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John Calvin Hayes III ROCK HILL, SC - Obituary of The Honorable John Calvin Hayes III October 18, 1945 - April 7, 2023 John was a well-respected legislator, and a fair and even-handed Judge who cared deeply about serving his community and his State, while also loving his family as a husband, father and Pop Pop. He will be remembered for how effortlessly he combined wisdom with warmth and wit and how he showed kindness to all. John learned from his parents the importance of public service. As a teenager, John served at Camp Gravatt, and led Sunday School classes at The Episcopal Church of Our Savior, where he was a member since 1959. John graduated from Winthrop Training School in 1963, but not before serving as President of his Class and Chairman of the Prom Committee. Little did he know at the time, but the friendships he formed at Winthrop Training School would last him a lifetime. John began his first year of college at the University of the South (Sewanee), transferred to the University of South Carolina (USC), received his B.A. degree in English and began law school in 1967. He entered military service as a U.S. Army Reservist during the following school year and served in the Army for six years with Co. D 391st Combat Engineers Battalion. Returning to law school, he obtained his J.D. in 1971. While in law school, John served on the Law Review and had two articles published therein. After graduation, John clerked for then S.C. Supreme Court Chief Justice Joseph R. Moss before joining the firm of Hayes, Brunson and Gatlin with which he practiced until his election to the bench. He served in the S.C. House of Representatives from 1981-1984, S.C. Senate from 1984-1991 and served on numerous civic and law related boards and commissions. He served on the S.C. Coastal Council from 1980-1991 and chaired it for four years. As a member of the House and then the Senate, John chaired several committees, including the Probate Reform and Tax Reform committees. When he asked why he was chosen to chair the Tax Reform committee when he knew little about it, Senator Waddell stated, "I'm not appointing you because you know anything about income tax. I'm appointing you because you know how to run a meeting." Both the probate and tax codes were rewritten while John served as chairman. He sponsored legislation including, but not limited to, the Residential Landlord and Tenant Act, Beachfront Management Act, the abrogation of blue laws, and the implementation of seatbelt laws. He proudly served on the Winthrop University Board of Trustees. While in the legislature, he found time for a cameo as a state trooper in the CBS television miniseries "Chiefs" starring Paul Sorvino, Billy Dee Williams and Charlton Heston where he was cast as an officer with the line, "Run 'em in!" Despite his stardom, he believed the two most significant moments of his legal career were the first pleading he signed as an attorney, and his first day serving in the House of Representatives. John was honored by his colleagues in the legislature in a Concurrent Resolution for how much he achieved for his districts, his constituents, and his State through "his quiet and compassionate but compelling leadership." He "demonstrated his skill in working with people, his knowledge of the issues, and his ability to obtain consensus while maintaining camaraderie . . ." H4040 In May 1991, John was elected to the Circuit Court bench of the Sixteenth Judicial Circuit to fill the unexpired term of Judge Robert L. McFadden. Judge Hayes' term began September 3, 1991, and 25 days later, he married Sarah Lynn Dorsey and doubled the number of his children from three to six. John served as a Circuit Court Judge until his retirement on December 31, 2017. As a Jurist, Judge Hayes presided over civil and criminal cases and helped establish a case management system that moved thousands of pending cases, helping to resolve the worst backlog in the state. During his 26 years on the bench, Judge Hayes also mentored 28 young lawyers who began their legal careers with the honor of serving as his law clerk. Judge Hayes not only cared about his clerks professionally, but personally, as he took great pride in the life each would lead. He conveyed sage advice to his clerks like, "As you navigate through the sometimes rough and tremble practice of law, do not lose your sense of humor." If Judge Hayes' law clerks were able to see further than others, it is because they stood on the shoulders of a giant in the legal profession, The Honorable John C. Hayes III. In his 26 years on the bench, Judge Hayes presided over many notable and newsworthy cases. He was proud to vacate the convictions given to the Friendship Nine civil rights protestors who went to jail in 1961 for trespassing at a whites-only lunch counter in Rock Hill. During the memorable hearing in 2015, Judge Hayes stated, "We cannot rewrite history, but we can right history." He then signed the order that vacated the trespassing convictions. After retirement, he served as Judge on active retired status, helping the State with complex civil cases. Even with his accomplishments as a lawyer, legislator and Judge, he loved his role as husband, father, and Pop Pop more than anything. John is survived by his wife, Dr. Sarah Lynn Dorsey Hayes; children, John C. Hayes IV (Cynthia) and grandchildren, John C. Hayes V and Thomas; Mary Scott McLaurin (Barnes) and grandchildren, William "Kean", Barnes, Hayes and Frances; Frances Parker (Telfair) and grandchildren, Telfair III and Mary Scott "Scottie"; all of Charleston; Matt Nance, Jessica Dorsey Rushing (Chris) and grandchildren, Dorsey, Hayes and McCall, all of Rock Hill; Tyler Nance of Charleston; sister, Susan Hayes Kelly (Reginald) of Rock Hill; his long-time secretary, Frances Kirkman, and his 28 law clerks who are firmly convinced they clerked for the finest Judge in South Carolina. John is predeceased by his father, John C. Hayes, Jr.; mother, Frances Rippelmeyer Hayes; and sister-in-law, Miriam Johnson Dorsey. A Celebration of Life and Resurrection with Military Honors will be held on April 16, 2023, at 3:00pm at Winthrop University's McBryde Hall, (695 Scholars Walk, Rock Hill) and will be officiated by John's childhood friend, The Reverend C. Alex Barron. The family will receive guests after the service. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to Winthrop University Foundation, 302 Tillman Hall, Rock Hill, SC 29733; Rock Hill Symphony Orchestra, PO Box 542, Rock Hill, SC 29731; or Hospice & Community Care, PO Box 993, Rock Hill, SC 29731. Micah 6:8 He has told you, O mortal, what is good; and what does the Lord require of you but to do justice, to love kindness, and to walk humbly with your God. Visit our guestbook at legacy.com/obituaries/charleston

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier from Apr. 10 to Apr. 11, 2023.

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Hayes

April 17, 2025

I miss you - Hayes

Mickey Aberman

August 6, 2023

Judge Hayes exemplified attention to truth, wisdom and graciousness. There are too few people like Judge Hayes in public life of our society. That is my biggest concern about our society.

Jane London McIntyre

April 16, 2023

John and I grew up together at the Episcopal Church of Our Savior.
John was a year older but as to everyone so warm, kind, friendly and even to someone an entire year younger.
What a Judge he was! One of Rock Hill´s Stars!
My love and prayers to Sarah Lynn and all of the family. Janie London McIntyre

Tim Hager

April 16, 2023

Worked in court with Judge Hayes for 10 years. Not a finer man I´ve ever met . Prayers from Tim and Peggy Hager

Robert K. Folks

April 14, 2023

As a lawyer in the neighboring county of Lancaster, I came to know John as a lawyer which led me to regard him as a friend and an example of the kind of attorney I wanted to be. Most evident to me was John´s kindness, evident to anyone who would be in his company. His innate goodness was expressed in his smile and whole demeanor. He made you feel comfortable and valued. Those qualities would serve him well as a distinguished practicing attorney. Though I did not know him as well as I would have liked, I knew him well enough to rejoice when a person of his nature, high intellect and even temperament would be elevated to serve in the judiciary. John was one we knew would be fair and do right by all people no matter their circumstances. His was a life well lived, one those close to him will no doubt cherish and hopefully emulate.

Robert Folks
Attorney
Lancaster, SC

Judge David H Maring

April 13, 2023

John was a classmate of mine at USC Law School. We both became circuit judges the same year. What a noble man to walk through our state during his lifetime. The state was a better place because he passed this way.

Lisa Mills

April 13, 2023

Judge Hayes and his wife were always so kind to my daughter and her classmates at Winthrop (Class of 2012). Since they lived in off-campus housing just a few doors down from Judge Hayes, he always looked out for them and as an out-of-town parent, this made me feel more at ease because I knew what a man of honor and integrity he was. I feel as though I've lost a friend myself and I will forever be grateful to him and to Mrs. Hayes for their generosity and graciousness. Praying for the family.

Jacqueline Orr Anthony

April 13, 2023

Our sympathy to Judge John Hayes' Family. A legacy to admire. May Judge Hayes rest in peace. Peace Be With You All, Jacqueline Orr Anthony & Orr Family

Rob Rhoden

April 13, 2023

I had the pleasure of appearing before him in General Sessions Court in Spartanburg many years ago. A fine gentleman and jurist. May he rest in peace and rise in glory.

Mabry Scoville Morrison

April 13, 2023

What a wonderful man and a true friend. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Mabry Scoville Morrison

Anne Bonnette Harmon

April 13, 2023

A photo of the senior class at Winthrop Training School, 1963. My first class. I was their student teacher. John is in the middle row, fourth from the right. What a good guy! He went on to do great things.

Anne Bonnette Harmon

April 13, 2023

Karen Hutchinson McRae

April 12, 2023

Susan Hayes Kelly, I'm so sorry for the loss of your brother. I was your student at RHHS in 1972. I also went to the park in the summers where you and Mrs Marks worked.

Anna Hull

April 12, 2023

What a great man John was!
Anna and Bill Hull

Graham Sturgis

April 12, 2023

John and I grew up next door to each other on Milton Avenue in Rock Hill. He was four years older than I, and I idolized him. What ever he did, I wanted to do too. We camped in our backyards in Army surplus pup tents and cooked over a small fire. We rigged homemade telegraph lines across the driveway between our houses and roamed the neighborhood playing with the numerous boomer kids on the street. neighborhood. When I graduated from high school, John was chaperone to our beach house party at Ocean Drive Beach. John always was kind and smart. He was ever there when needed, never aloof, forever humble. As a lawyer he was smart and dedicated, and success followed naturally. As a judge, his knowledge and innate temperament and sense of right were without compare. Any litigant or defendant would receive the best consideration the bench was capable of delivering.

I followed John into the law, and he remained my example of the type of man to be. His work on earth is done, and he has earned his reward. To know him has been a great privilege.

Graham Sturgis

Debra Heintz

April 11, 2023

John was an humble, yet accomplished man of great wisdom and integrity. A true Southern gentleman, he made everyone feel comfortable in his presence. He was greatly loved by so many and will leave a hole in our hearts and community. My sincere sympathy is extended to his family.

Sylvia Agers

April 11, 2023

Condolences to the family of John C. Hayes III.

Martha Thornton Smith

April 11, 2023

Deepest condolences for your loss. Loved his smiling face and kind words whenever he dropped Dorsey at CCDC. Prayers for all of you as you go through the coming days.

Lydia Barron Lochocki

April 11, 2023

A great man! A great loss to Rock Hill and SC

Mark E. Williams, AIA, NCARB, Robson Forensic

April 11, 2023

I first met Judge Hayes while sponsoring meetings for the plaintiff and defense bar in South Carolina. Since 2009, he never walked past my table without stopping to chat, always making me feel welcome. Judge Hayes was kind and gracious to me, and I will miss him-my sincerest condolences to the family.

Alexa Hayes Spratt

April 11, 2023

John was always a favorite of ours, and I have many childhood memories that I cherish. One in particular is of family reunions where John and the Drennan boys would lead us younger cousins to a creek to catch crawdads, and we had to pass through a field in which there was a big bull! My daddy, Billy Drennan Hayes, adored John and had great respect for him as a lawyer, lawmaker, and judge.

Tom Marchant

April 11, 2023

I had the privilege of serving with John in the SC General Assembly and found him to be a true friend.

Safe passage, my former colleague.

Tom Marchant+
SC General Assembly (1972-1986)

Ashley Kay

April 11, 2023

Judge Hayes was such a wonderful man. Always so kind. He will be greatly missed.

Judy Ridenhour Cates

April 11, 2023

So sorry for your loss. I hold you in my thoughts and prayers.
Judy Ridenhour Cates

Connie Martin

April 11, 2023

I worked for John for a few years in the early 80s at Hayes, Brunson and Gatlin. I have worked for several attorneys across the state of South Carolina as my husband´s job moved us several times. John, by far, was the kindest, most courteous and easy to work with attorney. He never failed to thank me at the end of the day as I was leaving. John always had the same demeanor, no matter the circumstance, and was always a true gentleman. I have fond memories of working for him, and I truly respected him. My condolences go out to the family.

Connie Martin

Wanda S. Nelson, CVR-M, SC Official Court Reporter, Retired

April 10, 2023

My sincerest condolences to the Hayes family in the passing of Judge John Hayes. He was a friend indeed, and as many have stated and knows, a great jurist. Wanda S. Nelson, South Carolina Official Circuit Court Reporter, retired, to Judge John C. Hayes, III from 2011 until his retirement

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