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Betsy Aiken Obituary

Betsy Aiken JAMES ISLAND - The relatives and friends of Mrs. Betsy Elizabeth Ladson Aiken are invited to attend her funeral services, Friday, 12 noon, in First Baptist Church, 1101 Camp and Dills Bluff Road, James Island, S.C. Rev. Dr. Bernard J. Gadsden, Pastor. Rev. Bernard N. Brisbane, Sr., officiating. Viewing at the mortuary today from 3 p.m. to 8 p.m. Remains to the church, Friday, at 11:00 a.m. Interment services will be in Payne Memorial Gardens, James Island, S.C. She was the beloved wife of the late William Aiken, Sr., mother of Nathaniel Ladson (Cecelia), William Aiken Jr., Remus Aiken (Ella Jane), Carl Aiken, Albertha Stowers, Cornelia White (the late Jack), Danny Aiken, David Aiken, Melvin Aiken (Divada), Christopher Aiken (Sharon), John Aiken (Tonya), and the late Sam Aiken (Marie). Arrangements entrusted to PASLEY'S MORTUARY, 1115 5th Ave., Maryville, Charleston, SC. 843-571-2300. Visit our guestbook at www.postandcourier.com/deaths

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier from Aug. 19 to Aug. 20, 2009.

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The Delgardo Family

August 29, 2009

To the Aiken family, so sorry to hear of your loss. We pray that God give you peace and comfort during this time.

Cassieoppeia Davis

August 26, 2009

I would like to express my condolences to the Aiken family. My family would like to express their condolences as well. Though I may not know her but for one day to know of her is still a priveledge. May she rest well with the Lord and I also pray the Aiken Family's strength in the Lord. If there's one thing I do know that GOD allows all things and everything happens for a reason. GOD is, GOD can, and GOD will! Be blessed and stay strong. :)

Vickie Miller

August 26, 2009

Our prayers are with you...Tony and Vickie Miller. Hattiesburg, MS

Lavonda Aiken

August 24, 2009

Grandma words can't explain how I will miss u,I never never ever will forget anything that u taught me. All the memories and good old laughs we use to share. I'm still ur angel food cake girl love always ur grand daughter the one and only MOUTH PIECE!!!!!( VONDA)

Mrs. Trudie Brown Mack and family

August 23, 2009

Crossing the Bar

Sunset and evening star,
And one clear call for me!
And may there be no moaning of the bar,
When I put out to sea,

But such a tide as moving seems asleep,
Too full for sound and foam,
When that which drew from out the boundless deep
Turns again home.

Twilight and evening bell,
And after that the dark!
And may there be no sadness of farewell,
When I embark;

For tho' from out our bourne of Time and Place
The flood may bear me far,
I hope to see my Pilot face to face
When I have crost the bar.

By Alfred, Lord Tennyson
The Poetry Foundation

Ms Sherry Brown Ivery and family

August 23, 2009

Remember

Remember me when I am gone away,
Gone far away into the silent land;
When you can no more hold me by the hand,
Nor I half turn to go yet turning stay.
Remember me when no more day by day
You tell me of our future that you plann'd:
Only remember me; you understand
It will be late to counsel then or pray.
Yet if you should forget me for a while
And afterwards remember, do not grieve:
For if the darkness and corruption leave
A vestige of the thoughts that once I had,
Better by far you should forget and smile
Than that you should remember and be sad.

By Christina Rossetti
The Poetry Foundation

Mrs. Melvina and Family White

August 23, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Mr. and Mrs Charles (Trudie) Mack J.R.

August 23, 2009

Be Still

Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.

Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.

If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.

Mr and Mrs Julius (Betty) Brown

August 23, 2009

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Jamesetta Reid

August 22, 2009

Theresa, I am sorry for your loss. May god bless you and your family.

Rich and Suzanne Moltzen

August 21, 2009

Chris, Sharon and the Aiken Family,

Hold tight to memories for comfort, lean on your friends for strength, and always remember how much you are cared about. Our thoughts are with you.

Lucille Jordan

August 20, 2009

Aiken Family,

Your mother will be missed and we send our blessing in this time of celebration. God will meet your mother at the gate and invite her in with the rest of God's heavenly people. Your mother allowed us (Joe and Lucille children) to enter her house as one of her own. We send our blessings and love to all of Jill's children.

Lucille Jordan and the Davis Men (Honeyhill).

Leroy,Gloria,Herman,Teesha & Deasia Johnson -- Brown

August 20, 2009

To my dearest family,
Always remember the good time that your had with your mother.As the days and weeks pass,and as your return to life's routine, may your continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Tiqua Dilligard

August 20, 2009

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Walter & Sandra Hezekiah

August 20, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Jim Young

August 20, 2009

John 14:27
“Peace I leave with you, my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.”
To the Aiken and Ladson families we send our prayers in this time of bereavement. Our Father in heaven sends angels to earth to bless all those that they encounter. Ms. Aiken was truly one of those angels.

Ida Gailliard

August 20, 2009

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Pam Williams Rich

August 20, 2009

My Dearest Cousins,I was sadden when I heard about auntie. These words of encourgement came to mind for the family:
(Revelation 1:4) Grace to you and peace from HIM who is and who was and who is to come, and from the seven Spirits who are before His Throne.

I'm there with all of you in spirit. Much love your cousin Pam Williams

August 20, 2009

Dear Chris, Sharon & the Aiken Family

With deepest sympathy, our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. We are sorry for the loss of your Mother.
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

~ Danya & Andreas Kristanto, Atlanta, Georgia

August 20, 2009

Chris,

It pains me and we share sincere condolences that "your best friend, your mother," has left you, your family and us! You are a good friend, person and co-worker! Again, we share your lost and pain; and may God continue to Bless you and your family during this time of bereavement!

Chris, God Bless!

Elbert Outlaw
Recreation Manager
Fulton County Parks and Recreation

MARY ANN AIKEN

August 20, 2009

MUMMY, YOU WAS THE BEST MOTHER IN-LAW THAT ANYONE CAN HAVE.,YOU WAS A VERY SWEET PERSON AND I WILL ALWAYS MISS YOU.

Linda Dawson

August 20, 2009

To Albertha and Family,
Sometimes the hurt is too big for words. But in the quiet moments, when the hurt is hards to bear, may love become your shelter and may the beauty of precoius memories be your comfort. You are held in gentle thought and prayer.

CYNTHIA PRIOLEAU

August 20, 2009

PEACE BE STILL,TO THE AKIEN FAMILY WEEPING MAY ENDORE FOR A NIGHT BUT SWEET JOY COMES IN THE MORNING!TRUST GOD,AND LEND AND DEPEND TOTALLY ON HIM FOR HE IS YOUR HELP IN THE TIME OF SADINESS.YOU HAVE MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY,BUT BE ENCOURAGE BECAUSE GOD WILL TAKE CARE OF YOU!WITH TIME IT WILL GET EASIER,I KNOW BECAUSE I JUST LOST A PARENT ABOUT A YEAR AND HALF AGO GOD BLESS,AND KEEP THE WHOLE FAMILY!

Dea. Henry & Mary Heyward

August 20, 2009

Trust in the Lord with all thine heart: and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowlegde him, and he shall direct thy paths. You are in our prayers.

August 20, 2009

Albertha and Family, we were very sorry to hear of the passing of your of your Mother. Our prayers and thoughts are with you.

John:16:22 And ye now therefore have sorrow: but I will see you again, and your heart shall rejoice, and your joy no man taketh from you

We serve a God that will not leave you and his word is always true.

~Dorothy Paul & Family, Charlotte,N.C

vance crouch

August 20, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Robin Williams-Edwards

August 20, 2009

Bertha, Chris and the entire Aiken family, "Jill" was a loving and caring Mother and you will miss her dearly. Know that the God we serve is able and willing to carry you through this difficult time and know also that you are all surrounded by family and friends that love you and are here for you. God is good and his mercies endureth forever. Be Blessed.
You will forever be in our prayers. Love Robin and family.

John Henry & Barbara Wilder

August 20, 2009

Our sincere condolences to the Aiken, Ladson, & Bennett Family

Trust in the Lord and be of good courage and he will strengthen your hearts. For he promised to comfort those who are comfortless and mend all that are broken-hearted. We serve a God that knows it all. Be not dismay, whatever you tide, God will take care
of you. We extend our heartfelt sympathy to these bereaving family’s

Naomi Owens-Johnson

August 20, 2009

Nathaniel, Cecellie and Family - I am very sorry to hear of the loss of your Mother, Grandmother, Sister. Brother, Aunt, Uncle, etc. May God keep all of you in his prayers during this time of breavement.

Be Still - Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.

Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.

If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.

Barbara T Haynes

August 19, 2009

To Know Betsy was to love her.Our hearts have been saddened to hear of her passing.Our prayers are extended to the family,May God`s Peace Be With You.

Carrie Ladson

August 19, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

SHANTELL AIKEN-MELVIN

August 19, 2009

TO MY FAMILY AIKEN I'M SORRY I COULD NOT BE THERE WITH YOU ALL BUT KNOW THAT I LOVE ALL OF YOU.BUT KNOW THAT I'M PRAYING FOR YOU ALL MY GRANDMOTHER IS IN A BETTER PLACE NO CRYING, NO PAIN, AND NO SUFFERING SHE IS NOW WITH THE FATHER GOD. GRANDDAUGHTER LONA

Derek Wilson

August 19, 2009

Chris know that you and your family are in my prayers in your time of sorrow.

Theresa Simmons

August 19, 2009

To Jackie And Laquett,
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Javainta Jones & Family

August 19, 2009

To Lavonda Aiken & Entire Family

You have my deepest sympathy on your loss. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you. She will be gone from sight, but not from her family heart.

Javainta Jones& Family

August 19, 2009

To Lavonda Aiken & Entire Family .

You have my deepest sympathy on your loss. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you. She is gone from her family sight , but not from her family heart.

Hillary Benekin

August 19, 2009

To LaQuett White and Family:
I am sorry to hear about your loss. Stand strong and be encouraged. Yes you love this mother, grandmother,sister,aunt,cousin but God loves her best. My prayer is that God comforts you in this hour and continues to bless you all.

Cindy Ancrum

August 19, 2009

Pervis I know your grandmother was like a mother so this hurts as much as losing a parent. When I lost my father last year I appreciated the words of encouragement you gave me, please know I'm here for you if you ever want to talk. Continue to be strong and remember God doesn't put more on you than you can bear. I'm a living testament that with time it gets easier and you will never forget her because her memories will be with you forever. As you raise your son instill the same morals and values that your grandmother did in you, she was so proud of you so continue to live your life how she would want you to. Be Blessed!

LaQuett White

August 19, 2009

Oh grandma, thank you, thank you, thank you! I love you sooooo much, I will truly miss you!

Katharine Siddall

August 19, 2009

Ladson & Cecelia and family:

Please accept our deepest sympathy for the loss of your mother. You and your family are in our hearts and prayers.
May the peace which comes from the memories of love shared, comfort you now and in the days ahead.
Peace, prayer and blessings,

Darrell Christopher, Kathy Siddall & Randy Washburn, Rose & Larry Siddall, Debi & Doran Cochran

SCSPA Retiree

August 19, 2009

Albertha, so sorry to hear of the passing of your mother. You have my deepest and most sincerest sympathy.

Geraldine D. Williams

Antwoine(D.J. Sporty) Geddis

August 19, 2009

To the family you have my deepest sympathy

Armeeda Collins

August 19, 2009

To LaQuett White, Jackie White & The entire family,

My deepest condolences go out to you all. Know that God is a just God and he has Ms. Aiken at peace and rest. Cherish the lovely memories of her in knowing that she is with God.

Sharon & Brianna Jenkins

August 19, 2009

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Stephen "Bubba" Forrest

August 19, 2009

In My Pocket

I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.

My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.

They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.

Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.

But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.

Stephanie Forrest

August 19, 2009

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

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