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Joseph Aubrey Raefski SUMMERVILLE, SC - Joseph Aubrey Raefski entered into eternal rest on June 7, 2011 at the Hospice of Charleston in Mount Pleasant, SC. Mr. Raefski was born on October 6, 1956 in Brooklyn, New York to Ignatz Raefski and Audrey Puddester. He was raised and attended high school in the Bronx, New York, and entered into service with the United States Army in 1978. During his 25 years in the Army, Mr. Raefski served tours in Korea, Germany, Panama, and in Operation Desert Storm in the Gulf War. He retired from military service in 2002 as a Master Sergeant. A three-time cancer survivor, Mr. Raefski was always a driven but vibrant presence among his family and friends, who remember him for his charm, wit, and unconditional love and generosity. A memorial service will be held in honor of Joseph Raefski at Bethany United Methodist Church in Summerville, SC on Friday, June 10, 2011 at 6:00 p.m. His memory will forever be cherished by his children, Laura Ashley Raefski, Sophia Tianna Bulkeley Fitzpatrick, and Anthony William Raefski; grandchildren, Jamison Raefski, Jianna Raefski, and Khalil Motley; siblings, Dorothy Raefski, Florence Raefski Laspluto, William Raefski (Dale), and Raymond Raefski; family friends, Mayra Torres and Judith Parsons, and a host of other relatives and friends. Arrangements made by Milligan's Funeral Home, 1947 New Hwy. 52, Moncks Corner, S.C. 29461 (843) 761-8696, Fax (843) 761-8696. Visit our guestbook at www.postandcourier.com/ deaths

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier from Jun. 8 to Jun. 10, 2011.

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Ronda Natera

November 27, 2013

I had the privilege of meeting Ski when we were both stationed at Fort Hood Texas a couple of years before his retirement. My daughter and I also spent time with him and his children Sophia, Anthony and Laura when we rented a cabin at Belton Lake. His kids meant the world to him. The last time we had spoken he was his usual crazy self. He was between girlfriends but that was so like Joe the lady charmer he was. It seemed he was beating his cancer and was very happy. I lost touch with him and wondered why he wasn't answering my emails. Now I know. I am shocked, and sadden to learn of his death today right before Thanksgiving from another Military friend. He was one of a kind and I will forever miss my friend
Joe-Ski-Love.

Mayra Alveo Jaén

July 7, 2011

Joe - my love, my forever friend! You are very much alive in my heart. I know heaven got more colorful the day you arrived!

June 24, 2011

Ski as we knew him, was my first commo chief. He continued to be a wonderful friend throughout the years. I will greatly miss his friendship, warmth,humanity and laughter.

"Skinny" in Silsbee,TX

Joe in 1-15 FA Communications Office Winter 1997

Daniel Kuntz

June 14, 2011

Joe on New York Pad, Casey 39 with L to R PFC Connley, SPC Thomas and CPL McDonald

Daniel Kuntz

June 14, 2011

Joe on Casey 39 Radio Retransmission Site, Western Corridor of South Korea Fall 1997

Daniel Kuntz

June 14, 2011

Daniel Kuntz

June 13, 2011

Joe,
You are one of the finest Non-Commissioned Officers I have known in my 19 years in the Army. I will always look fondly on our time together in Korea. You taught me more about being a SIGO than anyone else in the Army. The things I learned while working with you- I credit with saving countless lives during my three combat tours in Iraq. Rest in Peace my friend you will be truly missed but your impact on the Army reaches farther than you ever knew. Godspeed on your final journey, I will miss you my friend.

Noris Aka Nariz Matos

June 11, 2011

Joe was my uncle he was married to my aunt Mayra Alveo, I remembered him full of life, loving, and funny. Your family in Panama will miss you uncle Joe.

Fredricka Frasier

June 10, 2011

I have fond memories of Sgt. Raefski (as he was known to me) I met Raefski in 1982 at Ft. Riley, Kansas; the home of the "BIG RED ONE". He was my section chief/ big brother. Being that I was the only female in his section he made sure no harm came to me. He was a very good friend to me. He made my transition in the Army smooth, he taught me the ropes.Rest in Peace, My Brother . I'll remember you always. ( Fredricka Frasier Charleston SC)

Tiara Bulkley

June 10, 2011

Keeping my sister and her brother Anthony in my prayers. I know this is hard for you guys. Also praying for Joe's Siblings, hoping they can get through this tough time. You were agood man and a great father and you will be missed.

Valerie Fitzpatrick

June 10, 2011

Joe, You are truely missed by all already. I will continue to raise,and support our daughter Sophia in all her goals and great achievements that she has already reached and beyond. Rest in Peace. Valerie Fitzpatrick [ Augusta,Ga.}

Flo LaSpaluto

June 10, 2011

Joe, I will always miss you. You are my baby brother and will always have a special place in my heart. Your big sister, Flo

Anthony Raefski

June 9, 2011

Dad I miss you so much already. You were a great man and a great father. I love you so much and I know that you are in a better place now. We will never forget you.

Anthony

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