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David Alan Tomlin RAVENEL - David Alan Tomlin, also known affectionately as "Bo", of Ravenel, died Wednesday, July 18, 2012 in Conway, SC in a tragic car accident. He was 60 years old. David was the owner of Kustom Auto Design, a small after-market accessories business, and was well known in Charleston's auto industry. He was baptized as one of Jehovah's Witnesses in 1984. He had the privilege of serving as an elder in the Ashley River Congregation. One of the highlights of his life was serving as the Food Service Overseer for the Orangeburg Assembly Hall Project and RBC #2 in South Carolina. He was often described as being "bigger than life" and his generosity was felt by many. He is survived by his wife of 38 years, Barbara Tomlin, his daughters, Candace "Candy" Barton (Michael) and Erin Leming, his son, David Tomlin (Rhiannon), his daughter-in-law, Lydia Santangelo, his granddaughters, Caroline and Emily Tomlin, Kylie, Camryn and Devany Barton, Arwin Tomlin and his favorite (only) grandson, Sean Barton. A memorial service will be held at West Ashley High School located at 4060 West Wildcat Blvd, Charleston, SC on Saturday, July 28, 2012 at 1:30pm. In lieu of flowers, a memorial fund for Dave's widow has been established for those wishing to contribute. Donations can be sent to Tomlin Memorial Fund c/o W. Barton, P.O. Box 21, Ravenel, SC 29470. Visit our guestbook at www.legacy.com/obituaries/ charleston

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier from Jul. 20 to Jul. 21, 2012.

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Ria Cunningham

January 5, 2016

Hi, Barbara. I'm sorry I didn't get this website til today, not knowing how else to contact you. Sincere condolences to you. I used to be in the North Charleston congregation back in the 90's, and I will always remember Dave and you when you first moved to North Charleston. You both demonstrated such a beautiful, zealous spirit and love for Jehovah and for the congregation. The last time I saw Dave was in 2005 when he helped us build our kingdom Hall here in Laurens, SC. I will always treasure his great sense of humor, but mainly his energy and tireless efforts in support of the kingdom. May Jehovah continue to support you and your family with his loving arms.I beg him to let me be on hand the day that Dave shows back up! I love you. Sincerely, Sis Ria Cunningham

Jerry & Rita Bryan

September 12, 2012

Some time has gone by since your great lose. Always remember your friends are thinking of the pain you are going through and hoping our prayers are helping. Let's all keep praying for Jehovah to bring an end to this "old" system and bring our "loved" ones back! We love you and the kids. Jerry & Rita

Bubba

Dave Tomlin

August 14, 2012

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Dave Tomlin

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Suzanne Holman

July 30, 2012

My daughter Ally Dunbar and I had the privilege of working with Dave in the kitchen of the RBC for a couple of years. We will always have very fond memories of him and his Orange Crush that he used in his recipes and always had in the cooler! And also of his bull horn. So sad to hear the news and we are so grateful to know that we have the hope of seeing our dear brother again in the future. Our condolences to the family. Suzanne (Horton) Holman.

Denise Humphries

July 30, 2012

I was so sorry to her about this. My mom Sis Rolle and my sister's Howette & April told me what happen. Bro. Tomlin was like a father to me when I work with him on the RBC . I will keep U Sis. Tomlin in my prayer.

The Walker Family

July 27, 2012

Dear Barbara and Family,
We are sorry for your lost, our prayers are with you and your family.

LaRhonda Moss Mazereeuw

July 27, 2012

I'm so sorry for this terrible tragedy. We can now add Brother Tomlin to the list of faithful brothers who we will see again soon in the Ressurection Garden in Paradise. In a second he will awaken and say, "I'm hungry, what's cooking"...
My prayers are for your family though, as YOU are the ones who must suffer on without him. I hope you will soon find peace.

Ann Smalls-Fullard

July 27, 2012

Dear Barbara and Family,

My husband and I are deeply saddened by the loss of Brother Tomlin. I have fond memories of when he served as Service Overseer in North Charleston. He was known as the "Master Motivator". Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

Dwight, Starla and Tora Pickens

July 27, 2012

Barbara and Kids,
Your family has been loved for many years in this area. Your Dad was one of a kind. We hurt for you, and are praying for comfort from Jehovah for each of you. He is added to the great list of special people that we are waiting to see again. We will sincerely miss him.

Sommer Manneraak

July 26, 2012

Sorry to hear of your loss. There are so many memories I have of Big Dave but the one that comes to mind is when we were in Columbia for an Assembly. Our car broke down and out of no where Big Dave showed up and helped us. Big Dave and your family have always been a big encouragement to me, helping me to stay close to Jehovah. I'm sure he had that effect on everyone he met. He will be greatly missed. There is no doubt we will soon see him again and reminisce about old times. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Maggie Roper & Family

July 26, 2012

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Melissa Handy (Ammons)

July 24, 2012

I am so sorry to hear such sad news. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Kenneth Gibbs

July 24, 2012

We will all Miss Br. Tomlin dearly. He was truly a giving man. I will best remember him as he and I sat together on a truck tailgate eating muffins while I watched the Holly Hill K.h. being rebuilt. he was the sort of brother you couldn't help but like. he loved what he did-that's a good life-one we will all soon have. to Sister Tomlin & Family you all know we are one big family under the sun. one day soon, Jehovah will reunite all of us together so we all can sit down and have lunch together. With Love and support, your fellow servants. (Columbia ASL Cong.)

Billy Hilton Jr.

July 23, 2012

Sorry to hear about the loss of a good brother and friend. Even in this difficult time isn't it great to have Jehovah as our stronghold, He is always there in our time of need. Reflecting on Jehovahs promise to rid the earth of pain and sorrow can bring comfort to us all as Big Dave rest in Jehovahs memory.

Tom and Bonnie Walker

July 23, 2012

We share your pain in our hearts. Soon Dave will be back with that smile. May we keep our intergity to welcome him back. In the main time may the God of all comfort, comfort all of you at this time. 2 Corinthains 1:3, 4. We love you!!!

Sam & Helene Keith

July 23, 2012

Our prayers are for you and your family at this most difficult time. We are like all on the train to paradise, some of our loved ones are in the sleeping section but we will all get off there.

Joe Dalton

July 23, 2012

I cannot add any more to what others have said about David's wonderful love of people and his enormous generosity. How true it is! Of course, that was driven by his strong love for Jehovah and neighbor! (Luke 10:27) Although I haven't lived there in SC for 20 years the fond memories of being David's (and your) friend will always be with me. You are in my prayers. What a happy day it will be when we see him again! In the meantime always remember that Jehovah will sustain the faithful through any trial.

Susan Hudson

July 23, 2012

Dear Tomlin Family

Our family would like to express our deep sympathy for your loss. You could always count on David to be working. He will be missed by all! Our hope is in the future ressurection. Love, Rob, Susan, Kyle & Zach Hudson Charleston Heights Congregation

July 23, 2012

I remember going to the Ashley River Congregation one Sunday, and it was my first time there. A very nice brother welcomed me. He walked up to me and asked me my name. He then asked me if I was there to hear the bible discourse, and I told him yes. He asked, "Do you know the brother giving the talk?" I replied no. He said," The brother's name is David Tomlin, and he is known for putting you to sleep." I smiled. When it was time for the talk, and the brother was introduced, who walked up to the platform but the same brother that greeted me when I first came in. I was so tickled. After the meeting we laughed about that, and that is how I met brother Tomlin.

Hold on to the memories. It is my prayer that Jehovah's holy spirit comfort you during this time. Continue to look to the future and to the time when we can all say, "Life without end at last."

July 22, 2012

JULY 22,2012

DEAR SISTER TOMLIN AND FAMILY

MY HUSBAND AND I LOVED AND WORKED WITH DAVID DURING MANY QUICK BUILDS AND THE ASSEMBLY HALL PROJECT.HE PUT HIS WHOLE
SELF AND STRENGTH IN THESE PROJECTS
HE LOVED FEEDING JEHOVAH'S PEOPLE WELL
WE WILL MISS HIM AND HIS SMILES SO MUCH
MAY JEHOVAH'S BLESSINGS BE WITH YOU IN
YOUR TIME OF GREAT SORROW.

HARRY AND MARY GLOVER, HOLLY HILL,S.C.

Eleanor Manneraak

July 22, 2012

July 22, 2012
Dear Dear Barbara and family.

The shock and grief hit all of us hard, but surely the grief you are going through is indescribible. As you go through the different stages of grief, Jehovah will sustain you. The hope we have is so comforting at a time like this.
We have a few good pictures of Dave at the Assembly hall, tasting food and making sure we had some tasty meals. Always smiling and humorous. He will long be remembered for all the love he put into preparing the meals for us.
When I lost John, 14 years ago, The grief didn't hit hard till 2 weeks later. When you need a shoulder to cry on and you will, Don't feel quilty, CRY. It really helps and talk to your closest friend (Jehovah, and an earthly friend too..)That helps too. Our Prayers are with you.
Lots of love, Your Sister.
Eleanor Manneraak.

Corey & Evelyn Siverson

July 22, 2012

We were so saddened to hear of the loss of David. What a wonderful brother & fine example of working hard in Jehovah's service. May Jehovah bring you comfort & strength thru this difficult time. May you be comforted by the hope ahead & seeing Dave & all our dear loved ones again soon! We keep you in our prayers.

Marc Pappas

July 21, 2012

Barbara, our prayers are with you and your children at this most difficult time. I worked with David over 20 years ago, and I have many fond memories. He was a thoughtful brother, and a great friend that I'm looking forward to welcoming back.

Romans 8:38-39

Amber Dorton

July 21, 2012

I was shocked and deeply saddened to hear of Dave's sudden death. You all are in my prayers. I lost my dad (Ron Copp) in February 2011 to cancer. Its a pain and loss that sadly I wish we didnt have to share. You will find that Jehovah WILL provide the "power beyond what is normal" during this tragic time.
Much love,
Amber (Copp) Dorton

July 21, 2012

Dear Barbara and Family
Vanessa called to tell us the sad news about David. We send our love and prayers to you and your family. May God wrap HIS arms around you and give you comfort today and in the days ahead.
From some of your family in Texas...'sissy'(your cousin), my husband Tom Merka...and Bessie Pearson

Ruth Rosenthal

July 21, 2012

We friends in Columbia area were so sad & shocked to hear of the death of Dave Tomlin from my daughter Susan Hudson in Summerville.

My husband, also a cook in army & Waldorf Astoria died unexpectantly Nov. 2, 2011. We had been in truth 38 yrs, baptized together in 1973.

We will all look forward to seeing them both again & the many friends who have died.

Your family & congregation & workers at Assembly Hall Site are in our prayers.

Much sympathy, Ruth Rosenthal & family

Gloria Mosley

July 21, 2012

To Barbara and family,
Please know Barbara my heart is aching for you and the family. Dave will be missed by so many. I know especially at food service in Orangeburg because he was so much fun always making us laugh. He would always have something new to introduce to eat that all enjoyed. It was truly a shock when we heard about his accident. But one sure thing Barbara, we'll be having good times with him again real soon for Jehovah will bring him back with millions of others in his memory to be enjoying each other forever in paradise. Keep this in mind and Jehovah will help you through this trying time as well as all the friends that love you both. Hope to see you at his memorial. Agape, Gloria Mosley

Debbie Richter

July 21, 2012

My heartfelft sympathy goes out to Dave and his family! Dave was a "one of kind" person. He truly gave everything he had. He was there for my son at a difficult time, and I shall never forget his kindness. I know his family finds comfort knowing they will soon see him again.

In Friendship,

Debbie Richter

Dawn Austin

July 21, 2012

Hi family my parents r John and Brenda Love. I heard about Bro.Tomlin and my heart goes out to each of u n the family. I heard his omelettes at the Assembly hall were very much looked forward to and his great personality will b missed. Jehovah bless u and help u endure til u c him again. Much Love, Dawn (Love)Austin

Barry Powell

July 21, 2012

Thank you for all the good times David has given us. He will be greatly missed but never forgotten. Will always remember the smile on David's face when his daughter asked him if they could go to pitty witty. Love you all. The Powells

Patty Williams

July 21, 2012

This is not good bye but a see you soon. Dave is in Jehovah's memory and He knew him best. Dave rocked at a elder, speaker and hard worken cook. What he did he wanted to do for his God family and friends. He will be missed by thousands but welcomed back by millions.

Bryan Hilton

July 21, 2012

"BIG DAVE"... I will always remember being woken up on Sunday mornings after spending the night at the Tomlin home to BIG DAVE singing "well I ain't joe diffey.. And I ain't joe diffey ( had to of been there to understand) while making banana or blueberry pancakes! Those are great memories! He will be missed! My prayers are constantly with Barbara and the rest of the family! We will be there to welcome him back in paradise with blueberry pancakes! WITH ALL MY LOVE!!!!

Melinda Tanner

July 21, 2012

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

The Taylors & Dotsons

July 20, 2012

We are all so sorry to hear the tragic news. We Love you all and will miss him dearly. Our Prayers are with you all.

July 20, 2012

We shall miss David so much until his return. You and your family are in our prayers and if you need anything, please call upon us to help. Your loving sisters in faith, Gail Albrecht and Gay Miller (sisters)

Roy Oglesby

July 20, 2012

My thoughts and prayers are with your family. I am so sorry to hear of Dave's passing, he was a great guy and will truly be missed by the Charleston automotive industry.

David and Lindi LaChance

July 20, 2012

Very sorry to hear of your loss, he will be missed by many

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