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Ben Burris Obituary

BURRIS, Ben The relatives and friends Benjamin Wyatt Burris, son of Alonzo A. Burris, III and Anne Cogswell Burris are invited to attend his funeral service Tuesday at ten-thirty o'clock in St. Philip's Episcopal Church. Interment, Magnolia Cemetery. Memorials may be made to Porter-Gaud School Athletic Fund, 300 Albemarle Road, Charleston, SC 29407. Arrangements by J. HENRY STUHR, INC., DOWNTOWN CHAPEL. Visit our guestbook at www.charleston.net/deaths. Visit our guestbook at www.charleston.net/deaths.

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier on Aug. 5, 2008.

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ginny cameron

August 31, 2008

Anne, Lon and family,

I just learned of your tragic news and I am so very sorry for your loss. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers.

Rhonda Pearlman Ponder

August 21, 2008

G-d bless you,Anne and Lon, and the entire Burris family. My heart breaks for your loss.

Katie Hanger

August 15, 2008

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Cristy Sanders

August 14, 2008

May the memories held deep within your heart help soothe your spirit at this difficult time.

I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers.

Biddie (Allison) Lowry

August 13, 2008

Ann and Lon,
I am so sorry to hear about this tragedy. May the Lord be with you and your family.

Hadleigh Henderson

August 11, 2008

Burris Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. I was so saddened to hear the news of Ben's passing.

Bond Hopkins

August 10, 2008

To Ben's family,

Ben was a truly amazing person and one of the kindest people I've ever known. He singlehandedly made my 4 years at SMU one of the best experiences of my life. My deepest sympathies and condolences go out to Ben's family, friends, and loved ones during these dark and difficult times. Words cannot express how truly sorry I am for your loss...

Ben's friend,

Bond Hopkins

Jeff Bean

August 9, 2008

On behalf of the Bean family, I want to extend condolences.

Jeff

Sean Barry

August 8, 2008

-Ben was one of those people you just don't forget. Although I did not know Ben well... I knew he was a true gentlemen. He had a means of making all those around him feel as though they were right at home. He will be greatly missed.
I would like to send my condolences to the family and friends. He was an amazing man. I am sorry for your loss.

Lauren Ellison

August 8, 2008

Burris Family,
Ben will never be forgotten. You are all in my prayers.

MICHELLE GRANT

August 8, 2008

LON AND FAMILY, DAVID AND I ARE SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR LOSS. WE WILL REMEMBER YOU IN OUR PRAYERS. MICHELLE GRANT.

Foster McKissick

August 7, 2008

Lon,
I was so sorry to hear about the loss of your son. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. My deepest condolences to you and Ann. Sincerely, Foster

Bruce and Janie HOPKINS

August 7, 2008

We just heard of Ben's passing today. We are the parents of Bond Hopkins who attended SMU and was a fraternity brother of Ben's. We live in Memphis and Bond who lives in Cairo where he works for an oil company e-mailed us early this morning so upset over hearing about your great loss. Being in Egypt Bond feels bad that he just found out. Please know that all of the Hopkins family send the entire Burris family our deepest sympathy and prayers a this difficult time. We have you all in our prayers.

Bo and Beth Leslie

August 7, 2008

You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Charla Wiggins Gamble

August 6, 2008

Anne and Lon,
My deepest sympathy to you and your families. You are in my prayers.

Philip & Sally Castengera

August 6, 2008

Sally & I are deeply saddened to hear about your loss. Although we did not have the pleasure of knowing Ben, it is obvious from all the emails how well he was regarded by his friends and family. Please accept our heartfelt sympathy and prayers for you and your family.

ryan kennedy

August 6, 2008

dear burris family & friends,

please accept my deepest sympathy. although i was not very close to ben, my memories of him are vivid. he always had a positive energy about him and seemed to make the most of life. he will be greatly missed.

Hoyt Smith

August 6, 2008

Im so sorry for your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. He will be forever missed.

Daniel Mroz

August 6, 2008

THE TRUE GENTLEMAN is the man whose conduct proceeds from goodwill and an acute sense of propriety, and whose self-control is equal to all emergencies; who does not make the poor man conscious of his poverty, the obscure man of his obscurity, or any man of his inferiority or deformity; who is himself humbled if necessity compels him to humble another; who does not flatter wealth, cringe before power, or boast of his own possessions or achievements; who speaks with frankness but always with sincerity and sympathy; whose deed follows his word; who thinks of the rights and feelings of others, rather than his own; and who appears well in any company, and man with whom honor is sacred and virtue safe.
-John Walter Wayland

My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. We loved you Ben. As a fraternity Brother and a freind.

Keeley Roles Morrell

August 6, 2008

I'm so incredibly sorry for your loss. Ben was such a bright, funny, and charming part of our class and I will always think fondly of our time at PG together. My heart and my prayers are with you all.

Bevie Kinder

August 6, 2008

Anne and Lon,

Clif joins me in expressing our sadness at your loss. I spoke with Marg last night and told her of our feelings.

Much love,

Bevie McGee Kinder

Cullen Schmitt

August 6, 2008

My deepest condolences to your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Ree Ravenel

August 6, 2008

Dear Anne, Lon, Scott, Will and Carrie,
I can't express in words how deeply saddend I am for your loss. Ben was a wonderful young man and he will be truly missed. My deepest condolences to all of you.

Gaillard (Rogers) Long

August 6, 2008

Dear Burris Family,

I am a dear friend of Coco (Dawson) Tyburski's and had the wonderful opportunity of babysitting both Scott and Ben as babies. While I was not blessed to have known Ben as a young man, I can only imagine what a true gentleman he became. My sincere thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time.

Bryan Kelley

August 6, 2008

Will:

Deepest sympathies to you and your family,

Libby Cannon Danel

August 6, 2008

My thoughts, prayers and sympathy are with you.

Timmy Pratt

August 5, 2008

I was lucky to have gotten to know Ben during my times in Charleston and while he was dating my good friend Mignonne. He is one of the kindest, most thoughtful, entertaining people that I have met. He had a genuine passion for life, and he shared that with everyone he encountered. You could tell that just by having one conversation with him. My most sincere and heartfelt compassion and prayers go out to the Burris family, Mignonne, and all of Ben’s friends.

A Friend and Believer

August 5, 2008

May you find comfort with "Pennies from Heaven"

Mary and Hagod Morrison

August 5, 2008

Dear Anne and Lon,
The Morrison family grieves your loss. Ben was an incredibly important part of Carson's life and will be forever remembered around our home. We are all thinking of you and your family.

Jan Lipov

August 5, 2008

Anne and Lon,
We are out of the country and just heard the tragic news. Our hearts are broken for you. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
Much love,
Jan and Larry Lipov (Win and Halle)
Edwin Pearlstine

Chip Eiserhardt

August 5, 2008

I'm thinking and praying for all of you. We're fortunate to all have so many great memories together. You will always be remembered as such a wonderful friend to me. Love ya man. --Chump

Georgia Bell

August 5, 2008

Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers at this painful time. Blessings upon your family You will be together again... With lov,, Georgia Bell

diane dodds levesque

August 5, 2008

lon ,anne and whole family,i am thinking of you today. please take care of each other.i am so sorry

Bailey Merrell

August 5, 2008

I was fortunate to have been friends with Ben throughout this past year. There are very few people in the world who spoke truer words and showed the kindness that Ben did. He was an example to all of us on how to conduct our daily lives. I could never forget Ben and I know he will be with all of his loved ones in spirit. My deepest sympathies and thoughts and prayers go out to the Burris Family and Mignonne.

Dr. & Mrs. Gayle Sanchez

August 5, 2008

To the Burris Family and to Mignonne,

May God give you the strength to endure this terrible tragedy. Our deepest sympathy, thoughts, and prayers are with you.

nancy and Brad walker

August 5, 2008

To all the Burris Family,
Our love and Sympathy to you all---we cant even imagine how you must feel but know that

Alexandra Bunting

August 5, 2008

Dear Burris Family,

I am a friend of Mignonne's and was lucky enough to know Ben through her. He was a truly wonderful, fun person and I am deeply sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with all of his friends and family at this time.

Felicia

August 5, 2008

God puts no more on us than we can't bear. As tragic of an even that this has been, even in this time of grief he is still able. You will be in my prayers. God Bless.

Jay Garrett

August 5, 2008

Will,

My deepest condolences to you and your family. Best of luck as you find the strength to move forward.

John & Billings Cay

August 5, 2008

Lon and Anne,
Billings and I send our heart felt condolences at this difficult time. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Sincerely,

Caroline Choate

August 5, 2008

To Will and the Burris Family,
Ben was a truly wonderful friend and will be missed by everyone who was blessed to have him in their lives. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Paisley Boney

August 5, 2008

Dear Anne and Lon,

Words can't describe how saddened we all were to learn of Ben's passing. Ben was truly a special young man. He had a contagious smile, magnetic personality and a big heart. Within 5 minutes of meeting him for the first time at SMU, we felt like he was family...and he was. We will all miss him and our hearts and prayers go out to you and your family.

The Boney Family

Donna Setford

August 5, 2008

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Lynn, Ashlynn, and Manning Asnip

August 5, 2008

Anne, Lon, and Carrie,
We are deeply saddened by your son and brothers sudden death. Our thoughts and prayers will be with you and for you during these very difficult days and in the days to come! The knots in your inside will be hard to leave. Staying in Gods word will help you heal. "I can do all things in Christ who strengthens me." (Phil 4:13) God Bless, Lynn, Ashlynn, and Manning Asnip

Andrew Pittard

August 5, 2008

To all of the Burris family,
Written words can not express the emotions that we feel in regards to Ben's loss. Please know and be comforted that Ben touched all of our lives in such a positive way and he will always be remembered.
We are praying for Ben and all of your family.

Lynn, Ashlynn, Manning Asnip

August 5, 2008

Ann, Lon, and Carrie,
We are deeply saddened by your son and brothers sudden death. Our thoughts and prayers will be with you during these very difficult days and in the days to come! The knots in your inside will be hard to leave. Staying in Gods word will help you heal. "I can do all things in Christ who strengthens me." (Phil 4:13) God Bless, Lynn, Ashlynn, and Manning Asnip

Dale Crow

August 5, 2008

Dear Burris Family,

Please accept my deepest regret for your loss and this world's loss of a bright young man. I have known Scott and Ben while being at SMU and have never known them to be anything but kind and well mannered. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

John M. Rivers, Jr.

August 5, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Erin Larmann

August 5, 2008

To the Burris Family -
Please accept my deepest sympathy. My thoughts are with you and all of Ben's dear friends.

Ron and Rita Allison

August 5, 2008

The Burris Family.....
Rita and I just heard about Ben...our love, thoughts and prayers are with each of you. You are a special family and we treasure your friendship over the years. May God's loving embrace ease the pain of physical loss. Please know we are here for you whenever we are needed. We are out of the area on a trip and will miss being with you, but our deepest sympathy and thoughts are with you.
Because We Care...

Mark Turner

August 5, 2008

Deepest sympathies to the Burris family. You all are in my thoughts and prayers.

Bob Cato

August 5, 2008

Burris Family,

My deepest condolences go out to you at such a diffciult time. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Ben will be missed by everyone who had the pleasure to meet him.

Mary Kelly Stribling

August 5, 2008

I was fortunate enough to know Ben while living in Charleston, SC. I was just looking through some pictures from a couple of months ago, and realized how much I missed seeing him and all my friends in Charleston. Ben will be deeply missed.

I wish I could be in Charleston for the service today. Please know that your family is in my thoughts and prayers.

Mary Kelly & Ben Clary

Mark Owens

August 5, 2008

To the Burris Family:
Ben was a great person and will be dearly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you through this rough time.

Robert Maguire

August 5, 2008

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Burris and Family,

I heard about this fairly late, being so far away, but I'm compelled to send you my most heartfelt condolences.

I lost touch with Ben over the years, but he was an integral part in much of my life. Many of my earliest memories are of birthday parties, baseball games, and play dates with Ben. I find myself quite shaken by the news of his death.

All I feel that I can say is that I hope we can learn from this and always strive do whatever it takes to insure that other parents or dear friends will never have to suffer the immeasurable loss being felt right now by so many over the loss of Ben.

My heart truly goes out to you all. I wish you all the strength and all the hope necessary to honor the memory of Ben while never taking for granted those you still have by your side.

My most heartfelt sympathies,
Robert O. Maguire, Jr.

Ray Molony

August 5, 2008

Lon,
With deepest sympathy, my prayers are with you and your family.

Suzi Kyle

August 5, 2008

Burris Family,

I want to express my deepest sympathy for your loss. As so many others have said, Ben was a wonderful person who certainly made his mark on this world. We are truly priviledged and better people for having known him. Rest in peace, Ben.

Jody McKnight

August 5, 2008

To the Burris Family:

Our deepest sympathy goes out to you all in what is surely the most difficult situation your family has ever faced. You all are in our prayers.

Jody McKnight

Liz Queeny

August 5, 2008

How deeply sorry I am to hear about Ben. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Bobby Linker

August 5, 2008

I am sorry to hear of your loss. my thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Evan Jennings

August 5, 2008

I am so torn up, I love you brother. You will be missed so much. I'm sorry I can't be there at the funeral but I can assure you that my prayers and thoughts will be with you for the rest of my life. Until we meet again, old friend.
Love you,
Evan

Debbie Bishop Hill

August 5, 2008

Lynn and family, I am so sorry for your loss. You all will continue to be in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

Steve Peper

August 5, 2008

Lon, my heart is heavy for the pain you and your family are going through. Seems like yesterday you proudly introduced all of your boys to me at Bulls Bay. I recall that Ben was a fine looking young man and one who seemed to have a handle on where he was going with his life. You and your family will be in our prayers. May God bless you and may you find comfort in these trying times.

Kati Davis

August 5, 2008

The Burris Family,

Words can never express how deeply sorry we all are for your loss. Ben was a wonderful friend that was vibrant and full of so much life. He could always bring a smile to everyone around him. He is greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Clay Crocker

August 5, 2008

My deepest condolences in this trying time. I was lucky enough to get to know Ben and Scott at SMU. I haven't met two finer people anywhere.

Geordy Johnson

August 4, 2008

To the Burris Family,

I am so sorry for your loss. My heart, prayers, and sympathy go out to all of you. Ben was a good friend with a contagious enthusiasm. I count myself lucky that I had the opportunity to get to know him over the past few years.

Cindy & Ed Dawson

August 4, 2008

Lon & Anne and family:

Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Amelie Reynaud

August 4, 2008

My deepest sympathies go out to your family. I was fortunate enough to spend a couple of weeks with Ben while visiting my sister. He was an amazing person with so much love to give. He will be in our hearts forever.

Bill & Prudence Finn

August 4, 2008

Dear Lon & Anne,
Our hearts are broken over your tragic loss.
We’re sorry we can’t be with you but you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

Dorothy Boone

August 4, 2008

Dear Family and Mignonne,
I am so sorry to hear this tragic news about sweet Ben. I am a dear friend of Mignonne. I met Ben about a year ago in Charleston. Ben was one of the most genuine and fun loving people I have ever met and he will be greatly missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. He will not be forgotten.


Death is nothing at all - I have only slipped away into the next room. Whatever we were to each other, that we are still. Call me by my old familiar name, speak to me in the easy way which you always used. Laugh as we always laughed together. Play, smile, think of me, pray for me. Let my name be the household word that it always was. Let it be spoken without effort. Life means all that it ever meant. It is the same as it ever was; there is absolutely unbroken continuity. Why should I be out of your mind because I am out of your sight? I am but waiting for you, for an interval, somewhere very near just around the corner. All is well. Nothing is past; nothing is lost. One brief moment and all will be as it was before - only better, infinitely happier and forever - we will all be one together with Christ.

August 4, 2008

So sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers are with your extended family. Events like this make me reflect on my own 21 year old's safety.

Ann Baker Thomas(classmate of Lynn Burris)

Susan and Kent Keller

August 4, 2008

We are so so sorry to hear about Ben's accident. We will be praying for you, Lon and Anne, and all of your family as you grieve this terrible loss.

Donna and Carter Hudgins

August 4, 2008

Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Be assured that your faith and strong memories of Ben will provide you with strength during the coming days.

Lauren Dumas

August 4, 2008

Your whole family is in my thoughts and prayers through this difficult time. Rest in Peace Ben.

Nancy and Ben Young

August 4, 2008

Lon and Anne,
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. We didn't know Ben well but our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead. You will be in our prayers.

Joanna Scarborough Roberson

August 4, 2008

I am so sorry for your loss. I went to kindergarten with Ben but had not seen him in very long time. I still remember the fun times we had as kids, and I know he turned out to be a wonderful man. Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Marybeth Jackson Kulp

August 4, 2008

My heart aches for your family as you grieve the loss of your son and brother-

I pray that while you suffer, God will draw near to you in this unimaginable pain- May you find rest in Him....

I'm so very sorry for your loss

Kyle Gowen

August 4, 2008

Deepest sympathies to the Burris family and all who knew him. Rest in Peace in Ben.

Hunt Fulwiler

August 4, 2008

I am so sorry for your loss. Ben was a great friend and a wonderful person. He will be deeply missed.

Christian Hartsel (Bennett's Older Brother)

August 4, 2008

Words can not express how sorry I am to hear of your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

John Harrison

August 4, 2008

To The Burris Family,
I'd like to express my deepest condolences. Ben was a great person and a joy to be around. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Lanell, Vanessa and Joshua Foster

August 4, 2008

To The Burris Family,
Our prayers are with you during this difficult time. We are truly saddened by the loss of your son.

Helen Ravenel

August 4, 2008

Please accept my deepest condolences. I have fond memories of all of the Burris children when they were down the street from my family when we all were growing up.

With sympathy,
Helen Ravenel

Jean Muckenfuss

August 4, 2008

Praying for the Burris Family and friends through this difficult time. May God give each of you strength to persevere the days ahead.

Kathleen Stelling Hodgson

August 4, 2008

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Burris, Scott, Will, and Carrie:
Ben had such a great smile and was loved by so many people! Since the moment I heard, I can't stop thinking about yall. Please know you are all in our prayers!
God's Peace and Much Love,
Kathleen and Mac

Justin Smith

August 4, 2008

Ben will always be remembered by all those fortunate to have known him as a true gentleman; full of charisma and warmth of character that he shared with all of us so generously. A truly special person that I am so grateful to have known, I will miss him dearly and offer my deepest condolences to the Burris family.

Whitaker Rose

August 4, 2008

Ben was a wonderful person and an even better friend. The world has lost a truly great person. My thoughts and prayers go out to the family. Although he is gone the wonderful influences he has had on all of our lives will never die.

Henry and Laura Orvin

August 4, 2008

Lon and Anne,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I have such fond memories of Ben at Porter-Gaud in my 6th grade art class and especially the Highschool football games. He was such a wonderful young man and a good friend to Sarah. He will be missed.

Whitaker Rose

August 4, 2008

Ben was a wonderful person and an even better friend. The world is truly a worse place without him. Although he is gone he will not be forgotten. We love you Ben.

John Moore

August 4, 2008

I am sorry for your loss.

Shay and Lil Stoney

August 4, 2008

Our Thoughts and Prayers are with the Burris family in their time of grief. Loss of a child is the most difficult experience a parent can endure.

Allyson Fliegner-Hill

August 4, 2008

My family and church will continue to pray for your loss. I am so sorry to hear about Ben.

Elizabeth Rivers Heyl

August 4, 2008

Anne and Lon,
I cannot imagine your grief at this time. I am so deeply sorry. Please know that I am praying for you and your family.

Terry and Judy Irvine

August 4, 2008

We are deeply sorry for your tragic
loss.

Charles Fitzhenry

August 4, 2008

To the Burris Family,

Ben was an amazing person to be around, someone I was proud to call a friend. I hope your whole family will accept my condolences.

Thinking of you in prayer,
Charles

James Green

August 4, 2008

Ben was a great man with a zest for life. His wonderful personality and fine sense of humor made him many friends at SMU, and I count myself extremely lucky to have been one of those people. We are all better people for having known him and I offer my sincerest condolences to his family. He will be greatly missed.

T Ravenel

August 4, 2008

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

Rita Duffy

August 4, 2008

Burris Family,

Are deepest sympathy with the lost of your beloved son and brother. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

John, Rita & Lauren Duffy

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