Brenda Loftis Obituary

Dear Rene and family,
I am sad to hear about the loss of Brenda. I never really knew her but she was a wonderful lady just by what I am reading here from all her friends and loved ones. I just found out from Janice a few weeks ago that Brenda was sick. Then I found out friday she had passed. Rene, it's been years since I have seen you. I never knew you were married to Janice's sister until now.You seem to have a wonderful family and was blessed with a precious wife. May God wrap His arms around you and give you peace in knowing she is well now and happy.
Love you all,
Tora Watson Linton

My thoughts and prayers are with Brenda's family. We lived together for several months & had some good times. Brenda will forever live on in all of our hearts and memory.

Sending our prayers to the family of a very nice lady.

Although I didn't know you as well as some, the brief moment that you were a part of our lives proved to be very blessed. You will always be a beacon of light to all of the hearts you touched. May the Lord bless your family and may they know how fortunate they were to have such a beautiful angel in their lives.

Two years ago I started delivering mail to the loftis home. One hot summer day; Ms. Brenda ran up to me with a cold Pepsi and a friendly smile. Every single time I saw Ms. Brenda; she always smiled this genuine smile that will forever be in my memory. My thoughts and prayers go out to her family.

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. She was a very special person.She was a loving wife and a wonderful grandmother and a good friend. She will be missed. Our prayers are with the family.

I cherish all the memories of you that are locked safely in my heart always, as well as your lovely family. You are loved by all that were lucky enough to share their lives with you. You put a soft spot in all of our hearts forever. You were a lovely, open armed woman and were like a second mother to me. Brenda, you will always be near and dear, never too far to hear. I can not think of a time when you were not smiling. Remembering all the times we all went to pappy's have fun and line dancing (such a fond memory). You and your family took me in as one of your own when I first moved to Charleston. They got that from you, I know! I will not say goodbye, rather, I will say, see you soon enough my beloved friend ...and always think of you as I go.
I love you

hey mrs. brenda this is ashley from after school at hha you always had a open heart for any student and i will miss you very much best hopes to you

to mrs. brenda's family: i hope the best for yall's family.

My heart and prayers are with the Loftis family in your time of need. I'm sorry for your loss

Brenda, you will be missed and I love you. Your family is in my prayers.

Where do I begin? First I have to say that I am honored to say I knew Mrs.Brenda! She is such a fun loving, caring, and amazing woman. She always thought of others first. Her family was her world. She always brightened up the room with her contagious laugh. She will always be remembered as one who made you laugh.! She will be missed, and the family will be in my prayers. God bless you all.

Our thoughts and prayers are with the family.

I'm deeply shocked at the sudden death of your love one. May God give her eternal rest and may her soul rest in peace! Accept our condolences and be strong and patient.

Rip I know you're in a better place. May God be with your family.

You are all in our prayers.Brenda was a kind and wonderful person.She always had a smile for someone even when she herself was down.Goodbye Friend.Will meet again in heaven.Dody and Woody Woodward

I WOULD LIKE TO SAY SHE IS A SPECIAL LADY AND GOD HAS A SPECIAL PLACE FOR HER WHERE SHE CAN MAKE PEOPLE SMILE. SHE MADE ME SMILE SHE WAS MY FRIEND I NEVER FORGOT THE FUN TIMES WE HAD,I KNOW GOD HAS ANOTHER ANGEL NOW.MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOUR FAMILY.

My heartfelt prayers a with the family. Brenda was funny &. Always made us laugh when things were sad. You will be missed my friend. Love & prayers to all the family. Felicia white - Dallas, Texas

When I think of Aunt Brenda I think of her laugh; it was infectious, contagious and once it started always had company. Life will not be the same without her in it but I know that she is just one more person who will be waiting for me on the other side. I am so blessed to have had her in my life and feel honored to call her my aunt. My condolences go out to our entire family especially Uncle Renee, Jessica, Amy, Eddie and their children. Brenda Gail Shealy Loftis was a gift from God and she will be missed greatly. Love you Aunt Brenda

You all are in my prayers and cannot believe she's gone. She was a great woman and always made everyone smile. Some of my favorite memories growing up where at the Loftis house. She is forever in our hearts and always watching over us.

I will miss her smiling face and small talks in the afternoon.My prayers are with the family in this time of pain,but know she has earned her wings and will always be an angel watching over her family.

I will miss Brenda's smiling face and her hugging me everyday at HHA. She was a light in my life and others. She will be truely missed by all who knew her and all who love her. Her loss will be felt for a long time. I will miss you my dear friend.

Brenda was a wonderful woman and will surely be missed. We send our deepest sympathies and will keep you in our prayers. May God wrap his loving arms around you all. We love you!

I have so many memories of Brenda, all that I will cheris all the days of my life. I haven't seen if what seems like forever, but he was always so happy and so much fun to be around. She was a awesome person and will be truely missed by me. My God bring comfort to all her family and be with them through this difficult time. My love tou all of you.

My thoughts and prayers go out to the Loftis family.I'm gonna miss you Brenda!

Brenda was a one of a kind person. She deeply loved her family, brothers and sisters, nieces and nephews, grandchildren and friends. There wasn't a place you could go in North Charleston or Goose Creek where she wasn't friends with someone, old and young alike, especially in the coffee houses.

She had an upbeat and bubbly personality, and a great sense of humor, she was a pistol. Everyone who had the opportunity to know her is blessed. She will be missed very much by many people, including me.

“I know that if they have a Waffle House in Heaven everybody there already knows her by name.”

Debra and I give our condolences and prayers to the entire Shealy/Loftis family.

My love and prayers are with you all.Brenda was loved by all who came into contact with her and she so dearly loved her family.God will help get you through this hard time.

From all the Cook family in Charlotte, thoughts and love is sent to Rene and family.

My condolences to the entire Loftis family. Brenda will be sadly missed. She was one of a kind. She never had an unkind word for anyone and always had a smile on her face. Love you, Brenda!

I am so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. May you find peace and comfort in the days ahead. May God be with each of you!

Mom, I love you so much and I stll can't believe your gone. It's going to be so hard to go on with everyday life with out you because you so much a part of our everyday lives. I am going to miss talking to you three to four times a day just because you wanted to know how our day was going. You were such a loving and giving person. You would have given anything you had if someone was in need. I wish you were here to see the outpouring of support and love you are getting, although I know you are smiling down right now even as I type this. I love you more than words can describe and I look forward to seeing you again. I know there is rejoicing going on in heaven now. Shout to the Lord mom and sing with the angels!
Your baby girl

You are in our prayers. Brenda was always a cheerful and smiling neighbor.
Tim, Pauline and Frank

Prayers to the Family at this time will miss the Lovable and Happy Person she was so full of Laughter and such a sweet Lady and Fun to have At Goose Creek Primary for awhile when Howe Hall was being rebuilt Love ya Brenda and God Bless

The world is a sadder place without our dear "Ms. Brenda." Brenda will always be a special part of the Howe Hall AIMS family and her love for the AIMS family, especially the children, was obvious to anyone who knew her. I offer my most heartfelt condolences and prayers to her family and pray that the Lord's light shines down on them to ease their burden in this time of sorrow.
We will all always be proud to be "Ms. Brenda's Buddies" and will miss her terribly.

She was such a joy and always so cheerful to everyone especially the children. I feel honored to have known her as a co-worker. My son and I send our sympathy to her family. Katie Lopez

we are so sorry for your loss we all loved brenda she was a wonderful person, even though,we have not seen her in a while we have fond memories. our thoughts and prayers are with you.