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Connie Cochran Obituary

Connie Cochran CHARLESTON - The relatives and friends of Mrs. Connie Porter Cochran, and those of her husband, the late Ssg. Oscar Cochran; those of her parents, the late Mr. Eugene and the late Edith Mungin Porter, Sr.; those of her children, Deborah Cochran-Davis (Rodney) of Nashville, TN and Terrence "TC" Cochran (Donna) of North Charleston, SC; those of her siblings, Ms. Elizabeth Porter Jones, Ms. Mildred Porter of Charleston, SC, Ms. Carolyn Porter, Ms. Odessia Porter- Gadsden of Charlotte, NC, the late Margaret Porter Lewis, the late Virginia Porter Cochran, the late Eugene "Creo" Porter, Jr., the late Walter Porter, Sr. and the late JoAnn Porter Maxwell and those of her grandchildren, nieces, nephews, cousins and other relatives and friends are invited to attend her home going service on Friday, May 25, 2012, 1:00 p.m. at Ebenezer AME Church, 44 Nassau St., Charleston, SC; Rev. William Swinton, Jr., Pastor. Interment will follow at Live Oak Memorial Gardens, Charleston, SC. Ms. Cochran will repose this evening at the church from 6:00 - 8:00 p.m. The family will receive friends from 6:00 - 7:00 p.m. The Omega Omega Service for Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc., will begin at 6:45 pm. All Deltas are requested to assemble at 6:30 pm. Memorial messages may be sent to the family at www.hiltonsmortuary.com. Arrangements announced by HILTON'S MORTUARY, INC. 1852 E. Montague Ave., North Charleston, 29405; 843-554-2117. Visit our guestbook at www.legacy.com/obituaries/ charleston

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier from May 17 to May 24, 2012.

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ANGELA Morgan

May 17, 2020

To Deborah and family members hold on to those special memories and cherish them. We may lose a love one. Remember love never dies stay in Faith

May 30, 2012

To Deborah and the Cochran Family I extend my deepest sympathy at the loss of your mother and loved one. Please remember that death does not have the last word and right now she is resting in the arms of Jesus! My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Wanda Rowlett English
Fisk University '77

May 29, 2012

To the Cochran Family, my deepest sympathy and prayers are with you. Deborah, as a loyal Fiskite, you are always a special member of the Fisk family.

Thomas J. Fuller, Jr.

Adrian Williams

May 25, 2012

Deborah,
Please find comfort in the fact that your fellow Fiskites share in your loss. We will remember you and your family throughout this time of transition.

Adrian L. Williams '77

May 25, 2012

TC&family
I was saddened to hear of your loss.God is always in the family corner at a time like this.Hold on to your memories and let them guide you during this time of sadness.May gods love make your grief bearable.
Veronica Hutchison

Marian Carter

May 25, 2012

Debbie: We last met in the boutique when we were both shopping for "glamour" items. Some time has passed, but my commitment to your well-being and Spiritual comfort remain as I promised.

I cannot be present with you during this time, but early next week, time will be more convenient for my work schedule, and I shall call on you.

Connie was one of those people you always expected to be with us, in spite of circumstances and appear-ances, and in Spirit, she will do just that.

In behalf of the Carter Family, I express deep regrets to you, T.C. and my son-in-law, Duane, and his family, who will all be present for the homegoing celebration tomorrow, except for Candy, who could not be here for other pressing matters in Atlanta.

"Though her soul may set in darkness, it will rise in perfect light; she loved the stars too fondly to be fearful of the night."

Bid her a good-night/morning; she lives in Oneness beyond the sunset where there is eternal light. When we face the SON, we will never see shadows.

Oleathia Mitchell Gadsden

May 25, 2012

Debbie, TC, and Family;

Condolences across the miles in the loss of your Mom, our Marysville neighbor, and my Soror. I fondly remember Mrs Cochran's stern yet caring admonishments that kept us in line when we dared to act out. What a better place our neighborhoods would be today if there were more Mrs Cochrans living in them.

We've been to this place of losing a Mom and encourage you to remain prayerful during these difficult days ahead. In time, the sadness you feel today will be replaced with more happier memories. Take peace in knowing that as God has brought you to this place, He will surely take you through it.

The Mitchell Family: Connie, Al, Suzanne, Oleathia, Nettie, and Benny

angela morgan

May 24, 2012

Hi Deborah I am so sorry to hear of your loss may you and your family find comfort in your memories . this ia Angela Green morgan your childhood friend all the best stay in touch

Pamela Gilliard-Thompson

May 24, 2012

Debbie, TC and family,

Hearing the news that Connie has transition to her heavenly home, has left us sadden. Yet, fond memories began to well up, as I thought of her and our mom, Eulalie; of us and you and TC…we do have family history.

Connie and Mom were best friends and we, too, friends and neighbors. I still remember them having what I'll call their 'social networking' talks in the backyard across the fence or Connie fussing with Mom about how she should handle a problem and not being so soft and Eulalie getting on your Mom for being to insensitive…but that's how their friendship was, helping each other cope with day to day life expectations and acceptance of each other as they were…no glitz or glamour.

Debbie and TC, we know that years and miles have come between us, but please know that we are grieving and our hearts are aching; as we share your loss. We lift you all up in our thoughts, asking the Lord to be with you and that with time the feeling of sorrow will be eased.

Brighter days are ahead as Connie has moved to a better home and truly at peace.

Our sincere condolences,
The Gilliard – Pat, Pam, Oscar & Dwayne (Moochie)

Pedro Rolle

May 24, 2012

Deborah,

As a part of the Class of '77, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I wish you God's strength for the months and years ahead

The Pinckney Family Margaret - Alexander- Dwayne

May 23, 2012

Our hearts goes out to the family during this time of your lost.. Our prayer are extended as well. Just keep in mind that she is resting in our saviors arms........

Rhonda Gibbs Newborn

May 22, 2012

Deborah and Family ~~
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. May you be comforted and supported by your extended network of family and friends.

May 22, 2012

Our deepest sympathy to Deborah, Rodney and family. We are in prayer for you guys and know that we love you. May God provide the comfort that only He knows you need now and in the days ahead.

Sincerely,
Bill, Judy & Jessica Pointer

Odessia Porter-Gadsden

May 19, 2012

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998

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