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Billy Kirkendall Obituary

Billy Ray Kirkendall SUMMERVILLE - Billy Ray Kirkendall, 67, of Summerville, SC, husband of Shelby Woods Kirkendall, died Thursday, October 29, 2009. Funeral services will be held Sunday morning, November 1, 2009, at PARKS FUNERAL HOME CHAPEL, at 10:30 o'clock. Burial will be private. Visitation will be the morning of the funeral from 9:30 a.m. until time of the service. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the American Lung Association or the Retired Senior Volunteer Program with American Red Cross in North Charleston. Arrangements by PARKS FUNERAL HOME, 130 W. 1st N. Street, Summerville, SC 29483. Visit our guestbook at www.postandcourier.com/deaths

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier on Nov. 1, 2009.

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shelby

December 13, 2010

ray mttyltt my love i miss you

shelby kirkendall

December 13, 2010

well the legacy book is over thanks to each of you i have memories from friends and family

Phyllis & Gene Mosteller

November 30, 2010

Grief can be so hard during the holidays, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one this holiday season.

sk one year later-still missing you

suri 27

November 30, 2010

Phyllis Woods Mosteller

November 23, 2010

Shelby, Janet, Billy Ray, and entire family. Please know that we miss Ray as well. I think at times we will live forever and not die, but we all are going to do this one day. Shelby, I feel for you, not having someone there to talk to or eat with or whatever. The mountains, yes. Ray, Nellie, Bertha, Darren, others all together again. Live life to the fullest and be prepared to meet the Lord Jesus Christ in a twinkling of an eye.
Sincerely and with LOVE
Gene & Phyllis

MAWMAW KIRK

November 22, 2010

BRANDON IT DIDN'T TAKE MY LAST POSTING EITHER

SHELBY KIRKENDALL

November 17, 2010

RAY ITS' BEEN A YEAR I STILL MISS YOU AND LOVE YOU I'M SURE YOU-ARAH-AUNT NELLIE AND NOW DARREN ARE HAVING THE TIME OF YOUR LIFE-LYMTLTT

Billy Kirkendall

October 11, 2010

It has been almost a year now and it still hurts to think about Dad being gone. All of the good thoughts from people he met and touched have been wonderful. He was the best father a kid could hope to have, even when he painted the team's football helmets and they turned out pink! Dad, Connnie, the kids and I are missing you and there isn't a day that goes by when you are not thought of fondly. You will have to work on the car by yourself until I get there and then I will give you a hand. I love you, thanks to you and mom for always being there.

SHELBY KIRKENDALL

October 11, 2010

MY RAY /JOHN SOON IT WILL BE ONE YEAR-LYMTTY
SHELBY/SALLY

December 28, 2009

Dear Shelby,
I know your missing Ray very very much and I wanted to let you know that I love you and I loved Ray as a Father also. He always made me feel as if I was a Daughter and not a daughter in law. He will be missed sooo much and I loved him very much. Love Always Connie Kirkendall.

December 27, 2009

THANKS TO WHOMEVER SPONSORED THE LEGACY BOOK FOR 2010 I'M HOPING EVERYONE GETS THEIR LETTERS THRU I'M BACK HOME WITH MY PRECIOUS HAPPY NEW YEAR I'LL MISS MY DANCE WITH RAY & MY KISS FROM HIM BUT I'LL HANG ON LOVE SK

Daniel Mosteller

December 9, 2009

Thanks to legacy

We can add to this page for Shelby and family.

Please know that our thoughts and prayers have been with you and the entire family in the loss of your husband, earthly father, grandpa, and friend.

Ray was a gift to this world and He was always nice to all He met.

Heavens gain,
Sincerely,
Daniel & Phyllis Mosteller

December 7, 2009

MY PAIN HAS ONLY BEGUN TO GET WORSE RAYS JOURNEY IS DONE & MINE THROUGH GRIEF IS ONGOING I MISS RAY HIS PRESENCE HILIGHTRD MY DAYS & NIGHTS HIS LOVE COMPLETED ME 47 YEARS HAS A LOT OF MEMORIES SK

November 18, 2009

Dear, Mawmaw

I love you and Pawpaw and when Pawpaw is in heaven i will continue to love him and pray for all of us to be up there on day in our mansion that god has planned out for us. Mawmaw i love you and will always.
Love always,
Brandon K.

Pam Dillon

November 17, 2009

Dear Shelby, I cannot imagine what you are going through, but know that you are a strong women and was much loved by Ray. He will be missed.

We are here for you.

November 16, 2009

November16,2009

Dear Shelby And Family,
I am sorry for your loss
You and your wii alway be in my prayer,

Love Catherine.

November 16, 2009

Dear Shelby,
I know you are missing Ray so much. He had such a witty personality and made you laugh. I am going to miss him coming to the blood drives and donating.
Take good care of yourself and come back to the ARC when you are ready. We miss you very much. Hug Precious for me.

November 15, 2009

Dear Shelby, Ray and you have been friends to my family for many years. I will never forget the trip we made to North Carolina to get the boat, which Ray did not forget either. Ray and I talked about it when we came to your house, before he went to be with the Lord Jesus. Now Ray and John are in Glory where there is no more sickness and no more pain. We love you Renate, Melanie and John Jr.

Stephen Dowty

November 10, 2009

Shelby,
I didn't know Ray very well, but the light he brought to your life is undeniable and the void he has left brings tears to my eyes. You have helped me so much with the knowledge you have given to me from your lifetime with Ray, the experiences you have both had. Thank you for that, and I hope that Christ can bring you peace until it is time for us all to meet together again. My prayers are with you, and my help is yours whenever and whatever you may need.
Love,
Stephen

Marlene Williamon

November 9, 2009

Shelby, No words can express my thoughts about Ray's death. We have found memories of you both, and now the "mug" is even MORE special.

Love, marlene

Jim & Vickie Crafton

November 8, 2009

Dear Shelby,

We are so sorry to hear about Ray. We will be praying for you and your family.
We always enjoyed seeing you come to the Cooksville Grill to eat catfish. We will greatly miss Ray.
Love, Jim and Vickie Crafton Vale, NC

Heather Gardner

November 3, 2009

Shelby, You and Ray have been family to me and the kids since the day we met. I am so sorry for your loss. We will miss him dearly. You will always be in our prayers. We love you so much.. Heather, Joshua, Julianna and Emily Gardner..

jennifer ray

November 3, 2009

R.I.P. GRANDPA...

Ray kirkendall was my grandfather and unfortunately due to medical circumstances I wasn't able to attend the funeral. I wanted to thank everyone who attended the funeral and the people who have the family in their thoughts and prayers in this time of need. We all know deep down inside hes having a great time with the lord right now and is no longer suffering.. We love and miss ya paw paw..

Steve Denton

November 3, 2009

Sorry to hear about Ray's passing to be with the LORD. Ruth and I are praying for you and the family. There are no words that can take away the hurt for now. I have found that in time the hurt that you feel now will turn into good memories of the past time that you and Ray shared together. I hope this will be an encourgement through the present time. Only the LORD can feel the void in your heart. Seek him and he will be there.

Merry & Larry Crotts

November 2, 2009

Shelby and family,
We just found out about Rays passing and must say we are saddened by your lose.
May God hold you close and ease the pain. Noone can do that better than our heavenly father. Our prayers are with you always.

Bill Edwards

November 2, 2009

Dear Shelby and Family,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We honor your wonderful husband/father Billy Ray for his military service to our country and for his dedication to helping people. We know this is a difficult time for you Shelby, Janet and Billy but please rest assured that your friends care deeply about you and that we will support you in any way that we can.

Warmly,

Karen Picard

November 2, 2009

Dear Shelby and Family,

I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

November 2, 2009

Shelby,
You and yours are held firmly in my prayers as you go through this time of loss.
Take good care of yourself as you travel the days ahead.
Hugs and Love,
Caroljane, Brune and Oliver

Karin Dasher

November 1, 2009

Oh Shelby,
I am so sorry to hear about Ray. I wish I could have been there with you. I will pray for you and your family in your time of sorrow.
With heartfelt sympathy,
Your friend always

November 1, 2009

Shelby, I am so sorry for your loss. May God Bless you and your family. Love Debra Teague

November 1, 2009

Shelby, I am so sorry for your loss and hope you are doing well. Enjoy the memories of all the things you have done and places you have seen and remember the love. You are a wonderful volunteer and our thoughts are with you.
Cathy Quenga
Retired Senior Volunteer Program
Dorchester County Area Coordinator

Daniel Mosteller

November 1, 2009

Family,

Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Ray was truly one of a kind. A great kind hearted person, that went out of His way to help others.

Our loss here but Heavens' gain.

Sincerely,
Gene & Phyllis

darren ray

October 31, 2009

shelby,
we will miss ray very much. i will think of him every time i go fishing. he was a wonderful grandfather to jeremy and jennifer and treated alex and dee if they were grandkids too. he always will be remembered by me as a dad for he always treated me as a son.the boys said be strong maw maw and we hopr to see you soon.

love darren, melanie and boys.

tell uncle junior hello too

Jenn Bell

October 31, 2009

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help at this time.

Jeannie Dodd

October 31, 2009

Shelby, I was so sorry to hear of your loss. One of my favorite memories of Ray is when I broke my toe in Germany. He fixed me up a little "momento" which was a beer coaster bottom, the handle of a large screwdriver taped to a splint. He had painted the prettiest toe nail on it. Even tho I haven't seen you for years, it is sad for me to know that he is longer is this world. Take care of yourselves.

Betty Mosteller

October 31, 2009

Aunt Shelby and Family,

Uncle Ray was one of the greatest Uncle's. He will always be missed but I know that he is in a better place now. Knowing him the way I did I figure he is up in heaven with grandpa telling jokes and picking on each other. I just want you all to know that I have been thinking about you and have kept each of you in my thoughts and prayers.

May God Watch Over and Bless You All.

Love Betty A. Mosteller

October 31, 2009

My prayer are with you and the family.
May God's blessing be with you and your family, may you continue to draw strenght for and with each other.

Always, Caroline

October 31, 2009

We're sorry for the loss of your best friend and companion. You are in our thoughts and prayers. We would be at the funeral but Mom was snowed in and is somewhere in Nebraska right now, we hope. Ray is a good man and the Lord needed him to come home. Love ya, Debbie Caraway

October 31, 2009

Dear Shelby and Family;

We are so sorry to hear of your loss. We hope you find comfort in knowing that Ray is now with our Heavenly Father. He is no more in pain, sickness, or sorrow.

Ray was a wonderful person full of laughter and fun. Ray will be with us always if we just keep him in our hearts.

We hope the love of God, family and friends and knowing that you will see Ray again will help carry you through your grief.

Even though we cannot be with you in person due to sickness you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Love and God Bless Always;
Marie and Steve Lowery

Jane Edgar

October 31, 2009

Shelby, my heart goes out to you and your family at this awful loss. Please stay strong and take comfort and support from your family and many friends. Ray is at peace now but will be sorely missed. Take care of yourself. You're in my thoughts and prayers at this tragic time.

Jane Edgar

Arthur Campbell

October 31, 2009

You are in our prayers.
Arthur, Cailein and Zee Anne Campbell

Cassandra Bartolf

October 31, 2009

I met Ray through Shelby, and like Shelby he was a wonderful person to be around.

He could always make you laugh no matter what.

He will be sadly missed and my heart goes out to his family for their loss.

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