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Cheryl Ralston Van Metre Obituary

Cheryl Ralston Van Metre

Edisto Beach, SC - Cheryl Van Metre, founder of Van Metre School of Dance and The Appalachian BalletCompany died peacefully Friday, January 9, 2026 at her home in Edisto Beach, SC.

Born in Maryville, TN, she was the daughter of Robert Ralston and Margaret Goddard Ralston. Her first local television appearance was on The Mary Star Show where she (who as a 20 some year old who had never cooked) demonstrated preparing a broccoli casserole. On camera she with all her theatrical presence mixed pre- minced broccoli, cheese, a can of fried onions, and a can of mushroom soup so while it baked, she could speak live on TV with local celebrity Mary Star about her newly opened ballet school and her vision of ballet for Appalachia. Her family still includes this casserole at all their gatherings.

From her youth she had a vision of bringing visual arts and classic ballet to East Tennessee. She studied the art of performance and instruction of dance with The Chicago Ballet, The National Ballet of Mexico, England's Royal Ballet Company, andThe Kirov Ballet in USSR now St Petersburg Russia. Her dance company and The Van Metre School of Dance performs on both national and international stages. Most notable, her performing company under the direction of Amy Vaughn, who was appointed Artistic

Director of Appalachian Ballet Company in 1997, has continued to present the Nutcracker Ballet at the Knoxville Civic Auditorium for six decades. Cheryl served terms as both vice president and president of the ballet teachers accrediting board, The South Eastern Association of Schools of Dance.

Cheryl is survived by her husband of 69 years, Col. Mitchell R. Van Metre, II, son, Rev. Dr. Mitchell Van Metre, III, his wife of 47 years, Rebecca Finger Van Metre, a grandson, Stephen Van Metre and his wife Maddy and two great-grandsons, Brandon and Michael Van Metre who all currently live in South Carolina.

A graveside service will be held 11:00 a.m., Wednesday, January 14, 2026 at The Presbyterian Church of Edisto Island Cemetery with Father Joseph Smith officiating. The family will receive friends following the graveside service at the cemetery. A celebration of life service will follow at 12:30 p.m., at Saint Francis Episcopal Church with Father Joseph Smith officiating.

Memorials may be made, "In memory of Cheryl Van Metre, Founding Director of The Appalachian Ballet Company, 215 West Broadway Ave., Maryville, TN 37801 orappalachianballet.org.

Mickey and the Van Metre family may be reached at PO Box 101 Saluda SC 29108.

Please share your memories and condolences online at www.rameyfuneralhome.com.

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier on Jan. 12, 2026.

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Sally Beardsley

January 14, 2026

With my late husband Flemming, on our annual Edisto visits to my Mum, Sheila Beardsley, we enjoyed the incomparable hospitality of Mickey and Cheryl, in whose welcoming house everything was a celebration. Cheryl will always be a shining star for me, and I will always be thankful for the joy of having known her. To Mickey and the Van Metre family I send my love and deepest condolences.
Sally Beardsley

Maike

January 12, 2026

I have a lovely memory of spending time with Cheryl and Mickey at their home celebrating King Charles“ coronation. Cheryl was so gracious and fun. And it showed that she was very much loved in the Edisto community.

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