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Helen Antman Obituary

Helen Novick Antman Sullivan's Island - Whenever Helen Antman, who died on July 21 at the age of 104, was asked for advice from her long life, she'd say, "Be sure to have a little fun every day." She pursued that goal through all of life's challenges with strength and remarkable resiliency. Among her happiest times were being on stage with her husband, Bernie, in their Chicago temple's player's group and in the choir at KKBE. Her parents, Sadie and Philip Novick were Russian immigrants to New York. Sadie loved to sing and dance and taught Helen many colorful Yiddish songs and phrases. Despite the obstacles to female professionals, she forged a successful career selling yellow page advertising but would dash home to make lunch everyday for her two boys, Mark and Jeff, when they were in grade school. She loved working and looked for a job until she was 100 years old. Helen and Bernie retired to Charleston and used it as their home base to travel. They especially enjoyed visiting Europe and Israel. As the family grew to include grands, great-grands and in-laws it was her greatest joy to whip up one of her legendary noodle kugels and gather everyone around the table. Her brisket recipe is a family heirloom. Her long life spanned the history of the country: She saw women being given the right to vote and she proudly made calls for Hillary Clinton. Helen is survived by her sons, Jeffrey Antman (Judith), Mark Antman (Carol), grandchildren, Philip Antman, Natanya O'Donnell (Lake), Lena Quinonez (Ruben), great-granddaughters, Lana and Emilia O'Donnell, nieces, Debby Gross and Jillian Torres and in-laws, Lila, Bob, Hanna and Andrew (obm) Trussler. A graveside funeral for just the family will take place Thursday, July 23, 2020 and a Zoom memorial on Sunday, July 26, 2020. To honor Helen, donations can be made to Kahal Kadosh Beth Elohim's music fund. Or dedicate a moment of fun to her memory. A message may be sent to the family at www.jhenrystuhr.com. Visit our guestbook at www.legacy.com/obituaries/ charleston

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier from Jul. 22 to Jul. 23, 2020.

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Elizabeth LaBar

July 26, 2020

What day to hear of Helen Antman's passing. She was a wonder. We met at the Jewish Choral Society in 1999. Her joyousness and love for her family, music, and life were unsurpassed. It was an honor to know her and celebrate with her on numerous occasions through the years. Much love to her children at this time.

Nancy Baker

July 25, 2020

Carol,
My deepest sympathy to you and your family on the loss of your mother-in-law. Although I didn't know her it sounds like she was a wonderful person who helped build a solid foundation for your family. My prayers are sent for your family's peace and comfort.
Nancy Baker

Courtney and Tom Somers

July 25, 2020

I have often heard of the legendary Helen Antman. I only wish I had gotten to know her to enrich my life as she did so many others. May your joyous memories of her and your future brisket dinners bring you joy and knowledge of a life well-lived. Our condolences.
Tom and Courtney Somers

Marty and Jeri Perlmutter

July 24, 2020

Helen was always a joy. She was always upbeat,engaged, and embracing life. Her sense of connectedness was a tribute to a her life of caring. She lived a long life and the world is better for the life she lived. Her memory is a blessing. .

Nancy DeDe

July 23, 2020

What a wonderful joy it was in knowing Mrs. Antman. You got a kick out of hearing her stories, and her love for her family. A life well lived. Our paths crossed twice, in the earlier years in banking then later years at the nursing home. I enjoyed my visits with you and of course Mark. She will be missed.

Nancy DeDe

Kay Drummond

July 23, 2020

Mark and Carol,
Sending my sincere condolences on the loss of Helen. I hope you can find comfort in the devotion you showed for your mother. You are in my thoughts.
Fondly,
Kay

Maxine Adams

July 23, 2020

In loving memory of a wonderful person. I loved Helen’s outlook on life,
She always had a positive attitude.
I enjoyed my time working with Helen and our Saturday night card games.
I sorry for your loss, she loved her boy’s so much!
Prayers to all,
Maxine Adams

Susan Pearlstine

July 23, 2020

My prayers are with you during this time. I remember seeing Helen with y'all at Osceola's Muse and truly she was remarkable. I know she will be missed by your family. Love- Susan

Susie Larcamp

July 22, 2020

Our deepest sympathies to all of the Antman family. "Grandma Helen" was a treasure to your family. Plus she was lots of fun! You all are so blessed to have so many wonderful memories of her to share. Our hope is those memories will continue to sustain you and keep her memory alive...
Sending love and hugs to all, Susie & Dan Larcamp

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