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Mark Tiedje Obituary

Mark C. Tiedje MT. PLEASANT - Mark C. Tiedje, 78, passed away peacefully Sunday, February 26, 2017, at MUSC Surgical Trauma Unit in Charleston, S.C. He attended Cristobal High School in the Panama Canal Zone. He was a graduate of Rollins College in Winter Park, Florida, where he earned a degree in technical theatre. He worked as Technical Director at WFTV, Channel 9, in Orlando, Florida. During his college years, he worked in summer stock with The Valley Players, in Holyoke, Massachusetts. In 1970, he moved to Charleston, South Carolina, where he was Director of Promotion and Publicity at both WCBD-TV, Channel 2, and WCIV, Channel 4. In 2004, he retired from the College of Charleston, where he was Media Relations Coordinator for the School of the Arts. He was a member of the International Alliance of Theatrical Stage Employees (IATSE) for sixteen years. He will be missed by those who encountered his loving uplifting spirit. Mark is survived by his husband, John Coles, of Mount Pleasant, his nieces, Debbie (Steve) Smith of Mooresville, N.C., and Julie Coles, of Columbia, S.C., and nephews, John (Cameron) Tiedje of Gorham, Maine, and Jay (Teresa) Coles of Lexington, S.C. A celebration of his life will be announced at a future date. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the School of the Arts at the College of Charleston. Visit our guestbook at www.legacy.com/obituaries/ charleston

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier from Feb. 27 to Feb. 28, 2017.

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Jim Bleyer

February 21, 2024

I always remember Mark....a great person!

Bill Thompson

February 22, 2020

I remember a gentle, witty, humorous man with a generous spirit and an arresting way of beholding the world. He is missed.

Jennie C. Olbrych

March 6, 2017

John and I were shocked and so very saddened to learn of Mark's death. What a lovely human being! Always welcoming, never in too much of a rush to speak, wildly and wonderfully creative (like you, John) , and a lover of RCMH. Thankful to have known him, for the happy memories, and so sad I will not see him again in this life. "I always thought I would see you again." John, holding you in my thoughts.

March 4, 2017

Mark has been a blessing beyond words to us, always joyeous and so loving. We will miss him and love him always.

Norman and Pauline Dials

Liz Valentine Fallon

March 4, 2017

Mark was one of the sweetest people I came across at CofC, that is besides you John. I will always treasure my memories working under him in the Media Relations office. He was a fantastic mentor and dear friend. I'm heartbroken that I never got the chance to get back down south and spend time with you both. John, I'm sending my love and prayers to you during this time and know you will never be far from my thoughts.

Madelon Grassau

March 3, 2017

I will miss Mark's wit and the love and the fun he shared. So happy we got to spend time together after all those years at Cristobal High School. Sympathy to the family.

March 2, 2017

Words cannot begin to express how much Greg and I love Mark and John! We always said they were our best couple's friends. I am so grateful that we are all on the Time and all Eternity Plan, and will be together forever. Mark and John, your Mr. Greg and Miss Ann will always be with you in love. #LoveIsEternal

Gary Johnston

March 2, 2017

This picture of Mark is probably the only time I have ever seen him not smiling or laughing...I will miss him so, yet cannot help but smile when thinking about him.RIP

Bill Thompson

March 2, 2017

Mark was a fine gentleman, humorous and wise, with a generous heart.

Peter Boltz

March 1, 2017

I can't seem to find the words to say how I feel about the loss of Mark. Memories keep coming to me, and every time they do, I have to remind myself I am not going to see him again. He was my friend, and I'm going to miss him.

Roger Belk

March 1, 2017

I looked up to him when I was at CoC. A very inspirational human being. A very human...human being. I worked in film for a number of years. I must say...his influence was always there.

Debra Bueneman

March 1, 2017

Mark will be forever in my heart. He was the most joy-full person I've ever known, a wonderful mentor, and a fun fellow film fan. Rest in peace, my dear.

Mike and Sally Bouknight

March 1, 2017

Mark always had a welcoming smile, with interest in the other, and something interesting to say. His memory will live on. John and his family and friends will be in our thoughts.

Dorene Boltz

March 1, 2017

Mark was one of the brightest lights I have ever had the privilege of knowing. His unstinting generosity of spirit and good will to all was an inspiration for everyone around him. I shall miss his presence, his stories, and his outrageous (although always heartfelt and genuine) compliments.

John, I cannot imagine your sorrow, and I will always hold the vision of the two of you in my heart as the perfect expression of love and devotion, and as the model to which we should all aspire.
All my love and deepest compassion,
Dodie

Margaret & Reg Yager

March 1, 2017

A woderful,loving, talented man who will be sadly missed, A beautiful friend.

Jim Bleyer

February 28, 2017

Mark was truly a wonderful, caring person. I feel so fortunate to have known him for 57 years. Prayers and thoughts are with John and the entire family.

Carroll Waiboer

February 28, 2017

What a lovely, lovely man. He was a very special part of my time at C of C. May God's peace be with his family.

Frank Thompson

February 28, 2017

This is completely heartbreaking. What a wonderful, sweet soul, too full of life to be gone. Love to John and all of Mark's friends and family.

Pat Boltz

February 28, 2017

Mark's gentleness, love and joy of life will forever be a guiding light. How lucky I was to know you. Be at peace love Namaste

Joretta Rawl

February 28, 2017

Dear Coles,
Sorry to hear about your Uncle Mark.
Joe and I send you love with our prayers.

Emmie Beck

February 28, 2017

Peace my dear friend. You will be forever missed

Dave Maves

February 28, 2017

One of the sweetest most helpful and cheerful fellows to ever grace my life or anybody else's. Will always be in my memory.

Jill Bahr

February 28, 2017

What a loss for the Charleston Theatre community. Don & Patricia Cantwell and I send our prayers and sympathy

College students who were lucky to have Mark as their mentor.

Rick Cole

February 28, 2017

Laughs were always to be had with Mark and John!

Rick Cole

February 28, 2017

Rick Cole

February 28, 2017

I will miss Mark so much. I have lost a friend and mentor. I will have many laughs and memories to remember him.

Joanne Magyar

February 28, 2017

Our Beautiful Friend Mark, forever in our hearts. We will miss you always.
Joanne and Alex

Michael Haga

February 28, 2017

Mark was a kind man who had a ready, welcoming smile for everyone. John, we will keep both of you in our thoughts.

Chip Reif

February 28, 2017

The world has lost a brilliant light, and I have lost a great friend. May his light shine on in each of us.

Debra Tiedje Smith

February 28, 2017

I will always keep Uncle Mark in my heart .He was an amazing man and my husband Steve and I treasure the times we had together with him and John.

Pattie Rivers

February 28, 2017

Prayers and love to John and the family. Mark was such an amazing person and will be missed by so many friends. Loved knowing and working with him at SOTA. So sorry.

Mari Gramling

February 28, 2017

No matter what was going on in my life, Mark was always there for 35 years with love and support. I will miss you terribly, my wonderful friend.

Laura Hines

February 28, 2017

I remember Mark and John so very fondly from our days at the College of Charleston. I am so sorry that he has left us. He was a very sweet, gentle and clever person and he will be missed.

Cheryl vL Smithem

February 28, 2017

John, my heart hurts for you. What a loss to our world to see Mark pass from it. He was a loving, kind, generous person. It was a privilege to know him and work in collaboration with him when I was Executive Director at the Charleston Area Arts Council. I will never forget his caring manner and concern for all...nor his wit and humor!

Joel Madray

February 28, 2017

So sad to hear the news. I always valued Mark and John's friendship. I bragged at work about keeping in touch with one of my favorite teachers from college. It amazed me that his spirit was always so youthful and full of life. His joy of the world was an inspiration to me. To repeat his some of his last words:
"you are a gift", Mark.

John, you both are always in my prayers and thoughts. Love Always.

Martha Tumblin

February 28, 2017

Your light will forever shine on in our hearts....
Martha, Bruce, & Sarah...

Martha Tumblin

February 28, 2017

Dear John,
I have no words to adequately express the depths of shock & loss that our family is feeling for Mark & the pain that we are experiencing along with you.
You & Mark showed us all how to love unconditionally, live life fully in the moment, & embrace every opportunity to live, love, learn, & laugh!
We love you and will always here for you!
Martha, Bruce, & Sarah ❤

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