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James Elliot McKelvey SUMMERVILLE - The relatives and friends of James Elliot "EJ" McKelvey are invited to attend his Home-going service Saturday, March 10, 2012 at Calvary Church of God in Christ, 302 Jeff Circle (off Liberty Hall Road), Goose Creek, SC at 11:00 AM. Remains to the church at 10:00 AM. Interment will be at Howe Hall Cemetery, Goose Creek, SC. Walk-Thru will be today 2-8 PM at THE MINISTRY OF RIVERS FUNERAL HOME, 421 Redbank Road, Goose Creek, SC 29445. 843-824-9990 or 1-800-884-9990. "EJ" leaves to cherish his memories: his mother, Deanna Garrett McKelvey; son, Darius McKelvey; daughter, Chevonne Younginer; granddaughter, Kimiya Moorer; sister, Patricia McKelvey; stepsister, Christine Baylock; other relatives and friends. His father, Herbie McKelvey, preceded him in death. Condolences may be sent to www.riversfh.com. Visit our guestbook at www.postandcourier.com/ deaths

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier from Mar. 8 to Mar. 9, 2012.

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Kayla

April 30, 2024

I miss you so much uncle ej I wish you was here I know things would´ve been so much more different me & my brother misses you a lot -Kayla

J LJ

August 30, 2016

EJ it has been a little over four years since you left this earth, I think of you often and this day I just wanted to see you or hear about you... I ran across this guest book. You are truly missed, well liked, and well known! You were and always will be a beautiful soul that just could not wait to get to his destination no matter if it is understood or not. I miss you, and I still remember meeting you at the Winery back in the early 2000's we used to dance our behinds off.. I sure do miss you my friend.

Trell Bryant

March 14, 2012

JEM will be missed!! RIP EJAY I Love and miss you gone but not never forgotten. You will always hold a special place in my heart.

shanita

March 13, 2012

You will be missed

Deborah Simmons

March 12, 2012

TO THE FAMILY OF "EJ" SO SORRY FOR THE LOST OF SUCH A PLEASANT PERSON,HE IS MISSED, TREASURE THE MEMORIES OF HIM THEY LAST FOREVER, THE SIMMONS FAMILY!

Yvonne Brown

March 12, 2012

I will truly miss you my brother,my friend I'll always keep you in mind of your laugh and lollipop.

Tonia Minus & Family

March 12, 2012

Sending my deepest condolences! Ej was a good person and loveable young man! He will be greatly missed!

Cheryl Clarey

March 12, 2012

EJay, you were certainly an inspiration to sooo many people! You always encouraged others, especially with that never-ending smile! We all will miss you tremendously. Rest in peace and know you are in our prayers as is your entire family. Until we meet again...

George Dais

March 11, 2012

To The McKelvey Family,
"EJ" was a good guy. I met him through other friends and from the first time I met "EJ" he and I were tight ever since. We lost and good person but heaven has an even better angel now. He will truely be missed.
George O. Dais and Family
Charleston, SC.

KL Malik Washington Sr

March 11, 2012

Big cuzn you will be truly missed. I know yerr happy still while sucking on heavenly lollipops. RIP. RESPECT.

Audrey Antrobus

March 10, 2012

EJ that smile of yours is what I will always remember first whenever I think of you. I will turely miss you, still can't believe you are gone from us.

Lisa Robinson

March 10, 2012

EJ we were friends for such a long time...My heart is truly broken...I will keep your family in my prayers

Paulette Hawkins

March 10, 2012

Ej,
Words can't express how much I'm gonna miss my friend and my brother..You always carried a smile on your face that made others smile to.. I will never forget that night we danced and you stuck me in my eye with your lolly pop lol you said i'm sorry but you still didn't give up that blow pop.. After that night every time i saw you i started sayin here comes my brother the lolly pop man.. I will truly miss you my friend my brother..


" I FINISHED EARLY"
I had a lot to do...
More than some of you
Yet you wonder why I rest
I FINISHED EARLY..
I started on time,
Even though the choice was mine
And I put in a full days work but,
I FINISHED EARLY..
I thought at first the road was long
But I asked the lord to keep me strong
And step - by - step I ran the race
I JUST FINISHED EARLY..
I am not a quitter, my family
I kept on fighting until the end
And the only thing I can say is
I FINISHED EARLY..
By the measure of man's mind
And not by God's own time,
Do some of you look at the years;
I FINISHED EARLY..
But with God it counts not at all
How long, how brief
How great, how small..
He looks for a ready heart
My family my friends
I JUST FINISHED EARLY!!!

Shawn Harrison

March 9, 2012

Oh my friend I am so sorry that you are no longer with us....you will greatly be missed. I am so glad I had the pleasure of meeting you and getting to know the kind sweet person that you were.I'm going to miss those days in The Elks....lol you know we used to have a ball. To the McKelvey family my heart goes out to you all may God continue to carry you through this very difficult time. RIP EJ YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN

CELESTE WARD

March 9, 2012

MY FRIEND, Always kept a smile on my face. I still can remember the day we met and how and from there on u got a spot in my heart. I cant believe GOD has called on u so soon but GOD knows best. IM GONE MISS U SO MUCH! R.I.P EJ. LOVE U!!!

kelly sweat

March 9, 2012

My heart is truly broken, we met thru family and became instant friends forever. You were always kind and thoughtful. I thank God for putting you in my life. I will always be your me-my midget. I love you

You will be miss my friend...

Shena Fordham

March 9, 2012

Shena Fordham

March 9, 2012

May you find comfort in God's word promising to never leave you nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5)during this difficult time in your life.

Ernest & Suzanne Jefferson

March 9, 2012

The Jefferson family will keep all of you in our prayers.We will miss him and his smiles,Deanna keep your eyes on the one who will see you through all of this. God will take care of you just look up to the hills which cometh your help and he will see you through.

Starr Tindal

March 9, 2012

Hey Big Bro, I will truely miss you. You left behind your three step sisters Starr, Toya, & Meka. And don't forget your lovely MAMA Denise. A GANG of nephews & nieces....love you big brother...

Tara Singleton

March 9, 2012

"Dance On"my friend "Dance On"God called and you heard.Save me a "Heavenly Dance"

miguel whaley

March 9, 2012

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Kisha Clark

March 9, 2012

EJ im going to miss you coming by the house,My heart hurts knowing that i can't just pick up the phone to call you and you would come right over. You told me last week to go pick up my son's car and you would fix it up for him well I got the car home on Saturday and now your gone.I have no more interest in the car because your not here to fix it up ,i'll never find a mechanic or friend like you.Love Kisha Clark and Family.

Shauna S.

March 9, 2012

Words cannot express how I am feeling writing this. Sometimes we expect the people that we care about and love to be with us forever. While I understand that God loved you and needed you more, it still hurts. I will never forget the selfless, kind, and genuine friend you were. You will forever be in my heart and your family and children will forever be in my prayers. Til we meet again, Babes! Love ya!

capri culver

March 9, 2012

To the McKelvey Family,
I'm truly sorry to hear that you'll lost a True, honest, loving and kind hearted person. Just know that God took EJ home to watch over his family. My Condolences is with you all "The McKelvey Family"

FELICIA BRODERICK

March 9, 2012

To the McKelvey Family words cannot express the way people are feeling about EJ's untimely demise,knowing him during our days at GCHS all We can do is say he's made it safely in the Lord's arms. Charleston has lost one great Man!! WE LOVED YOU BUT GOD LOVES YOU BEST!! REST ON MY FRIEND YOU WILL BE TRULY MISSED!!# FELICIA W.BRODERICK(DANIEL ISLAND SC)

Miriam & Jared Garrett

March 9, 2012

To the McKelvey and Garrett family: I would like to send my condolence to you all. I am truely sadden to hear of "EJ", because he is my cousin. We have shared so many fun times together when we were little."EJ" was always wise beyond his years, my sister Pam and brother Rodney, always was a little older than "EJ" and he would try to keep up with us. My fonest memory of "EJ" was when we enbarked on a journey to plan our very own Garrett Family Reunion, "EJ", was always ready to help and gave so much positive support, it can be very hard dealing with family somethimes lol... but "EJ" was a joy to have as a cousin. "EJ" know that god is a man that makes no mistake and I know that God was ready for you to come home. When you get to heaven please tell Uncle ED, Aunt Frances,Aunt Miriam,Grandma Sarah and most of all my beloved Daddy James Garrett Sr.... I said hello know that they will take care of you know "EJ" we love you but god loves you more. Weeping my endure for a night but oh lord joy cometh in the morning. I will always love you cuz!

Dec.Gene@Brenda Reese

March 9, 2012

To the McKelvey/Garrett family,we was deeply saden and hurt to here of the passing of EJ,he was a friend and like a son to us,(shorty)Hold on to Gods unchanging hands.Just know that weeping may endures for a night but JOY!! cometh in the morning.We are praying for you and the family.

Ka'ronda Hart (PRECIOUS)

March 9, 2012

MY HEART IS SO HEAVY & SO BROKEN YOU WERE MY BEST FRIEND & A MAN THAT I LOVED DEARLY ONLY GOD KNOWS WHY YOU WERE TAKEN AWAY FROM US SO FAST I NEVER GOT TO TELL YOU THANK YOU, OR I LOVE YOU, OR ANY OF THE THINGS THAT I REALLY NEEDED TO SAY TO YOU BUT, I KNOW YOU KNEW..... I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER YOU & WHAT YOU TAUGHT ME HOW TO BE A STRONG WOMAN & NEVER LET A MAN SEE YOU HURT! MY EJ MY LOLIPOP MAN I LOVE YOU SO MUCH & I'LL NEVER EVER FORGET YOU I WILL CHECK UP ON MOMMA MORE OFTEN!!!

TOmica Walker-Smith

March 9, 2012

To a very well respected man You will be greatly missed but never forgotten EJ Sometimes things happen that we don't understand and question why But I know my God calls on us when he needs us most And he needs you to be with him Without no worries no tears no pain nothing but love and peace EJ May you Rest In Peace

Shanta Whitlock

March 9, 2012

To the McKelvey family, please find comfort in knowing that EJ was respectful, caring, compassionate, fun, honest man. I could go on & on, but to sum him up he was Real! I can't say that I've ever met someone as kind as him. I am so sad to hear of him leaving us, I am truly gonna miss him. Even though it's been a while since the days when we spent time together, when I did bumped into him it was always that special love & respect that we shared. He was truly like a big brother to me, even though he hated when I called him that. I will forever remember our talks & how he was there for me. I pray for peace, strength & comfort for you all, God Bless.

Shanta' M. Whitlock

Barbara Simpson-Holmes

March 9, 2012

To The McKelvey Family you have my Deepest Sympathy "EJ" will be missed terribly, I have the best memories of him so he will forever be near, Deanna(shorty) my heart goes out you and the kids. God will take care of you guys.

kelly sweat

March 9, 2012

My heart is truly broken, we met thru family and became instant friends forever. You were always kind and thoughtful. I thank God for putting you in my life. I will always be your me-my midget. I love you

The Fords

March 9, 2012

To The McKelvey Family, "EJ" as he was affectionately called has always been a fine young man as long as we've known him. EJ hung out at my house with my nephew and they grauated high school the same year. Family, remember to Hold on to God's unchanging hands and he will see you through your time of sorrow. May God Bless you and keep you in his care......Rita, John, Sheba, Shy and Fe Fe

Zavieria McGill-Meggett

March 9, 2012

May God give the Mckelvey comfort during this time of bereavement.Earth has no sorrow that heaven cannot heal. RIP EJ you was always a nice young man. Everyone loved you but God loved you best.

Ladonna Manuel

March 9, 2012

HERE IS A LIGHT FOR YOU FOR YOU HAVE SHINE ON MANY LIVES OUR! ALTHOUGH UR GONE BUT UR MEMORIES WILL LAST FOREVER! AS THE DAYS GETS CLOSER TO SAY OUT LAST GOODBYES IAM GETTING TO UNDERSTAND MORE AND SOME QUESTIONS WHY IR ALWAYS SUCKING ON A RED LOLLIPOP ? RED MEANS COVENANT! THE WHOLE TIME U WERE COVERING URSELF UNDER THE BLOOD U LOVED ON EVERYONE, U WERE TO WHAT U NEED TO DO TO GET THRU LIFE AND TAKE CARE OF THOSE KIDS AND I LOVED U FOR THAT! IAM GONNA MISS THAT KOOLAIDE SMILE BUT GOD HAS A BETTER PLAN FOR YOU! MY HEART GOES OUT TO THE FAMILY MAY GOD GIVE THEM STRENGHT AND KEEP THEM COVERED AS THE DAYS GOES ON! REST EJ REST UR JOB HER IS DONE! LOVE YOU MR LOLLIPOP MAN!

Vanessa Hamilton

March 9, 2012

James, meeting you have been a pleasure for both lucille(my car) and me. You were one of the nicest young men I have ever met, and although our friendship was mostly about you and lucille, I enjoyed making you laugh when you came to check on her. You will be truly missed by the both of us...
your friends,
Vanessa & Lucille

Joyce Myers-Lowe

March 8, 2012

Take Your Rest Buddy...Rest In Peace "E"! I Will Greatly Miss You. You Were An Angel Sent From God and Now He Has Called You Home. My Deepest Sympathy To The Garrett/McKelvey Family. May You Take Solice Knowing That EJ Is With God. To Be Absent From The Body Is To BE Present With The Lord. May God Give You Strength And Peace In Your Time Of Bereavement.

Jacquelin Jett

March 8, 2012

Its been a long while since I have seen you, and I am so deeply saddened by your passing, especially for your family...may god hold them tight and make this journey as easy as he can for them all. I can't believe you're gone, I remember the times we had together and I will keep them in my heart forever and a day, may God rest your soul~Jackie Jett

March 8, 2012

R.I.P. EJ YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN.THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO THE MCKELVEY FAMILY. TONYA JONES CLARK

Laura Williams

March 8, 2012

James Family and Friends, May God keep you close to his side in your time of need. Lean on him and he will get you through this.

stacy Williams

March 8, 2012

R.I.P I lite this candle for you my brother to show my love and appreciation know that you will be missed gone but never forgotten. Save that cherry blo pop for ya girl i will see you in that better place......Love, Sassy X-ZOTIC KATZ M/C

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