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Coming Ball Gibbs, Jr. MT. PLEASANT - Coming Ball Gibbs, Jr., died on the morning of September 27, 2012. The family will receive friends in J. HENRY STUHR, INC., DOWNTOWN CHAPEL Sunday between 4:00 and 6:00 pm. A private graveside service will be held at Saint Philip's Episcopal Churchyard. He was born on September 19, 1936, in Charleston, South Carolina, the son of Coming Ball Gibbs and Dorothy Seay Gibbs. He was a graduate of Saint Marks School, Southborough, Massachusetts, in 1954, Princeton University with a bachelors degree in Politics, class of 1958, and the University of South Carolina Law School in 1961, graduating Magna Cum Laude. He was law clerk to Judge Clement Haynsworth of the United States Court of Appeals. In 1963, he commenced practice with his father. He was a member of Gibson, Gibbs and Krawcheck and, thereafter, Gibbs, Gaillard, Rowell and Tannenbaum. In 1983 with Allan R. Holmes, he formed the firm of Gibbs & Holmes where he was special counsel at his death. He was active and esteemed as a trial lawyer. He, with Ann Stirling and other lawyers, took on the representation of a convicted murderer under circumstances where it appeared obvious that he had received ineffective assistance of counsel. Even though the South Carolina Supreme Court on three different occasions rejected this view, and the United States Supreme Court twice, the United States Supreme Court ultimately ruled that the client was entitled to a new trial. He was active in Bar matters and served as President of the Charleston Young Lawyers Club and the Charleston County Bar Association. He was one of the lawyers who created the Neighborhood Legal Assistance program, a federally funded legal services program for indigents. He worked with many substance abuse issues, including those affecting lawyers, both as mentor and as lawyer. He was awarded the Compleat Lawyer award of the South Carolina Law School Alumni Association and the first James Louis Petigru medal by the Charleston County Bar Association. He was also a Fellow of the American College of Trial Lawyers. He is survived by his wife, Beverly Sue Gibbs, daughters: Georgianna (Janna) Gibbs Wynne, Susan Gibbs Durkin, Mary Carter Gibbs and Helen Gibbs Harkins; grandchildren: Thomas Robert Wynne, III, Asa Gibbs Wynne, Allen Daniel Harkins and Hadley Harkins; brother, William Jenkins Gibbs of Charleston, and sister, Elizabeth Lee Gibbs of Santa Rosa, California. At his death, he was a member of the Saint James Santee Episcopal Church in McClellanville. He often said that a person's life could be measured by how his children, of whom he was a very proud father, turned out, and if he helped anyone along the way. His girls turned out fine, he did help others, and he died without regrets, feeling he had done what he could do. He embodied the ancient command that the law be not a money making trade, but a profession. Memorials may be made to Saint James Santee Episcopal Church, PO Box 123, McClellanville, SC 29458. A memorial message may be sent to the family by visiting our website at www.jhenrystuhr.com. Visit our guestbook at www.legacy.com/obituaries/ charleston

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier from Sep. 27 to Sep. 28, 2012.

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Shirley Jones

April 11, 2023

I didn't know Mr. Gibbs had passed until years later, but I was always thankful that he was there for me and my little girl when we needed him. What a true gentleman and a credit to his profession. There was no better than him. He had such a good heart and reminded me of my dad. His family should be so proud, as I'm sure they are. I'm sure he would want God to bless you all, and that is my prayer for you as well. If people bless your memory, you have been a good person.

Lee Robinson

September 21, 2020

How I wish I could talk to my old friend now, hear his wisdom and sense of humor in these dark times.

James Gendron Gibbs, Jr

September 21, 2019

Coming remains alive in my mind: a vivid presence, a constant reminder of how a life should be lived.

Peggy Rochay

October 8, 2012

I'm heartbroken, I just found out you passed. Though I hadn't seen you in some time, you were always someone I truly adored. Rest in peace Coming.

Faye Liner

October 5, 2012

Jana, My deepest sympathy on the loss of your dear father. He was a true gentleman and a credit to his profession. He has truly left his mark in this world.

Mike Weathers

October 3, 2012

Coming, tears come to my eyes as I heard the news of your passing!! You were so good to me, such a friend to me when I truly needed a friend!! Always the epitome of what I considered a Southern gentleman should be, in the finest since of that tradition!! Your children and family are in my thoughts and prayers my brother, and I truly look forward to that reunion in the clouds one day!! Until then old friend, Rest in Peace!!

John Dowdney

October 2, 2012

Coming was a dedicated giver his love was selfless.

James Gendron Gibbs, Jr

October 2, 2012

The exemplar of a man of hard work and good works: the unassuming, generous, articulate, determined advocate and source of rock-like strength for family and friends, but most especially for those less fortunate. It has been said, "Next to love, the most important thing a person can give is work. Sometimes, a person gives both." Coming gave both.

James Gendron Gibbs, Jr

Mark Evans

October 1, 2012

Coming helped me immensely when I needed it and for that I will always be grateful.May God bless Coming and his family.

October 1, 2012

Jana, Helen, Carter, and Susie, your Dad was truly a wonderful man!
I had the honor of being his friend for fifty years and babysitting for all four of you.
I hope that you all know that you were the light of his life!
May the road rise up to meet you, may the wind be always at your back, and may God hold you in the palm of his hand!
Much love,
Gigi Chapman

Bill Breen

September 30, 2012

Coming was a great help to me on key occasions eg 1997 when my company eliminated my job and he explained the law to me, and years later also for my daughter Tara -- in between he was a great friend, who will be missed

Alan Lopez

September 30, 2012

Twice in my life, I have needed Coming Gibbs. He has never let me down, has been a great man, a great friend and supporter, and an example of what a really great attorney should be. What a great man. I shall never forget him. My thoughts and prayers are with the family, and I can only imagine how proud of him you are, and how much you will miss him. God bless you all.

Jane Parker

September 30, 2012

Jana. I am so sorry for your loss. Your father was and is truly a treasure. My thoughts and prayers are with you. With much love. Jane

Christy and David Whitlock

September 30, 2012

While I did not know Mr. Gibbs well I know what an incredible man he must have been to have had such a caring, loving, selfless giving daughter.... My sweet and dear friend Janna. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Time, treasured memories and the love of family and friends will sustain you in the days and months ahead. Much love and peace to your sweet family.

Ann Beauchamp

September 29, 2012

A business associate and legal advisor who I have been honored to consider very much a friend. I will miss him very much.

Amy Semken

September 29, 2012

Janna - I am so very sorry for your loss. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.

Jean Ward Phelps

September 29, 2012

I pray that the sorrow of having lost him will soon be replaced by the joy of having had him. I was privileged to work for him. He was an awesome attorney, wonderful mentor, and he has always, and will always, have a deep place in my heart.

September 28, 2012

As a family member and a friend, I loved him. He was a good cousin to my father, and a very good friend to me, God blees you, and the family- John Gibbs

Guerry Glover

September 28, 2012

Susan, Carter and Helen- sending you lots of love-. I have many fond memories of your father. He made a positive difference in the lives of so many people. I wish I could see you on Sunday but won't be able to make it. Love, Guerry

Maggie Gins

September 28, 2012

I will miss you dear friend!

George Sink

September 28, 2012

Coming was a truly wonderful man. He will be missed.

September 28, 2012

As a young lawyer, I went to him often for advice. He was always generous with his time. What a wonderful man, and wise mentor.
Lee Robinson

larry rutherford

September 28, 2012

My Prayers go out to all of you. One thing about time is the memories that are created and shared. Today I know that Coming may be missed Yet. he is in his heavenly home and will always be present in our memories.

David Popowski

September 28, 2012

With his elegant mind, when someone passed away, Coming often quoted the Latin: de mortuis nihil nisi bonum (“Of the dead, nothing unless good”). Indeed, only good things could be said about you our friend.

September 28, 2012

A fine gentleman;an excellent lawyer;and fun to be around.He will be missed by judges and lawyers alike. E.T.Halio

Ellen Langeland

September 28, 2012

Will miss your reassuring presence my friend and being the "hand responsible" for so many ... thank you for your kindness

Susan Sinclair

September 28, 2012

Coming was so special to so many...my thoughts are with you girls at this very sad time...

September 28, 2012

You will be dearly missed... Thoughts and prayers to your family... Much love, Meredith Hudacko

Donna Latimer

September 28, 2012

Coming had an art of telling interesting stories with that Charleston accent and most of them included humor.We will miss him. I hope his girls know how much he loved them.God bless and keep you in his loving arms.

Paul Garfinkel

September 28, 2012

I can not think of an attorney who better personified the best of our profession. He was the ultimate lawyer, friend and gentleman. We will be missed by everyone who had the pleasure of knowing him.

September 28, 2012

All of our love to you during this most difficult time. Paul and Karen Lucas

Jim Herman

September 28, 2012

What a combination of gentleness, kindness, and intelligence. The greatest thing was his ability to make you smile without any effort on his part. A man's man, too.

Caroline Lesesne

September 28, 2012

Janna, Susan, & Family - Please know you are all in my thoughts and prayers. Your daddy was so blessed by all of you.

Tommy Mathewes

September 28, 2012

Very very special man. His gift of helping others will be felt forever. May Coming's Memory also be Eternal.

Michael Carmody

September 28, 2012

A very fine gentleman, lawyer, and scholar has been lost. We will miss his generosity.

David Popowski

September 28, 2012

With his elegant mind, when someone passed away, Coming would often say "de mortuis nihil nisi bonum (Of the dead, nothing unless good)". Indeed, Coming only good could be said of you.
David Popowski

Edmund Robinson

September 28, 2012

A gentleman, a consummate lawyer and a great humanitarian. He was a superb mentor and inspiration to me both professionally and personally. A great and good man. My heart goes out to the family.

Lesley Fox Singleton

September 27, 2012

Heaven just received someone who helped many do something "hard and important." RIP Coming. My thoughts are with you Sue.

Beverly Stoney

September 27, 2012

With our heartfelt sympathy to the Gibbs family over your loss. Another fine Lowcountry gentleman has departed our world.

christine messick

September 27, 2012

Asking god to shower you with comfort during this time of loss

Peter DeLuca

September 27, 2012

Man, will I miss my friend.

Ellis Kahn

September 27, 2012

As a law school classmate and fellow member of the Charleston Bar, I always respected Coming as a brilliant legal scholar, a person of integrity (whose word was his bond) and as a friend. Coming will be sorely missed by all who had the privilege of knowing him.

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