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Brenda Frazier Obituary

Brenda Loretta Young Frazier N. CHARLESTON - Nov. 27, 1950 - Sept. 30, 2017 Brenda Loretta Young Frazier, of North Charleston, a teacher in the computer lab at Stono Park Elementary School, entered eternal rest at a Charleston nursing home on Sept. 30, 2017, after a long illness. She was born in Columbia, S.C., on Nov. 27, 1950, to the late Robert and Willie Frances Lewis Young. She was a graduate of Booker T. Washington High School and Allen University, where she earned a bachelors of science degree. She majored in elementary education. After graduation, Brenda was a librarian at Thomas Cooper Library at the University of South Carolina in Columbia. She held a variety of teaching positions at public schools in New Orleans, Dallas and Charlotte, N.C., before moving to Charleston in the late 1980s. After retiring in May 2015, she was still dedicated to teaching today's youth. She held temporary teaching positions at several local schools, including Pinehurst Elementary School in North Charleston. Brenda was a faithful member of Greater Mount Zion Holiness Church. She was a member of the Missionary Board, Sunday school superintendent and she sang on the Mass Choir and the Senior Choir. She was known for and thoroughly enjoyed presenting the Sunday morning church announcements. Brenda is survived by three daughters, Angela Rene (Prentiss) Thomas of Ladson, S.C., and Amanda Michelle Frazier and Adrienne Nicole Frazier both of North Charleston, S.C.; one sister, Sharon Young Roach of Columbia; four brothers; Cornell Young of New York City; Berry Young of Denver, Colo., Ronald Young of Baltimore, Md.; and Donald Young of Miami; five grandchildren, Lauryn Michelle Thomas, Nicholas Alexander Thomas, Kinsley Rene Thomas and Connor John Thomas of Ladson; and Roman Lee Frazier of North Charleston; an aunt Emma Ruth Lewis of Spartanburg, S.C.; and several loving nieces, nephews, cousins and friends. Brenda was preceded in death by three brothers, Robert Young Jr., Melvin Young and Bruce Young; and a sister Kathy Young Williams. Services will be at 11 a.m. Saturday, Oct. 7, 2017, at Mount Zion Holiness Church at 4601 West Montague Ave. in North Charleston. Following the service in North Charleston, a committal service will be held at Lincoln Cemetery at 4900 Farrow Road in Columbia. Smith-McNeal Funeral Home is in charge of services. Visit our guestbook at www.legacy.com/obituaries/ charleston

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier from Oct. 1 to Oct. 2, 2017.

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Pearl McKelvey

September 25, 2022

Continue to Rest In Peace Brenda miss your smiles and encouraging words we shared at Stono Park Elementary School.

Melissa Drayton

October 6, 2017

I had the opportunity to work with Ms. Frazier at Stono Park Elementary and she always had a smile on. She was one of the sweetest people to be around. She will be forever missed as her light continues to shine on from on high. I pray that the Lord will continue to keep and strengthen the family.

Ashley Whaley

October 4, 2017

Although, Im still numb to the fact, I have tons of memories that I will forever cherish. I am so blessed to have came across such a devoted, loving, caring teacher. Mrs. Frazier's class was my favorite class. I remember when she would be soooo excited to introduce her daughters to the classroom and would talk sooo highly of them. She will definitely be missed dearly. Take you your Mrs. Frazier

October 3, 2017

I met Mrs. Frazier at Stono Park about five years ago. It seemed as if I have known her for years. When I first met her at Stono Park she welcomed me with opened arms .She had such a sweet and humble spirit. She will greatly be missed. I know the family will miss her as well but just remember that God knows it all and he knows what's best. I will continue to pray that the Lord will continue to strengthen the family through this difficult time.

Cassandra Minson

Lionel Toomer

October 2, 2017

Angela, Amanda, and Adrienne you have our deepest sympathy. Your mother was a beautiful person and inspiration for all. We are sorry for your loss.

D A

October 2, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss. Take time to grieve and celebrate a life well lived. The loss of a loved one is truly difficult no matter how long we have them with us, but remember Almighty God promises to be near to all those calling on him. (Psalms 148:18)

Annette P Goodwin

October 2, 2017

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998

October 2, 2017

To the family of Brenda Loretta Frazier we all will miss her but just know that she's in a better place she was a person with a sweet and kind spirit we worked together for many years keeping the family in my prayers. Pearl Mckelvey

Nancy James

October 2, 2017

To Angela and Family, May the peace of God be with you doing your time of sorrow.
You and your family are in my prayers. God Bless.

keia jenkins

October 2, 2017

Angela, I am so sorry to hear of your moms passing .. I lost my mom too ,so I know right now there is no words of comfort... But I pray that the Lord gives you and your family peace ... Love you.

Paulette,Jasmine,Chanika Middleton

October 2, 2017

Angela; you and your family have my condolences. I know that GOD will give you peace and comfort in the days to come. Love you guys!

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