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James Arthur McNairy

1961 - 2023

James Arthur McNairy obituary, 1961-2023, Charleston, SC

BORN

1961

DIED

2023

James McNairy Obituary

James Arthur McNairy MT. PLEASANT - James Arthur McNairy, loving husband, father, brother, and son, passed away suddenly on Saturday, February 25, 2023. Born December 7, 1961, in Greensboro, NC, Jim grew up in Charlotte, NC, attending South Mecklenburg High School. From there, Jim went on to attend the Citadel, where he was a member of Kilo Company and Summerall Guards. His larger than life personality got him elected Master of Revels during his senior year. After graduation, Jim was commissioned 2nd Lieutenant in the US Army, Armored Division. Following his military service, Jim returned to Charlotte where he enjoyed a long career as a contractor. In 2010, he returned to the LowCountry and soon after met his wife, Heather. Jim enjoyed cruising the Waccamaw River, cooking dinner, playing golf and rooting on his beloved Tar Heels. Jim is survived by his wife, Heather Reames McNairy; children, Rob, Meredith and Meagan McNairy; parents, Jane and Robert McNairy; brothers, Doug and Porter McNairy; and sister, Lynn King. A Celebration of Life will be held on Thursday, March 2, 2023, at The Citadel, Summerall Chapel at 11:00 AM. Visit our guestbook at legacy.com/obituaries/charleston

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier from Feb. 27 to Feb. 28, 2023.

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Mark Stephens

March 2, 2023

Jim was a '84 class mate and good friend. I remember many fun times we had at The Citadel in 3rd battalion. I wish sincerest condolences to all his family,

Craig C Kluttz

March 1, 2023

A couple of classmates from The Citadel sent this to me today and my heart is filled with sorrow and disbelief. Although we lost touch years ago, Jim and his family have always had a place in my heart and my life. We grew up together, we went to the same schools and he was my friend. In our younger years he was always someone I could count on and always there when I needed him. I will have a tremendous void in my life for losing contact with him, but the memories of our time together will be with me forever. I am so sorry to all of the families affected by this loss and I for one have lost a dear friend. Peace to all of you.
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Jackie Gable

March 1, 2023

I am so sorry to hear that Jim has passed. We worked together at Ryland Homes, and his larger than life personality, good nature, and generosity are unforgettable. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends

Tracey Porcher

March 1, 2023

Dearest Heather, I was so sorry to hear about your husband. Sending you my deepest condolences. Love you. Tracey

Theron and Dale Hegler

February 28, 2023

Heather, we are so sorry to hear of your loss of Jim. Know that you and your family are in our prayers. Our community group from St Peters sends our condolences and love to you at this difficult time. Please visit us at St Peters when you can.
May God´s peace surround you during this difficult time.
Hugs, Dale and Theron Hegler

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