Geoffrey Turner Obituary

Geoff.. it's been four years just about this time of day that we received the phone call that would change all of our lives.. I miss you.. but know that you are here with me.. Loving you always.. Your Mama

Happy Birthday to my son.. You are with me always!! Loving you forever, Your Mama

JUST WANTED YOU TO KNOW THAT YOU ARE GONE BUT I HAVE NOT FORGOTTEN YOU. I LOVED HEARING YOUR MUSIC AND THE WORDS TO YOUR SONGS. I WISH I HAD YOUR MUSIC SOMEWHERE SO I CAN HEAR YOUR SWEET VOICE. MISS YOU MUCH!

Three years ago today... My heart is broken and I miss you. You are always in my thoughts and help me to keep a smile on my face... I can still see you coming in the door with that big smile!!! I'll be watching for you today I know that you are always close to me.... Love to my son..

Happy Birthday to an old friend...gone but never forgotten. Miss you everyday.

Love ya-

Happy Birthday to my 'Little Bro". You are always in my thoughts and especially today. The positive difference you made for so many people is truly remarkable. I miss you so much and I know you are with us all in spirit. Thanks for being such a kind hearted soul and a wonderful brother!

Love and Miss you,
John O'Rourke (Your Big Brother)

Geoff.. tomorrow is your birthday... Happy Day my son... I know you are with me.. I can feel it.. You are watching over me.
I love you and miss you ,
Momma

Geoff,
I miss you more than you could ever know. You were and will always be a great 'little brother'. I will always cherish all the great times we shared together in Oneonta and Long Island and our great talks through the years. Merry Christmas Lil' Bro...you are missed more than you could ever know but will never be forgotten. You touched your family and friends so deeply with your caring ways.

God Bless you and thanks for watching over all of us.

Love and Miss ya',
John (Your Big Bro)

Geoff,
Our 3rd Christmas without you and my 3rd birthday also.. 60 - wish you were here to laugh with me. and, know that I was priviledged to hear your music while I had lunch with some friends at Sermet's on King Street last week. They play your last CD.. the Anti Valentine CD... along with other music... I knew that you were with me!!! I love you,
Momma

Geoff,
This is our second Christmas without you.. The hole in my heart is beginning to heal.. just slightly. I can't imagine how we have gotten this far without you....
Merry Christmas... I know that you were with us today.

Love,
Mama

Geoff...
I remember so many good times with you - think we first met playing soccer (you were the youngest on the team, but one of the biggest kids)... then the days with Pete Curpier and Jessie driving you guys to lunch all the time - listening to Phish bootlegs... Going to your garage for band practices... (I think of you every time I hear "Feel like making love")...
I just learned of your passing earlier this year, and it's been hard for me to absorb - I always expected to turn on the TV one day and see you performing in front of a huge crowd... you were so talented.
The last time I saw you was New Years Eve, 1996/7 playing at a bar downtown with the guys... it was a great time and it was great to see you again still rocking on... with all our old friends together.
My thoughts are with you and your family as I know life just can't be the same without you...
Even though I've moved away and lost touch, I still miss you man... but you will live on in the hearts of many who were drawn in and touched by you...

Your picture on myspace is the way that I remember it. I am so sorry for your family's loss because you made a family within communities that is filled with love and will go on forever. I thank God that I ever met you. Your spirit, so full of life, I will cherish, the way you were so kind to people who needed it most. You will be remembered as someone with no fear, you had no fear to change the littlest person's life. You are cherished. God Bless Your family! Remember your beauty shines forever. Thank you Jesus for creating Geoffrey C Turner. You are a precious gift.

My Guitar.... the nuts are yours… The balance in my life…..Do me a favor and help me take care of my son, he’ll need an angel

Some people you meet in life can leave a signature in your mind. Some people can touch your heart and leave an indelible mark on your experiences with them. Geoff was such a person. I'm so sorry especially to Geoff's family but to everyone who had the gift of knowing him. He was great friend, a source of laughter and fun. I remember nothing but good times when Geoff was around.

My wife and I always think of Geoff when we drive by the Lady of Fatima church on the way to New Paltz to go climbing. Geoff and the Fatima boys always made for a great night at the Autumn or the Oak. I wish I had kept in touch with Geoff, with everyone from Oneonta. What I am happy about is that I had the pleasure of calling him my friend. We had good times together and I can never forget his smile. There is a memory I have of us sitting on the porch at 1 Franklin, and I'll never let it go.

I'll miss you Geoff,

-Jonny rock

The first time I heard Geoff play was on the radio. I had just moved to O-town, and was trying to get a band together, but after hearing Culta Fatima, I almost didn't bother. when I finally met them.. my first thought was WHo are these lil'kidz? Where did they learn to play like that? Anyway, we became close friends and i have many enteries of his escapades in my writings. I visited Geoff in S.C, and this is how I remember him; the beach blending in with his grin, and the breeze carrying his songbird chords across the waves. His infectious lust for life invading my imagination and realizing I was in the presence of a true friend... and we ALL know how rare they are.

I knew Geoff when I was at SUNY Oneonta. He lived at my house on 1 & 3 Frankiln St. for a while. I liked Geoff alot. I found out about his passing today and I am profoundly saddened. Such a loss. Not sure I have the words really. He'll be missed. As will all of you whom I have lost touch with since I left that place. Feel free to drop me a line if you want to catch up or share a Geoff anecdote. All the best, warmest regards and kindest condolences. -Rob

I met Geoff about 2 years ago when he moved to Atlanta from Charleston. He started working at Taco Mac. We had our stretch where we hung out practically every day during and after work. He has one of the biggest hearts of anyone I ever met. He's sees the good in people even when they don't always deserve it. I hate that I wasn't around when he died. He was an amazing guy with amazing talent. I still have a CD he made me with his handwriting on it. Damn that kid can sing! I know he's missed more than he even realizes...love ya kid!

I met Geoff when he was in the sixth grade and I was a week long substitute teacher in his class. He was so kind and spirited. With his height, poise and good looks I felt like I was lookig at the sixth grader my kindergarten son would become. When that sixth grade class organized a prank to to take advantage of the sub it was Geoff who organized the group apology.

At that point I hoped my son would grow into a sixth grader with that kind of compassion and integrity.



Over the years watching Geoff and Erika grow up through my 'teacher' and 'drury lane' lenses - they both secured a warm place in my heart.



There has been so much sadness for the "twenty somethings" of Oneonta...remembering Geoff's goodness makes it impossible to stay sad.



Christine and Erika- you are in my thoughts and prayers. Please accept these belated condolences.

I have just found out about the tragic loss of one of Oneonta's finest musicians. To find out about this really shocked me. I meet Geoff in High School and was acquaintances with him and his group of friends. And as said so many times before by every one you always saw him with a smile. I have to say to hear Geoff play guitar was special. I had the opportunity to host a concert (with out parental permission) in my basement one Columbus Day weekend and Geoff and Jesse and the gang played. It was truly one of the most memorable times of my life. Hanging out with Geoff was just an unbelievable time. I have many more stories that I will cherish. If there is anything I can do to help please let me know.



HE WILL BE MISSED, BUT NEVER FORGOTTEN

Geoff- I miss your late night phone

calls and silly text messages. I hate that now to hear your voice I have to play your cd. Most of all I miss your smile, it illuminated the whole world around you. You will always be a part of me.Thank you for the times we shared and all the memories I will cherise for the rest of my lifetime.



Friends and Family- To me family doesn't mean blood related. Family are the people who are always there when you need them, who take care of you no matter when or where drop everything for each other. We all share this connection not only with Geoff but with each other and to honor him it is important to maintain this connection.

I was overcome with an immense felling of emptiness when I heard as I know many of us were. I am thankful to have been able to grieve with all of you it has helped me through the sadness. Geoff was an important part of so many lives and will be deeply missed.

I promise to honor Geoffs memory and always smile when I think of him.

Wow, words can not describe the feeling I had as I went to read an update on Geoff's Myspace page and saw that Erika had taken over. At first I thought it was a joke, and then I did some research and found for sure that it was not.



Although I never knew Geoff enough to be great friends, it's true that he was always smiling and always so nice to everyone. He was always in Highschool with Ryan S, Kevin M and Mike E. I am so sorry for his loss and am shocked that he is gone. I will forever remember when he and Erika moved into the house that use to be my families.

Gosh, I am so sorry. My condolences and prayers.

God how I loved Geoff. I think I wanted my sister and him to be together more then I have ever wanted someone for myself. I wanted to feel the love they shared, and just by being around them you felt the intensity of that love. I had never given up hope on them. I knew in my heart that one day he would officially be my brother (inlaw), instead of just like a brother.

I've had some really hard times in my life, and when I went through the hardest thing in my life Geoff was right there telling me he would take care of it. He held me and my sister together thru my tragedy. I'll never forget that, he'll always be my hero. I wish there was something I could do to make this all ok for him, for his family and for his friends. All I can do is promise you all I will try my best to raise my son to be as kind as Geoff, to be as loyal as Geoff, to be as illuminated as Geoff, and to be as good of a man as Geoff.

Geoffery, I love you, and we miss you.

I love you Geoff. Your candle will burn forever in my heart and in my soul. You've touched everyone of us. I can smile and know you are here with me every step of the way.

Chris, Happy Mother's day. You are in my thoughts today. You have shown a lot of strenth. I'm very proud of you. I woke up today thinking about what you said at the funeral. How Geoff more times then not would be calling Mrs. Curpier and my mother to wish them a Happy Mother's day. It truly shows what a wonderful person Geoff was. He was such a warm soul. So I decided to carry on the tradition, Happy Mother's Day. I love You.

Geoff, all that can say is that I hold wonderful memories of you in my heart. I am sad that you're gone. Many, many shared more time with you, and they should feel truly blessed. I'll be looking for you later...

Chris, I'm sorry I couldn't make it to Charleston. I truly tried to make it.

Geoff and I both grew up in Oneonta playing music. That's how I first knew of him. He was the young guitar player that was turning everyone's heads & ears in his direction. If I were to compare his immense talent to anyone it would have to be Stevie Ray Vaughn (which I think Geoff would appreciate ;o) in that, similarly to SRV, when Geoff played it was as if it was effortless for him. Like the music was just always there. When you heard him play you felt you were hearing something real, something honest, something special, something heartfelt. As I got to know Geoff over the years it became obvious that all these amazing qualities applied not only to his musical abilities but to his character and personality as well. I'm honored to have known and played music with Geoff Turner and I'll never forget him. I'll miss ya, brother.

To Family and Friends,



Our worlds have suffered a tremendous loss, a talented young man taken from us, long before his time. Geoff was musically gifted and kindhearted to all. He lit up a room upon his entrance, making even your darkest days disappear with his precious smile, charming good looks and uplifting character. This is the Geoff I will truly miss and remember always.



Knowing Geoff since kindergarten has given me the opportunity that some will only know through stories and pictures; knowing a person so gifted and talented with a truly kind heart and gentle soul. Geoff was one of a kind, the best friend you could have whether you last spoke with him a week ago or even years. He always allowed you to pick up right where you left off, as if no time had ever passed. This was one of many, truly wonderful gifts we all were fortunate enough to experience, the ease and comfort he could bring you just by being present. May he find peace and contentment in the afterlife, knowing he is loved by so many and cherished by all that knew him. I will deeply miss my friend, "Geoffrey Charles Turner".



My deepest sympathy to Geoff’s family and friends during this very difficult time. May you find peace and strength in one another and the fond memories we all share.



~For Geoff--I love you always. You will remain close to my heart and will always be my favorite "Rock Star". Make sure you save us all some brownies and ice cream when we meet again someday.~

Geoff was like a big brother to me. At first I thought it was a sick joke and then it hit me that it was real. I don't think I'll be able to get over it for a while.

Chris, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. There is so little comfort at times like this but knowing that you are in the thoughts and prayers of the people who know you.

I was so saddened to hear of Geoff's passing. I went to school with Geoff from the 8th grade up. As many other have said, Geoff had that one of a kind smile. Whenever I passed Geoff in the halls or around town, I was always greeted with a big hello and a warm smile. My deepest sympathies go out to his family and friends.

GEOFF I'M TRULY GONNA MISS YA LIKE

A BROTHER AND WHEN TIME PASSES I'LL

MEET UP WITH YA...

Chris,

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.

I had the honor to know Geoff Turner through his music. I met Geoff through touring regionally and we became good friends. His band, and his spirit were true inspirations to me. Over the course of several years, he had opened up his home (when we were in Charleston playing shows w/ Azwethinkweiz), and his heart to me and I am truly grateful to have known him. My warmest thoughts go out to you all who have been affected by his passing. I listen to his music to keep his memory alive. Rest in Peace.

Chris and daughters, You don't know me but I am a true friend of Tifannie Wells. I work with her. On March 27, 2006 I lost my oldest son. I know some of what you are going through. My heart breaks for you. My son, Chris, was 30. I didn't know Geof but I do know a mother's love. We will always love them. God bless you and the pain and empiness you are going through right now. I will say a special prayer for you and your family.

Geoff was such a good friend to me and to everyone he knew. He was the kind of guy that walked into a room of strangers at the beginning of the night and left with a group of new friends (and all the ladies in the house). There was a time when I couldn't imagine him not being in my life for a day or two and now, as it is for us all, trying to cope with not having him in my life anymore leaves me vacant and reaching. I find comfort in the memories I have, the music he left us, and the friendships that surrounded him.



I'm happy to have been able to go to Charleston last weekend. It was good to have so many of the people I love close once again, and meet new friends who were a part of Geoff's life. It seems that, though our lives may have brought some of us apart, we came together to find that we haven't changed so much inside and that Geoff had an influence that can't be lost.



Geoff's personal and musical influence on me was always large, and has grown over the years that we have been apart. He was good at leading by example and was always trying to expand his creativity and personal strength, so it seems that the closer you knew Geoff and the more you understood him, the more you grew as a person. His music and lyrics were so honest and pure. He approached music as he did life, by putting his whole heart into every measure, every lyric, every day, and made no excuses for who he was or what he did. Geoff lived with passion and love for music, life, and all those around him. He has always inspired me.



To Geoff's family, Chris, Kristin, Erika, Dave, Anne, and really to everyone, my deepest sympathy, support, and understanding. Geoff was such an amazing person and I am truly grateful that he is a part of my life.



Rest in peace, old friend…you are always loved and will never be forgotten.

to family and friends,

the way i met geoff was in the eighth grade. i was the new kid in town and geoff actually was livin in long island (i think). he had recieved some phone calls telling him there was some new competition as the tough guy in school. geoff hurried back to oneonta just to kick my, well, you know. anyways i was givin some strange looks from him and he was ready to rumble. that day i (lets just say) set someone streight that he wasn't too fond of either. geoff walked up to me and shook my hand, instant friends. like jeese phillips wrote i too shared many first with geoff. my first concert(metalica), first time i got up on stage and embarrassed myself(unitarion church)yuck, the first time i felt passion towards music.

geoff brought the very best out of people. he could make anyone feel like they had a purpose in whatever they were doing. for our group of friends, he was the glue in our macaroni art. for those of you who had the oppurtunity to see geoff around children, know that all of our children will miss out on the best uncle ever. but they will always know about him.

geoff and my relationship grew the strongest when i moved down to charleston, sc with him. at the time he had a band call aZwethinkweiZ and insisted i was the fifth member of the band. i don't play any instruments so i became "road manager". that intelled a lot of drinking and the best times of my life. thank you geoff. but even when i felt like a tag along he made me feel wanted. i am honored that geoff wanted me to be there for all those shows and all the studio time at the end. he made me feel that he couldn't do it without me, though i knew he could.

chris, kristen, erica, and dave my heart will always be with you and geoff will always be in our hearts.

Geoff was such a great guy. All the way back to high school I don't think I ever saw him when he wasn't smiling. It was always great to see him and it made me feel really good that he was happy to see me last time I was in Charleston. I always admired him for pursuing his music with such determination, focus, and passion. Geoffrey, even though you left us far too soon, you left an indelible impression. You were really great and you will be missed greatly. Peace Geoff.

It's probably been 8 or 9 years since I've seen Geoff, but I remember the last time I saw him quite clearly. Geoff and I played a lot of guitar together growing up. I remember watching him grow from a tremendously talented guitar player at a really young age to a tremendously talented songwriter. Remembering where he was as a musician at 15 makes me really wonder where he was at 25, 26, 28. It hit me pretty hard when I found out. My deepest, deepest condolences to his family and frinds.

My brother, my friend... Words cannot describe how sad it makes me feel to know that we will not grow old together. I miss you so much. Your smile and attitude will be something that no one can reproduce. You were truly one of a kind. I called you my best friend, as so many others did. I guess thats how you can judge someone... By how many best friends they have. Like I told you in December, if you leave this earth before me I will feel very alone, and have a huge hole in my heart. I miss you Geoff... I promise, even though you never met my children, they will know you. As long as I am living, my best friend you will be... As for all of the friends and family of Geoff, If you ever need me, I will be there. Just like Geoff. He was always there if you needed him..

Dear Chris, Kristin and Erika,

I just want you to know how much I love all of you. I am so thankful that we were able to go through this together. Though I wish that it hadn't taken this tragedy to bring us there. The service was beautiful, Geoff's presence was all around us. Geoff has touched so many lives, and that was made clear these past few days. The emptiness that you are feeling now will soon turn to a fullness, as you discover that just because Geoff is not there in front of you, he is right beside you in all that you do. Geoff was very special to me growing up, he brought such life into our home, and into our own lives. I remember so much about Geoff that I thought that I had forgotten. As I was driving to Charleston so many things that I never remembered before kept resurfacing. I thank you all for being so great to me, you are my family. I am proud to say that. I will always be in your life from this point forward. Chris, thank you for not only being such a wonderful mother to Geoff, Erika and Kristin, but to me. You have always been an inspiration to me. And Geoff will always be my little brother. I love you Geoff!!

Always a shout out when Geoff was on stage. You rock. I miss you friend.

Love to your family.

Chris - I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Chris ~



Sometimes it's hard to know

the right words to say

To help you in your sorrow,

to comfort you some way.

But may it somehow ease

the heavy load you bear

To know that others think

of you -- and care.

Geoff was one of the first friends I made when I moved to Charleston. I couldn't believe that I grew up in Bainbridge and he in Oneonta, and knew some of the same people, but we never met until we were in Charleston. Me and my boyfriend at the time used to love to see the band play (Azwethinkweiz) and we would dance like fools. I think Geoff loved it too! I only knew Geoff for a few years, but I loved him right away, as many people did. Although we lost touch in the last couple of years, the special moments we spent together have stayed with me like they happened yesterday. Everyone who met him could see what at a beautiful soul he was. His energy was amazing and he had a smile that could turn even my worst day around. Sadly, the brightest stars sometimes don't last very long. I know you are in a wonderful place, Geoff, and you're free from all the painful parts of this world. You touched many lives, including mine, and I'll never forget you. Chris, Kristin and Erica, my heart goes out to you. I hope it is some comfort knowing that Geoff lives on in the hearts and memories of all of his friends and family.

Chris,



Know that during this trying time for you and your family that there are a lot of people out there for you and keeping you in their thoughts and prayers.

Geoff was the kind of friend one could only wish for. I knew Geoff since 1st grade and have had the pleasure of sharing the stage with him for almost all of my musical experiences. In life Geoff was driven, but with music Geoff was Far Beyond Driven, he was music. He lived it, breathed it, and even slept to it most nights. There was no end to the music that Geoff had within him. I am thankful all the recordings and videos that we all have to look back on.



Through life Geoff was many things to me, a brother,guitarist,bandmate, classmate,a leader, an inspiration and most of all, an amazing friend. The many memories of Geoff will never fade and life will never be the same without him. He will never be forgotten.



I love you my friend.

May you be filled with the essence of spirit and surrounded with light and hope during this difficult time of loss. You are in my thoughts and I send you courage, strength and belief in your continued connection to your son.

Chris, our hearts go out to you and your family, and just know that you're in our thoughts and prayers.

My very deepest sympathy to you and your family at this most difficult time. I will keep all of you in my thoughts and prayers.

Chris, My thoughts are with you at this time of grief. It is so hard to lose a child. I cannot imagine what you are going through. Remember all of us are thinking of you.

Dear Chris, Kristin and Erica:



I am so deeply sorry to hear of Geoff's passing. In 1984, when I was connected with Geoff through the Big Brother program, we made an immediate bond and it is one that I have cherished and held dear ever since. Geoff was (6) and in 1st grade and I was a freshman at Oneonta State. During the next several years, we spent such special times together. Some of the many memories that come to mind include sleigh riding down the hill on West Street (behind your home), playing hockey on the frozen pond, going to Hunts Union for lunch or dinner, walking to Sal's or Mama Nina's to enjoy a slice of pizza, going over to your house for dinner or just watching movies together. Geoff was such a likeable young man...wherever we went in town we were always bumping into Geoff's friends. He always had kind words for everyone he met and he always saw the good in people. Most of all, Geoff adored you Chris, Kristin and Erica. He always talked fondly of you all and his concern for all of you was very touching and genuine. I have always loved Geoff as a brother and I do consider him the brother that I never had. For over 20 years, I have carried with me a picture of Geoff in his Pop Warner football uniform and I will carry it with me for all the rest of my days. His legacy will live on as love of family, friends, children and music and he will be forever missed. May you find solace in how your son and brother lived his life...he will always hold a special place in all of our hearts.



Love and prayers,



John O'Rourke (Geoff's Big Brother)

[email protected]

To Chris and her family...

I never know what to say in times like these so I will just say that in reading the messages in this guest book, I can only hope that my children are as loved by so many and have as great of souls as Geoff.



Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Dear Christine,

I was surprised and saddened to hear about the lost of son, Geoffrey.



I want you to know how terrible I feel that you have lost a loving and talented Son at such an early age.



I offer my heartfelt sympathy in this time of sorrow.



Sincerely,

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Dear Chris and family,



I was very sorry to learn of the unfortunate passing of Jeff. My heartfelt sympathy goes out to you and your family at this tragic time.



Kindly accept my sincere condolences and best wishes to his family and friends.

Chris, I imagine there is no greater pain than for a parent to outlive a child. Words can bring some comfort, but know that you have freinds who care for and about you at this time.

Christine,



I was so sorry to hear about the loss of your son. Please know that we are all thinking of you and your family in this time of sorrow, and have you in our hearts.



Sincerely,



Yolanda

Chris, please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of grief. There is no way I can imagine what you are feeling right now. Hold on to the great memories.



Read Phillipian 4:6-7

Chris, There are no words for me to express my sympathy to you. Please know that you and the girls have been contstantly in my thoughts and daily prayers. You are an amazingly stong woman with an amazingly tender heart, that I know, now feels broken apart. Be sure to take care of yourself and do what you need to do to heal. Love to you, Erika and Kristen

My prayer is that these dark days will pass and that the brilliance of Geoff's life continue to light your life and guide you to the day that all loved ones are reunited.



If you need anything please let me know and I'll be there... Dave

It seems unreal to say I've known Geoff for 24 years. Wow where did the time go? From daycare to elementary to junior high to highschool, we've always been best buds. We had so many firsts together, first friend, first bmx bike, first skateboard, first grounding, first cigarette, first guitar, first band, first roommate, first tattoo, first time going through something so tragic without him. I don't know what life will be like while we are apart, but I'll always know he will be watching over me. His loss deeply saddens me.



I've learned a lot from Geoff. How to have a good time, how to smile real wide, how to get out of a mosh pit, how to sing, how to express myself, how to be a good person, and how to learn how to love. He has been a huge inspiration in my life and many others. Geoff left his mark on everyone he came in contact with. I never met a person that has disliked Geoff, nor that he disliked. He is truly a loving soul. He would give you the shirt off his back and has many times. Even in the dead of winter (show off).



It's amazing how many people he has touched. I don't know how he found the time to be in contact with virtually every person he knew. I admire him for that. Truly one of a kind.



Geoff was an amazing song writer with a lot of practice. He definately lived through his music. The good and the bad. He was a brutally honest person and a true genius in song. He will be missed very dearly. Thank you Geoff for everything you left with us.



I just returned from the funeral and I am still truly shocked by this loss. For those who couldn't attend, you could feel Geoff's spirit there. My sincere condolences go out to his family, Chris, Kristin, Erika and Dave. Just smile, that's what Geoff would do.

I am deeply saddened by the loss of Geoff, and my thoughts are with you all through this. He left such a lasting impact on so many people in so many different circles in Charleston. I can still hear his voice saying one of my many nicknames "Big White Chocolate". I will always remember him and the passion that he exuded.



It was nice to see the friends and family that came to the memorial on Sunday, so many people I haven't seen in a few years. May he rest in peace.

Chris & family, Barry told me the news of Geoffs passing away and then I just read it on line in the Star.Our prayers & thoughts are with you. I remember when he was born around the time I sold you & Chuck your first home in Oneonta. My husband (Carroll) &I live near Hilton Head, SC, only 90 miles fron Charleston. We have been here for many years. Barry still runs Woodhaven.Love and Best to you all, Bettina Munson

When I found out about Geoff, I stopped thinking what ever I was thinking and thought to myself, this was one of the first musician's in Oneonta I had and still have a great amount of respect for. Oneonta has never recovered from the Culta-Fatima, Subding Mara, and Liquid Me days. Dispite many efforts this town has never been quite the same musically. I can smile and say, Geoff was part of that. I will always remember that.

I knew Geoff from his days in Culta Fatima. He was so passionate & had such energy & excitement about music & performing. And he was a sweet person that cared deeply about his friends. It broke my heart to hear that someone so young & special, with his whole life ahead of him, had been taken from us. I am sure he is in a better place now, playing the music he loved so much. To the family and close friends, I am very sorry for your loss. Geoff was a wonderful guy.

Chris, Kristin and Erika, I cannot begin to tell you how saddened I am from this. I want you to know that Geoff's spirit has touched my life permanently. Chris,...you raised an amazing son. Geoff has been there for me during some of the most impacting experiences in my life. I feel blessed to have known him and to have spent as much time as I had with you all in Charleston. Even though my memories break my heart right now, I do realize how truley lucky I am to have been even a small part of Geoff's life. Thank you all for the wonderful memories and incredible life experiences. I miss all of you so much.

God Bless You All.

With Much Love,

...beth

Chris, Kristin and Erika,



My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I have such fond (and sometimes funny) memories of your family and will cherish them always. May God be with you.



Bonnie Robinson

The memories of living in Oneonta during the 1990s, brings up so many fond thoughts of great and warm people, who through mistakes and celebrations, were always there to lend a helping hand and smile to each other. I have only brought with me the fantastic memories and that is something that Geoff unremittingly brought to the World…his incredible capacity to brighten up any room and anybody’s heart. The world lost an eternal point of sunshine. Love and strength to Chris, Erika and Kristin – I am deeply sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you.

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived. My thoughts and prayers go out to the family. Geoff will be missed.

It has been years since I have seen Geoff but he was one of my first good friends in Oneonta. Such an awesome person. So sad. My thoughts are with his family. And Geoff...I'm so sure that your soul is in the best place ever because you have one of the best souls ever.

Geoff will always be locked in my memory as a little boy! Geoff was my step brother, My father married his Mom in 1984 when I was around 13 years old. Geoff was probably 5 or 6. Sadly, when Chris and My Dad divorced in the early 90's, I lost touch, and have not seen Geoff, Kristen, Erica, or Chris in about 15 years. Thats not to say they were ever far from my thoughts. I am sorry I didnt get to see Geoff blossom in to the brilliant musician. I do often wonder if it was my obsssion with music that left an impression on the younger Geoff, inspiring him to dedicate his life to it! If so, I would be so proud, and honored. In hind sigtht, I wish I would have remained a part of his life, I remember that little boy who looked up to me, and I feel a sense of guilt for disapearing out of his life. I will always remember that little boy and the time we spent togther..Geoff I will think of you everytime I see a box of coco krispies. Rock in peace Bro

I am still feeling leveled by the news of Geoff's passing. My name is James Kinne, and I played in the band "Chasing Gray" with Geoff while in Oneonta.

Since it had been quite some time since I had been in active contact with Geoff, it took me several days to confirm the news - which I just did.

The little that I can offer in this awful time is about the same as everyone else.. Geoff was a amazing guitarist and even more amazing soul. I always felt regret that our lives took us physically apart, and I always felt like he was missing in my life. We stayed in contact for years, speaking most recently about a month ago. He added so much to my project, and then he went off to do his own absolutely brilliant project.

Geoff, I miss you - and I always will. You brightened my life, and I am a better man since I've known you. To Geoff's family, my deepest sympathies and regret. He was a one-of-a-kind in many ways, and I for one will miss that daily moving forward.

Rest in peace, my dear brother in music. I hope you've already met Stevie Ray.. I'm sure you're giving him a run for his money too.

PS- I have posted a great pic of Geoff that I have had for years. You can see the pure joy of playing on his face. This is Geoff onstage at SUNY Oneonta (circa 1998) with Chasing Gray - opening for Big Bad Voodoo Daddy.

Geoff was a very special soul...he brightened the lives of all who had the honor of knowing him. His laugh, smile and bright eyes were contagious, and you couldn't help but to smile in his presence. He was a great friend to so many. God bless and may you find peace.

We will miss you.

Although I have not seen Geoff for many years, I could never forget him! Geoff was an awesome person. He seemed soft and smooth yet so very passionate and aggressive about the things that he loved to do. I will remember fondly many of days in high school as well as many summers spent together with friends. He was a great person inside and out.

He will be missed dearly.

My thoughts and prayers are with his family during this time and always.

To the family of one of the greatest guys I've yet to come across: For the short period of time(couple of years)that i knew Geoff,I've always liked him as a person. He had this aura around him that glowed and to me, that means alot! I'll never forget the 4th of July that i invited him and my old best friends daughter to spend with us in Goose Creek at Westview. I'm so in shock still. I just found out today after getting off work. Geoff will always be remembered in my book and in my heart. My prayers go out to all of his family. He will be greatly missed along with our talks we've shared.

I have known Geoff for many years. I can remember going to the church concerts to listen to him play back in junior high. He was such a talented loving person with a smile that one could never forget. Though our paths have gone in differnt directions, he will never be forgotten. My condolences go out to his family and friends.

Your losses have been great over the last few years, I wish you well

yu're one of us.

Shat

I knew Geoff thru his long friendship with my son Ryan. They basically grew up musically together. Jeff was a masterful guitar player and just loved it when he was playing. He started his first band on our front porch with Ryan when my wife and I were still living in Oneonta. He will be missed, my deepest sympathy to his family and loved ones.

Dear Chris and Family: I am so deeply saddened to hear about Geoff. Please know that you (and yours) are in our thoughts and prayers through this difficult time.

I have known Geoff for several months through his current job in Atlanta, Ga. Though our acquaintance has not been very long, Geoff, in his utmost sincerity, has become a true friend. His smile and a kind word is enough to turn a day of gloom around. I am deeply saddened to hear his life has been cut short. Our world is so full of pessimism, the loss of a special person such as Geoff is so tragic. I pray his family and friends may find comfort in their memories. I truly feel blessed our paths crossed.

My most heartfelt sympathy,

Oneonta lost a dear son. anyone who knew Geoff is the better for it. Truly one of the most talented people our dear hamlet ever let forth upon the world..



you will be missed by many and loved by all!

Geoff was a dear friend of our family for years, especially to my brother Ryan. I will always remember Geoff's kind soul, ambitious spirit, passion for music and his love for his friends and family. My family and I will never forget the support he offered to all of us when my dear mother, Lucille passed unexpectedly in December 2005. She always had a special place in her heart for Geoff. My deepest sympathy to Geoff's Mother, Kristin, Erica and all his family and friends. Although he will be missed dearly in life, Geoff's spirit will continue to touch all those whose lives he has touched over the years.

Geoff was part of our family growing up. We were all pretty much inseparable. As we got older States came between us but our hearts and memories will always be together. You'll be missed Geoff, but never forgotten.

Geoff:



What a loss !! Geoff spent a good deal of time at our home as a young man.Everyone liked Geoff,you just could not help but love him.A grave loss to the Oneonta community as a Sun (son),musician and friend!!He was unique and life will be less full,without him here with us.My prayers to his Family and all who knew him.



Joseph (Jesse's Dad),Oneonta,NY

To Christine and your family I'm very saddened to hear of this loss. You and your family will remain in my prayers. God bless.

We miss him and will never forget him. We feel honored to have known him and shared in his life. Music is such a beautiful expression of emotion, and Geoff did it with his whole heart. We had the joy of knowing him through music and will always think of him when we create and play our own.

Geoff was like a second son to us. We struggled with removing his removing his 14 year old handprint from our ceiling even a few yars ago. He was a gentle soul and a dear friend to our son, Jesse. He helped him gain a love of music that has never left him.

Chris, Kristin, Erika, Dave and family,

Please know that we are all there with you in our thoughts. I have such great memories of watching you three grow up that I will hold on to forever. I Love you all very much!

My sincere sympathy to Geof's family. I knew you many years ago through my daughter, Lindsay Crampton. She called to tell me this tragic news. She offers condolences with me.

Dear Chris and family,



I was very sorry to learn of the untimely passing of Jeff. My heartfelt sympathy goes out to you and your family at this time.



Love, Marge

Chris, Kristin and Erika:



Please know that many people from Oneonta are thinking of you and sending strength, love and compassion your way.



In sympathy,

Eileen

I remember the first day I met Geoff in second grade, and am glad that I had a chance to get to know him over the years. Though I hadn't seen him in recent years, I'll miss him. My condolences to his friends and family.

I remember Geoff and his skateboard being inseparable around Oneonta in the early 90s, and later, Geoff and his guitar. Condolences and best wishes to his family and friends.

I am so sorry for the loss of this young man. I knew him through my daughter, Heather Livingston. He was a good, kind man and touched many people. My son, Tyler and I send our sincerest sympathy for your loss and want you to know that our hearts are with you at this very difficult time.