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Joseph P. "Joe" Barfield N. CHARLESTON - Mr. J.P. 'Joe' Barfield, of North Charleston, passed from this life to his eternal home on the evening of Tuesday, October 20, 2009, surrounded by his loving family and friends. Mr. Barfield was a proud and decorated World War II veteran. He participated in the invasion of Normandy and the Battle of the Bulge. During his distinguished career, he was awarded two Purple Hearts and numerous other commendations. Friends and family of Mr. J.P. Barfield are invited to attend his funeral service on Saturday morning, October 24, 2009 at 11:00 am at Cokesbury United Methodist Church, 4990 Dorchester Road, North Charleston, SC 29418. Entombment and full military honors will immediately follow at CAROLINA MEMORIAL PARK MAUSOLEUM CHAPEL, 7113 Rivers Avenue, North Charleston, SC 29406. The family will be receiving guests at Cokesbury United Methodist Church on Friday evening, October 23, from 5:00 until 8:00 pm. For twenty plus years, Mr. Barfield was a volunteer and coach with the Cooper River Parks and Playground Commission. Mr. Barfield was dedicated to the youth of North Charleston both on and off the field. His commitment to the players and families of Dorchester-Waylyn had a tremendous impact on the lives that he touched and the community he served. He is survived by the love of his life and best friend, his wife Katherine McLeod 'Kitty' Barfield; his children Kathi Bunch (Tony) of Dorchester, Ricky Barfield of Moncks Corner, Ed Barfield (Dawn) of Givhans, Donnie Barfield (Tammy) of Moncks Corner, and Butch Barfield (Laurie) of North Charleston; ten grandchildren; nine great-grandchildren; three brothers Ed Barfield of Park City, UT, Willie Barfield of Arkansas and B.R. Barfield of Macon, GA; and two special cousins, Charlie Barfield and Annie Johnson. Mr. Barfield was preceded in death by a brother, the late Bobby Barfield and a sister Millie Barfield. With grateful hearts, the Barfield family wishes to express their love and appreciation to the staff of Life Care Center of Charleston and the Ralph A Johnson (VA) Hospital for their compassion, dedication and professional care of Mr. Barfield. In lieu of flowers, the family requests memorial contributions be made in Mr. J.P. Barfield's memory to Cokesbury United Methodist Church, 4990 Dorchester Road, North Charleston, SC 29418. Funeral arrangements provided by CAROLINA MEMORIAL FUNERAL HOME, 7113 Rivers Avenue, North Charleston, SC 29406 Phone: 843-797-2222. Visit our guestbook at www.postandcourier.com/deaths

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier from Oct. 22 to Oct. 23, 2009.

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Julia Gallant-Lee

November 18, 2009

To the Barfield family
The love and hugs of your family I will miss, your father has gone to be with the Lord because it was his time. May God always bless you.
I will miss his smile here at the VA.

Charles Walker

November 13, 2009

Donnie, Was sorry to hear about your Dad. I enjoyed visiting him and seeing your Mom at Lifecare. Your Mom is a special person, she had to really love your Dad. She spent alot of time up there. As you remember Daddy was across the hall. (Chief Walker, passed away 1-4-06).

November 4, 2009

To the Barfield Family, you are in my prayers and thoughts during this time of grief. The only consolation is to know that before long we will all be together again in Heaven if we have received Christ as our Savior. Mr. Barfield helped to mold me and direct me in my early years during my baseball years at Dorchester. He was a light in the community. And yes, he even corrected me when I needed it. I look forward to seeing him again when that great roll is called up yonder.

Ted Sessoms (formally of 18 Poplin Ave) Cottondale, Al

Jack-Frances Benton

November 3, 2009

Butch-Laurie
We were both very sorry to hear about you losing your father. Our prayers are with you and your family

Tracie Benton

November 3, 2009

Butch and Laurie, I am so sorry for your lost. Even thought we don't always understand why we do know that now he is in a better place. Heaven now has a new angel. My prayers are with all the Barifields.

Hank Mixon

October 26, 2009

Ed, Donnie & Butch I was so sorry to hear of your Dad`s passing, my thoughts and prayers are with all you at this sad time. May God Bless You All.

October 24, 2009

Barfield I send my deepest sympathy from my son and I. Thank you for the time that you have shared coaching my son. If there is anything that I could do in this time of sorrow for you and your family, please don't hesitate to let me know. I will keep you and your family in prayer. James Mackey and son.

Leslie Barfield

October 24, 2009

I will always remember J.P. demonstrating stump-jumping at Rock's Pond. Now he has gone fishing at the best fishing hole there is. Enjoy, J.P.

Rob Gist

October 24, 2009

Donnie,

I'm very sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your family.

October 24, 2009

To Mandy and the rest of the Barfield family, I am sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers will be with you during this time. Ashley Jacobs

October 24, 2009

Carol and David Pooser are very sorry for your loss.My God bless you and take care of you in this time of need.
Amen

Trudy Burn Descaro

October 23, 2009

To The Family of Mr. Joseph Barfield,

Thinking of you at this time and wishing you comfort and peace.

Some of my fondest childhood memories were the many summer's our families spent together camping at Rocks Pond.

My sincere sympathy on your loss of Mr. Barfield. Heaven has received another shining star!

October 23, 2009

To Mr.Ed Barfield and the Barfield Family. My Prayers are with all of you during your time of breavement. May you find comfort in the Lord during this difficult time.
Cathy Roberts (North Charleston)

Majoria (Jo) Warren

October 23, 2009

Kitty and Family
I have been there and I know what you are going through but always know that God is there with you. I have memories of the four of us in the lobby at Life Care. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.

Love
Jo Warren

Doug & Kris Phillips

October 23, 2009

Family:

Our sincerest condolences to the family of Mr. Barfield. He was my great uncle and a treasure among men. He will be truly missed.

"Peace I leave with you, My peace I give to you; not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid." John 14:27

October 23, 2009

Kathi, Mrs. Barfield and family

I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of sorrow. May knowing that so many people care will give you some comfort. If you need me, call.

Julie Murdaugh

October 23, 2009

Butch, Ed, Donnie, and family

I regret your loss, he was a man of "the greatest generation". We often forget the sacrifices they made for our country and then come back to raise a solid family. Your successes are a testiment of his life and the great things he stood for.
Our family wants you to know we are in your thoughts.

Robert, Teresa, and John Norton

October 23, 2009

The Barfield family Mr. Joe was not only a coach but a great friend and mentor in my life and was always there if needed not just to me but hundreds. Big Joe, we know your on the big diamond now. Truly missed, our condolences, The Hess family.

Brazelton Family

October 23, 2009

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

October 23, 2009

The Barfied family our prayers and thoughts will be wtih all of you during this difficult time in your lives. God through the power of the holy spirit will give all of you the comfort and strength that you will need in the days ahead. May God bless all of you. In Christian Love Randy& Jeri Tumbleston.

October 23, 2009

Laurie & Butch,
May God comfort your hearts during this time of sorrow.

My heartfelt prayer,
Brenda Randolph
CCSD

Gil Pender

October 23, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this difficult time. I have many fond memories playing for and against Mr. Barfields teams at Dorchester. Always had a smile and a laugh for me.

Debbie Barfield Corrigan

October 23, 2009

So sorry for your loss. One of my boys and my favorite visits was the family reunion when we were able to celebrate JP's birthday also. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Love, Debbie, Bruce, Jack Ben and Willie

The Skipper Family

October 23, 2009

Please know that our hearts are with you today and in the days ahead. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help.

Love,

Terry Williams

October 23, 2009

Mrs. Barfield, Ed and family,
I last saw you at the nursing home with Mr. Barfield where my Mom, Iris Cunningham and Mr.James Hanniford were at. We had laughs there, just like a reunion and I know Momma and Mr. Hanniford were at the gates of Heaven to greet Mr. Barfield. It will be hard for you without him here but know he is in a better place.

October 23, 2009

Ed , My sympathy to you and your family . Teddy Weeks, 803.446..379

Stephanie Lewis

October 23, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you Butch and Laurie, and the entire Barfield family. May God comfort you and give you strength during this difficult time. God Bless. Stephanie and Randall Lewis

October 23, 2009

Ed
We are sorry to hear about the loss of your father! Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Jerry and Mary Gries

Billy/Melissa Calcutt

October 23, 2009

Kathi, I am so sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Please let me or Billy know if we can do anything for you.

Love

Melissa Calcutt

October 23, 2009

Aunt Kitty, Donnie, Butch, Ed, Rick...I am so very sorry for your loss. May God comfort you in your time of need. You are all in my prayers.
Please let us know if we can do anything at all for you.

Love,

Shirley Pye

October 23, 2009

Ed, Donnie and family I'm sorry to hear about your loss. I did not know your dad but Tony did.

Your memories will bring you all comfort.

I will keep y'all in my prayers and always remember God is there for you when you need to talk to him.

God Bless you all.

Paulette Burn Klingel

October 23, 2009

To The Barfield Family,

I was so sorry to hear of the passing of Mr. Barfield. I have fond childhood memories of him. In particular, at the baseball field and being the queen of his Coca-Cola Baseball Team. I remember Mr. Barfield as a kind and funny man and I know he will be missed by everyone who knew him. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this most difficult time. Sincerely,

Dick & Maxine Fuller

October 23, 2009

To Barfield Family We are truly sorry to hear of Mr. Barfield's passing. We extend our Sincere Sympathy to all of you at what we know is a very sad and mournful time. Mr. Barfield lived a long and rewarding life and accomplished so much in his lifetime. He will long be remembered as a Military Hero,Dedicated Youth Volunteer,Intelligent and loving man. Our Thoughts and Prayers are with you all. May you find comfort in the Outpouring of Sympathy from all of us who share your loss. Fuller Family

Peggy & John Jeffries

October 23, 2009

Kathi, our prayers are with you & the family. God has given the family so many memories , so much love -- that can never be taken away. We're always as close as the phone.

Elizabeth Delacruz

October 23, 2009

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

October 23, 2009

Dear Mrs. Barfield and family -

I'm so sorry to hear of Mr. Barfield's passing. While I've only known him a few years, I always enjoyed his smile and wit. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Belinda Warren Finn

DARLENE MACK

October 23, 2009

THE BARFIELD FAMILY: WITH LOVE AND SYMPATHY TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY, AS YOU TRY TO COPE WITH THIS DIFFICULT TIME..
THE MACK FAMILY DARLENE,RONALD AND ROBERT

Jimmy and Betty McLeod

October 22, 2009

Dearest Aunt Kitty, Kathi, Ricky, Ed, Donnie, and Butch,
We are so deeply sorry to hear about the death of Uncle Joe. Our hearts go out to each and every one of you in your time of sorrow. Please know that you are in our prayers. May God's Grace strengthen you.
Peace and Blessings,
We send our love,
Jimmy and Betty McLeod

Dell Ann

October 22, 2009

Barfield Family: So many of us love you and are praying that God will wrap His arms around each and every one of you at this sad time. I truly know how difficult this time is for you all and want you to know I love you, that I am praying for you, and that we are blessed in the knowledge that God is a merciful God. Your Dad is in the best of hands. Dell Ann

Archie Franchini

October 22, 2009

Mrs. Barfield, Ed, Kathi, Butch and the entire Barfield family: Please know that all of you are in my thoughts and prayers. I remember Mr. Barfield and the entire family well and fondly when I was at Garrett. While I know at this time that your loss is hard, I also know that you take comfort that he is now in a better place.

Tony Dixon

October 22, 2009

Ed, Donnie, Butch and family, my thoughts and prayers go out to your family. Your dad gave me some great childhood memories. I will always remember him as coach. I can remember him saying always give your best and thats the way I lived my life. Thank you all for sharing him. May we all take comfort in memories of him.

October 22, 2009

Donnie and FamilyWe're so sorry to read about your dad.  Know you are in our thoughts and prayers. Randy & Barbara Westervelt    (843-214-1979)

TONY MANGUM

October 22, 2009

Joe as my dad called him was a great man, coach, fisherman, dad, neighbor ,knew him as far back as i can remember, went fishing with him & my dad many times, fished all day & then off to the baseball field, tired as hell, but that never stopped him from helping kids involved in sports, he nicknamed me catfish, will take that to my grave..RIP COACH BARFIELD

Lucreita Becude, Esq.

October 22, 2009

To Ricky and your family. So sorry to hear of your loss. I did not know your dad but if his son is anything like him, he must have been a really great person. May your memories bring you comfort.

October 22, 2009

Mr. Barfield will always be remembered as the commissioner of the Dixie Youth program on Dorchester Road. We want to extend our deepest sympathy and condolances to the family.
Bryan and Diane Thomas

Debbie Nelson

October 22, 2009

Ed and family. so sorry to hear about your Dad. my family has known him since i was a young girl in the Waylyn neighborhood and at the baseball field

Kenny, Allison, Alec and Julia Barfield

October 22, 2009

We extend our deepest sympathies to Kitty, our cousins and their families at the passing of such an esteemed patriarch. You all have much to be thankful for: his quiet leadership and unfailing love for each of you. Take comfort in memories of your best times together and do not forget his significant legacy to all Barfields. With much love,

October 22, 2009

So sorry to hear of your loss. Our hearts and prayers reach out to you at this sad time. He will definitely be missed by all who knew him. May God be with you all at this time.

Laura Sloane and Claire Pace

Charlynne Smith

October 22, 2009

Butch, Ed and the rest of the Barfield family, my thoughts and prayers are with you in the loss of your loved one.
Charlynne "Charly"''' Smith, North Charleston SC

Billy and Candy Veno

October 22, 2009

Dear Mrs. Barfield, Ricky, Ed, Donnie, Kathi and Butch:

We are so sorry to hear about your Dad's passing. He was a great person and so are all of you. Please accept our condolances. You are in our thoughts and prayers. If we can help in any way please don't hesitate to call.

Your Friends Always,

Billy and Candy Veno

Jim and Debbie Amoriell

October 22, 2009

Dear Donnie, Tammy and Family,
We are so very sorry for your loss. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.

Kristine Broughton

October 22, 2009

May God bless you and your family in this time or sorrow.
Summer Feeding Program Secretary

Vickie Morris

October 22, 2009

Dear Edwin, Butch, Donnie and all of the family: I'm so sorry to hear of your father's passing... Losing a loved one is one of the most painful experiences we face .. my thoughts are with you all during this sad time.

Gloria Jordan Borgen

October 22, 2009

Our sincere condolences to each of you on your loss. We all thought so highly of him.

I'm sure Pops was there to welcome him when he arrived in Heaven!

Patty Richerson

October 22, 2009

Kathi Bunch and Barfield Family,
I am so sorry for your loss Know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers and if there is ever any thing I can do, just let me know.

Roy & Bridget Thompson

October 22, 2009

May you know that caring thoughts of you and your family are in our hearts; and we are thinking of you with heart felt sympathy. May you be filled with His peace and comfort.

Carey Phillips (Knupp)

October 22, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with y'all...May the comfort of a loving God get you through this time

Balfour Beatty Communities

October 22, 2009

Our deepest sympathies, prayers and loving thoughts to your entire family.
The Balfour Beatty-NWS CHASN Team

Susan Broyles

October 22, 2009

I am thinking of you all. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Please let me know if there is anything I can do for you during this difficult time. Susan Broyles

Terry & Sharon Green

October 22, 2009

Our Thoughts and Prayers are with you. May God Bless and watch over The whole Barfield Family.

Johnny & Carol Smith

October 22, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. May God bless and be with you.

Cathy & Richard Dukes

October 22, 2009

My memory of Mr. Barfield is on the ball field. He didn't take anything from those Umps. He would tell them like it was.
Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

October 22, 2009

MY CONDOLENCES IS EXTENDED TO MRS. BARFIELD AND HIS FAMILY. THE LAST TIME THAT I SPOKE WITH MR. BARFIELD,I SAID TO HIM MR. BARFIELD DIDN'T I JUST SENT YOU HOME LAST WEEK. HE JUST SMILED AND WAVED HIS HAND AT ME.

Stacie and Lorena

October 22, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Helen Wiley c/o Green Grove Community

October 22, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your durning your time of grief.

October 22, 2009

Kathy Bunch and Barfield Family,

David and I were so sorry to hear about your father's passing but we know that he is in a much better place. We are all pressing toward the mark everyday and "Praise God" he has made it home. Sheri Harmon and David Blick

James Carroll

October 22, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Michelle Johnson

October 22, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

david crane

October 22, 2009

To the Barfield Family
We offer our prayers and condolences to each and everyone of you. Mr Barfield was a special man who will be missed by many. However, our loss is Heavens gain. Know he is at peace.
David and Faith Crane, & Genova Head

Frances Gard

October 22, 2009

I will miss my Uncle JP. He was a shining example of a husband, father, brother,grandpa, uncle and man. I thank him for all of his support for my mom, his lil sis. I know she welcomed him into heaven. I am glad he is with her, again.
My love is with Aunt Kitty, Ricky, Edwin, Donnie Mac, Butch and Kathi. As well as Uncles Willie, Ed, and Bennie Ray. May God bless you and help you to find peace.

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