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Darlene Thomas Obituary

Darlene Gladys Thomas CHARLESTON, SC - Darlene Gladys VanRoten Thomas, wife of Neil R. Thomas, entered into eternal rest on the evening of November 27, 2010. Residence, Charleston, SC. The relatives and friends are invited to attend her memorial service, Saturday, December 4, 2010, in Harbor View Presbyterian Church at 3 p.m. Burial will be private. Darlene was born on September 11, 1962, the daughter of Louis VanRoten and Delores Ross VanRoten. She was a graduate of Trident Technical College, an X-Ray Technologist with the Veterans Administration Medical Center and a member of Harbor View Presbyterian Church. She is survived by her husband of Charleston, SC; two daughters: Kasey R. Thomas and Katrina M. Thomas, both of Charleston, SC; one brother: Christopher VanRoten of Alaska; two sisters: Lori Ann Bock of Oregon and Dorene Zalewski of Pennsylvania. She is predeceased by two brothers, Arthur VanRoten and Ronald VanRoten. In lieu of flowers memorials may be made to the Darlene Thomas Memorial Fund, c/o First Federal Savings and Loan, 1011 Harbor View Road, Charleston, SC 29412 or to the American Cancer Society, 5900 Core Road, Suite 504, North Charleston, SC 29406. Arrangements by J. HENRY STUHR, INC., DOWNTOWN CHAPEL. A memorial message may be written to the family by visiting our website at www.jhenrystuhr.com. Visit our guestbook at www.postandcourier.com/ deaths

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier from Nov. 30 to Dec. 1, 2010.

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Ronny Van Roten

November 10, 2024

REST IN PEACE MAY GOD BE WITH YOU

Cathy Rywelski

December 4, 2010

I will always be thankful that our lives crossed paths. Darlene has always had the grace, beauty and wisdom of an angel. She always seemed at peace and had the most positive attitude I have ever seen. She will be greatly missed by many. May your family find peace in the knowledge that your angel is in the hands of our Lord. May God Bless You All.

Lori

December 3, 2010

My sister Darlene touched so many lives in a positive and infectious way with her smiles, kindness and generosity.
It is the family, friends and faith that supported her with their love and kindness. I am most grateful than people know.
I ask that everyone continues to carry on her memory with the smiles, love and kindness to others as she would give to you.
I love you Darlene.
Peace to all and may God bless you all.
Sister, Lori

Sara Chambers

December 3, 2010

Darlene was always a good friend. She always went out of her way to say hello with a smile. I will never forget our high school years together. To Dorene, Lori and Her family God bless you at this time and I will be praying for all of you.
Sara chambers

Anthony Clate

December 3, 2010

Darlene will be missed she was a good friend.

Craig, Kathy, Kate, Brooke, Adam,& Anna Bailey

December 3, 2010

We light this candle in honor of Darlene's radiant life! Our family was blessed to know her and to be the grateful recipients of her lavish love. Her light brought comfort and warmth to all she touched and will be greatly missed.

We light this candle in honor of her remaining family who beautifully demonstrated the unending nature of true love! Niel, Kasey, and Katrina, thank you for showing us what it means to walk through the fire with one another. Thank you for showing the watching world how to persevere to the end and beyond. Thank you for loving your wife and mother as Christ loves- wholy, completely, sacrificially, all the way to death itself!

We light this candle in expectant Hope of that great Day when we will see Darlene's face again; where all sickness, sorrow, and death will be erased in the presence of her Lord and Savior Jesus Christ!

ALL our love,

Mark Williams

December 2, 2010

Although we never had contact after graduating, I remember Darlene as someone who always had a smile and was always kind to people. We had homeroom together for many years and I'm thankful for the memories. My prayers are with you all.

Heather VanRoten

December 2, 2010

Aunt Darlene will be greatly missed. Cherished memories in our hearts.

Tamra and Matthew Scott

December 2, 2010

Dear Neil, Kasey and Trini,
We are keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers. We hope the cherished memories of your wonderful wife and mother will one day soon help to ease the pain you all feel right now. We are blessed to have known her and loved her and will miss her sweet smile and genuine kindness.

Susan C. Kilpatrick

December 2, 2010

There's a new angel in Heaven today. But Darlene was always an angel, and she was too soon called back home. We were all blessed by her presence here on Earth.

Laura and Steve

December 2, 2010

I am forever grateful that God blessed me with meeting Darlene. She was such a courageous and loving woman. When I was down or not feeling so well, she would always know what to say or do to make me feel better. She will truely be missed.

Constance Maharrey

December 1, 2010

Darlene was someone I feel truely blessed to have known. She was such an AMAZING person. Many people go there entire lives and never meet someone so caring and loving. I will always remember when y'all came up to ride four-wheelers. She will be greatly missed by so many people. I will be praying for your family during this difficult time.

Jimmy & Patty Hayes

December 1, 2010

Dear Neil,Kasey & Trini,
We sincerely hope that all of your precious memories help you through these difficult times.Darlene was always one of the most inspirational people we have ever known.We are very proud to say that she was our friend.She will be missed greatly,but her smile,the way she cared about everyone,and her always positive attitude will never be forgotten.Thank you for sharing her with us all.God Bless.

December 1, 2010

I am so sorry for your loss. Darlene was a vivacious person and a good friend. She will truly be missed. May God be with you and your family.

Karen Wiggins

Penny and Donnie Bruns

December 1, 2010

Darlene was one of the kindest people I have ever known and a true friend to all who knew her. Her smile would make you forget all of your worries and light up a room. Darlene fought her illness with a strength that amazed us...and never gave up.We have lost someone really special, but will never forget how Blessed we were to know her and all the times we shared. Rest in Peace Darlene...

Penny and Donnie Bruns

Cindy Williams

November 30, 2010

Never before have I known a fighter like Darlene. She was a hard worker and she loved her family! My deepest sympathy goes to each of you. As God has promised in His word, He will carry you through this valley. Remember, you now have your very own angel watching over you. God Bless.

margo brennan

November 30, 2010

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

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