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Douglas McKay

February 16, 1930 - September 21, 2013

Douglas McKay obituary, February 16, 1930-September 21, 2013, Nanaimo, BC

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February 16, 1930

DIED

September 21, 2013

Douglas McKay Obituary

McKAY, Douglas Moncrief February 16, 1930 - September 21, 2013 Douglas entered peacefully into the presence of his Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ at home and surrounded by his loving family on September 21, 2013. He is survived by his wife of 42 years, Sharon and his daughters, Shannon McKay; Kelly and son-in-law and Pastor Timothy Klaassen; Jennifer/(Kevin Rheault)(Ottawa) and his sons Bruce McKay (Caroline)of Sydney, NS, Brian McKay (Linda) Winnipeg, MB and Geoffrey McKay (Shelene) St Albert, AB as well as his brothers Geoff and James McKay (Windsor, ON). He is also survived by his greatest treasures - his 16 grandchildren. He was predeceased by his parents and his brother William Sherwood McKay. Douglas grew up in Windsor, ON one of 4 sons of William and Gertrude McKay. At the age of 18 he joined the RCMP (#15609) and served with honour and distinction till retirement in 1968 after 20 years. He entered the business world alongside his brother for the next 10 years till moving to British Columbia in 1979 where he founded and operated McKay's TV and Audio BC Ltd., also known as the local Nanaimo "iconic" Madman McKay's. For the next 20 years he grew and expanded the business to cover Vancouver Island from Courtenay to Victoria and also opened stores in Kelowna and Prince George. By the 1990's he concentrated his efforts to the Island to build a solid foundation for the business and will always be known fondly by many as "the Madman". In 1983 Douglas turned the direction of his life over to his Lord Jesus Christ and grew his business and family and interests to glorify Him. He was on the Board of Camp Qwanoes in Crofton, The Ligthhouse Harbour Ministry in Nanaimo, helped his dear friend David Evans republish his daily devotional book called Daily Encouragement, and mentored many people along the way. He was an active member of his beloved church families both in Parksville at Parksville Fellowship Baptist Church and many years at his home church of Departure Bay Baptist Church in Nanaimo. Here he served faithfully and joyfully for many years on Building Committees, Usher, and his greatest joy providing fun and experiences for everyone but especially young people. Douglas gave many people, young and old their first experience in flying, or boating and waterskiing - always leading by example such as by waterskiing well in to his 70's much to the chagrin of his family. He was also a member of the R.C.M.P. Vancouver Island Veteran's Assoc., as well both the Nanaimo and Parksville/Qualicum Flying Clubs and finally in the PDQ Flyers Association for RC Model planes. Douglas had a great passion for life, he loved the ocean whether sailing on it, power boating through it, or swimming in or under it. He sailed around Vancouver Island with his friend Marty in 1996. If he wasn`t on the ocean he was flying an airplane across it or the Rocky Mountains. He dreamed of flying the Alaska Highway and again with his friend Marty they packed sleeping bags and headed out after a trip to Alberta but the smoke from forest fires that year turned them back before they were able to complete their flight. Nothing much deterred the Madman from going where he dreamed and doing something exciting. His family both local and across the country were his greatest love and he instilled in them all a sense of love and fun and none have a doubt that he loved the Lord and loved them. He was a wonderful husband, great Dad, fun Grampa, a good friend and a faithful servant. He will be much missed but his impact will be felt for a long time and signs of him will be seen in his grandchildren for years to come. His legacy of a life well lived, loving the Lord, helping others, working hard and having fun along the way in spite of pain and hardship will never be forgotten. A 'Celebration of Life' service will be held on Saturday, September 28 at 1:30 p.m. at Departure Bay Baptist Church, 3510 Departure Bay Road, Nanaimo, BC. Donations may be made to Seeds of Hope or Camp Qwanoes by those who desire to do so. Information will be available at the service.



This obituary was originally published in the Nanaimo Daily News and Harbour City Star (Nanaimo, BC).

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Published by Nanaimo Daily News and Harbour City Star from Sep. 25 to Sep. 27, 2013.

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Louise Edwards

March 28, 2025

He and Sharon were my grandfathers neighbours in Colchester, ON and they gave me my first Gordon Lightfoot album. Lady and Charlie were my first experience with dogs and what a wonderful time we had. Louise Miller

Shannon McKay

December 17, 2023

Thank you so much everyone. I know it´s 10 years later but somehow I´m only now just seeing these. We were and are blessed by you all and still are thankful for dad´s legacy of his `later in life´ faith and passion for living by God´s grace. He would tell you it´s never too late. I´m sitting here on a Sunday Morning in ever so busy December, feeling ever so thankful that he always insisted and modeled being closed on Sundays in business and having family time. He´d say it was the Lord´s Day and a rest day (although rest often meant sailing or flying somewhere with fam and friends or someone he heard was having a rough time and could use an adventure. "The world doesn´t need another shopping day". So we have continued that in our business - if we hadn´t I think we would have gone crazy. And although some people think we´re crazy (fitting as we´re daughters of the Madman ;) ) so many more thank us for not being tied to commercialism and putting family and faith first. We´re so grateful for all we have. Thanks dad for this restful morning after one of the busiest weeks of our lives.
So remember to rest. Dad was always a Work hard, play hard, and rest well guy.
Bless you all.

Tim Klaassen

December 27, 2013

So glad to read this comments. Thanks to all who took a few moments to share and reflect. Dad is missed; and we know he's having a great time, waiting for family

Jim & Jean Grieves

September 28, 2013

Dear Geoff and James , Please accept our sincere condolences . We were sadden to hear of Douglas' passing . We remember with fond memories all the time spent with you guys and all your family . Work , football in the street or basketball , all good memories . Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time . Affectionately , Jim and Jean Grieves

Pat & Marion Burns

September 28, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Today we join you in celebrating a life well lived.

Richard Anthony & Bonnie Piet

September 28, 2013

Our condolences to all of Doug's family. I have a lot of fond memories of Doug over the years beginning with my working days at his TV Store in Chatham after my U of Windsor classes and Saturdays with Doug and Marcel Desjardins. I worked with all three McKay's TV brothers and we had a great time. I met with Doug's brother Jeff three months ago and learned of Doug's failing health. Sending our prayers for the whole family.

martin Kaczkowski

September 27, 2013

Doug will be missed by many. I'll always remember the happy times together. Rest In Peace Skipper. Marty.

Jayne Webb

September 27, 2013

So very sad to hear of Doug's passing. My memories are of a wonderful, exciting, and kind man. My love and sympathy goes out to Sharon and his children.

Norma McDonald

September 26, 2013

Our sympathy to you on the passing of your father and grandfather. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Love to all. The McDonald's from Big Pond xo

September 26, 2013

We have such fond memories of Doug during our short time in Parkseville. A man of God who genuinely encouraged us as newcomers and emberaced us as friends. Love to you, Sharon. Martin and Herdis Cownden

Brenda Cormack

September 25, 2013

My heartfelt condolences to the whole family, especially Shannon and Kelly. I wish I had met your father; he had an amazing life and has left a tremendous legacy. God's peace for your hearts are in my prayers.

Melanie Halpin-Kuehnel

September 25, 2013

We have such fond memories of Doug in our care group, adding thoughtful commentary and laughter. Blessings to the family as they both grieve and celebrate his passing.

Brian McKay

September 25, 2013

God's smiling.

Rebecca Visscher

September 25, 2013

A model for all who knew him.

Rachael Rudd

September 25, 2013

What an honor it was to know Doug. He was always there with a smile. Love and prayers to all the Mckay family. Thinking of you all.

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