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Tobee Cowley Obituary
AIKEN, SC - Tobee Jay Cowley, 9 year old son of Neil Jay and Lacie Whitcotton Cowley, passed away Friday, September 4, 2015.
Tobee was born at Camp Pendleton, CA. He and his family moved to Aiken in 2013, and he was a 4th grade student at Chucker Creek Elementary.
He was the best big brother; playful, so funny, loving, thoughtful and caring, very happy, loved his cats and dog, science, history, and computers, and had an amazing smile. He loved dolphins, and his favorite football teams were the Gamecocks and Denver Broncos.
Tobee loved art, his new home in SC and its history, baseball, soccer, and golf.
He was very creative, extremely smart, and gave his family the greatest 10 years of their lives. He was the greatest son any parent could have asked for.
In addition to his parents, he is survived by a brother, Cayden Cowley, Aiken; maternal grandparents, Jack and Debbie Whitcotton, Pahrump, NV; paternal grandparents, Terry Cowley, Pahrump, and Janet Cowley, Henderson, NV; maternal great grandparents, Thomas and Barbara Shafer "Buddy and GG"; aunts, Morgan Whitcotton and Sharlene (Tyler) Leavitt; uncle, Mason Cowley; cousins, Robby Bustos, T.J. Leavitt and Toni Cowley; several other aunts, uncles and cousins.
A memorial service will be held at 4:30 PM Thursday, September 10, 2015 in the Shellhouse Funeral Home Chapel, Hayne Ave. with the Reverends Dr. Brian Coulter, Dr. Phillip Dunn and Bill Howard officiating.
The family will receive friends following the service.
In lieu of flowers, memorials may be sent to the family for a college fund benefiting Tobee's brother, Cayden.
SHELLHOUSE FUNERAL HOME, INC., 924 HAYNE AVE., AIKEN, SC
Tobee's online guest book may be signed by visiting www.shellhousefuneralhome.com
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for Tobee Cowley
Paz
September 6, 2023
you were my best friend in third grade and i can never forget you. i miss you every day Tobee.
cayden cowley
April 11, 2019
love you big bro always will never forget that k love you tobee
Kent Pacheco
September 18, 2015
Sorry for your loss. I know how hard it is. Stay strong.
Brandi Matheny
September 18, 2015
Words can't say enough, we are so sorry for your loss. You guys are in our hearts and thoughts.
Virginia
September 18, 2015
Neil,and Lacie I am truly sorry for your loss.No one should have to bury a child.I send my deepest condolences to family and friends.Blessed are those who mourn for they will be comforted.
Jeff and Liz Meek
September 16, 2015
I am so sorry for your loss. Tobee was a great child. As we only knew him for such a short time he was full of energy and love. You are very lucky to have had him be in your lives and love him as much as you did. Know that love will never go away and gets deeper with time. Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
Mary & Rick Leavitt
September 16, 2015
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
September 11, 2015
I have been and will continue to pray for your family. I pray for comfort and peace to come and it will.
Andy and Teresa Hogg
September 10, 2015
All our continued prayers for your families healing.
Michelle Ellis
September 10, 2015
My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
September 10, 2015
Love and prayers to the family
C Spires
September 10, 2015
May The Good Lord be with his Family and Friends during this time. I'm so sorry for your loss! May you feel a little comfort in knowing you have complete strangers praying for You ...
Laurel Wall
September 9, 2015
I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Erin Ivey
September 9, 2015
My heart is breaking for your family. I pray that God will bring you comfort and peace in a way that only He can. You will continue to be in my prayers.
Jody Pillow
September 9, 2015
I am so sorry for your loss words can not express, My thoughts and prayers are with you
Diane Shecut
September 8, 2015
So Sorry for your lost.
I didn't know Tobee just a facebook friend. My Heart and Prayers go out for his family.
nellie arthur
September 8, 2015
Tobee was a very sweet boy, i remember him running up and giving me a hug almost everytime he saw me, its hard to believe hes no longer with us. love and prayers for the family.
nellie arthur
September 8, 2015
prayers for the family!
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