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Sue Chumley
January 6, 2012
Mary Harriet, We were so sorry to hear of Preacher Carter's (Brother)passing away. We sure have missed your family since you left us. David Salter sent me an email and let us know. He was a great preacher and friend. We will always remember him. Please get in touch with us. We are praying for you and your family. Love Sue and Gene Chumley
Jamie Jordan
December 30, 2011
Mary Harriet & Family - I was so sorry to hear of Lem's passing. You all were a big part of my life when you were in Pacolet and I will never forget it. Know that you all are in prayers now and always.
December 22, 2011
Alice & Family- after I attended your dads funeral, I felt the need to come back and write something else. The service for him was awesome- you could tell that so many folks thought the world of him and it just showed and was known in all the many stories they share about him and his life. I know you and your family will miss him so much here on this earth, but you will rejoice with him again some day. Hold onto all the wonderful memories that you have of and shared with him- may God be with each of you each day as you heal through his loss. Love you all- JoAnn White, Elgin, SC
Robin Betsill-Cohen
December 22, 2011
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Tom Ellison
December 21, 2011
Mary Harriet and Family - our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Tom and Gail Ellison
December 21, 2011
Mary Harriet, Brother and I were classmates during our high school days at Manning HS and during our fours years at Wofford. I last saw him at our 50-year class reunion in Manning in 2006 when he told me about his bout with cancer. I will miss him.
Irvin Butler
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Jimmy Stuckey
December 21, 2011
I grew up in Bishopville and knew Brother in Manning. We were classmates at Wofford. Brother was a splendid minister and servant of the Almighty, and a credit to us all. We grieve with you.
Louise Long
December 21, 2011
Mary Harriett, My thoughts and prayers have been and continue to be with you and your family on Lem's passing. He was a wonderful minister to me and my family while he was at Mauldin. May God comfort you during this time and going forward.
Theron Cochran
December 21, 2011
Lem (Brother) and I were classmates at Wofford from 1956 to 1960. I have fond memories of him while at Wofford. I am certainly sorry to hear about his passing.
Loretta Jeffers-Price
December 21, 2011
Mary Harriet, words cannot express how much you and Lem meant to me and my family during your time at Fair Lawn UMC. You, with your wonderful direction of our children's choir and Lem with his shoot-from-the-hip, straight-talkin' sermons. He was truly a kind, dedicated, and wonderful man who touched countless lives in a positive way. I join you in your sorrow for his loss. Fondly, Loretta Jeffers Price.
Hallett Worrell
December 20, 2011
"Brother" was such an example for all of us. I shall never forget Pat and me visiting with both of you in the isolation ward in Marion when Lem's illness first began. Even then "Brother" was a witness to the power and mercy of God. My prayers have been with all of you especially during these last few weeks and I will continue to lift you up as you begin to live with your loss. Remember, "Brother" has seen the face of Jesus and knows no more pain. May this knowledge bring you comfort and give you strength. In His and my love, Hallett
Randy Smith
December 19, 2011
Mary Harriet, Sarah and I were saddened to hear today of Lem's passing, and are holding you and the "girls" and their families in prayer.
December 19, 2011
Lem was always kind, supportive, and interested in me. He had such a collegial spirit. Days before Christmas I am reminded of an Irish legend: "Whoever's born at Christmas time is favored from the start; whoever dies at Christmas time goes straight to paradise." Well done, Lem. You were one of a kind!
Barbi(Lomas) & Al Wactor
December 19, 2011
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. May your memories bring you peace. God bless.
John Weber, Jr
December 19, 2011
Mary Harriet and Family,
I want to tell you all how sorry I was to hear of the passing of Brother Carter.
I never had the pleasure of meeting him or any of the children but my heartfelt sympathy goes out to all of you and you are all in my prayers.
If I can be of any assistance to any of you, please feel free to call me.
Alice Jones
December 19, 2011
Cean and Lou,
I extend my sincere sympathy to you and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.God Bless.
Love, Alice
Joe Harrington
December 19, 2011
Thoughts and prayers for all of the family. Lem was my good friend and pastor many years ago in Mauldin. He will be remembered well.
December 19, 2011
We send our sympaathy to the family, however, we know beyond a doubt that Brother is in a great place praising God in the highest.
Kaye & Steve Maynard
Friends of Lem & Greer Wiggins
December 19, 2011
Y'all are in our thoughts and prayers. We have great memories of our times together and all those wonderful years at Wofford.
We love you
Donna and Dick
David Salter
December 19, 2011
Dottie and I extend our sincere sympathy to Mary Harriet, Susan, Alice,Leila, and all of the family. Lem and Mary Harriet were like second parents to all of us teenagers of Warrenville UMC, his first church. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely,
David and Dottie Salter
December 19, 2011
Our deepest condolences to all the family. May God bless all of you. Love Tina and Danny White
December 19, 2011
Dearest Family,"Brother" was a wonderful gentleman that I had the pleasure of treating to lunch one Sunday while living in Bennettsville. We enjoyed remembering our hometown and all the connections we shared. He once was employed by my father while he was in high school. What a wonderful gentleman he was! My prayers will be with you and yours. Always, Eppie Mills Adams
SCOA Radiology
December 19, 2011
Truely an asset to society and man. We can say that we were truely blessed to have know this man and his family. For the past 9 years it has been a blessing to know and become friends of you both. Not only have you provided us with life lesssons, but words of encouragement to live by. And for that, "We Thank You." Harriet, the Radiology staff at SCOA wants to send warm thoughts and embraced hugs to you and your family at this time.
Philip, Donnie, Teresa, Dawn. Aimy
December 19, 2011
I am so sorry to hear of "Brother's" passing. You the girls and their families have been in my thoughts and prayers for sometime now. Prayerfully yours, Lynn Westbury
December 19, 2011
Alice,Larry and boys, Please know that you are in my heart and thoughts. Love always Jennifer Long Warlick
December 19, 2011
Alice, Larry, Carter, Caleb & all the other family members- our prayers and thoughts will still continue to be with each of you in the days ahead- we know this has been a very difficult time for all of you. Your dad was such a strong person and was loved by so many- hold onto all the wonderful and fun memories that you all shared for his many years of living- God Bless you all- Love you all so much- JoAnn, Bruce, and Brittney White
Saundra Taylor
December 19, 2011
My prayers to Mary Harriet and your family. I will always remember Brother and you from years ago and how you both touched my life in many ways. I think of you often.and am so sorry to hear of Brother's passage from this earth. May God hold you in the palm of his hand during this time of sorrow.
The Staff of Caughman-Harman Funeral Home
December 19, 2011
Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.
Josefa Bethea Wall
December 19, 2011
We will miss our dearest friend. Our great memories will never cease. We love each of you dearly.
Bryon and Josefa Bethea Wall
Carroll Player, DDS
December 19, 2011
Mary Harriett and Family,
"Brother" was a wonderful freshman roommate at Wofford and was destined for a great future. His kind and personable way with people had a lasting influence with so many good Methodists and others who knew Lem. He will be greatly missed by all of us. May God bring you peace during this time.
Carroll and Nancy Player
The Martin's
December 19, 2011
My love to you Harriet and the family. I speak of you and Lem often, remembering the times on the Marion District. Lem will always hold a special place in my heart. Our love to you this day. Remember this is not a period but a semi-colon in "Brother's" life. Billy and Jimelvia
Janice Suggs
December 19, 2011
Sorry to hear of Lem's death. He married my husband and me at Fairlawn UMC in 1975. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
Tom and Janice (Rucker) Suggs
Carol Dawn Young
December 19, 2011
Mary Harriet and family,
I am so very sorry to hear of Lem's passing. He touched many people's lives and will live in our hearts forever. My prayers are with you all.
Blessings,
Carol Dawn Poyner-Young
The Taylors
December 19, 2011
Lem was a wonderful servant leader for the United Methodist Church and affected so many lives and churches for good. We are praying for you Mary Harriet, and for your family. Grace and peace, Stephen and Cynthia Taylor
Clayborne and Judy Cranford
December 19, 2011
Dear Mary Harriet and Family---
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May God comfort and bless.
Kristin Long Dawsey
December 18, 2011
Thank you to the entire Carter family for your service at MUMC. Many lives were changed, saved, and foundations formed within its halls, and Reverend Carter was a large part of this. My prayers of comfort are with you tonight and during this season as you celebrate the life of a wonderful man!
Love in Christ,
Kristin Long Dawsey
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