Curtis Murray Obituary

Oh the memories of Sundays, Ebenezar, Meme and Aunt Curtis. Like clockwork, Meme would get us up and send us on our way on Sunday mornings. We would stop by the store for penny candy before Sunday school, and then pop in on Aunt Curtis to say hi and find out where our cousin "Winkie" was. It’s those kinds of rituals that make a family's memory fond and your heart full. Nothing particularly grand; just lots of small gestures to know they cared and loved us.

My Aunt Curtis would always welcome us in have us sit a little, talk a little and eat a little. What a treat!

While my cousin was always traveling, I will never forget her pictures hanging on the walls and on the shelf before the kitchen area.

Memories of seeing my Uncle Johnnie, and Granddaddy in the pews of Ebenezar, Meme’s fried chicken in the kitchen window and Aunt Curtis popping out on the front porch to welcome us in.

These are memories that fill my heart. What a loving generation of people. They are not here physically but remain in our hearts and spirits eternally.

I love my family!
God’s Grace and Peace be with you
Your Cousin, Pamela Deleston

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008

To the entire Murray and Brown families:
My family and I are saddened by the loss of Aunt Curtis. We would like to extend our sincerest condolences and love to Aunt Curtis' family. May you find strength and comfort in God's hands as you go through these difficult days. We will miss her dearly.
"Happy moments, praise God"
"Difficult moments, seek God"
"Quiet moments, worship God"
"Painful moments, trust God"
"Every moment, thank God"

Oh how I have such numerous wonderful memories - from not only my grandmothers house on South Battery, my house, but mom and me visiting your mom at her home at Christmastime. What a fantastic lady she was and what a great cook. I always enjoyed being around her. I especially remember how Mummum (Gertrude Stelling) telling me how she taught your mother how to cook and your mom and I would look at each other and wink since we knew differently. I especially remember how you and your mom helped me get dressed for my wedding at Grace church. You were so fortunate to have your mother with you for such a long time. Just remember all your fond memories of her and through your friends (and family) you will get through this tough time. She was loved (as you are) by our entire family. Curtis is one that I will never forget and will always be in my heart. All my heartfelt sympathy and my love to you and your family at this trying time, Fran (Stelling) Pye