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Furman Fletcher Cole

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Furman Fletcher Cole CHARLESTON - Furman Fletcher Cole, 64, of Charleston, South Carolina, husband of Martha McPherson Cole, entered into eternal rest Thursday, August 30, 2012. A Funeral Service will be held Wednesday, September 5, 2012, at St. Michael's Episcopal Church, 71 Broad Street at 11:00 a.m. Interment, Old St. Andrew's Parish Episcopal Churchyard. The family will receive friends Tuesday between 5:00 and 7:00 p.m. at the Carolina Yacht Club. Mr. Cole was born October 27, 1947 in Charleston, South Carolina, son of Roy Francois Cole and Elizabeth Fletcher Cole. As children and young adults, he and his twin brother, Roy, were avid sailors, often competing in boats built by their father. After serving in the Navy, he received a BA in History from The Citadel in 1973. The brothers went on to establish R. F. Cole, Inc./Brewer's Paint Center where Furman was the Vice-President/Secretary/Treasurer. The same boundless commitment he showed to his historic renovations of homes in Downtown Charleston and Yeamans Hall Club was also evident in his tireless dedication to his family and his community. He instilled the family tradition of sailing in his older daughter, supporting her competition in many national regattas. He and a small group of fathers went on to found Charleston Community Sailing so that all local children could have the opportunity to learn to sail. He later became an affable supporter of his younger daughter's equestrian competitions, always offering assistance and encouragement to everyone. He was selflessly devoted to his extended family, daughters, and wife of 38 years. He was a member of St. Michael's Episcopal Church, Society of Colonial Wars, Saint Andrews Society, Sons of the American Revolution, New England Society, The Charleston Club, and Carolina Yacht Club. He served as Vice President of The Agricultural Society and Chairman of the Board of Directors of The Star Gospel Mission. During his years with the Board, he helped implement many programs to ensure The Mission's continued ministry to formerly homeless men. He is survived by his wife; two daughters, Elizabeth McPherson Cole of Boston, MA and Ellen Fletcher Cole of Charleston; brother, Roy F. Cole, Jr. (Patty) of Charleston; three nieces, Mary Elizabeth "MEB" Shue (Patrick), Laura B. Cole and Patricia Cole Ard (Mike). Memorials may be made to Star Gospel Mission, 474 Meeting Street, Charleston, SC 29403 or to Old St. Andrew's Parish Episcopal Church, 2604 Ashley River Road, Charleston, SC 29414. A memorial message may be sent to the family by visiting our website at www.jhenrystuhr.com . Visit our guestbook at www.legacy.com/obituaries/ charleston

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier from Sep. 1 to Sep. 3, 2012.

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Jack White

September 20, 2022

Hard to believe it has been 10 years since he left us. He was definitely one of a kind.

David Abernathy

March 24, 2019

Helen and I were friends of Furman in the early 70s when he worked with Helen at Avco Lycoming. He taught Helen how to sail. We are very sorry for your loss and know that the family will miss him very much. I hope you get this message and am sorry it is so late.

Carl Brewer

October 1, 2012

Praying for you all.

John M. Rivers, Jr.

September 11, 2012

Great guy. My deepest sympathy to the family.

William McPherson

September 6, 2012

Hey Aunt Martha, I am sorry I could not be there in person for you. I wish you, Elizabeth and Ellen the best.

Sharon Hartley

September 4, 2012

I am so sorry to hear about Furman. He will be missed greatly by many. My thoughts are with you all during this time.

Francee Levin

September 4, 2012

Martha, I was so sorry to hear about Furman. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you now. Francee

Carole McPherson Barger

September 3, 2012

Martha,, Sandy just told me about Furman. I am so sorry to hear of your loss--way too soon. I wanted you to know that you and your family are in my thoughts and I pray that you will know the peace of God during this very difficult time.

Kathy Nicholson

September 3, 2012

Remembering your great love story today and always.

September 3, 2012

Martha, Elizabeth, and Ellen, You are in our thoughts and prayers. Our love goes out to you. Bob and Carol Stout

Barbara & Robert Meyer

September 3, 2012

Martha, Elizabeth, Ellen, and Roy, you are in our thoughts and prayers. Your loss will be felt by so many. Furman worked hard and loved much, especially his family. We are so sad that he is gone. With our deepest sympathy, Barbara and Robert

Mr and Mrs. lebby robertson

September 2, 2012

Furman was a genuine Charlestonian who loved people and and made them smile. He was a good friend and I will miss him dearly. God Bless!

David Corder

September 2, 2012

Mrs. Cole and the Cole Family. My deepest sympathies on the loss of Mr. Cole. I will miss seeing him at the bank. May the Lord, in his infinite care, truly bless, keep and comfort you all during this most difficult time of loss and sadness.

Lee and Bob Crawford

September 2, 2012

Roy, we are so sorry for your loss. Please know that you and your family are in our prayers. Lee and Bob

Beverly J

September 2, 2012

Such sad news ... Furman will be missed. With heartfelt sympathy to Martha and their daughters, Beverly and family

Ellen Stevens

September 1, 2012

Roy, just want you to know I'm thinking of you and your family and my thoughts and prayers are with you. Ellen

Robin Macpherson

September 1, 2012

Martha, Ellen , Elizabeth and family our heart goes out to you. We have lost a very dear friend, but we are filled with happy memories of him.
Love Robin and Neil

September 1, 2012

Roy, so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are for you family. Thomas.

Robert Maguire

September 1, 2012

To all the Cole family,brother Roy and all the many friends Furman had who will miss him. Please know that how deeply we are sadden with the passing of Furman. He was a good man and he and all the family will be in our thoughts and prayers during these difficult times. I hope to see you out at Old St. Andrews Church on the 5th.
Robert & Debbie Maguire
30 Beverly Rd.
Charleston, S.C. 29407

curtis darnell

August 31, 2012

lost a good friend in furman,i never worked with some one who treated me as good as furman and roy did,i will miss him

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