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Aldine James Obituary

Aldine James, III CHARLESTON - Aldine James, III (Dean), 66, a native of Charleston, went to be with his eternal Father on Monday, July 24, 2017, after suffering from Multiple Sclerosis for 20 years. Even with his long suffering, his love for life was a testimony to many. He was married for 37 years to Lora Dionis and has a son Christopher Dean (Amanda Puchetti, Olivia, and Gage) and a daughter Jessica Whitmire (Toby). He followed in his father's footsteps and became a store manager for Belk in Pinehaven Shopping Center. He then went on to Belk Store Services in Charlotte where he was a menswear buyer. From there he and his wife Lora moved to NYC where he became the clothing designer for Bill Blass menswear, working through Pincus Brothers Maxwell. Before his illness, Dean was an avid tennis player. He was known for his generosity, kindness, and heart for anyone less fortunate. Dean and Lora met in Charlotte, NC, lived in New York City, Los Angeles, San Jose and Ft. Lauderdale. Dean was most proud of his family, passionate about his work, enjoyed new adventures, and loved the Lord. He had many wonderful caregivers throughout the years and cared for them like family. He is survived by his mother Ernestine Rumph James, sister Elaine James Gooch (Mike), brother John James, sister Lisa Lockwood and his 2 yorkies, Tyson and Bella. A celebration of life will be held at St. Mark UMC on Saturday, July 29 at 11:00 am. Visitation will be at their residence on Friday, July 28th from 6:00-8:00pm.. Memorials can be made to St. Mark UMC, 413 Geddes Ave., Charleston, SC 29407, where Dean was a lifelong member. Visit our guestbook at www.legacy.com/obituaries/ charleston

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier on Jul. 26, 2017.

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August 3, 2017

Lora,
I was so saddened to hear of Dean's passing. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. My love to you, Jessica and Christopher.
Dianne Abell, Charlotte, NC

Jacki & Jim Ratledge

July 28, 2017

Our deepest condolences to you all! I wish we could be there to celebrate the life of this loving man who know walks hand in hand with the Lord. Our love and prayers are with you. Jim and Jacki Ratledge

Lisa Waller

July 27, 2017

Lora, I was so sorry to hear about Dean. I only got to hang out with him a handful of times, but I sure did enjoy him and his stories. And of course Blue Bloods!! He is now with Jesus. I bet he's happy. Love you.

John Ross

July 27, 2017

Elaine, Donna & I send our sincere condolences in the loss of Dean. Through our Friday night dinners we feel as we knew Dean though we never had the pleasure to meet him. God bless you and your family. Love John & Donna Ross

Linda Clement

July 27, 2017

I've been blessed to know and love the James Family for 40+ years. I worked with Dean's beautiful Mom and I Send my love and prayers to the entire family.

Barbara Sisco

July 27, 2017

Elaine, I can't tell you how very sorry I am about Dean. May God grant you peace and comfort during this time. Praying for the family.
Love,
Barbara

Leslie Rau

July 27, 2017

Lora,
I knew Dean only through your love and prayers for him. You told a story of a man who loved you, his family and held on to the strength that gave him. A great man. He will continue in our Lord's promise of everlasting life and the memories of those he touched on Earth. Praying for you and your family to have comfort and peace through this time.

Marcie Bridwell Beam

July 27, 2017

My wonderful memories of Dean are burnt in my brain and held in my heart. His wit, his laugh, his gentleness -all make me still smile. His sufferings of the last twenty years will not go unrewarded because I know that God will hold him extra tight and the angels will sing extra loud now that he has arrived in Heaven. I send much love Lora to you and your family not just today but everyday that passes. May God Bless you and Comfort you.

Barbara Nathaniel Duffy

July 27, 2017

May our Heavenly Father strengthen and comfort you (Elaine and Mike) and your family during this season, my prayers are with you all.

Timmy, Sandy Cooper and family

July 27, 2017

Deepest sympathies to all of you! Your all in our thoughts and prayers

Ellen Sheppard

July 27, 2017

Our world's a little less bright today without Dean, but perhaps that ever-present, knowing twinkle in his eye is among those stars shining down on us. Dean was one of the friendliest, kindest, and most generous people I've ever known - even during his rapid climb up the career ladder of a field not always known for those attributes. But even in the competitive, fast-paced field of menswear & designer fashion, he remained solid & centered, with a wide open heart. My love, hugs & condolences to you, Lora, and to Jessica & Christopher.

Barb Tanner

July 27, 2017

A great friend and one of my best old buddies. You will be missed.

Teresa James

July 27, 2017

Until we meet again, may God hold you in the palm of his hands. Lora, Christopher, and Jessica, you are in my thoughts and prayers.
My mom use to say "To those whose hearts hold tears, Jesus gives them a rainbow."
Much love to you all.
Aunt Terri

Athon Arant

July 26, 2017

What a GREAT man!! So many fond memories. He sure will be missed but heaven has gained a SAINT! Prayers for family and friends. MAY GOD BLESS!!!!

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