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The Erie family of the Staffords
February 22, 2026
From your family here in Erie we are truly sorry and saddened to hear of Jake's passing. May God ease your grief and sorrow.
Mary brumagin
February 15, 2026
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
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Uncle Bob and Aunt Shelli Stafford
February 14, 2026
Some people leave a mark on your heart that never fades.
Our nephew Jake spent the last ten years serving our country, living with courage and commitment. But the joys of knowing him growing up - the laughter, the little moments, the adventures are priceless and will stay with us forever.
He is deeply missed and deeply loved.
Until we meet again
Love Uncle Bob and Aunt Shelli
Buddy
February 13, 2026
Jake was a fierce friend, making you feel like his brother from the moment you met. For me, this was 13 years ago at a mutual friend´s party, we immediately clicked. His calm demeanor, and accepting attitude made me feel like he understood me, and that I could count on this guy in a heartbeat. All of this after 30 minutes of knowing him.
I am better for having met you, my friend. I wish we could do something stupid together again, Jake was spur of the moment for action, in this life. But I´ll see you on the other side, brother.
I love you. Rest easy, I´ll be seeing you.
A friend
February 13, 2026
You will be missed and loved by all of the people you impacted during your military service. Thank you for being empathetic, loving, supportive and kind. truly a gem.


Your Brothers
February 13, 2026
He will be missed more than any words can convey. Jacob was a brother to us all, a special part of our families. We all will forever cherish the times we spent together, we will never forget you. Love you brother.
Libby Aydlette
February 13, 2026
Herb & Sarah, so sorry to hear this. Jake was a nice guy & a great brother. My Prayers, thoughts & love for you & the Stafford family during this difficult time.
natalie smith
February 12, 2026
i am so deeply sorry for your loss. my heart is with you and your loved ones during this painful time. i´m sending you comfort, love, and strength, and hoping you´re surrounded by peace and gentle moments of healing as you navigate this heartbreak.
Saveria Russo
February 12, 2026
I´m so sorry for your loss. of All of my thoughts, prayers, and love.
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