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Chris Rasmussen
July 20, 2011
Dear Brian and Family,
It is so hard to be far away when news came of your loss of such a wonderful person. My love for Karen will always be strong. She has been such a great friend and cared for me no matter what my involvement with the church was. I will miss her greatly and will always keep her in my mind and heart. My thoughts are with you.
Robin Newton
July 19, 2011
Dear Oborn Family,
I was a roommate of Karen's at USU when she was studying for her teaching degree. We had a lot of fun together and we were blessed in our apartment with her even temper and fun nature--I still remember how she would read us picture books in lively character voices, and how she enjoyed eating cake batter with the back of a wooden spoon!
We kept in contact for years with Christmas cards and were very lucky when she attended the wedding reception of our oldest daughter.
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family at this time.
Neil Sandberg
July 18, 2011
Our hearts are broken with the loss of a beautiful Wife, Mother & Friend, I never forgot about her, she is great service on chicago mission with deaf program, She really enjoyed with us. She always laugh and so smile at me. I know she is special lady and wonderful her example to other people or Friends. I'm sure miss her very much
Neil Sandberg
Lisa Vipperman
July 13, 2011
Karen Tolley was a sweet and friendly girl at a time in my life when I was neither. I knew the Oborn family from growing up in Glendale. I offer my condolences to both families, especially since Karen's death came so soon after Brent's death.
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John D Monson
July 10, 2011
Brian,
I stopped in the bank Friday to see you and inquired how your wife was doing and was shocked to learn that she had passed away. My sincere condolences. I sympathize with your loss. I've appreciated all you have done for me over the years. Thank goodness for the gospel and we know we will see our wives again.
Dave & Cindy Westover
July 10, 2011
We are so sorry to hear of Karens passing. She was a beautiful lady. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love, Dave, Cindy, Brittney, Nicole Westover
Middaugh Family
July 9, 2011
Brother Oborn and family, How sadened we are for your great loss. Our dear Angel friend Karen touched all who knew her. We are all better for having known her. May God bless you at this time.
Birgit (Wandtke) Pullens
July 9, 2011
My heart is broken for the Tolley family as we had shared our youth together. Love you all! Birgit (Wandtke) Pullens
Trina Fitzpatrick
July 8, 2011
Brian,
I was so sorry to hear about your lovely wife. My deepest sympathies. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Mrs. Davis
July 8, 2011
Oborn Family
Please accept my deepest sympathies. Karen was a great mother to have raised such beautiful children. They have always been so respectful and kind to all, a joy to have in my classes. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. I just wanted you to know that I care about you and pray that you will be comforted.
Jana Trigg
July 7, 2011
We love you and your family and will cherish those memories always. Our hearts and prayers are with you at this time. How blessed we are to have the knowledge of the gospel that our families are eternal.
Rob Barney
July 7, 2011
Brian and family,
Karen will be missed by all of us. She is quite the angel; now officially I suppose. You are in our thoughts and prayers and we wish you an extra measure of God's love through the coming days, weeks and years. I wish I could be there in person; but know that you have love and support from around the world.
July 7, 2011
"For those paradise-bound,
What seemed to be a grim ballet of separation,with but one pirouette,
turns out to be a resplendent reunion."
This quote from Elder Neal Maxwell has brought us much comfort. We hope it softens losing such a dear person as Karen. Lovingly, Glen & Lou Anna Fifield
Julie Brown
July 6, 2011
Dear Oborn and Tolley families: There are no words to truly console you at this time. My heart aches for your families. So hard to lose a spouse, mother, sister, daughter-in-law and a great friend. I am thinking and praying for both of your families. May you feel the peace the gospel brings to you at this time. May you know of the love that Heavenly Father has for you, and may your hearts be comforted.
Scott Scoville
July 6, 2011
Karen was that nice girl in my algebra class in '75. Knowing the bud, I am certain the flower is greatly missed. I have high regard for Brian and pray for him strength and comfort.
Theresa Prince
July 6, 2011
We would like to offer our sincere condolences to the Oborn family. We will miss Karen deeply. Her laughter and smile are in bedded in out hearts. We have had some good times, and her kindness will never be forgotten. Thank you for letting us be apart of your family throughout the years. May the Lord bless you all with the comfort you seek...
Theresa, Leo, Robert and Kristy Prince
Elder Kuhn
July 6, 2011
Oborn Family, my thoughts and prayers are with you. I love you all very much, and I am so grateful to have you in my life. I feel so blessed to be your neighbor and to have been able to learn and grow with Karen and your family. She is a wonderful example to everyone, and has been a light in my life. I pray that the Lord will continue to comfort and bless you.
Nolan Bitters
July 6, 2011
Bishop Oborn and Family, expressing our most sincere condolences and our love to you. Karen is a beautiful person and has touched our lives with her wonderful smile and Christ-like love. We have all been blessed to know her and all your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sandra & Nolan Bitters and family.
Heather Hamlet
July 6, 2011
One of the qualities that I admired the most about Karen was her positive attitude about everything. She was one of the most helpful, caring, people I have ever known. I am so sorry for your loss.
John Nash
July 6, 2011
Dear Brian and children, When Vonnie told us of the difficulty Karen was experiencing, our memories flashed back to her mother, who was a dear friend and associate many years ago. I am grateful for the brief, but fulfilling association we shared before you spread your wings and left us. We send our love on the gossamer arms of the Spirit and rest assured that God's tenderest awareness will envelop you. John and Mary Nash
ralph and cindy moss
July 6, 2011
Oborn family, we are so sorry for your loss. karen was a special person...always smiling and making others do the same...she will be missed by all.
ralph and cindy moss
July 6, 2011
Oborn family, we are so sorry for your loss. karen was a special person...always smiling and making others do the same...she will be missed by all.
Lynda Hammond-Lopez
July 6, 2011
Leslie & Family,
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
"When someone you love becomes a memory, that memory becomes a treasure"
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Trisha Dobson Culler
July 6, 2011
Brian and Family, what a trying time for you. The Lord will bless you and you will be together again. Karen was always so sweet. Your support of our family in January meant so much to us. Know of our love for your family.
Sarra Nielson
July 6, 2011
Emily,
Your mom has always been a sweet and kindhearted woman. I know she has done very well in raising you and your siblings. You have a wonderful family and each of you have traits and memories of her that you will be able to share with your future families. She is in the best place possible and will be able to watch over you peacefully.
Audrey Mann
July 6, 2011
Karen was one of the first I met in this ward. She was so caring and thoughtful. My thoughts and prayers are with her family.
July 6, 2011
Brian, we are so very sorry to learn of your loss. Our thoughts and best wishes are with you.
Don Barnett
Dorothy Harris
Susan Vieregge Caruso
July 6, 2011
I love this photo! I am deeply saddened to hear of Karen's passing, a beautiful and oh-so sweet and beloved daughter of God. She truly lived a Christ-like life. My heart is weeping for the Tolley and Oborn family at this time. I went to school with Janette and got to know Karen too. We, who are left behind, are weeping, while those on the other side rejoice for her honorable return and welcome her with open arms! We know our separation is but a small moment. May peace and comfort be with you.
Karen Kuhn
July 6, 2011
Brian, Emily, Evan, William, and Abbey,
Our deepest condolences are with you at this time. What a wonderful wife, mother and friend that you were blessed to live with here on this earth, and then will be able to again in the eternities. We feel so lucky to have the privilege to live next door to such an amazing family. Karen was the most Christlike, selfless, and loving person that would do anything for anyone and at anytime. Please know that you are in our hearts and our prayers. We love all of you very much.
Peter, Karen, Alex, Sarah, David, Ben, and Brittany Kuhn
Amber Gillespie
July 6, 2011
Karen touched my life and she probably didn't even know it! When I moved into the ward she was the first person who talked to me and would come to see how I was doing often! She made me feel very welcome in the ward, when no one else did! She is truly an angel and will be missed! Amber Gillespie
Martin Lee
July 6, 2011
Brian,
From my family to yours, our prayers and thoughts go out to you and your family. You and Karen are great examples of caring and compassion. We hope you find comfort in your testimony of the gospel.
London Riding
July 6, 2011
It broke my heart when I heard of her passing. She genuinely was a great person and made an impression on so many people. What a kind and wonderful person. She will be truly missed. So grateful for the gospel and the knowledge that we have that we'll be together again.
Cindy De Young
July 5, 2011
We loved Karen and admired her often. She is a wonderful example of service. She was always willing to help me and my family in times of need. I loved serving with Karen in the Relief Society and frequently saw her in the halls at school. Our lives have been touched by hers! She is TRULY a wonderful person!! You can and should be proud to have her for your wife/mother. We pray for you and hope that peace abounds in your hearts.
Randy, Cindy De Young and family
Anita Sacre
July 5, 2011
HI Brian, I am very sorry for your loss. I know how this pain and separation breaks your heart. Your wife's spirit will be with you and your children, just listen with your heart. Know I care and pray for your comfort and strength.
Trieste (kercher) Phillipps
July 5, 2011
Karen was one of my favorite young women counselors when I was in the Richards ward. I remember her kindness and love towards all. I am sure she will be so missed by her family. I am so grateful that we know that families are eternal and I hope you can receive the comfort you need at this time. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Todd Atkinson
July 5, 2011
I knew both the Tolley and Oborn families during High School. Great families and my prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Rod Young
July 5, 2011
To The Family of Karen,
This mortal world is not as beautiful as it was and Heaven is blessed for Karens' return. We were blessed to live in the Richardes 2nd Ward and to know the Tolley family. It was Dad and the three youngest girls. Karen was a special one; blessed with so much and willing to share with any one wherever needed. A great example of the LDS YW theme and values. Please accept our condolences and prayers. May God be with you at this time.
Rod & Jean Young (formerly of the Richards 2nd Ward)
Sarah DeLaMare-Bauer
July 5, 2011
Brother Oborn and Family:
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You have an amazing family and such great faith. Karen was always so fun to be around, and we enjoyed your family in the Richards Ward for the time that we had you. My family's prayers are with your family at this time.
Shawna Meredith
July 5, 2011
Dear Brian,
We have been saddened by the illness and passing of your dear Karen. You both are endearing individuals and we are blessed to have known you for all these years. Karen was a delightful and inspiring woman to be around. Her beautiful countenance radiated every where she went. It is our prayer that her influence will continue to be with you and your family to comfort you.
With Love, Doug and Shawna Meredith
Kathryn Nelson
July 5, 2011
I am so sorry to hear of Karen's passing. She was a very important part of my life growing up. Her presence will be dearing missed by many family and friends.
Donna Horton
July 5, 2011
Oborn family,I am so sorry for your loss. Karen was a wonderful friend to my family and was always there to help in our time of need. It was an honor to call her my friend.She will forever be in our hearts.Ron and Donna Horton and family
Tori Wilkinson
July 5, 2011
Brother Oborn and family our thoughts and prayers are with you in this diffcult time. We loved Karen very very much she was like a second mom to us!! Just remember familys are together forever! Of course you already know that!! We love you all!! We will miss Karen very much!! Sincerely Tori and Vincent Wilkinson also Julie and Spencer Stone
Kathryn Dunn
July 5, 2011
Dear Brian and children,
Our family feels honored to have walked this earth with your angel wife and mother. May her smile, positive attitude and serving nature carry on through you, and may you feel her presence, and the comfort of the Atonement and covenants made, in knowing you'll be united again soon.
Our love always,
Jerry and Kathy Dunn and Family
Daniel Taylor
July 5, 2011
Brian and Family,
I am very sorry to hear of Karen's passing. My thoughts are with you and your family at this very difficult time.
Stephanie Garahana
July 5, 2011
I have no words to adequately express my condolences. Karen was a compassionate, kind, loving person and we are all so better for having known her. I feel privileged to have been involved in so many "projects" with Karen over the many years I have known her, mainly PTA related. I was honored to be her friend. I only hope that I can remember to be as kind as she always was to others and follow suit. Karen has done her job well even though she was taken too soon. Brian, Emily, Evan, William, and Abbey, you are a wonderful and beautiful family and I am sure she knows you will all succeed and honor her memory. Please know that the Garahana Family is here for you and do not hesitate to call on us for anything. We love your family and will miss Karen terribly. We know that she is free from suffering and is watching over us all. She will always be in our hearts.
Tracy Ashcraft
July 5, 2011
Such a special and irreplaceble friend. A wonderful woman. Will miss you Karen.
Dale & Margo Grant & Family
July 5, 2011
Brain & Family ... Our hearts are broken with the loss of a beautiful Wife, Mother & Friend. As others, her wonderful smile & kindness will be missed by all. It has been my pleasure to have called her " My Friend ". We pray that God's loving arms will be around your family at this time .
johanna loveridge
July 5, 2011
Brother Oborn,
Please ascept our most sincere condolences,may the peace and love of our Father in Heaven be with you and your dear children.
Sincerely
Dan and Johanna loveridge
July 5, 2011
Dear Brian and children, I want you to know that we who knew your wife and mother were so blessed!! She truly was as the song says " I believe ther are angels among us" one of those "Angels" Karen and Brian are two of the most wonderful people I know! Thank you for raising such wonderful children too!! A special note to Janette, Leland and I send our sympthy to you and your family!! I am sorry I did not stay and talk the other day!! Our prayers are with you all God Bless you all!! Love, Julie and Leland Christensen
Rex, Morgan, Alora, Dorie and John Beach
July 5, 2011
Dear Brian, Emily. Evan, Will and Abby,
We sorrow with you for the loss of your wife and mother, but rejoice that Karen is free from suffering and reunited with her parents. Our prayers and love are with you. She was an incredible daughter of God who truely to live a Christ-like life.
Mary, Tim, and family Smith
July 5, 2011
Our prayers are with the Oborn Family. Karen was a wonderful example of how to serve others. She was a great friend I'm sorry to hear of her passing. We love you all.
Kathy Ballard
July 5, 2011
Brian,
I am so sorry to hear of Karen's illness and passing. What a great loss for you and your children and the rest of your families. I pray that you will find peace and comfort in the days ahead.
Kathy Buhler Ballard
July 5, 2011
Karen was the first parent I met after moving to Hillside five years ago. I don't know who I enjoyed having more...her or her amazing daughter. It was soon apparent how many of Abbey's attributes mirrored those of her mother...friendly, bright and focused. She was upbeat and positive and always an example to those around her - just as Karen was - even unto the end. My heart goes out to Abbey and the entire family, but how lucky I feel to have known such a choice lady.
Cindy Davis
July 5, 2011
Our prayers are with your family. Karen showered her many talents on all she came in contact with. It is the Davis family priviledge to call her friend, as well as the rest of the Oborn family. We love all of you! Love Preston, Cindy Davis and family
Diane Clarkin
July 5, 2011
Brian and family,
I am so sorry for your loss.
esther cahoon
July 5, 2011
i knew karen from south high and adored her! she was a gentle, loving person who represented our savior in the most ideal way! karen's presence touched the lives of all who knew her! Our hearts go out to her family!
July 5, 2011
I would also like to extend my condolences to Janette. How could I have forgotten you? Please know that I am thinking of the entire Tolley family--my dear childhood friends--during this difficult time.
Evelyn
Evelyn Tuddenham
July 5, 2011
I am so sorry to hear of Karen's passing. I grew up in Sugar House across the street from the Tolley family. I remember Karen as a very sweet and caring person who worked hard to take good care of her Dad after her mother died, when Karen was young. I know that she shared that compassion with others throughout her life. My heart goes out to the Oborn family, as well as to the Tolleys, Grant, Myrna and Leslie at this difficult time.
Alice Edvalson
July 5, 2011
So sorry to see this. Karen was a special young women in the Richards II Ward many years ago and I remember her well.
Marlene Little
July 5, 2011
Brian, I am so sad you lost your Karen. On top of loosing your twin. I have no words to say. I just want you to know my prayers are with you and your sweet family.
Dan, Karen Ewert and Family
July 5, 2011
Our prayers are with the Oborn family. Karen was a great examples of always giving. It didn't matter want was going on with her if she could serve she was going to. She has a heart so great and showed love to all. She has left a great impression on all of us that knows her. Her memories will be on your hearts and thoughts forever. We love you Karen and we will miss you.
Alessa Smith
July 5, 2011
She was a wonderful woman and I am glad I had the opportunity to know her while growing up. My condolences to the family
July 5, 2011
A special thank you to Karen. Our lives will be blessed always because of your sweet example and gentle care for all of us. Our prayers and love are with your family. The Ewell Family
July 5, 2011
Our prayers are with the Oborn family at this time. We have loved knowing Karen and serving with her here in the ward. We will miss her humor and her wonderful example of selfless service. She will live on in our hearts forever. Leonard and Jill Jensen
Yvonne Schenk
July 5, 2011
To Karen's family: Karen was a jewell of a person and will be missed tremendously. Her courage and faithfulness will forever be an example to me in my life.
Melissa Rach
July 5, 2011
Im so sorry for your loss. She was a wonderful women.
Lynette McAllister
July 5, 2011
Brian and family...I wanted to express my sincere condolences. We were blessed to have children grow up in the same area, same ages and see each other more often. I actually looked forward to parent teacher nights and school events knowing I would run into at least one of you. Karen is forever in our hearts with that smile of hers and an angel who has left a deep impression on our souls. God Bless you all.
Lynette, Dale, Cherise and Ethan McAllister
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