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Just thinking about you John on our 25th Citadel Reunion. Michelle and I will be thinking about you.
Darrin Witt Class of 1989.
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March 18, 2013
In rememberance of John
L Butler
March 17, 2013
John is not easily forgotten. Such a presence!
RNE...class of '85.
Penny McDaniel
March 15, 2011
I have just learned of Mr. Crout's passing. It was of the utmost shock to hear of this loss. Of such a kind and caring man. He will truly be missed. I wanted to reach out and let the family know that you will be in thoughts and prayers. My heart reaches out to you through this time. Penny McDaniel (Elgin, SC)
Andreas J. Voigt
January 31, 2011
Dearest John,
I am utterly shocked and saddened to hear of your death and I can hardly believe, you have left the world so early, too early. My innermost condolences go to your kind parents, family, loved ones and to those, who shall miss you truly.
I will always cherish our friendship at Richland Northeast High School. We played football, studied German, had lots of fun but also deep discussions about Japanese history, German military uniforms and Friedrich Nietzsche’s philosophy--sometimes in life, all you have are your memories, and these memories of you, dearest John, comfort those, who you have left behind. Farewell, my brother...we will meet again in Heaven or Valhalla.
With Heartfelt Sympathy,
Andreas J. Voigt
Berlin, Germany
Kathryn Williams Wagner
January 26, 2011
I remember John as a student at Ricland Northeast. At that time, I was a faculty member and worked with student government. John was active in leadership and an inspiration to us all. His tireless energy said much about his dedication and school spirit. To the Crout family: you are in my prayers.
Melissa Price
January 24, 2011
I am truly sorry to hear of John passing. My prayers go out to all family and friends. He will be missed.
Melissa Price
Larry Freudenberg
January 24, 2011
Dear Crout Family: I just heard of John's passing. John was in Toastmasters with me and was a valued client. He was such a pleasant and friendly person besides being an honest and hardworking professional. Our heart goes out to you.
Lesley Warren
January 21, 2011
I knew John growing up & occasionally ran into him over the years. He was always so nice to me. His smile was "infectious", as many people have said. My condolences to the Crout family & everyone who knew John. The world is a better place for having John in it. Love ~ Lesley
January 21, 2011
Dear Crout Family:
I knew John and was sorry to learn of his passing. John was my closing attorney when I purchased my home (which i still live in). He and I shared some fun times together as well. I will remember him as a nice man and that he loved to have a laugh.
Robert Phelan
Mt. Pleasant, SC
Mya Kline Campbell
January 20, 2011
The Crout Family, My deepest sympathy to you all. John will be missed by so many people...we had such good times together as kids. He was always there for me!...may he rest in peace.
January 20, 2011
I THOUHT THAT JOHN WAS A TRUELY NICE MAN.
Amy Rothschild
January 18, 2011
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Crout, David and Carolyn,
John was a wonderful person. He always had a smile on his face, a kind word to share and he never met a stranger. He will be greatly missed. I hope that as time passes, the tremendous sense of loss and sadness will be replaced with only warm memories of the times that you shared with John. Having lossed a loved one way too soon myself, I have come to a place where I know I would rather endure the sadness of the loss than to have never had the joy that the person brought to my life. I know that John brought alot of joy to you and others. Again, my deepest sympathies for your loss.
Cameron Marshall
January 18, 2011
I was fortunate to have worked with John at the Solicitor's Office and to have spent a good deal of time with him last year when we tried a case on opposite sides. Regardless of the situation, John was always kind, jovial, honest, humerous and capable. He was one of my favorite colleagues, and will be greatly missed.
Jill HaLevi
January 18, 2011
John's warmth, humility, and genuine concern for others was exceptional, and he will be greatly missed in the Charleston legal community.
Ken & Karen Roper
January 18, 2011
John was a good friend and had a generous spirit. Both me and my wife worked with him, and we grew to trust his counsel, enjoy his company, and cherish his big laugh. I'm deeply saddened to hear of his passing and will be praying for you all.
January 18, 2011
The Crout family, I am so very sorry for your loss. I worked with John some years ago and what I remember most about him was his positive attitude. He always had a smile and had the ability to brighten a room and fill it with laughter. God bless you all.
~Linda Seabrook, Washington, DC
Betsy Polk
January 18, 2011
To John's Family: You are in my prayers. I had not seen John in years, but was blessed to have known him.
Kim (Crout) Balose
January 17, 2011
To my big cousin John - thanks for always sitting at the kid's table with me when I know it was the last place you wanted to be. I loved knowing you when we were both adults and wish we had more time together. Rest in peace John Crout.
Stuart Register
January 17, 2011
Pastor and Mrs. Crout, David and Carolyn
My wife and I think the world of your family and we are so sorry for your loss. I will especially miss John at the AG's office when he would usually appear in our office area on Fridays with that charismatic smile and swagger. He was truly a unique and talented individual. Call me if you need anything, we will be in touch soon.
Edwin Moore
January 17, 2011
Dear Pastor Crout, Mrs.Crout, and David,
I was deeply saddened to hear of John's passing. I am proud to have known him. May God's Peace be with all of you.
Keith Warren '89
January 17, 2011
Big man, big personality, and a big heart. We will miss you.
Matthew 5:4
Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.
Helmut Hagan
January 17, 2011
Dear Rev. Crout, Mrs. Crout and David,
My family and I would like to offer our deepest condolences! I went to RNE with John and he was a friend to everyone. I recently saw John at our reunion and though he had experienced much success since high school, I was impressed with how grounded and affable he remained. We will keep your family in our prayers! God Speed,
Helmut Hagan and Family
Hane Edwards
January 17, 2011
Pastor and Mrs Crout
I am deeply sadden to her of your loss. I knew John for many years, beginning in grade school years, middle school football, RNE football, as well as attending The Citadel with him. He and I shared many laughs and experineces to say the least. He is and will be missed by all that had the fortune to know him. My deepest condolences Hane Edwards RNE 86 and Lima 90
Hane Edwards
January 17, 2011
Pastor and Mrs Crout
I am deeply sadden to her of your loss. I knew John for many years, beginning in grade school years, middle school football, RNE football, as well as attending The Citadel with him. He and I shared many laughs and experineces to say the least. He is and will be missed by all that had the fortune to know him. My deepest condolences Hane Edwards RNE 86 and Lima 90
John Drennan
January 17, 2011
Dear Reverend Crout,Mrs. Crout, David and family,
I was so sad to hear for John's passing I was in the Citadel class 1987, USC Law School 1990 and was a lawyer friend / colleague of John's for many years. John's will always be remembered by me as having a huge heart and a great "can do" attitude. I respected John so very much over the years for his confidence compassion and moral support for me and others over the years. He will be solely missed and fondly remembered as a great and genuine lawyer. With warmest regards John Drennan
Todd Ericsson
January 17, 2011
John and I worked together a few years back and he was a good friend through a very hard time in my life. His humor and ability to help me keep things in perspective was a gift from God. I am so sorry for your loss, but also so grateful for the John's presence in my life. You and your family are in my, and so many other's, prayers. God bless.
Joseph Del Vecchio (G '89)
January 17, 2011
As many do, we didn't keep in touch after college. However, he will always be my brother and will be greatly missed. My deepest sympathies to his family and to all who knew and loved him.
Michele Wein
January 17, 2011
John was a very special person bringing joy and laughter to all those he met. May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
David Soto
January 17, 2011
Dear Rev. Crout, Mrs. Crout, David and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief.
With Deepest Sympathy,
Lt. David Soto
Pam ZeRuth
January 17, 2011
I will always remember you as my first smile in the morning when you would drop Champ off with us on your way to work. We all miss you dearly.
Scott Fournier
January 16, 2011
Pastor & Mrs. Crout
I was devastated to hear the news of John's passing. We were classmates at The Citadel in Golf Company. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family
Renee Brown
January 16, 2011
Dear Rev. Crout, Mrs. Crout, David and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief.
With Deepest Sympathy,
Courtney and John Walker
January 16, 2011
Dear Joyce and Harry,
We are devastated to hear about the loss of your son, John. We are praying for you and your family. God's peace and much love to all of you!
Robert Todd Miller "C" '89
January 16, 2011
I am very saddened to hear about John's death. We were good friends many years ago and I thought to call him just last week when I got his birthday announcement. Then to hear this news is very sad.
Annette & Bill Austin
January 16, 2011
Pastor and Mrs. Crout,
We are so very sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
--Annette and Bill Austin
Kathy Sharpe
January 16, 2011
Pastor Crout, Joyce and David,
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of John. My thoughts and prayers are wtih you all. May you feel the love of God surround you at this difficult time.
Ron Bowers
January 16, 2011
Pastor Crout,
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family during your sorrow and forever.
Ron,Andrea and Gertrude Bowers
January 16, 2011
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family during this difficult time. John delighted in helping us cook in the Carolina Childrens BBQ cook off every year. His competivness and endearing way he had with children will be missed.
Ed & Gerrie Strack
1-16-2011
Jim Sharp
January 16, 2011
Johns strong character had a positive impact on many people. I am thankful for having known him.
Susan Jara
January 16, 2011
What a wonderful person, he will be missed by so many. My prayers are with the family. May god bless you in this time of sorrow. With deepest sympathy! I'm deeply sorry to hear about the death of ‘John'. With heartfelt condolences, Susan Jara
LeighAnne McGowan
January 16, 2011
Pastor and Mrs. Crout,
I am so sorry for your loss. I worked with John down in Charleston. I envied such a person who could always bring a smile to your face. He had an amazing personality and an infectuous laugh. When John smiled, he smiled with his entire face and eyes, bringing smiles to the faces of all those who surrounded him. John, may you rest in eternal peace, smiling down on us from Heaven. I feel blessed to have known you.
Clayton Crisp
January 16, 2011
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Edward Cox
January 16, 2011
Many unforgettable memories of John while at The Citadel and beyond.
He will be greatly missed.
I am truly sorry for your loss.
Ed Cox '90
Gene & Dianne Lucas
January 16, 2011
Pastor Crout, Joyce, David,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. We have some wonderful memories from Holy Trinity in Pelion. John always had the most personality, and kept us all smiling.
Teresa Williams
January 16, 2011
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this very difficult time. I worked with John in Charleston and I will miss him.
Will Williams
January 16, 2011
John, I will miss you. I remember meeting you at Boys State. Then our friendship continued at The Citadel. You were a fine man, one who could light up a room upon entering. See you at that last muster formation in the sky brother. Will Class of 89
Andy Schmidt '85
January 16, 2011
My heartfelt sympathies to all the Crout family. I ran into John a while back and hadn't realized he was working at the Statehouse where I have been for 17 years now. It was good seeing someone I admired from school. God bless.
John with Doug Heath and Tracy Hathaway at The Citadel in Nov '09 (Class of 1989's 20 year reunion)
Seth Hathaway (Citadel '89)
January 16, 2011
Dear Crout Family,
John remains an influential figure in my life. He was deliberate calm. From our experiences as freshman in Golf Company at The Citadel to just a short conversation two weeks ago, his kind and personal demeanor were a testimony to the man within. We will miss him, terribly.
Pam Adams
January 16, 2011
Joyce and Harry, it was with heartfelt sympathy that I read this morning of the loss of your son. I cannot imagine the deep and indescribable void you must feel. I pray to never have the experience to know it personally. May God bless you and strengthen you.
Pam Adams, Ajijic, Jalisco, Mexico
Teresa Miller
January 16, 2011
Rev and Mrs. Crout, I attended RNH with John way back and always had the best thoughts of him. Please except mine and my family's deepest condolences in this time of sorrow. We will continue to hold you up in prayer.
Mark Hutson
January 16, 2011
Harry, Joyce, and David, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. John was always a great guy to be around! My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Bishop C.L. Lorick, Jr.
January 16, 2011
I was very saddened to learn of John's passing. I will certainly miss greeting him in the hallways of the Attorney General's office. I sincerely pray for your strength during your time of bereavement.
"Earth has no sorrow that heaven cannot heal".
Greg and Sandra (Colon) Medert
January 15, 2011
As a member of the Colon Family, we are sincerely sorry for you loss. As Joe's older sister, John has been a part of our family since middle school. We will miss John's wonderful spirit and infectious laugh. We were so proud of his many, many accomplishments. John's passing will leave a tremendous void in this family.
Brian Grant
January 15, 2011
My thoughts and prayers are with your family!
John Palmer/ '88 C Co.
January 15, 2011
I remember John transferring into Charlie Company during my senior year. He proved immediately to be a great friend with an lively sense of humor. I remember a lot of laughs with John.
To the Crout family, you are in our thoughts and prayers. Rest in peace John. We will miss you.
David Keller
January 15, 2011
John Crout was a fine fellow...I knew him many years ago in our youth in Charleston right after he graduated Law School and began his professional journey...Larger than Life and a Laugh that made everything in the world seem right at the time.....I tried to get together with him for lunch recently to re-connect....should have tried harder....to Rev. Crout and Joyce know that he will be missed by many and touched many lives....A freind to all that encountered him including me.
Dottie Westbrook Luyster
January 15, 2011
I loved working with John. Classy guy. John had a way of making everyone comfortable around him in the SC Attorney General's office. Dottie Westbrook Luyster
Jose Garcia
January 15, 2011
My prayers and thoughts go out to the Crout family. You will be missed John.
Timothy Bryson
January 15, 2011
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. May God hold you in his arms.
The Rev. & Mrs. Timothy Bryson
Becky Barnhill
January 15, 2011
I worked with John many years ago at Laddaga, Crout and Roney. So very sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathies.
Sharon Fleming( Dabbs)
January 15, 2011
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Myron Chinn
January 15, 2011
We will miss you John..Good luck and God speed..
Ione Hildebrand
January 15, 2011
My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Mark Shade
January 15, 2011
I will always carry fond memories of John with me and cannot express how sad I was to hear this news; he was a wonderful friend. My thoughts and prayers are with your entire Family. Rest in peace brother. C Co, '89.
Rhonda Raven
January 15, 2011
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Jim Whitmore '89
January 15, 2011
We have lost a very dear friend, brother, and son. The loss of John’s magnanimous personality will leave a void in all of us. He touched so many in such an uplifting way. The mere sight of John would bring a smile to my face, because I knew his infectious energy would rub off on me as soon as we spoke.
My heart goes out to the Crout family in their time of loss. Thank you for bringing such a gifted soul into this world and sharing him with us.
Thomas Bowen
January 15, 2011
John was an extraordinary man. Always quick with a smile and a story to make you laugh. He will be missed for certain.
Harold B and Peggy Neel
January 15, 2011
Harry and Joyce, our hearts ache for you and your family. It is so hard to understand why things happen on this earth. Trust in God to carry you through this unbearable pain. As we know first hand, it is the only way to get through it. Know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Be comforted that John is rejoicing now in heaven, free from all cares and troubles of the journey on earth. All our love!
Phil Clark
January 15, 2011
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
|Richard and Jenny Eaves
January 15, 2011
Joyce and Harry, So very sorry for your loss.
Brian Gibbons
January 15, 2011
what a great fun guy to be around. John and I were Palmetto Boys State citizens together at The Citadel, and we were were in the Senate together there. He was a junior counselor with me the next summer and we were friends throughout our time together at The Citadel. loved to hear him tell a story with that booming voice. wonderful lawyer who will be sorely missed
David Hawkins
January 15, 2011
Mr. and Mrs. Crout, while words cannot begin to express my grief for the loss of such a fine person such as John, my thoughts and prayers for peace are with you. John was a big part of my life, as well as so many others, and someone I will truly miss. He was a spectacular person who could command a room with his warm personality, quick wit and invigorating smile. He was a great friend. Peace be with you.
Kevin McAlpin
January 15, 2011
Mr. and Mrs. Crout - John was a great friend and mentor at RNE and The Citadel. I'm a better person for having known him. We all are! I am so sorry for your loss!
Jones Andrews
January 15, 2011
To the Crout family, words are hard to find.Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time.
Jan Smoak
January 15, 2011
John will truly be missed.....what I will always remember is his laugh, and his giant hugs. We had a ball in high school, and John was a big part of everyone's experience.
Linda Miner
January 15, 2011
Harry and Joyce, Words can not begin to express my saddness for your loss. May God's strength sustain you.
Pam DeHart
January 15, 2011
Pastor Crout and Joyce. We are so stunned and saddened when reading about John. Mom is very upset and we both wish to extend our sincere love and sympathy to both of you.
Louise Lindler...Pam DeHart
Wayne Hayes Class of 85
January 15, 2011
To the Crout family,My thoughts and prayers go out to you.John u will be truly miss, but surely not forgotten.
Darrin Witt
January 15, 2011
John you will be missed by many. My thoughts and prayers go out to your family. We had great conversations over lunch on Daniel Island for many years. Your advice will be missed.
Darrin B. Witt, Class of '89
Matthew Kaufman Class of 89
January 15, 2011
A gentle giant, quick to grin and laugh, friend to all. Your classmates, friends and family will morn you and all will remember the light you brought to their lives. You will be missed.
Jeff Bell
January 15, 2011
Brother John,
Man, I am still stunned. I remember SV and RNE football, Boy's State, and The Citadel, Godspeed my Brother.
Lloyd Nelson
January 15, 2011
"To the Crout family, I am saddened by your lost. I have not seen John since High School but I can still hear him laughing. Such an intelligent and well rounded young man. He will never be forgotten." Lloyd Nelson, Class of '85 (Columbia, S.C.)
Todd Haggerty
January 15, 2011
An awesome guy that will always be remembered...god bless...
Citadel '89
Steven Wolford
January 14, 2011
John, I still remember being on Cadre when you showed up. You will forever be Ram Man in my mind. Here's to better times and fond memories my friend.
January 14, 2011
John, you'll be missed. Mr. and Mrs. Crout and family....so sorry for your loss....John was always full of life. Randy Murray, Golf Company, '89
Paul Tamburrino
January 14, 2011
You will be remembered for your strong spirit and your gentle nature. You were a fine brother Golfball! Citadel Class of 1989.
Citadel Class of 1989 - Knob Year - Golf Company. John is third row, 4th from left.
Paul Tamburrino
January 14, 2011
John with his Citadel classmates. John is on the left side in his t-shirt.
Paul Tamburrino
January 14, 2011
Michael Straniere '89
January 14, 2011
The epitome of the Southern Gentleman. Rest in Peace, brother.
Kathy O'Quinn
January 14, 2011
Joyce and Harry, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this very difficult time. Perry and I are so sorry for your loss.
Kim Jacob Speight
January 14, 2011
John, I have sat today and looked over photos of us on the senior cruise. I will always remember your boistrous laughter and sense of humor.
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