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Hayden Ashley Hawkey

2003 - 2024

Hayden Ashley Hawkey obituary, 2003-2024, Charleston, SC

BORN

2003

DIED

2024

FUNERAL HOME

J. Henry Stuhr Mount Pleasant Chapel

1494 Mathis Ferry Road

Mount Pleasant, South Carolina

Hayden Hawkey Obituary

Hayden Ashley Hawkey MT. PLEASANT - Hayden Ashley Hawkey, of Mount Pleasant, died on Thursday, September 12, 2024. Her life will be celebrated with a service at J. Henry Stuhr, Inc. Mount Pleasant Chapel,1494 Mathis Ferry Road, at 12:00 pm on Wednesday, September 18, 2024. Hayden was born on October 3, 2003 in Mount Pleasant. Hayden was a beautiful young lady, inside and out. She greeted life with love, kindness, honesty, and a profound sense of humor. She overcame many challenges that she faced during her life as a result of having been born with Turner's Syndrome. Brave and pure of heart, she seldom complained despite having to endure multiple surgeries and other health issues. Her perseverance led to many accomplishments, including graduating with her class from Wando High School in 2022 and attending the Dynamy Program in Massachusetts. Most recently, she embarked on an exciting adventure, starting her first semester at Coastal Carolina in the LIFE Program. She moved into her university dorm in August and was thriving. It was clear she was the happiest she had ever been and was living her best life, full of new friends, concerts, and classes - a college experience. Despite all of the fun she was having, she always made sure to Facetime her mom and her GG every day to fill them in on the joy in her life. Hayden's exuberance and sense of humor were infectious. No one met Hayden and left without a smile on their face. She was always ready for a good time and loved being in the company of friends and family, often as the life of the party. She cherished her time spent with her GG and B-Da, doing everything from riding to the Awendaw trash dump in B-Da's pick up to creating arts and crafts with her GG. She loved lifting other people up and was fiercely loyal to her friends. She reveled in the company of her girlfriends, but was also totally at ease hanging with "the boys". Anyone that met her would comment on her kindness to others, her empathy, her joy of being on the water and her love of animals. Hayden loved her job and co-workers at Palmetto Moon and seeing friends and family members on their shopping excursions, always greeting them with her trademark smile. Hayden loved all of her world travels with her family, which took her to Aruba, Mexico, Spain, France, Italy, and Scotland. When asked recently how she wanted people to describe her, she said "I want people to describe me as an amazing, funny person with a good heart and someone who has good intentions with anything they do, and lovable." Hayden certainly exceeded this goal. When asked to make a list of things that make her smile, she responded "...the beach, the boat, compliments, my pets, my parents, my grandparents, my family, traveling, swimming, food, comfy clothes, music, Lego building, sunny days, friends, stuffed animals, my home, my phone, acai bowls, new clothes, and hang outs." When asked about who her role models were, she responded "...simply my parents because they are hard working. I have so much inspiration from their work ethic, their lifestyles, how they both are so caring for the people they love ... how they are so loving towards me and would do anything for me. I also love my dad's wittiness...my mom is so caring and passionate towards anyone she meets. Hayden is survived by her father, Brian Hawkey, her mother, Elliott Outlaw, and her step-father, Scott Gise, all of Mount Pleasant, SC; her maternal grandparents, Virginia "GG" and William J. (B.J.) "B-Da" Outlaw, and her maternal aunt, Ashley Outlaw, all of Awendaw, SC; her paternal aunt, Dawn Hawkey-Czekalski (Dan); her paternal uncle, Blake Hawkey (Teresa), her step-grandparents, Charles and Joyce Gise, her maternal grand aunt, Nancy "Aunt Muggs" Wallace, and her cousins, Lori Dandridge Stoney, Croft Stoney, Patricia Walker (Allen), Caroline Rhett Hawkey, Keith Hawkey (Camille), and John Walker (Laura). She is also survived by her beloved dogs, Lola and Costa. Hayden was preceded in death by her paternal grandparents, Don and Mary Pat Hawkey, of Lugoff, SC; her aunt, Caroline Rhett Hawkey of Charleston, SC, and her maternal great-grandparents, William "B.C." and Blanche Outlaw of Sumter, SC. In lieu of flowers, donations in Hayden's memory may be made to the Charleston Animal Society c/o the Hayden Hawkey Memorial Fund, 2455 Remount Road, North Charleston, SC 29406. A memorial message may be sent to the family by visiting our website at www.jhenrystuhr.com.

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier from Sep. 15 to Sep. 16, 2024.

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Angela Metts

September 17, 2024

I send my condolences to the family and friends of this beautiful young lady, taken from this earth way before her time. She is a Testament to what the remarkable young people of Mt. Pleasant should strive to be. Although I did not know her personally, I can relate, having grown up in the M.P. area many years ago. May she be lovingly remembered for all time.
Sincerely, Angela Metts

Tammy Solomon Conner

September 16, 2024

My sincere condolences to the family and friends.

Brenda and Mike Corley

September 16, 2024

Words seem trivial at this time, but they are all I have here and now.
Hayden will always be my adventure buddy, my Thanksgiving buddy, my boating buddy, my giggle buddy, and most of all my brave friend.
I will always keep in my heart the way she always stroked my arms and my hair and did her best to match my energy which I think was always a bit too exuberant for her but she did her absolute best to always make me feel loved by her. Anytime Hayden was around me, the giggles were many and the tenderness was obvious. Her hand was almost always in mine for a good part of our time together and I was almost always caressing that beautiful head of hair God or her GeeGee gave her.
A more loved child I have never met, such a loving tribe around her all the time, you would think a child like that would not have room for any more love, but she did...and accepted my love and gave it right back.
Hayden made me jump off boats in the middle of the ocean and swim in Cenotes. How could I sit in the boat and watch or sit on the shore and watch others if Hayden was doing it? I was not going to miss that, so I didn´t. If I was lucky enough to spend Thanksgiving with her I always tried to sit next to her since she was a guaranteed giggle and good time.
I am not sure what power of nature is giving her family strength to get through this and I can only hope that they all know how much Mike and I love them and Hayden, and will love them as long as we are here on this earth.
I always joked that BJ and Virginia are my pretend parents, except I am not really joking. This family will always hold a very special part of our heart which distance and or time will never change.


We hope you all know how much we love you guys and wish there were words or actions which could take away your pain.

Brenda and Mike

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