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Gary Gist

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Gary Gist obituary, 1949-2026

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1949

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2026

Gary Gist Obituary

Gary Mordecai Gist, 76, of James Island, South Carolina, passed away peacefully on January 10, 2026.

Born on July 26, 1949, in Finksburg, Maryland, Gary was the son of the late Richard and Ruth Gist. From an early age, he demonstrated a deep love for learning, leadership, and athletics. He attended and played football at Gardner-Webb College and Towson State College and later earned his master's degree from The Citadel.

Gary devoted his life to education, coaching, and shaping young people. From 1973 to 1978, he served as Assistant Football Coach and Head Baseball Coach at Fort Johnson High School. He went on to coach as Defensive Assistant at Newberry College from 1979 to 1982. From 1985 to 1993, Gary was the Head Football Coach at James Island High School, where he left a lasting mark on the program and its players. He later continued his service to students and staff as Assistant Principal at James Island High School from 1994 until his retirement in 2007.

James Island was more than a place to Gary-it was home. He loved the community, James Island High School, sports, and most of all, his family and friends. A natural teacher and mentor, Gary "taught lessons" wherever he went, instilling pride, character, and integrity in countless young people. To many, he was not only a coach or administrator, but a father figure whose influence will be felt for generations.

Gary was a longtime member of Harbor View Presbyterian Church, where he served as an elder and faithfully participated on numerous committees. He dedicated many hours to supporting local food banks, building residential ramps for those in need, and sharing fellowship at the church's men's breakfasts-one of his favorite gatherings.

In 1968, Gary met the love of his life, Brenda Albea, beginning a beautiful 52-year marriage filled with love, joy, and compassion. Together, they raised two daughters, Shelby Bayne and Valerie Ann. His greatest joy was becoming "Pap Pap" to his beloved granddaughter, Amelia Bayne.

Gary is also survived by his brothers, Marvin Gist and David Gist, both of Maryland; his brother- and sister-in-law, Hayes and Jennifer Albea of Etowah, North Carolina; and many cherished nieces and nephews.

He was preceded in death by his parents, Richard and Ruth Gist; his sister, Debbie; his brother, Daniel; and his parents-in-law, Cliff and Phyllis Collins.

A funeral service will be held on January 19 at 1:00 p.m. at Harbor View Presbyterian Church, with a reception immediately following. A Celebration of Life will be held from 3:00 to 5:00 p.m. at the James Island Yacht Club.

In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made in Gary's memory to James Island Charter High School or Harbor View Presbyterian Church.

Coach Gist lived a life of purpose, service, leadership, and love. His legacy endures in the countless lives he touched, the lessons he taught, and the family and community he cherished.

Published by Charleston Post & Courier on Jan. 15, 2026.

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Bill Mellema

February 1, 2026

My condolences to Gary family. Gary and I worked together at Luther Larkin's Plumbing while in High School. Fond memories of a really good guy. Bill Mellema - Chesapeake, Virginia (formally from Finksburg)

Peggy and Mike Galloway

February 1, 2026

We offer our sincere condolences to Brenda, the entire family and Gary's many friends. We grew up with him and always loved seeing him. RIP Mordecai, Mike and Peggy Galloway

Joyce Maus Harrison

January 19, 2026

Gary will be missed by many. A good friend during our WHS years.Deepest Sympathy to the family.

Nelson Springer

January 18, 2026

My loving condolences to Gary's family. His passing, no doubt, was such a big loss to his family and his friends. After just knowing Gary casually for many years at church, I began to know his heart of gold at the Men's Breakfast at church. His passing made my tears flow. I pray that God will mend the broken and sorrowful hearts.

Alma Davis

January 17, 2026

I will greatly miss that wonderful smile and great personality. So many great memories to cherish! Much love to Brenda, Shelby and Valerie

Kathryn

January 17, 2026

Brenda & girls, hugs to y'all. My deepest sympathy & prayers. May your find comfort, peace, & support during this loss I am living in the mountains now & will not be able to attend the service, but know I am thinking of y'all & sending prayers ! He was such a good man & he will be missed. RIP Gary.
Kathryn Fritz

Jimmy Hayes

January 16, 2026

So sorry for your loss. He was a good man,always held great respect for him.Hold your memories close as they will always comfort you.

Emily June Roper

January 15, 2026

It was a pleasure working with Gary as Asst Principal at James Island Charter High School. My sincere condolences to the family.

Emmie and Edward

January 15, 2026

Brenda, Shelby, Valerie, Amelia and All Family...
We are praying for you all, May God Comfort you all during these days, weeks and in the months ahead. We are so very sorry for y'alls loss. Lifting you all up in prayer. God Bless You. Hugs and love
Emmie and Edward

Asela Laguna

January 15, 2026

My deepest condolences to Shelby, Valerie, Brenda and Amelia!

Patti OBrien

January 15, 2026

A real stand up man who showed great patience in study hall at Ft. Johnson High School. That was a long time ago but a memory always in the days of my life. He is surely walking with many angels now. May his family realize the impact he has had on so many and feel the love during this most difficult time.

Kristen renata Watson

January 14, 2026

He was my favorite assistant principal and vice principal of James Island charter high School

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