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Gilbert Holland Hames Jr.

1933 - 2019

BORN

1933

DIED

2019

FUNERAL HOME

J. Henry Stuhr Downtown Chapel

232 Calhoun Street

Charleston, South Carolina

Gilbert Hames Obituary

Gilbert Holland Hames, Jr. Charleston - Gilbert Holland Hames, Jr., 86, of Charleston, South Carolina, husband of Doris Emory Hames, passed peacefully surrounded by his loving family Friday, July 26, 2019. His Funeral Service will be held Wednesday, July 31, 2019, in J. Henry Stuhr Inc., Downtown Chapel, 232 Calhoun Street, at 11:00 a.m. The family will receive friends from 10:30 a.m. until the time of the service. Interment will follow in Holy Cross Cemetery, James Island. Gilbert was born July 22, 1933, in Coolsprings Township, North Carolina, son of the late Gilbert Holland Hames, Sr. and Margaret Lee Kiser Hames. He was a 1955 graduate of Wake Forest University with a Chemistry degree. While in college he played the trumpet and also played in his band called "Southerns." He was a talented baseball player and was offered a minor league baseball contract. When he first arrived to Charleston he was an active member of The Downtown Merchant's Association where he personally knew all the business owners and their associates along King Street. In 1968, he built and opened the International House of Pancakes "IHOP" on Savannah Highway where he operated it for 49 years. In addition to being a successful entrepreneur, he served 28 years in the U.S. Army Reserves and retired at the rank of Lt. Colonel. He is survived by his wife, Doris E. Hames of Charleston, SC. He is also survived by the following children from his first marriage to Betty Aileen Hames who passed away in 1975; two sons, Gilbert H. Hames, III (Linda) of Charleston, SC, and Barry A. Hames (Lydia) of Columbia, SC; and daughter, Anna H. Skipper (Michael) of Charleston, SC. He is survived by his two step-daughters, Joyce Anne Gilmore of Charlotte, NC, and Peggy Low of Charleston, SC; step-son, Paul "Vince" Gilmore, III of Mt. Pleasant, SC; daughter-in-law, Karen P. Hames of Charleston, SC; sister, Billie H. Robinette of GA; eleven grandchildren, and five great-grandchildren. In addition to his parents and son, E. Christopher Hames, he was preceded in death by his sisters, Mary Sue Hames, Mozelle H. Smith, Jeanne Hames Cash and Betty Hames Harrill. Memorials may be made to the Alzheimer's Association SC Chapter, 2090 Executive Hall Road, Suite 130, Charleston, SC, 29407. A memorial message may be sent to the family by visiting our website at www.jhenrystuhr.com. Visit our guestbook at www.legacy.com/obituaries/ charleston

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier from Jul. 29 to Jul. 30, 2019.

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Kent Dorsey

August 4, 2019

With sympathy from the family of the late Doug Dorsey. Gilbert and Doug were big friends back years ago.

Charlene Leon

July 29, 2019

My thoughts and prayers go out to the family. I have known the Hames family for many years. Mr. Hames gave me my first job IHOP on Savannah HWY. He always had a smile on his face and encouraging words. His Daughter Anna and I remain best of friends we are sisters for she has all brothers and I have a brother. Thinking of you all Love you Charlene

Don and Angela Lyons

July 29, 2019

Barry- My deepest condolences on your loss. Don and I will be praying for you and your family during this most difficult time.

ingrid condon

July 30, 2019

To the Hames family, I am so sorry for your loss. I had the honor of knowing Mr. Hames back in 1967 when I worked at the bank as a teller in South Windemere and he was one of my bank customers. He was gracious to offer me a little part-time job doing payroll, which I did until 1970. He was a true gentle giant and man. Very compassionate and fair.
You are all in my prayers
Ingrid Blum Condon

Lisa Barker

July 30, 2019

Bud & Anna and Family- I am so sorry to hear the news of your dad passing away. I will always remember Mr. Hames with a big smile and how he danced and danced at Tanner's wedding reception at Folly. I hope the good memories can give you some comfort at this sad time.

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Memorial Events
for Gilbert Hames

Jul

31

Visitation

10:30 a.m. - 11:00 a.m.

J. Henry Stuhr Inc. Dowtown Chapel

232 Calhoun Street, Charleston, SC

Jul

31

Service

11:00 a.m.

J. Henry Stuhr Inc. Dowtown Chapel

232 Calhoun Street, Charleston, SC

Jul

31

Interment

Holy Cross Cemetery

604 Fort Johnson Road, James Island, SC 29412

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J. Henry Stuhr Downtown Chapel

232 Calhoun Street, Charleston, SC 29401

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