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Harry Timrod Palmer

1955 - 2019

Harry Timrod Palmer obituary, 1955-2019, Charleston, SC

BORN

1955

DIED

2019

FUNERAL HOME

J. Henry Stuhr Downtown Chapel

232 Calhoun Street

Charleston, South Carolina

Harry Palmer Obituary

Harry Timrod Palmer Charleston - Harry Timrod Palmer, 63 of Charleston, South Carolina, husband of Diane Natale Palmer, passed on Thursday, February 7, 2019. His funeral will be held Saturday, February 16, 2019, in St. John's Parish Church, 3673 Maybank Highway at 3pm. The family will receive friends, Friday, February 15, 2019, in J. Henry Stuhr, Inc. Downtown Chapel, 232 Calhoun Street from 5pm - 7pm. Harry was born August 12, 1955 in Charleston, South Carolina, son of the late James L. Palmer and Patricia B. Palmer. As a surfer boy with blue eyes and long blonde hair, Harry met Diane at Jacksonville University. Having known each other since those carefree college days, Harry and Diane would have celebrated 40 years of marriage in April. Harry earned his Bachelor's Degree in Psychology from the University of North Florida, which he often put to use as a devoted listener and avid advice-giver. Along with his job as an insurance broker, Harry was a proud and active member of the Society of Colonial Wars and the Bastiat Society. Harry never lost his wisdom, wit, love of surfing, his garden or devotion to his wife and children even during the most difficult of times, and his memory will continue to touch many lives. He is survived by his wife, Diane of Charleston; daughter, Alison H. Palmer of Bethesda, MD; two sons: Kyle M. Palmer, Cody L. Palmer and his wife Dr. Jess Hannah with their daughter Natale R. Palmer, both of Charleston, SC; brother, James L. Palmer and his wife Sherry Palmer of Charleston, SC; two sisters, Patricia P. Parker and her husband Jay Parker of Birmingham, AL and Helen P. Seal and her husband Mitchell Seal of San Antonio, TX. The Palmer family would like to personally thank Kema, Krista, Damonica and Sharon for the dedicated and loving care they gave to Harry; he looked forward to his time with each one of you. Memorials may be made to The Miami Project to Cure Paralysis by email: [email protected] or by phone: 305.243.7147; Roper St. Francis Foundation-Spinal Cord Injury Center Endowment by visiting: htts://www.rsfhfoundation.org. A memorial message may be sent to the family by visiting our website at www.jhenrystuhr.com. Visit our guestbook at www.legacy.com/obituaries/ charleston

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier from Feb. 9 to Feb. 10, 2019.

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Caroline Smythe

February 1, 2022

Harry, My memories were mostly from our wonderful teen years and the good trouble we all got into. But now I have met your daughter at your funeral, met up with old friends to talk about you, read the loving memories from all those who so loved you, and seen the references to your steady smile and persistent optimism. I can only imagine how much you are missed. Love, Caroline

Thomas Riley

March 6, 2019

Diane and Family
It is not often that someone comes into your life with the type of passion that Harry had. I am sorry that we are just hearing about his passing. He was a wonderful man, colleague but mostly friend. I hope for you peace. We will miss him dearly. - Smith Riley

M. Elaine Proctor

February 17, 2019

Diane & Family, I am so deeply sorry at the loss of Harry. What a kind and caring man. I would look forward to our chats Regatta weekend. Sending love,prayers and my deepest sympathy. Here if I can help. May God Bless.

Beth Byrnes Trenaman

February 16, 2019

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Beverly Stoney

February 16, 2019

My heart aches upon hearing of Harry's passing and my mind reflected on youthful days growing up in Charleston. Harry was good looking, kind and fun. My deepest sympathy to his family.

Chuck Peterson

February 16, 2019

Having known Harry and Diane through our shared insurance careers, I was shocked to hear about his untimely death. I will certainly miss his wit and wisdom. Seeing the two of them together at the classes and conferences we attended was always a special occasion for me personally and I will miss him very much as I know Diane and his family will also. RIP Harry!

Erin McCauley

February 15, 2019

Cody and Jess- Thinking of you all during this difficult time. Prayers and hugs to you all.
Erin, Ro, and Jayden

Linda Collins

February 15, 2019

To the Palmer Family,
On behalf of the Center for SCI at Roper, we want to offer our sincerest sympathy for your loss. Harry's quiet dignity will always be remembered by us. His sense of being was never diminished by his spinal cord injury.

Linda Collins
David Powell

Whitney Powers

February 14, 2019

Diane - So sorry for your loss. Harry was such a wonderful spirited character. Every visit to our office was a pleasure.

Jackie Wham

February 14, 2019

I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Caroline Smythe

February 14, 2019

My time with Harry was as a teenager and the dominant picture that comes to mind is Harry's wit and mischievous smile, his meticulousness and always-present warmth. I know how missed he already is. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.

Chris Sosnowski

February 13, 2019

Friends can be hard to make, but my friendship with Harry and the Palmers was easy and immediate.
While visiting with Harry soon after he got home from rehab in Atlanta, I asked how he was able to manage all the trials and travails of this dramatic impact to his life.
"Faith and family, " he said, flashing that Palmer smile. I was, and continue to be inspired by that response.
Harry, I hope that you've found that perfect swell, and are having a fantastic eternal ride. I also hope I get to paddle out with again someday.
Love and blessings to all the Palmers.

TOM/SHELAGH CHOPE-zzT

February 13, 2019

Love and prayers to all. Tom has so many special memories. You are on our thoughts always.Tom

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David & Shirley Shaw

February 12, 2019

Diane,
Shirley and I were saddened to learn of Harry's death. We learned of it too late to attend visitation or the funeral. We do wish to extend to you our heart felt sympathy and to let you know how much we have missed seeing you and Harry since his tragic accident. I always looked forward to your visits for our various meetings, they were always a joy.
May your family give you comfort in this time of loss and God bless and comfort you.
Most sincerely, Dave & Shirley Shaw

John Sosnowski

February 11, 2019

Harry,
My Goodness! I know you didn't expect to be receiving such words as these, at least so soon. Way too soon.
I would love to hear your response, as I know it would bring laughter.
To know you was an opportunity for friendship. To be your friend has been a privilege and a joy. You never thought of yourself as an inspiration, surely never sought to be such, but you have been so to many. Your way of warmth and welcome, through times good and times horrific, are virtues worth emulating. You have been generous with these gifts, Harry, coming through you from a loving God, serving to bless many and to reflect Him.
Well Done, Good and Faithful Servant.
You are sorely missed, but only for awhile.
God's Peace, my Friend,
John Sos

February 11, 2019

So very sorry to hear about Harry! I always enjoyed our little chats at his dental appts!
Thoughts and prayers are with the family!
Patty Voegtle

Aage Schroder

February 10, 2019

The Schroder family was saddened to hear of Harry's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with Diane and all of the Palmer family.

Aage and Edwina Schroder
St. Augustine, FL

Bill Fowler

February 10, 2019

So very sorry to hear about Harry. I have known the family since they lived on Adams Creek before they moved to Brigger Hill. Thanks to dad Jim, the Palmer kids always had neat things to play with like the fort which looked like it came from a western movie. I think Harry took after mom Pat in that he was outgoing, friendly and always had a kind word. He was a great fellow and will be truly missed.

Sharon Odom

February 10, 2019

You were truly a genuinely sweetheart,with an amazing spirit! As your caregiver, a friend, we shared many stories,series of movies/films! We laughed, had some tear jerkers. As your caregiver,it was an honor to be there for your and your loving family. May God bless and keep the Palmer family

Jennifer Swegle

February 10, 2019

My prayers are with you all. Harry is already so missed -- with his gentle spirit, kindness, and great wit -- he is always to be remembered. Harry is someone who always made me smile.

All my love to Diane and the Palmer family.

February 10, 2019

My condolences to the family. May the wonderful memories of your loved one comfort you until the God of love promises are fulfilled. 1 Thessalonians 4:13,14

Susie Schaffer

February 10, 2019

We are so very sorry for you loss!! Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.All of our love and blessings,Frederick and Susie Schaffer

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Feb

15

Visitation

5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m.

J. Henry Stuhr Downtown Chapel

232 Calhoun Street, Charleston, SC

Feb

16

Funeral service

3:00 p.m.

St. John's Parish Church

3673 Maybank Highway, Johns Island, SC

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