this time of sadness, and may His promise for the future bring you peace. Hosea 13:14.

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