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Erika Mattioli Obituary

Erika Ellen Essenberg Mattioli BROOKLYN, NY - Erika Ellen Essenberg Mattioli born February 14, 1964, Brooklyn, NY, formally of Gerrards Cross, England, Mt.Pleasant, SC, Trumbull, CT, Mascoma Lake, Enfield, NH, died September 1, 2009, at her home in Wilmington, VT. Erika is survived by her parents, John and Joan Essenberg of Mascoma Lake, NH and Charleston, SC, sister, Lori Essenberg of Charleston, SC, her sister, Susan Benoit (Brian) of Reading, VT, sister, Linda Kipperman (Jeffery)and newphews, Ian, Eric and niece Lindsay of Bow, NH, husband, Joseph Mattioli of Wilmington, VT, as well as her much beloved dogs and cats. Celebration of Erika's life and Internment will be at Oak Grove Cemetary in Enfield, NH on Friday, September 4, 2009, at 1:30 p.m. In lieu of flowers, a memorial contribution can be made to: Shriners Hospitals for Children, 2900 Rocky Point Drive, Tampa, FL 33607-1460. Visit our guestbook at www.postandcourier.com/deaths

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier on Sep. 4, 2009.

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Gloria Oakes VanHouten

August 28, 2019

I can't believe it's been 10 years. I think of you often. Miss our talks

Julie Clare

November 23, 2017

I am so sorry to have just heard about the loss of Erica. I was at prep school in Gerrards Cross with her and Lori and I have a wonderful photos of Erica dressed up as first a butterfly and then a kangaroo for two of the school plays on the lawn at Maltman's Green School. She was always great fun, even at such a young age. I lost my husband last year and I sympathise with your loss. Julie (McElroy) Clare

Lori Essenberg

September 25, 2009

I miss my sister, Erika so much. She and I spoke the night before she died about her planned trip to visit us in South Carolina in October. Her parents & sisters never stopped or will stop loving her, and we have to have faith that she is now finally at peace.

Gloria Oakes-Van Houten

September 17, 2009

Joe-
I was so sorry to hear about Erika's passing. My prayers and thoughts are with you. I have known Erika since we were 4 years old. I have many wonderful memories of us growing up together (summers in NH) If there is anything I can do please let me know
Gloria

Diane Whalen

September 8, 2009

Dear Joe, Mike and I were deeply saddened when Tim told us of the loss of your wife Erika. Please know that you are in our thoughts and in our prayers. We hope that God gives you the strength to carry on. Memories of Erika will see you through the days ahead. Our condolences to you and your family.

Diane (Nonnie) and Mike Whalen and Mike

Bo Crawford

September 4, 2009

Erika was a great women. Always a smile and never a bad thing to say. I'm so sorry to hear of the loss for everyone. Joe, my deepest sympathy to you and if I can do anything for you please give a call. Your in my thoughts and in my prayers.
Your friend,
Bo

September 4, 2009

Erika was a beautiful a wonderful woman, and her death was a loss for everyone. She should be remembered for a long time. I hope you remember all your ups and..downs with her, Joe. As i say "dont forget the past, and move forward."
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Tina Anyan

September 4, 2009

Joe
So sorry for your loss, thinking of you.

Tim Gill

September 3, 2009

Joe and Family, I am very sorry for your loss. You have my deepest sympathy, you will be remembered in my Prayers. God Bless you all. Tim GIll

Paul & Bonnie Grover

September 3, 2009

Joe,
Our hearts are sadden by the new of Erika. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. If there is anything we can do for you please don't hesitate to let us know. You know I have a good ear. Love you Joe.

Bob & Tonia Shipley

September 3, 2009

Joe
We are so saddened by your loss and we wanted to let you know that you, and your family, are in our hearts and prayers at this difficult time. If there is anything we can do, just say it.

Ray/Rayni Reilly

September 3, 2009

Joe,

We are very sorry for your loss, please know our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Dan Todd

September 3, 2009

Joe,

Their are people in your lifetime that affect you in an manner that you will never forget. We are very sorry for your loss and send our prayers to you and Erika's family. Just know that we will all be here for you in this very trying time.
The Todd family

Kelly Wilson

September 3, 2009

Joe & Family,
We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult times in your lives.
Kelly & Eddy Wilson & Family

Greg Stamp

September 3, 2009

Joe, I was deeply saddened by the news of Erika's passing. I pray she will now have peace. May you find solace in this very difficult time.

Megan Rancourt

September 3, 2009

Joe, My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. May great memories help you through the days. Take care,

September 3, 2009

Dear Joe, My thoughs and prayers are with you and cory at this most difficult time.Take care and may god bless. doug coombs

Karen Gaberseck

September 3, 2009

Joe,

I was so sad to hear the news of Erika. She was a very loving, kind and thoughtful person. She was so beautiful inside and out. Knowing her has touched my life, and i will always think fond thoughts. I know how much you must be at loss. Please dont hestitate to call if there is anything that I can do for you. I am so very sorry Joe. Love Karen

Karen Stenson

September 3, 2009

Joe,

I am so sorry for your loss and will be available if you need anything. There are no appropriate words to say but just know that I am thinking about you and what you are going through at this time and what you will be facing as time goes by.

Windham County Humane Society

September 3, 2009

Dear Family & Friends of Erika Mattioli,

On behalf of the board and staff of the Windham County Humane Society, I thank you for your heartfelt generosity and kindness in designating our organization as a recipient of memorial gifts in memory of Erika Mattioli.

Your thoughtfulness during this difficult time will benefit the many animals of Windham County who need our help.

With deep appreciation,

Hollis Burbank-Hammarlund
WCHS Co-President

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