Search by Name

Search by Name

James Elbert "Pepaw" Proctor Sr.

James Elbert "Pepaw" Proctor Sr. obituary, Charleston, SC

FUNERAL HOME

J. Henry Stuhr Downtown Chapel

232 Calhoun Street

Charleston, South Carolina

UPCOMING SERVICE

Visitation

Sep. 20, 2025

6:30 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.

J Henry Stuhr Downtown

Send Flowers

James Proctor Obituary

James Elbert Proctor Sr. ("Pepaw") CHARLESTON - James Elbert Proctor Sr. ("Pepaw") It is with love and remembrance that we announce the passing of James Elbert Proctor Sr., affectionately known to all as Pepaw, on September 8, 2025. Born with a spirit of resilience and resourcefulness, James dedicated over 45 years of his life to the Post and Courier, where his hard work and loyalty left a lasting mark. Known as a jack of all trades, he had a gift for fixing whatever life placed before him. As his family often said, if something went wrong, it wasnt broken - the timing was just off. James was blessed with great love in his life. He is survived by his loving wife, Della, who stood by him with devotion and care. He was preceded in death by his wife, Shirley Proctor, with whom he shared many cherished years and memories. Pepaw's true legacy, however, lives in the family he loved so dearly. He is survived by his sons, Jimmy (and daughter-in-law, Karen), Marty, and Tony (and daughter-in-law, Vicki); his daughter, Susan (and daughter-in-law, Bebe) and his daughter, Sandy Davis; his grandchildren, Brandy, Gary, Jimmy, Elisha, Jamie, and Shirley; and his great-grandchildren, Gary, Bryant, and Robbie. Each one carries his humor, wisdom, and unwavering love in their hearts. Pepaw filled holidays and everyday moments with laughter and tradition. As the family fondly recalls, "Don't worry - this Easter, we'll hide our own eggs." His presence was a cornerstone of family life, and his absence will be felt deeply, yet his memory will continue to guide and comfort all who knew him. A celebration of James's life will be held at a later date, where family and friends will gather to honor the man who meant so much to so many. A memorial message may be sent to the family by visiting our website at www.jhenrystuhr.com. Visit our guestbook at legacy.com/obituaries/charleston

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Charleston Post & Courier from Sep. 9 to Sep. 10, 2025.

Memorial Events
for James Proctor

Sep

20

Visitation

6:30 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.

J Henry Stuhr Downtown

232 Calhoun Street, Charleston, SC 29401

Funeral services provided by:

J. Henry Stuhr Downtown Chapel

232 Calhoun Street, Charleston, SC 29401

Memories and Condolences
for James Proctor

Sponsored by J. Henry Stuhr Downtown Chapel.

Not sure what to say?





0 Entries

Be the first to post a memory or condolences.

Make a Donation
in James Proctor's name

How to support James's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor James Proctor's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more