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Carter Holland Obituary

Carter Hamilton Holland ALEXANDRIA, VA - Carter Hamilton Holland, 24, died on August 15, 2020 at his home in Alexandria, VA from cardiac arrest. With music as his first love, Carter's talent was only surpassed by his kindness, unconditional love for his wide circle of friends, wry wit and calm dignity as the embodiment of a true Southern gentleman. A graduate of St. Stephen's & St. Agnes School in Alexandria, Carter was a "Lifer", having started his schooling there in kindergarten. At SSSAS, he excelled on the cross country team and the orchestra. During those years, he achieved the rank of Eagle Scout and was honored with the Great Son award from Alpine Camp for Boys in Mentone, Alabama. Carter received a degree in English from the College of Charleston. Carter shared his musical talents as a composer and multi-instrumentalist in a Charleston band and at garden parties to support Historic Alexandria Foundation. He launched his career path at the I'On Club in SC and Potomack Company Auctions in Alexandria before becoming a journalist for Law Street Media in Washington, D.C., following in the career footsteps of his father. Carter and Hamilton are family surnames, and as the only grandchild on one side of his family, he was amused when referred to as "the heir" by his grandparents' friends. He delighted in the historic atmosphere of his Old Town Alexandria hometown and Charleston, and he was a member of The Order of the First Families of Virginia and the Huguenot Society of South Carolina. The source of Carter's greatest happiness was his family and friends, and especially the times he spent with his extended relatives at the family's rural mountain compound on the Little River in Mentone, Alabama and at Kiawah, SC. He loved his cat Tommy. Carter is survived by his parents, Mr. and Mrs. Steven Asbury Holland (Lucie Howard Stephens) of Alexandria; grandmother, Mrs. Gerry Underwood Stephens of Chattanooga, TN; grandparents, Mr. and Mrs. Donald R. Worley (Mary Frances Beane Holland) of Chattanooga; aunt, Allison Ward Stephens and uncles, Gerry U. Stephens, Jr. and A.W. Holland, III of Chattanooga and numerous beloved cousins. A Service for the Celebration and Thanksgiving for Carter's life will be held at the Virginia Theological Seminary on August 22, and he will be laid to rest in a private family ceremony in Chattanooga. Memorial contributions may be made to St. Paul's Episcopal Church in Alexandria, College of Charleston departments of Music or English and Mentone Educational Resources Foundation (Alabama). Visit our guestbook at www.legacy.com/obituaries/ charleston

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier from Aug. 21 to Aug. 22, 2020.

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Stephen Taylor

September 16, 2020

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Holland,
In getting to know Carter when he worked at the I'On Club, I was always impressed with his ability to connect with others, his intellect and his gentle mannerisms, among many other qualities. He was a sweet soul.
I am so sorry for your loss.
My sincerest condolences,
Stephen

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Terence Bowers

September 3, 2020

Carter was a fine scholar, a talented writer, and a kind and gentle person with a lot to offer the world--just the kind of person the world needs. He will be dearly missed.

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Fred McKay

August 23, 2020

Mr & Mrs Holland,

I was so saddened to learn of Carter’s passing. I cannot imagine the depth of your grief.

I want to tell you what a fine young man Carter was. I am a member of the I’On Club, and play tennis 1-2 times per week
While Carter worked at I’On, I had a number of interactions with him at the front desk. He was always pleasant, kind, and helpful. I have 3 young grandsons and I truly hope that as they get older they will exhibit the positive and uplifting qualities that Carter demonstrated.

Please accept my sincere condolences

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