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Kelly Bingham
August 27, 2019
I worked for Jay in 1989-1990.What a great guy. My Condolences... To Friends and Family.
Vera and Brad Weed
June 16, 2016
Mr and Mrs Rickman we are so sorry for your loss Brad and I just found out about him. We send our love and prayers to you all. He was a great man and will truly be missed. I wish I would have known sooner love again too all.
Harriett and Ann Davis
April 17, 2016
Dear Mary and Family,
Please accept our sincere condolences. Your family in our prayers and thoughts now and always. May his memory be eternal.
Carol Armstrong Howe
April 16, 2016
Wendy, I was shocked and saddened to learn of Jays passing. I will be thinking of your family with deepest sympathy as you face the difficult days ahead. God bless you all.
Diana Lindsey
April 13, 2016
My deepest condolences to the family of this wonderful man. I rarely remember a time that Jay did not have a smile on his face and constantly speak of his children. The Rickman family is in my prayers.
S Fleming
April 12, 2016
Such a great person! God Bless his Family. Rest In Paradise
Lynn Benasutti
April 11, 2016
What a wonderful angel heaven has gained! Jay LOVED his family, loved God, loved his friends & loved life - may his memory be eternal! Rest in Peace Sweet Jay !
Jim and Kristen Betts
April 11, 2016
We are saddened to hear about Jay's passing. A good man gone too soon. Our condolences and best wishes go to his family.
John McNamara
April 11, 2016
How sad and tragic. I cannot remember a discussion with Jay that was not positive and uplifting. He will be missed. My deepest condolences to his family.
April 11, 2016
We were saddened to hear the news about Jay.
Our hearts and prayers are with your family at this difficult time. We will always remember the times we shared together.
Arthur, Vangie, AJ, and Gus Anastopoulo
- Pensacola Beach, Florida
Stefni Girnus
April 10, 2016
I am deeply saddened by the loss that you and your family have encountered. My condolences to you all. Jay has left us with some great memories that I will cheerish.
My thoughts and prayers to his family and AMCOl family.
Stefni Girnus
George Morris
April 10, 2016
My condolences especially to Mary. Jay was a good son and positive person well admired.
Wayne Grodsky
April 10, 2016
Sincerest condolences from Amy and I to Wendy, the kids and the entire family. What a great man and to me personally my southern brother
Melanie Mixon
April 10, 2016
Wendy and boys- Words fail at such a time as this, but it is obvious that Jay was quite a wonderful man. He is gone too soon, but I am sure he leaves a wonderful legacy to his family, friends, and acquaintances. As a man of faith, he is in the loving arms of God, and I have been praying for your family, that God's love and comfort will sustain you all.
Ray Miller
April 9, 2016
Wendy and family. I do not have the words to tell you how broken my heart is. Please know that Martha and I will be praying for you all.
Jay Sr. and Mary and Rena. I know you are devastated at the loss of a great son and brother as I am at the loss of a great friend with one of the most loving hearts of anyone I know. I consider you all as family and love you very much. We will continue to pray for you all.
Michael Waugh
April 9, 2016
I met Jay and we became friends while going to school at USC and working at C&S Bank. A great person with a tremendous family. Over the years, I ran into Jay several times. He was genuine and will definitely be missed.
Greg Simones
April 9, 2016
I was sad to learn of Jay's passing. I extend the love of the Simones family and our prayers to the Rickman family. I understand the untimely loss of someone close. May God go with you all!
Ronnie and Sandy Shores
April 9, 2016
We are greatly saddened by Jays passing. He was a wonderful person and good friend.Our condolences to Wendy and family.Jay will be sorely missed but not forgotten.
April 9, 2016
Wendy, Christian, Jacob, Demitri and Jay's Family, you are in our thoughts and prayers! May God grant you peace and comfort during this time of sorrow and sadness. May He give you strength to meet the days to come. Love and prayers, Donald and Betty Morillo, Charleston, SC
deane hines
April 9, 2016
Our family sends our love and sympathy to all of your family during this terrible loss. May Gods love and all your precious memories bring you comfort. Know we are here for you!!
Iris Rodelsperger
Deane Hines
Rodney and Jenni Dunagan
Zach and Katie Hunt
Logan,Leah,Max,Sophia,Allie,And Luke.
Tiffany Rice
April 9, 2016
My condolences I pray God keeps your family in such a difficult time.
Father Vasile Bitere
April 9, 2016
May his memory be eternal!
Kathy Gaffos
April 9, 2016
My heartfelt condolences to all the Rickman family...I have the fondest memories of Jay and the whole family from my time in Columbia. May his memory be eternal and the happiest of memories be with his family until you meet again.
April 9, 2016
Dear Mary and the Rickman family - I was so very sorry to learn of Jay's passing. I have fond memories of him when he lived in Charleston. I have lifted you up in my prayers together with Jay's family of wife and children. God tells us in his Word "I'll never leave you nor forsake you" - rest assured God stands behind his promises and he will bring peace and comfort to you and all the family.
Ann Lempesis (Charleston, SC)
Annette Morrison
April 8, 2016
My condolences to the Rickman Family.Jay will truly be miss. Such a nice person. Met him about 20 years ago when he came to TRMC.
Tom Walters
April 8, 2016
Mary, and the entire Rickman family,
To have known Jay is a blessing! He was a great person! A true testimony of what a man should be! Thinking of all of you all!
Diane Davis
April 8, 2016
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. May God comfort & keep your Family within his care. You'll be akways in my heart & in my prayers.
April 8, 2016
Dear Wendy ..I am so saddened to hear of Jay's passing. I will keep you and the family in my prayers.May God surround you with peace.
Diane Seebeck
Becky & Ed Black
April 8, 2016
To Wendy and the entire Rickman family; Our prayers are with you and your entire family. Jay was such a wonderful and dear HFMA friend....from the moment we first met him, he was never a stranger and always had a special way of bringing a smile to your face...being his friend was a truly a special blessing. We have the fondest memories of our Region 5 Cruise as he was such a key part of the good times we had. The entire HFMA community shares in your loss. Love and prayers, Becky and Ed Black (GA Chapter HFMA)
April 8, 2016
Sorry for your loss.
Angelo and Corinne Demos
Rodney Meeks
April 8, 2016
Dear Jay and Mary,
My deepest sympathy to you and your entire family. Jay Jr. was a great guy. I know you family is extremely close. May you find comfort in the many wonderful memories you shared.
Diane Croughwell
April 8, 2016
Please accept my sincere condolences Wendy and the 3 boys. A wonderful man, father, husband & son he was. I think of you all each time I pass your old house and wish you were still there. I remember Jay playing ball with the boys on your front lawn and would always enjoy spending a little time with all of you. Diane Croughwell
Joe & Karon Andrews
April 8, 2016
To Mary, Jay Sr. And Family. I have struggled over just what to say to the people who have been part of our lives for so many years. I look at Jay Jrs Picture here but I remember the boy. Cute. Sweet and into everything. Had questions for all. Sometimes shy, mostly outgoing and all smiles, even then. The man. So Kind, sweet and genreous not just with those he loved but people he just met. There were no strangers with Jay. Only people God put in his path to be encouraged by a kind word, a sweet smile. When you met Jay Jr, he instantly made you feel like family. May this kind and gentle spirit who touched so many, many lives, including ours, be forever now at peace. Standing beside God. Looking over us in Heaven as he did on earth. May the entire Rickman family find peace in the memories from his first breath.His life was a tribute to each of you as a family. We love you all now, as ever.
Ted Stambolitis
April 8, 2016
To the Rickman Family: My deepest condolences sympathies on the passing of Jay Jr. He was a good friend and great man. When I first moved from Florence, Jay was one of the first people that extended his welcome and friendship. I will never forget that act of love. God bless you Jay Jr. and God bless and comfort the Rickman family.
April 8, 2016
The Papas family is truly sorry to here of your great loss.
Nancy Papas
John Papas
Amy Wong
Simeon (Sandy) Papas
Rickie Papas
Georgia Papas
Dia Papas
Tom Gavinski
April 8, 2016
To the Rickman family. Jay was a great man. He and I worked together at ACA International on several committees. I always enjoyed his smile and sense of humor. Rest In Peace Jay. You will be missed.
Kathi & Kenny Heissenbuttle
April 8, 2016
No words. May His Memory Be Eternal. God Bless and watch over his entire family.
Cathy Dougherty
April 8, 2016
Watch over us Jay. I will miss you forever. Loving thoughts to the Rickman family. Please know he made a difference. Cathy D
Karla Powell
April 8, 2016
He will be missed by his extended family of friends, Sincere condolences to the family.
Eleftheria Poole
April 8, 2016
I am so sorry to hear of Jay, Jr's passing. May it comfort Rickman family to know others share the sadness in our heart.
Ted & Jill Rickman
April 8, 2016
Dearest Mary and Jay, we are so saddened by this loss. Jay, Jr was such a special, delightful man and is treasured by the entire family, Love from Jill and Ted and our boys and their families.
Ted & Jill Rickman
April 8, 2016
Dear Wendy and family, we are so sorry for your loss. Jay was a very special man and will be greatly missed. With much love, Uncle Ted and Aunt Jill Rickman
donnie marshall
April 8, 2016
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998
Anita Wood
April 8, 2016
I was so saddened to hear of Jay, Jr's passing. My thoughts and prayers will be with the family.
April 8, 2016
Dear Mary, Jay, Sr., Wendy, Demitri, Christian and Jacob, Our heart is broken for all of you. Words cannot express the sadness that we feel for the entire Rickman family. May Jay's memory continue to be a blessing for you now and forever highlighted and etched in your heart. Hold the dear memories tight in your heart. Our prayers, love and hugs are with you. Gail and Bobby Ginsberg
April 8, 2016
Mary and Jay, No words cold ever tell you the feeling of deep
sympathy this brings to you today. Our hearts and prayers go out
to you and your family at this sad time. With our Love
Mary Xanthakis and Richard Baroudi
Mary Xanthakis Lexington, South Carolina
"Doc" & Shirley Baldwin
April 8, 2016
Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Rickman family.
Martin Sher
April 8, 2016
My heart goes out to the entire Rickman family. Debbie and I have all of you in our thoughts and prayers. God bless.
laura smith
April 8, 2016
All I know is that my parents are devastated and heart broken as are we! They love your family so much! Sean and I will continue to pray for you and the boys!
Greg Williams
April 8, 2016
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of Jay Jr. Jay was a good friend and will be missed dearly. My thoughts and prayers are with the family.
Beth Gibson
April 8, 2016
I am deeply saddened to hear of Jay's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
I worked with Jay, Mary and Amcol family over the years.
Romans 12:15 Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn.
Bill Byrd
April 8, 2016
Jay, I'm so sorry to hear of the loss of your son. He was an outstanding man, just like his dad. My heart goes out to you and your family at this sad time.
Debbie Manos
April 8, 2016
We were so sad to hear about Jay's death. We have you and your family in our thoughts and prayers. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help. May his memory be eternal. With Love Chris and Debbie Manos
April 8, 2016
We are so sad to hear of Jay's passing. His entire family is in our thoughts and prayers. He has been a faithful supporter of the JDRF Palmetto Chapter over the years and if there is anything we can do during this difficult time please do not hesitate to let us know.
Kevin Simmons and the JDRF Palmetto Chapter Staff and Board of Directors
Betsy Moore
April 8, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. Jay was a wonderful man and please let us know if there is anything we can do for you. Prayers for you and the boys.
Kenneth and Angie Shuler
April 8, 2016
We were deeply saddened to learn the news of Jay's passing. We send our sincere condolences to the family and offer continued prayers for you all.
Donna Baldwin-Gregg
April 8, 2016
Wendy......I am so saddened to hear about Jay's passing. I think of you often and remember the day I introduced you to Jay. Sending you, the boys and the family sincere thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Cheri Ray
April 8, 2016
Prayers for strength and comfort that only Our Lord can provide.
Miriam Gilmore
April 8, 2016
My heart and prayers are with the Rickman Family. Jay was always such a kind and upbeat person. He always had a smile and a kind word.
Teri Smith
April 8, 2016
So many prayers for all of you. Jay was loved by so many and will be missed.
Robin Tindal Price
April 8, 2016
Jay's presence at AMCOL will be greatly missed and never forgotten, he touched everyone with his warmth and kindness. I will miss his excitement when talking about my Dad's drag racing and fast cars with him. My heart is heavy for Jay's family. Rest in Peace to a kind and wonderful soul.
Ed Fleshman
April 7, 2016
I dont know what to say.... Jay was a 'super' high school friend and we later ran across each other in collections and USC Sports. He has always been a GREAT guy and we loved to catch up... especially on 'Chevelle's" and other "Muscle Cars". Prayers to his family...
russell carter
April 7, 2016
Everyone is actively in my prayers. I'm sorry for this loss. I know it's a difficult time. I'm hoping strength finds you all.
Amanda Duke
April 7, 2016
So sorry to hear this news. My heartfelt condolences to Jay's parents, Wendy and Jay's sons.
Athina and Randy Eargle
April 7, 2016
We are sorry for your loss. May his memory be eternal. God bless him and your family.
April 7, 2016
The TN HFMA Chapter extends our deepest sympathy to Jay's family and friends during this most difficult time.
Martha Calfee, 2015-16 TN HFMA Chapter President
Irene Zalants
April 7, 2016
Our hearts are heavy for all of you. May God give you strength and courage. Jay was a wonderful man. We always had a great time with all of you. May his memory be eternal.
xoxo
Anthony and Irene Zalants
Ronnie Lemmond
April 7, 2016
So sorry for your loss..
My prayers go out to the Rickman family..
2015 Dixie Institute
Steve Lutfy
April 7, 2016
Jay - you were such an incredibly great friend. I cherish the times we spent together and all the memories that we made. Thank you for all the fun times, support and leadership that you've shown to the healthcare industry. Your legacy will live on forever! Rest now Jay in the peace of God.
Kevin Wooten
April 7, 2016
Wendy, I am praying for you and the children.
George & Jesusa Lamira
April 7, 2016
Our family was deeply saddened about Jay's passing. Thank you Jay for being so kind around Amcol and when we see you at The Citadel. Your smile and great personality will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family at this difficult time. God Bless..
Glenda Boatwright
April 7, 2016
To my niece Wendy and the boys . We are going to miss the smile and laughter we had with Jay.
He was a great father and husband. Our time is so short here on this earth. I know his arms are open and looking down on his family.
Love you and praying time will help ease your pain.
Aunt Glenda and Uncle Frankie
Georgia and Demetris Glekas and family
April 7, 2016
Our most sincere condolences to the Rickman family. May his memory be eternal. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Robert Uhall
April 7, 2016
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with your family and friends in this time of sorrow.
Jaison, Ginger & Briana Le Count
April 7, 2016
Deeply saddened by the news, he will be missed never forgotten. Sending our love and prayers to the entire Rickman family. God bless and may he RIP
Barbara Coleman
April 7, 2016
With Heartfelt sympathy...
Sorry for your loss
Christine Pedersen
April 7, 2016
I am so sorry to hear this. You and the family are in my prayers. Jay was a wonderful person the very short time I knew him.
Leigh D. Soufas
April 7, 2016
Truly saddened to learn of Jay Jr's falling asleep -- may his memory be eternal - AIONIA AFTOU H MNIMI! +
Thinking on you ALL in this poignant time...may you receive Heaven's Blessings in Abundance. +
Leigh D. Soufas
Angie Senn
April 7, 2016
Wennd, boys, Mary, Jay Sr, Rena, Chris.... and your entire family... I am heart broken for you. I wish I could be there but please know I am there in spirit and am keeping you all in my prayers. Love you all,
Debra Ciskey
April 7, 2016
My heartfelt condolences to the Rickman family. Your loss is our loss, your grief is our grief, your tears are our tears. I pray for God's blessings for all of you.
costa pleicones
April 7, 2016
Mary and Jay,
Please know you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers at this trying time. God bless you, and may his memory be eternal.
costa and donna pleicones
Vicky & Dennis Shepard
April 7, 2016
During this time of sorry may the Lord give you the strength to take each and every step as you morn the lose of Jay and the impact this has on those of us left in this world. May he rest in peace and may you feel the shoulder of God as he lifts you up as life moves on.
Vicky & Dennis Shepard
Peter and Kari Candela
April 7, 2016
May your memory be eternal.
Our deepest sympathy to all family members and friends.
John Hunt
April 7, 2016
Our deepest condolences to the family of Jay Rickman. He will surely be missed by all his great friends who knew him. He was kind and fun to be with. God bless you all!
John and Patti Hunt
James Island, SC
Tom Haag
April 7, 2016
What a shame. Jay Jr. has always been a friend as have Jay and Mary. Our prayers are with the entire family. Amen
Angela Retzios
April 7, 2016
May his memory be eternal. Our thoughts and prayers go out to Wendy, Demitri, Christian, Jacob, Mary, Jay and all the Rickman and Sharpe Families. Our hearts are aching and we will always cherish the beautiful memories we hold. A true loss to the family and to all of us. xoxo God bless everyone.
Linda M. Stabler
April 7, 2016
I am deeply saddened to hear of Jay's untimely passing. My thoughts and prayers go out to the entire Rickman family during this difficult time. He was truly a great man and will be missed by so many.
April 7, 2016
Wendy,
My thoughts and prayers will be with you and your family. I am so sorry for your loss.
Vicki Johnson
Diane Paschal
April 7, 2016
I was so saddened to hear of the loss of Jay and my prayers go out to the family. He will be missed by his extended family of friends and acquaintances.
Russ Pritchard
April 7, 2016
Our sincere condolences to Wendy and the Rickman family, Jay's wit and humor will be missed by many!
Ligia & Celso Bolet
April 7, 2016
Mary and family, we are so saddened by your loss. May Jay's memory be eternal.
Sue Bleau
April 7, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. Prayers for you and your family.
Renee Hooker
April 7, 2016
So sorry about your loss. Jay was a great man. I know he will be missed by many.
Brylan Gann
April 7, 2016
Jay and I knew each other well having shared time together in the healthcare collection industry and catching up whenever our travels united us through a conference event. We had a great admiration and respect for one another, often talking by phone between conferences to bounce an idea off of one another. Jay treated everyone he met with the utmost of respect. He always greeted you with a warm smile and left you with the comfort of having shared a moment with him and calling him...friend.
Kathryn Sherrod
April 7, 2016
Wendy - you and your family have been through so much. I am so sad to hear this news and continuing to think of you and the boys. Love from all of us at PG.
Kathryn Sherrod
Kate and Charlotte
Lisa Eubanks
April 7, 2016
Our thoughts and prayers are with Jay's family, friends, and staff during this difficult time.
Collectors Insurance Agency
Bond Department
Marian Sangalang
April 7, 2016
We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with the Rickman family.
Brent Rice
April 7, 2016
Our thoughts and prayers go out to Jay's family and friends. We lost a good one. God speed.
Jim Grigsby
April 7, 2016
Jay was a very good man and a credit to the healthcare industry. It was a pleasure to know him. RIP my friend.
Jim Grigsby
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