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Marcia Hessert Obituary

Marcia Ann Hessert Charleston - Marcia Ann Hessert, 76, of Charleston, South Carolina, entered into eternal rest on Monday, March 1, 2021. The family will receive friends Sunday, March 7, 2021 from 1:00 pm to 3:00 pm in the J. Henry Stuhr, Inc, West Ashley Chapel, 3360 Glenn McConnell Parkway, Charleston, SC 29414. Marcia was born March 1, 1945 in Frackville, Pennsylvania, daughter of Michael John Stetts and Sophia Stetts. After high school, she entered Albert Einstein Medical Center, graduating as a registered nurse, and most recently worked at Palmetto Lowcountry Behavioral Health. While working at Hahnemann University Hospital, she met her husband, Dr. Col. Edmund Hessert, Jr., who preceded her in death in 1978. Marcia is survived by her two sons, Edmund C Hessert III, Michael B Hessert, two sisters, Michele Shinn, Deborah Stetts; and brother, Michael Stetts, three grandchildren, Katelyn, Edmund IV, and Leigha; great-grandson Rubin, a step-daughter, Adria, and step-grandchildren, Joe, Edmund, Steven, and Alexis. All who loved her dearly will never forget her compassion, wit, charm, grace, and unconditional love and friendship. She loved the fine arts, reading, travel, and was an avid ballroom dancer at Ballroom Dance Charleston. In addition, she co-owned a ladies clothing boutique, Marchele's LTD, with her sister for 10 years. Please consider a donation to the American Heart Association or Mental Health America 5060 Dorchester Rd Ste 200, Charleston, SC 29418. A memorial message may be sent to the family by visiting our website at www.jhenrystuhr.com. Visit our guestbook at legacy.com/obituaries/charleston

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier from Mar. 3 to Mar. 4, 2021.

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Connie Vance

February 23, 2025

We were at BDC last night and I talked to Sharon about still missing Marcia after all this time. There is a great picture on the wall right over the reception desk - keeping an eye on us!

Allen and Connie Vance

February 23, 2023

We think of Marcia often. She was one of a kind and we miss her.

Jim and Melissa Haskell

March 1, 2022

We miss you dearest friend. We often recall all our times together, and what a comfort to have those memories - they always leave us smiling.

Allen and Connie Vance

February 23, 2022

It's been a year but we still think of Marcia often and always with a smile.

Kathleen (Whitaker) Packer

September 19, 2021

I just came across Marcia's obituary so sad to see. All my sympathy and prayers to her family.
I grew with Marcia we had so much fun in school growing up in the Coal Region and the Patches in Pa.

Steve & Jody Martindale

March 12, 2021

We loved Marcia. She will be greatly missed.

Stephen and Barbara Pollock

March 7, 2021

Marcia, we are going to miss you so much. Nobody knew parties like you and nobody had your spark. Thank you so much for organizing and managing parties, snacks and all the other things which made Ballroom Dance so special. We will miss your flair for design and decorations and your knowledge of our events. And speaking of Flair, no one had your flair for dress. Your idea of dressing down was others' idea of dressing up. We love you and miss you but know you are ready for the Next Dance.
Steve and Barbara Pollock Ballroom Dance Charleston

Ann Marie Gallagher

March 6, 2021

One of my best friends growing up from 1st to 12th grade. So many good and happy memories together. I was so looking forward to wishing Marcia a happy birthday and very sad to hear of her passing. Sending condolences to her sons, Michele, Deborah, and Mickey.
Rest In Peace, my friend, until we meet again.
- Ann Marie

Betty C.

March 6, 2021

I was so shocked to hear Marcia had left us. She was so full of life. The Dance Club will never be the same without her. Condolences to her whole family . RIP Marcia.

Marcia - New Year's Eve 2018

Allen and Connie Vance

March 6, 2021

Marcia was so very special to hundreds of people but to Ballroom Dance Charleston, she was the Queen. It was sheer joy to watch her transform a plain room into a beautiful and festive place to be -- all without any plan at all. She called it "fly by the seat of my pants" -- I call it genius. We are so happy to have had Marcia in our lives and will remember her with a smile.

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Phinie Lisignoli

March 5, 2021

How delightful it has been knowing Marcia. The many trips and adventures I shared with her will always hold excellent memories.
On one occasion in Myrtle Beach I neglectfully locked her and Michele out of the condo.
Marcia was so gracious in forgiving me. However, to this day, I will forever be relieved of possessing any room keys.
I always marveled at the caravans the Stetts family would make during the holidays. I know that family love will hold comfort for you all.
Love you guys,
Phinie

Ruth Freedenberg

March 5, 2021

I am so very sad. I knew Marcia from our love of ballroom dancing. She will be so missed by all who knew her from the Ballroom Dance community. She was such a vibrant ray of sunshine. The Ballroom Dance Club will not be the same without her.

Phyllis Myers

March 5, 2021

I am so sorry we have lost Marcia. I didn´t know her well, but I do know she was a lovely woman with a loving spirit that I shall not forget. I send prayers for her family.

Randi Weinstein

March 5, 2021

Just wanted to let you know what an extraordinary woman you're mom was. I got to know her when we worked together at Palmetto Pathways and her positive attitude and upbeat personality was incredible. I loved our honest talks and loved her passion was ballroom dancing. She was a true treasure.

Barbara Cornes

March 5, 2021

May she dance with the Lord, now!

Jean Nisbet

March 5, 2021

Marcia you were my Hero! Your love of life, smile and style glowed from within. Your presence was felt wherever you were. You will always make me smile and be thankful for the memories of times we shared. You will always be my Hero! May you now Dance every day.

Tom Grutza

March 4, 2021

My deepest condolences and sympathy to Her entire Family. All of You will be in my prayers always, especially at this time. May God Bless and Watch over all of You always, especially at this time.

M. Elaine Proctor

March 4, 2021

Was so saddened to read of Marcia's passing. She was such a unique person. I worked with her at the Institute of Psychiatry. We worked on different floors but we were like family. She was a petite powerhouse when she needed to be. She was such a personable lady with such class, sparkling smile, and fashion sense. Sending my deepest sympathy and prayers to her family. She's in heaven with my oldest brother Steve who also worked with her. May God Bless.

Jim and Melissa Haskell

March 4, 2021

Be immersed in peace and love our dear sweet Marcia. We will miss your funny wit, your loving soul, and your exquisite sense of taste and style. Dance on our dear friend. You will always be in our hearts and in our memories. You will always be loved.

March 4, 2021

Our deepest sympathies go out to Marcia's family and friends. We are so very sorry for your loss.

Bob Clark and Jimmy Polston

Lesli Trainor

March 4, 2021

I am so sorry to hear about Marcia. One of those rare individuals.....a true optomist.

Marylou Schabel

March 4, 2021

Enjoyed working with Marcia. RIP. Mary Lou Schabel

Donna Cool

March 4, 2021

Dear Hessert Family

Marcia and I were co-workers many years ago on 10W. She is one you do not ever forget. Her charm, wit, compassion, kindness, and style leaves a f memory that can always bring a smile. I am sorry for the loss of your mother, grandmother, and sister. Praying that you find comfort loving memories.

Kathryn Stetts

March 4, 2021

Dear Edmund, Mike and family we are sorry about the passing of your mom. She will be remembered for her warmth and smile. SORRY we can not come in person but ed is scheduled for his covid vaccine and is unable to reach We send you our love and if we can help in anyway or if you visit pa come see us
Love God bless
Ed and kathy stetts and family

American Heart Association

March 4, 2021

May your memories of the wonderful times you shared with your loved one comfort you and your family, today and always.

David Bowen

March 4, 2021

To the Hessert/Stetts Family

Knew your mom/gram way back when (the early/mid 60s) and as most people to remain in our home town, lost track of her when she went to school in Phillie . . . BUT when I worked for Ashland Regional Medical Center (ARMC) a nurse who also knew her asked me to get in touch and see if she would move back, alas I was unable to get an address or even a phone number and back then we did not have the computers we have today. So all/ALL I can say as a friend from 50+ years ago, SHE will be missed. I will take out a memorial with the Heart Association and the Local Frackville Library. God Bless and know her memory will stay with US until we meet again in Heaven!

David

Jim Hayes

March 4, 2021

To the Hessert family,
I am very sorry to hear of your loss.Mrs. Hessert was a customer of mine and I thoroughly enjoyed doing work for her.She was a "doll".I know that she will be dearly missed.All of your are in my thoughts and prayers.God bless.

Dan Coleman

March 4, 2021

Michele,
May you find peace in the memory of your sister. I had the pleasure of meeting her, and can attest to her love of life...just inspiring to be around!

Sue and John Hennigan

March 3, 2021

Dear Marcia. John and I will always remember and cherish your welcoming us into the dance club 4 years ago. You have always been a tireless advocate of the dance club, and your generous and positive spirit set a tone in the club that made it an inviting and thoroughly enjoyable experience. How many decorations did you hang? How many refreshments did you purchase? How many smiles did you share with us? We will miss you and will keep you in our hearts as we dance again.

Joyce and Jerry Beach

March 3, 2021

We will miss her sexy little walk, her dramatic style, her smile, her spiky hairdos and her contagious laugh. One of my favorite memories was Marcia's 40th birthday. She was the first if us to hit that milestone. We all wore bright red t-shirts that shouted Lordy, Lordy Marcia's 40! A fun night shared with friends and her terrific sister and partner at Marcheles, Michelle! Love you and will miss you Marcia

Nancy Burke

March 3, 2021

Michele & Family, My condolences to all of you. I was so sorry to hear that Marcia passed away on Monday. She will be terribly missed. Her smile and upbeat attitude was contagious. Much love to all of you.

Marjorie Williams

March 3, 2021

Marcia was a wonderful nurse and supportive coworker and always FUN. RIP Marcia!

Joyce Peterson

March 3, 2021

I will never forget your glitz, love of life, family, and friends. I’ll spray Chanel # 5 everyday to keep you close. I will remember all of our travels and fun times. Thank you for all the care you gave me when I was unable to help myself. Most of all, thanks for becoming a part of my family and sharing your family with me. I miss you my beautiful friend. Who can I knit feathers for now? jp

Freda D

March 3, 2021

My heart and prayers go out to Marcia´s family, she will be missed.

Joyce Potter

March 2, 2021

Prayers going up for Marcia's family, coworkers, and friends. Marcia was a talented nurse, kind coworker, and a wonderful friend. She will be missed by those in every area of her life.

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