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James Gary Obituary

GARY, JAMES PATRICK, 65, a lifelong resident of Glen Burnie, died September 15, 2011. He was born in Baltimore, MD on February 3, 1946 to Anne Leonora Pumphrey Gary and the late Charles Corbin "Pat" Gary. Pat graduated from Mt. Saint Joseph High School and attended the Catholic University of America in Washington and received his BA; he went on to further his education by attending George Washington University, receiving his MBA and the University of Maryland, receiving his MS. He was employed with NASA Goddard Space Flight Center for 44 years as a computer scientist and network projects leader. Pat was also the head of the networks and IT security branch. He was an active member of the St. Bernadette Catholic Church parish. Pat enjoyed his career and his family, history and geography; he was an avid reader, highly analytical and traveled the national parks, Civil War sites and historic settlements. He loved sightseeing and natural landmarks. He was able to fall asleep in any position in any location.

In addition to his mother, he is survived by his wife and best friend of 46 years Amelia Edythe Stem Gary; one son, James Patrick Gary, Jr.; two daughters, Cynthia Renee Gary Huber and husband Joseph Robert Huber, Jr. and Sharon Elizabeth Gary Jones and husband Charles Thomas Jones; four grandsons, Benjamin Thomas Jones, Nicholas Andrew Jones, Bradley James Huber and Zachary Brendon Huber; and one sister, Patricia Anne Gary.

A memorial mass will be held on Friday, September 23rd, 11am, at St. Bernadette Roman Catholic Church. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Dr. Eisenberger's Research at Johns Hopkins Kimmel Cancer Center (payable to Johns Hopkins University), 100 N. Charles Street, Ste 234; Baltimore, MD 21201. Arrangements by Singleton Funeral & Cremation Services, PA.

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Published by the Maryland Gazette on Sep. 21, 2011.

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Linda Hammett

October 7, 2011

I have known Pat and his wife Edye for well over 20 years and they are two of the finest people. I lost my husband almost 7 years ago and Pat and Edye were always with me to help me through the many rough times. Pat was such a kind and caring man who always thought of the other person. I will miss him very much but will be by Edye's side as she walks through her grieving process. I love you Edye. Your friend, Linda

September 24, 2011

Edy, I have known a lot of people in my life but never have I known anyone so loved by such a variety of people. His boss, employees, & coworkers couldn't say enough about how much they loved and respected Jay. His friends and your neighbor also painted a beautiful picture of who he was. And of course Cindy's eulogy. So many different categories all with the same opinion that he was always true to everything he encountered, whether it was work, play,or love. The world was definately a better place because of him. I'm so sorry I didn't know him better. Once again my deepest sympathy to you and your family. Love, Googan

william campbell

September 23, 2011

I worked with Pat at Goddard since 1983. He was always friendly, professional and very approachable. Sorry to hear of his passing. RIP

Renee Prestigiacomo

September 22, 2011

May the Family Cherish their Memories. Take Care

Mike Seablom

September 22, 2011

Working with Pat was such a great experience. He had so much enthusiasm and knowledge that an ordinary conversation with him would really brighten your day.

James Taylor

September 22, 2011

I worked with Pat at NASA GSFC for many years. I will always remember his insight and knowledge. He will certainly be missed. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family.

Lori Brown

September 22, 2011

Though I never had the pleasure of meeting Pat I have heard some wonderful stories about him . I am sending prayers to all the Gary family and friends . May Pat RIP and the family find peace that they now have a great angel watching over them . Love Lori

Kim Terrell

September 21, 2011

God bless J. Pat Gary's family, friends and co-workers. RIP Pat. I will always remember and appreciate your support in my professional development at NASA GSFC.

Beth Paschall

September 20, 2011

I worked with Pat on and off for several years and will truly miss his unique perspective and knowledge. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends.

September 20, 2011

We will miss you.

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